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(CLICK HERE for a full recap if you missed it).
As your one stop shop for all things Sheree & Bob, I’d like to focus on the Whitfield’s storyline yet again (consider it my charitable contribution to Neverland Chateau Sheree).
Last week, Sheree stated on-air that Bob is a ‘deadbeat dad’ that hasn’t paid child support in 4 years.
[READ: Sheree Whitfield to ex-hubby Bob: "Get a Job!" ~ VIDEO]
The drama played out on the show last night and instead of “She” taking him to court, HE serves her with dem papers to appear.
In the preview which you’ll see below, Phaedra Parks represents Sheree during the proceedings, and according to the court notice I posted last month, that was just a one time gig.
Phaedra gets an unexpected gift when Bob presents Sheree with a Contempt of Court petition.
I’m not a deadbeat dad… I just don’t pay purse support.
That was just one comment that stuck in my brain from our conversation… but there’s way more.
This whole rant you’re about to hear is prolly all my fault since I clowned the hell outta Bob about Phaedra’s “Hot Mess” comment last night.
I mean… he was a tad bit wrinkly and it’s so NOT like him.
We had a hilarious conversation about how the court situation played out and here’s what he had to say about it…
VIDEO: Bob Whitfield Addresses RHOA “Hot Mess” Court Situation
I try to entertain and give y’all a bit of exclusive RHOA TEA on the regular because of my “close proximity” to the situation, and I would be remiss if I didn’t mention the haters that have joined my fanclub (Hi Haters!).
My favorite attorney once said, “everybody knows opinions are like “A”nuses, we all have one”… so I’d like to say that I appreciate ALL of your input be it good, bad, or indifferent.
That being said, I blog about whatever I want to because guess what? I pay the bills over in this here Internet site. EVERYTHING I write is biased because its ALL coming from me and what I know. duh!
If I vowed NOT to blog about xyz because I know xyz, I wouldn’t have a dayum thing to blog about. Not in this city anyway.
But I digress…. back to Sheree & Bob.
Until now, Bob has quietly remained supportive while chillaxin with the kids at home while Sheree does what she does (whatever that is).
Are these recent developments shedding any light on the situation or are you still buying whatever it is Sheree is selling this week?
he once said sheree had gold diggers beat – she is skilled at platinum digging
— on cnn no less
Hahaa my dude, Bob!!! He silly but he has a point with that saying doe. How many times do you see the mother of the kids spend the CHILDREN’s child support spent on the children? It’s not mother support, fo get a new fit, shoes or hair done support. If Sheree is that hurt for money — BISH GO GET A JOB, and a life.
So what he should pay for his kids !
Thanks ATLien.Now I know that it’s not the general blog sweep where they all have the same story. Anyhow,when Bob goes back to court and whatever is decided…he should bring her a "Spell&Speak" tell her to use it so that she can cut down on lawyer fees like he did.
He shouldn’t care what she’s doing as long as his kids are provided for
He had me rolling talking bout that brown ass water shooting out the iron. I feel his pain. Lmao. For some reason I have always been on his side of things. Sheree seems greedy as hell to me. And I think its foul as hell that she asking for more support from him cause she doesn’t have the education to get gainful employment and support herself. Ain’t no way in hell I’d wait four years on a man to do anything. Instead of buying all them handbags seems to me she shoulda been paying tuition at somebody’s higher learning institution
She can’t make him pay and neither can the courts. Especially if he has and shows recipts on what he’s bought his kids. If, Bob is supporting his children with Sheree, not giving her money, that is his right to do so. She needs to take care of hee household.
Anyway…that is why a lot of niggas in jail today on that I don’t pay purse support. The judge don’t care about no purse support. He or she ordered you pay that money so pay it and stop bs’n point blank period. In situations like these you have to do what you have to do and that is pay your child support and let her do what she want to do with that money. So I guess he’d rather be in jail for months and days on end until he purges the amount owed. Either way BOB you still have to pay child support and that goes for you and all the other fools who think they are above the law. LMAO. I just think whatever ill feelings he has toward Sheree he needs to let it go and be the bigger man. Being immature about it doesn’t help you prove that you’re not a dead beat. Laughing about it and making joke just makes you seem like you really don’t care about your kids. smh.
I can’t stand Sharee and i don’t know Bob except for how he’s being portrayed by his ex (horse looking) wife I don’t condone any parent (mother or father) who don’t pay child support but i agree with Bob he shouldn’t have to pay for her expensive lifestyle honestly he could get debt cards for both his children their old enough and when they need things they have it on the card instead of the money being put in her hands to buy purses and other things she really can’t afford so i’m #TeamBob here!
No offense but you and your man are a hot mess. The only ones feel sorry for is the kids in this situation. Neither one of them care enough about their children to even keep them out of the limelight. I guess as long as no one knows that the his normally wears "wrinkly" shirts and she gets to build her "Neverland" home. I can’t believe you people are over the age of 30
You really think you’re something, dating a man who openly refuses to pay for his children. The fact that you take glee and get happiness from these proceedings, which involve CHILDREN shows what type of despicable person you are. Just because you’re f*cking the man does NOT mean you can stick your nose in and have a say in the court proceedings. Stay in your lane and play your role. You were not in the bedroom when Sheree and Bob conceived those kids. You thinking you have a say in what affects their children is beyond me. They are NONE of your business. He was with this woman for over 10 years and has 2 children with her. He can always get another jumpoff but his DNA wont change, his kids will always be his kids. They’re not going anywhere. Deal with it. SHOW respect and have a little class.
But enough slready
That judge is going to throw him under the court house after seeing your video but that ish was too funny and Phaedra Parks face when he served them with contempt papers was classic. Not the best game face LOL
She says she wants to break the cycle with her son..HMMM, what msg is she sending makin him a sandwich? he looked quite capable. He needs to spend time with his dad for real…Money can’t make up for that.
Regardless of if this blogger is sleeping with BOB are not!! That will never go to court!(IDIOTS) The fact remains that HE-Sheree is a FRAUD!!She 1st season she never mentioned her older daughter!(what true mother does that!) 2ndly if she stayed in her pocket and her teeth she would have made sure to secure her children financially. Instead every time I see her children on t.v. they look out of pocket, all the while she tries to have all the new labels on! And lets be serious, HE-Sheree would have been took BOB to court for the money. Ya no good and well she-he is a gold digger and he-she is all about that money. So this is just another wack story line for her to remain relevant on BRAVO. Which btw she-he sucks!! Please replace he-she with someone that could afford their children despite if they get a check or not. And when did child support pay for the utilities? If she did not have children that stank man he/she would have to pay for utilities! I can’t stand wack baby momma’s like this..Get a real job and handle your business..boo boo!
I agree with Bob I think Sheree is greedy and everybody so sensitive to dis situation because dey ain’t getting no child support from there babydaddies and dats obvious word of advice know who ur laying down with before u lay down with dem but she aint talking about y’all she talking about Sheree and Bob if this man said he gone give u have of wat he makes a month why not take dat and quit being greedy she don’t want dat because she wants to live a lifestyle she can’t afford she needs to get a real job I’m pretty sure there is sumthing she is good at!!!
I mean half
Sheree can’t use this site info in court.That man in that pic above has his hand covering half his face…you can’t tell WHO that is.
Thanks for posting….cause I was wandering where you were with your update!! I can’t wait till tomorrow night =)
dis, dat, and dem….now I remember why I left the South. I’d forgotten what ignorant coonism sounded like, you idiotic broads this is about his legal obligation to support his children not about his wrinkled shirt or Sheree’s purses which I’m sure she received as a "comp". Let’s be honest she is not able of afford a Birkin bag as for having a real job, I’m sure she makes more money that most of you illiterate, underthetreeshade sitting on upturned milk crates gettin your hair tracked with VIBRANT colors attorney wannabes. Dumb ass bitches. She has a job, a well paying job that you guys help her keep because you watch the show, Duh. Stop being so simple, I hope he is paying his child support if he isn’t the court will determine what it equitable. But good God ghetto stankz, stop sweating Sheree and her finances and get your broke non-English speaking negro azzes together and speak with some intellect not some ol’ bullshit yo’ mommaz passed down from y’all daddies who didn’t pay shit but y’all mommas thought they had too pride to go after him for child support. They were strong, didn’t need a man! Which explains you guys’ ignorant thought processes now. Heffas please child support is for the child just because one parent states it would be for the parent and not the child doesn’t make it so. Oh and I love the title of this article for all of y’all hating on Sheree…thank you, you guys have made her a success. Sheree has gone from an in the shadows wife of an ex-football player to being a celebrity and Bob is only known through her. Don’t believe me check out your own title of this article…you knew people wouldn’t know who he was without including Sheree’s name,
The judge ordered the support. He should pay it. Period! If he doesn’t feel the kids are being properly taken care of, file a custody petition. I agree with the poster who said there’s nothing funny here because there isn’t. He is a deadbeat and clearly has an issue with Sheree that he allows to affect his judgment where his kids are concerned. She should’ve filed a violation petition years ago! I hate deadbeats and the women that lay down with them…well, says a lot about your character as well. All this #TeamBob talk is sickening.
Two words a mess
ALL THESE MONEY HUNGRY TRICKS TRYING TO GO IN ON BOB, AND OTHER CELEBS, TALKING ABOUT JUST PAY IT, SH*T YALL JUST MAD CAUSE YOU GETTING CALLED OUT ON SPENDING THE MONEY$$ IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES.. BE A REAL WOMAN AND SPEND IT ON THE KIDS.. NOT GUCCI, LOUIS V, DOLCE,AND MERCEDES, UNLESS THESE ARE THE NAMES OF YOUR KIDS!!!
Sheree does deserve child support if she is not getting it. However those kids deserve to form their own opinion about their father. I think it is foul as hell for a woman to speak negatively about her children’s father in front of them. I don’t know the truth and neither do any of us commenting on it. But that is one reason I don’t have respect for her as a mother. She does that shit a lot.
I Think He Take Care Of His Kids,,He just don’t Put No Money N Her hands,U heard him tell her u B around here carrying $10,000 Purses,,She B N designer digs from hair 2 toe&When they show the Kids they not n any designer nothing,When my kids was home,They wore designer digs&I went 2Wallieworld(walmart)Now when they left the Nest it bcame my turn 2wear Designer diggs,She Didn’t even know what size shoes her son wore,1st SeasonsheNever Mentoined she had a beautiful Grown Daughter N College,,I’m tryN 2 start a PETITION 2Get Her LieN Ass Off RHOATLANTA,She On Reailty TV,Where u supposed 2keep it Real,All She Do Is LIE,LIE,LIE,,,,IDon’t condon that we the Viewers deserve the truth the whole truth&Nothing But The Truth,She Used Ms.Parks 2get free Lawyer Services,She gonna b mad@MsParks 2morrow Night,I Seen The Preview,,,,EeeeRrrrBody Came Up But Sharee all her Attempts Failed,,,,,She’s Dgraded&Talked Bad About NeNe Since Day1,Now NeNe Getting Paid&Branding her name Resturant,TShirts,Wine,Shoes on tha way&The L Lounge,,,Get ya MONEY$$$$$$ NeNe,Now Sharee what u Done Done ??????? LOL
Who cares?? Not me! I know RHOA is entertaining, that’s just it! ENTERTAINMENT! I live in ATLANTA, I’m an ATLien.. trust me, it’s easy to get caught up in the bullshit out here…
Yes! I LOVE IT! THANKS FOR THE NEW INFO! OH AND I HEARD THAT "WE" AT THE END! IF Y’ALL ARE TOGETHER, HOW CUTE! KEEP DOING YOUR JOB LADY!
Bob is Awesome, and Hilarious. Always has been… Good dude.
AHH I HAVE KNOWN BOB FOR A LONG TIME AND HAVE SEEN THE WOMEN HE DATES AND BELIEVE ME THEY LOOK NOTHING,’!!!ZERO!!!’, LIKE MISS BLOGGER HERE REGARDLESS OF HOW MANY WEIGHT LOSS SHAKES SHE DRINKS. SEEMS TO ME LIKE HE’S FEELING HER UP AND MAYBE SLANGING A LITTLE BIT OF ‘D’ AT HER JUST FOR SOME FREE BLOGGER AIRTIME TO GET HIS BIAS POINT ACROSS. GIRL GET A CLUE!!! STOP BEING USED AND SEE WHAT WE CAN SEE EVEN IF WE USE BOB’S GOOD EYE……JENNY JONES!!
Amazing that Black people are making excuses for a man not to pay child support. Go kill yourselves! For real!
Ooooooh! I like him. I like home a LOT! I believe Bob is taking care of his CHILDREN because Sheree lied from the jump. Phaedra was helping a "friend" but Sheree did not tell her ECERYTHING ABOUT THE CASE. I bet BOB paid all along and he probably had the kids all along. I MET ATLIEN ONCE AND SHE IS PREETTY AND SMART. A BUSINESS WOMAN I want to start my own blog and she gave me some good info and tips.. All the negative comments posted about her lately are CRAY to me ATL does what bloggers do. BLOG. WHY YOU MAD?
TMI BOB!!!! TMI!
We know Bob has plenny money but he is smart. He takes care of his kids because in ATLANTA they don’t play that not paying child support shit (ask TO) Bob he bragging about $300 wrinkled shirts but then he talking about cheap irons too funny! He hid it in a place where that money hungry hoe-ray can’t find it too. Michellr Brown might have it. Did you notice toward the end how she so happy on that vid (ijs) having money makes me happy too. LOL
And when i listen to it again that was NOT a broke convo. bloggers make $$$$ don’t they???? BOB could take care of his kids with his 3,000 a month or whatever it was, hide his millions in his gf name and not worry about her spending it on dumb shit like hoe-ray would and did and still does..Michelle seem smart and Bob went to Stanford. #TEAMBOB
The end.
@JennyJones Are you serious? HAVE YOU SEEN BOB’S CROSS EYED ARSE?? BOB better thank sweet baby jesus and his brown juicy iron a "classy" non goldigging chick gave him a chance.
HE is the lucky one. #TEAMATL
(and those yellow multicolor fingers were NOT court appropriate)
Well damm. Chit just got real!
All this name calling and disrespect is uncalled for. Atlien has been giving us the tea on these housewives since season 1. This is her domain and she’s allowed to blog her thoughts as its again her domain. If it doesn’t seem fit for you, you don’t have to click.
Well I follow you cause you have great blogs about things relatable to Atlanta. But I detest when you write articles like this. I really hope you take my advice and stay in the format from which you started. This issue is not your business. I think you and your boyfriend should be ashame. This man and his kids and child support issues should not even come out your mouth! I dont know either but what I do know is who care what she do with the money, pay then complain. These kids don’t need to hear what’s going on with their parents on a show or their daddy’s jumpoffs blog! Now dear, he and Sharee should be ashamed money and spending time with your kids are serious! He need to do both! She was buying shoes and bags when he was getting it! So continue on. At least if you don’t agree pay and then take her to court! If he is your man or not this article is not with the kids best interest so your friendship and this blog are toxic. No judgements. Just thought I would add my hating ass comments,oh I mean constructive criticism. He is the father and the kids are his DNA that will never change! The kids are always first no matter who is in his life. Please know your value!
And how he gon critique when he need to take care of his kids. Sheree got a job! A movie or something.
Wow!
Once again and again, "Miss Piggy Paws" has stepped into what is "Clearly" none of her "Business" everyone knows what the "So Called Situation" that you have with "Cock Eyed Bob" In "NeNe’s Voice Hater U really need to grow up….It’s called "Growth" No matter "How Hard You Try To Bash/Hate On Sheree" You can or never will take her place, that’s like comparing "Cheap Wine to Champagne"…Oh Well…..
It saddens me if any REAL Mother is blogging here and thinks Bob shouldn’t pay child support. Regardless of who Sheree is and what Sheree does it appears she takes better care of her kids than their DEAD BEAT DAD! I pray and hope she gets childs support. You only knows how it feels if you are the one that is trying to get child support for your kids.
@Alien- you better hope you neve have a child for him, because what he does to Sheree, he will do to you. What will those kids eventually think of their father for what he is doing to their mother. These kids knows who is their bread and butter and most of the time it is the MOTHER!
I didn’t know you & Bob were dating. That explains a few things. Apparently, you don’t have children. Unless, Sharee is lying about child support, it’s hard taking care of children alone. A concise judgement can’t be made w/shows like this because they’re filled w/fallacies; however, joking about the support of children is not right on any level.
Tayatta S Cummings says – “I didn’t know you & Bob were dating.” < <<— ummm… and you still don’t.
If you haven’t heard me say it then I’d suggest you don’t make assumptions.
Clearly I know way more than what I posted but I’m NOT going to tell everything (at least give me that credit) dang!
One question… which one of y’all know for a FACT that Bob is NOT taking care of his kids? He could actually ROAST his ex-wife if he wanted to publicly but he won’t, strictly because she’s the mother of his kids. IMO Sheree chooses to sell out her whole family for a CHECK and the kids feelings don’t seem like they concern her at all. Bob jokes about it because he knows that Karma is a b*tch he could have put this all to rest by just spilling the beans but he’ll never do it. Someone will eventually though… and don’t worry. It won’t be me.
Don’t get upset. We all know Sharee is a clown. She’s proved that on this and prior seasons. And like I said, if this is another farce to remain relevant, I think it’s low of her to drag her kids and their support into it if it’s not real. The only people who really take the hit are the kids.
No, I don’t know if you’re dating him; I read it in a previous post. Just goes to show you can’t always believe what you READ, right?!
I think its a betrayal of trust on your part to leak info in this way from a private conversation w/ Bob. Although I dont agree w/ him & I digress at the thought of him knowing ppl within the Fulton County Court System, but this exposure aint no better. He’s gonna get his & I trust that God is gonna make that happen, but your not to far fetch of chastisizing yourself Miss. Straight from the “A”… I love your stories, naw .. Really, I do but to see you posed-up with the very same people that you turn around and blog so negatively about putd me in a different space w/ your integrity as a person. Its downright messed-up what you doin’ in some of these blogs and stories & I gotta agree w/ old boy above who mentionedthe route this blog once took & the direction its going in now. I’d like to see a role reversal here & your life put on front street … Let the JUDGING begin. Be careful what you do to people … Rest assure >it’s coming back. Entertainment or not. You can still make a decent living w/o killin’ story lines like this. For God sakes these folks got kids w/ friends that read this mess & make it a constant reminder of their actual reality. My suggestion to you is to chill out w/ the extra bruh. #FareaL! Celeb or Not, somebody might whip yo *#%. Ijs/ I’dbe careful, these are people lives, reputations, families, kids, ex-spouses you messin’ with & that comes w/ a lotta emotion & powerfuL Energy … I just pray that its never directed towards you. Get it together before one of ‘em gathers you up Ma!
Oh the shade………if she wasn’t blogging about this then everyone would be saying she’s protecting her “boo thang” (not saying he’s your boo) and why won’t she post his response? This is her blog and she can post what she wants. I know one thing, when she does these posts her hits and comments are crazy. Also if everyone was so concerned about the kids, they would call Sheree out for arguing with her ex in front of the children and taking that phone call in front of her son.
@Deshan Rixner – Chile please. I didn’t “LEAK” a thing. Bob was (and is) fully aware of everything. So feel free to judge me, him or whoever else. That’s what the internet is all about and you’re gonna do it anyway right? So do you. If you see me posed up with the same ppl I blog about then CLEARLY I’m NOT hiding behind a computer talking about folks. Unlike some of you who leave comments, I show my face. It is what it is. And as far as being judged, maybe you should pay more attention because I’ve been judged. TRUST. I’m judged everyday! I’m not new to this either. But one thing I know FOR SURE…. it ain’t what you’re called. It’s what you answer to. You like what you read on the site? Great. If you don’t? Great. I’m not pressed either way. I blog what I blog because I like to blog so whatever “direction” you speak of maybe you need to head thataway. Good day.
RoDah Maxwell hold up…wait. “it’s not my business”??? Ummmm…. I watch The Real Housewives of Atlanta JUST LIKE YALL DO. So you telling me that because I know these people personally I can’t talk about ‘em? That’s bizarre as hell being as though they put it all on NATIONAL TELEVISON! Clearly THEY don’t mind, so why should you?
He admitted it ON CAMERA when she talked to him about it.
@ihateadumbytch; I’m the chic sittin’ on upide down milk crate under the tree.The crate and tree are free.Can’t afford the lace-front but as I turn my cap to the side I still say Sheree should stop perpertrating her fantasy on her kids and us…oh,and Bob. Is she really not smart enough to know that she can’t still live the baller life of an exballer’s wife that she probably didn’t love in the first place. Her kids were only "power-up coins" in the "Goldiggers Game of Life"that she’s playing.Games over chic.
I think you’re missing the point. There’s nothing to joke about when it comes to the support of children, not from their mother, father or cohorts. I think it’s beneath anyone. If he acquiesced and went on the show FOR HER, knowing what she’s saying and doing is false, then what does that say about him. He’s no better than she is, and then there’s you supporting this Tom Foolery. “Yeah, the Whitfield’s are straight. Yes, we’re straight!”, as you stroke your hair? Off $3k a month? I bring home way more than that, and I’m a regular civilian. Something eludes ignorance out of this entire situation. Question is, who!
I think they are crossing the line as well! Somethings are just not made for Tv. Sharee and Bob are wrong for even going there. She is wrong for blasting Bob on national tv long after they cut the show she will regret that and Bob is ignorant for making excuses for not taking care of his kids! He is adding to the negative with giving her something to talk about. I’m simply stating your choice for what you highlite. You can’t always follow the foolish. They choose it’s their kids and their show! However foolish that may be! Don’t use their ignorance, when it comes to their kids,no less ,to mess up your great blog cause it really isn’t your place. Watching it and blogging it are two different things. You have a great brand going. I like it and I follow you. Be more responsable and by all means don’t let their ignorance water your ish down. That’s all I’m saying. Draw a line! It’s serious and these two nuckle heads look stupid don’t follow!
HAAAAA…. >>> That was weak as water.. Fb beef is the Best! At least ya gave it ya best shot. Better Luck next time! Be blessed & be done. #Roasted
AMEN RoDah Maxwell, you said a mouth full. We have heard enough about Sheree and Bob child support situation. Be more mindful of what you put out there. They both share 2 darling innocent children.
Tayatta S Cummings “income” and “assets” are two different things. Just FYI… LMAO!
RoDah Maxwell great point! I totally get it and appreciate your input.
Dashan Rixner what beef?
Tayatta S Cummings I think YOU are missing the point. The line between reality & fiction is sometimes blurred. While I may know the truth, public opinion is often formed by what you see (and don’t see) on tv etc. I’m definitely not mad at you for feeling the way you feel about the situation. That’s the way it’s designed to be. But don’t be mad at me for MY opinions when mine are formed from things seen and unseen. *shrug*
I can never be upset w/you. As opinionated as I am, I will never be upset at someone’s thoughts. We agree to disagree and keep it moving. I know the difference between income and assets. I’m far from slow. Again, I don’t agree w/this particular situation where the welfare of children are highlighted in the negative. Seems unfair by all parties involved. Now, if anyone can disagree w/that, more than likely they don’t have children. Someone has to draw a line in the concrete and exercise integrity. That’s my POV and it holds steady.
If you don’t want your ish publicized…dont get on tv talking about it. Not from the A but I certainly feel like I get a good dose of ATL goings on(in my southern accent) from ATLien’s blog…I been following for some time now and seems no snarkier than it ever was..everyone gets skewered equally (Except maybe Big Boi & Andre 3k..and since I am HUGE STAN for them..that works for me) so why should Sheree/Bob get a pass now?I have never seen any outright venom (not like some OTHER atlanta blogger whose name I aint gonna mention..after all sometimes roses really do smell like boo boo..he he he) towards anyone and that I can respect. ATLien, keep repping your city…spilling the tea..and your star will continue to rise. I know that I have turned QUITE a few folks on to your blog and none have complained or left it yet!
@TiffaniK Thank you! From the bottom of my heart. I almost thought I was doing something different for a minute. lol
Let her have her five minutes of fame, he will have another groupie mid 2012. The fact that a female, not a woman but a female, feels its okay to 1) support a man who happily admits he wont pay a dime in support 2) constantly tries to bash the mother of his children and 3) Use his CHILDREN for blog hits is DISGUSTING.
Ok, last comment & um done …. The Longer I talk to you the more relevant you become & we both know, theres no truth to that… (*Claps hands., lets get to it in my so HOOD proper English NEW ORLEANS VOICE BABY*.. Leggo) Ready? READ: …… > Hiding? Really..? Chile, BOO!! Check the profile ma, the pics are there & my full Legal name is listed. I’m far from the next Bin Ladin & hiding behind a laptop w/ keyboard courage unlike yourself. I know for a fact that your not saying these things to they face or even half the garbage that you say here., but go head … Blog on in ya lil’ apartment & continue to climb that mountain. Eventually, you’ll get there > just not like this. Your scadelous efforts to reach higher in this blog game got you lookin’ a sh*++y mess with this one. I see more disappointment than cheerleaders.. You ready? Gimme ah “S gimme ah “T”, gimme ah “R”, gimme ah “A”, gimme ah “I”, gimme ah “G”, gimme a “H”, gimme ah “T” whats that spell “STRAIGHT” BUSTED from the “A” my a#%, I’m sure you’re a imigrant plucked from a country cottage tryna make it in this here Big Ole City of Black American Dreams .. Like alot of us, ughn huh, I get that but this some Bullsh*+ & you know it thats why your so defensive. Oh yah & Btw, my comment in referenced to “Leaking information” was in referenced to you stooping so low as to record Bob’s convo & Post it. I doubt he’s cool w/ a statement & I quote, “I was rockin’ a $300 shirt”, and the whole bum look was an appeal to the court of his misfortune when he really aint lacking. C’mon man, you know what it is… Defend your statements, blog & foolery from now to cacoon days., it wont matter in the end when your’re judged upstairs my dear. And for the record, we’re All judged daily, not just you & these celebs … The difference is > it aint being Blogged about. I agree that it’s distasteful on either end (Bob/Sheree) to bring they’re personal mix to this level of public attention., however I get it .. Its Entertainment right? Yah, ok… Anywho.. Get-it-Together Boo! And on that note> I got more relevant “ish” to do like feeding the homeless & running a Business … > Good Day! *Flips hair
Michelle I respect the fact that you still say whatever you want about bob after everyone basically tries to rip you a new one each time you do. Like you said it’s your blog.
@AlWell – Thank you
I was expecting him to say something that would cast him in a better light? Instead he sounds even more silly than he looked on television. I don’t care who is sleeping with whom here, but there’s something tacky feeling about this video. Especially the ending- the giggly, gum chewing, weave stroking part. I know that Miss Michelle is not presenting herself as a journalist, so I don’t expect objectivity, but I felt like I had walked in on someone’s personal conversation! What exactly was it that Bob wanted us to know? Why he was I appropriately dressed, how much the shirt cost? His iron is cheap? The Whitfields are doing alright? And what is the obsession with Sheree these days??? I guess I just don’t find her as interesting or newsworthy. She has had money issues, delusions of grandeur and family issues since the series premiered. What’s new?
The reality is Sheree and Bob have put their business on National TV for all to see.Bravo are well known for giving people the ass hole edit Simon Barney, Jim Bellino, Russell Armstrong and while these guys may well have been assholes I think they giving Bob the asshole edit only showing his not so thought out comments I am sure we are not getting the whole story.
Sheree is a pretencious, money hungry liar that is evident. Bob we just see bits and pieces and he does not come across as all that intelligent and a deadbeat, but I for one am not believing the hype.
He managed to outsmart Phaedra with very little problem! I just hope Bob does not take the asshole edit like the rest of them,I hope he did not sign a confidentiality agreement with Bravo and down the road spills the beans on the real deal of course for a profit!
I found this blog by googling Sheree Whitfield and contempt.
From the comments, I get that the blogger is shagging Bob. Why does that make her a jumpoff? I thought that a jumpoff was a mistress. Am I wrong?
I also don’t get the mentality that she should not blog about this. Heree put the business of him and Bob out for public consumption. If the kids hear about it, it is because of Heree’s actions.
This is what I think, if they have joint custody which sounds like they do. Why should Sheree get child support? If thats the case shouldnt she pay him support when he has the kids. Something fishy is going on, she know she money hungry but yet she waits four years to file and then she doesnt even file. He does! She needs to cut it out. Why do people insist on a judge telling you how to conduct yourself. I think Bob contributes. I think she wants more. But she needs to get a job and so does he.
@Dashan Rixner: Gurl…you’ll be back…today.(flips my hat roun’ 2 the otha’ side)
@Reita Collins – you noticed that too??? LOL – She/He wrote a book but "doesn’t have time"…. I don’t get it. *shrug*
Tayatta S Cummings said "No, I don’t know if you’re dating him; I read it in a previous post. Just goes to show you can’t always believe what you READ, right?!"
Well said my sista, well said. Funny how a blogger gets upset about people thinking she’s dating Mr. I don’t pay child support (don’t really care if she is. That’s her business). All it took was for one person to say so and some people ran with it. Now, why is what she’s writing the truth?
"Everybody who has a child and trying to get child knows" that child support is nothing to joke about. I don’t know if he’s paying or not. I know they should have kept that out of the skript…yes, I said skript. These children will watch it one day and read about this madness one day. What a pity.
Ms. Blogger, you sure do get really nasty with some of your comments. From your initial post, I thought you didn’t care what was said, but some of your replies seem to prove otherwise. Yes, it’s your blog and you can say what you want to me or anyone else. Let’s all be mindful of how we judge one another.
"I got a parking ticket. Can you help me with that?"
#FLATLINES_________DEAD!
See, I herd Bob say that Sheree is getting paid by the NFL, just like him. that says to me, cash in the bank account…call it child support, or whatever!
WOW he looks and sounds stupid…. sad…
You hoes are really feeling a certain kind of way about ATLien huh! Girrrrrrl you are a certified starah if you have these many ppl carin about who you fuckinh and sucking! Damn! What channel does the "ATLien show" come on again?
Yes lawdy I love it! Keep doing whatever it is you are doing because reading these comments is making my day shoot by.
I wasnt going to say anything but I appreciate the hot "TEA" I appreciate YOU and STRAIGHT FROM THE A! Please please please!!!!!!! don’t let the haters stop you from doing your good juicy stories!
its apparent that u and bob are dating bcuz u keep trying to make a point n defending him .the story came out months ago that your were dating so its probably true. idc who rite or whose wrong between him n sheree u mind ur bizness cuz its none of ur bizness please he looks like a fucking cross eyed gorilla so child please just mind ur bizness
@KatrinaSmith for real? mind my business? I guess you don’t realize what business I’m in.
@Tayatta I wasn’t calling you slow. Only saying that sometimes things aren’t what they seem. Folks should think outside the box sometimes. Don’t believe what xyz said just because it’s on tv… or the internet… for that matter. Unless you know these ppl personally (as I do many in ATL) don’t be so quick to form an opinion. It’s all just a game of smoke & mirrors most of the time.
@Dashan Rixner I was coming back to respond to you but I can’t find your comment in Facebook. At any rate you mentioned I hide behind my computer so I have to ASSUME you’ve never been to my site before today. My name is everywhere… my photo is everywhere… I have no reason to hide. This is work for me. All day errrday. What’s YOUR beef because I don’t have one with you?
Wow – and to think I found the call comical. Truthfully I am in no place to judge. Wrong/ Right/ indifferent; just like these two I have my own burdens/ cross to bare. Only difference is mine aren’t on display for the public to crucify. My only true comment in reference to the two parties involved is – if THEY aren’t doing right by their children I hope THEY get what is coming to them. Other than that I find this blog entertaining and I occasionally talk to Michelle on twitter so chances are I will continue the same pattern. Michelle do you, and let the world do them…just keep my daily news coming thanks *sips* orange juice.
-C
I don’t have children but I think it just makes sense for each person to EQUALLY support the children they’ve had while they were together. Is the concept of taking care of your kids so ridiculous? What Sheree spends her money on is a non-mutha f*ckin factor when it comes to Bob paying child support. People, please be responsible and take care of your children!!
This whole Reality TV mess is far more than most people think when they sign up – especially when you ain’t keeping it "real" as possible. I understand that’s hard to do when you one of the 99%, and trying your best to keep up with the 1%.
But on the real tip, keeping up with the "Joneses" ain’t never done anybody any good except drive you in the poor house, and make you look like a fool.
Now with that said, Sheree has always been a mess! Started off bragging about how she is getting all those "six or seven figures" from a man who ain’t playing ball no more. I certainly don’t know what the real deal is between her and the ex’s divorce agreement – but what she could have done is get a garnishment against his pension from the NFL in the divorce decree.
Sheree’s problem is she wants to still live like she is a big baller’s wife – and a lot of women in her position have found out that don’t necessarily work for them. Hell a lot of ex-ballers can’t live the life they was led – LOL
She says Bob is a dead beat dad – and they may be true. However she has lied so much, I won’t just take her word. If he has not been paying his due share of support, the courts will decide that for sure.
There’s always three sides to every story between a man and woman – His, Her’s and the Truth. Since nobody really knows the "truth" maybe everyone should suspend the talk til it finally comes out. I think something is not right with the way this has been presented – but that’s just my opinion.
I ain’t gonna put this blogger on blast for talking about what these silly ho’s put on national TV for everyone to see and hear. Maybe yall should head on over to Bravo, or get in touch with the parents and voice your anger. If you think what you read here about the RHOA is bad, you should visit some other blogs and sites.
Yes it’s damn sad kids have to be involved in this foolery, but the parents and Bravo made those decisions to put them on TV. Unfortunately kids today have to endure a lot for bad decisions made by adults.
Anyways, keep on blogging, and if you are seeing Bob, so what? I don’t believe he is married – right?
Sheree ain’t shit!!!!
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I for one feel that this is ATLien’s blog and she needs to keep doing her thing. I luv reading your blogs becuz I know i’m going to get the real deal from you. So sorry for the broke money hungry Sheree, she did it to herself!!!As far as Bob is concerned I heard him say he was "getting paid the same way she was, by the NFL". I have never cared for Sheree wanting more than she contributes ass. She need to pull herself up by her boot starps like the rest of single American women do and MAKE IT WORK!! I was a single parent before I met my husband and NOT ONE DAY would I give a Nicca the satisfaction of thinking he was a mofo factor in rather we would make it or not…sorry SMH at her ass right now!!!!
Sue Thompson said that ish!! She read my mind!!! Sheree has lied from the start and I dont believe ish she pushing now!!!
Been on a timeout for finals but these comments are juicy.#rubbing hands
I heard… "She’s getting $150k from the show, $150k from Bobs pension funds, and some other undisclosed money from the settlement EVERY YEAR! plus whatever she makes on other appearances, etc, Sheree’s momma bought the $300k house she tore down & can’t afford to rebuild.
Plus she has over $1mil in other divorce assets. I have no sympathy for a bytch that can’t keep control over her spending when she gets that kind of money! If Bob died tomorrow she’d still have to provide for those kids, so she should act like he don’t even exist. What she gets in child support should simply supplement what she should already be doing for them.
Yes he should pay but its not to support Sheree. & it’s fucked up for her to try to use the money in that manner. If it’s for the kids then let it be for the kids. If she didn’t have the kids I bet she could pay a light bill then & her damn hand wouldn’t be stuck out. Face it she fucked up when she tried to get alimony and they told her no, she fucked up when she bought a $120k Aston instead of paying her $110k legal bill, she still fuckin up trying to build a house she can’t afford and NOW after all that NOW missing child support is an issue????? BYTCH PLEASE. I hope they do reduce his child support! She’s fucking up the system for kids & parents who do really need to force dead beat parents to step up and she makes all women look bad by portraying a stereotype that makes men understandably angry. I ain’t saying she a gold-digger, but… QUACK, QUACK!!!"– and this is all from FB
… I don’t think Bob is worried about what other ppl say because his kids know the truth! They know what he does for them. He can laugh at this situation because Im sure he’s been laughed a lot and he knows the truth about this situation and in the end She will look as stupid as she sounds. Hell she want "purse support" and then when its time to pay tuition and utilities she is gonna be knocking at his door yet again. I think this will be her last season on the show anyway… she dont have a story line anyway and every season they have to pay her rent. Bye Bye Sheree
Blogging about her is beneath you. Truly. And if he was any kind of man, he wouldn’t behave that way. Most strong men want to keep their kids in the same lifestyle even if they hate the ex. Many men just stay in the relationship to protect the kids. In this situation, the kids are the biggest losers in all this mess. Don’t add to unless you all have an agreement. Reality tv is scripted — right.
You are such a hater! Are you screwing Bob?
i do know what bizness ur n but u having a conflict of interest if u r dating him anyway i hope shree gets her money or his ass go to jail
So what if sheree has expensive purses, clothes,cars,etc…she provides for her kids and makes sure they have the same things! Bob needs to contribute half for his children. Its not for purse support, its for child support!
When I hear about men/women not paying child support it does hit a nerve, BUT what we see is on a reality show. Bravo does ENHANCE the truth for ratings. Sheree is trying to get in the acting game hence the constant tears this seanson. Could Bob be going along with the storyline to help Sheree b/c this is the only thing she has going for her? This is how she makes her coins. Shiiii.. Kelsey Grammar doing the show w/ Camille was his gift to her (he admitted it). Bobs eyes may be cocked like a pistol, but he seems cool to me. BTW Michelle is the ONLY blogger (that I know of) whom is speaking out. I don’t give a shit if she is dating Bob or not.. Michelle is doing her job & I respect that.
Apparently Sheree don’t need his child support since she has nice purses and he has NOT paid money for his children. He is a HAM and he is clowning about this matter which is very serious. Sheree’s mother is right in that his children are watching him and how he handles this situation. Stanford must have been accepting rejects … cause he is dumb as f*ck for real. I dont know what she saw in his ugly a**…. he need to do the right thing and pay his support like other fathers. He only using the purse as an excuse. He is a hater and probably made because he thought Sheree would fall apart without him and his money and to her credit she didnt. Now write the check or take your wringly black ugly a** to jail.
In my opinion,every parent that has custody of the child/children should recieve child support from the absent parent.I recieve a nice amount of child support for my 7 year old twins.Bob is just as much responsible for those kids as Sheree’.If her lifestyle is fab-u-lous,then the kids should be as well.Bob was a NFL player…those kids deserve to be provided for with those earnings.Why wouldn’t you want to provide for your kids that you help conceive?? Now Sheree’ has the right to do whatever she wants with the money once she get it because she did it for 4 years by herself.As lond as the kids are straight.And that’s MY opinion!
Ok so heres my 2cents after watching twice tonight. SHEREE IS DELUSIONAL AND SHE NEEDS TO GET UP OFF HER ASS AND GET A JOB! When she was fake crying in the cafe with Candy and Phadra i heard her say Bob retired so he wouldnt have to give her money but when i read about there divorce she ALMOST got her seven figures. Was he supposed to work just to keep her carrying $10000 purses and drivin $100000 cars? I am a single mother too but I can’t feel sorry for a woman who squander all that money on herself but can’t spend a penny on her children unless she get child support. Her son always need a haircut and he doesn’t have a bed BUT she just bought a new car? This sorry bitch won’t buy her own son a bed because her ex hasn’t paid child support? I don’t understand her mentality. She spends spends spends on HERSELF but her kids look a mess. This does not fall on Boh. I’m sorry but he gave her hundreds of thousands of dollars and she gets the house FORECLOSED because the judge gave it to Bob? She is a vindictive woman who just wants to take ALLLLLL his money and make sure he can’t do for the next chick. But karma will catch up to her about all of this and if Bob wasn’t doing anything for they kids he would be in jail regardless so I don’t believe sheree AT ALL. Oh and she didn’t tell Phaedra the whole story which is why she was so scared to go. I’m done.
And laughing @Michelle for asking Bob to pay her parking tickets! I missed that the first time.
I have always been a fan of Atlien but this lowers my respect for her. Now while they were together the kids and Shere lived in a huge house and enjoyed the finer things in life. Bob had no problem with her job as a housewife while they were together or he shouldve demanded she get a career and im sure his kids benefited from having a mom that was available to be, as TI says, the nuturer of the household. in divorce the kids and the exwife should never be left without because the marriage didnt work. she obviously performed her job as a housewife and a mother or he should have petitioned the court for custody. With that being said, what she recieves as payment from their marital assets has nothing to do with child support! if i remember correctly he wasnt spending much time with the kids after the divorce and I commend him for changing that but at the end of the day the kids are with her and he should give her the measely 3k a month. as he said he is a stanford grad his prestigous degree should more than pay that. Sheree has a job/hustle and that pays for any purse or shoe she wants. the fact that she can support those kids on her own in no way negates Bob from having to contribute. i think he looks pitiful. 3k should be nothing for a man in his position in life. and for another woman to back that foolishness is absurd and take so much joy from the turmoil they are creating is disappointing. her lifestyle is nothing compared to what it used to be. from her front dooor you can see her entire kitchen and living room. So she isnt living on the grand scale the she once did. i agree she may not be nene but she makes him relevent and him sticking out his tongue at the courthouse was straight wack.com and made him look stupid and that is your man….
I agree he should pay child support but at the same time, Sheree dont need 2 be riding around in a $90,000 Porsche & sporting $10,000 Burkin bags if ur SO in NEED of money. But I do think he should support his kids financially.
I don’t know if someone else said it but the question that has been bothering me is if Sheree is so hard up for money how in the Hell is she able to build a house from the ground up? if she can build chateau Sharee aka Neverland then she doesn’t need any money she is so fake she’s done NEXT!!!
I finally listen to the audio and watch the video. This is the saddest thing I have ever witness from a father and his so called lover. Bob is conducting himself like a 16 or 17 year old father instead of a professional. That stupid video from a father really makes my stomach turns. Just imagine how his kids will feel once they listen to this and watches it. All because DADDY don’t want to pay child support. SSSSSSSSAAAAAAAAADDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!
People this is about the kids! I don’t care for Sheree at all, however; she is entitle to childsupport. Remember he has not done anything for the kids in 4 years…………….., wow! Also it’s not all about the money either. Bob needs to spend time with his kids, especially his son. Bob is setting a bad example for his children………..! I wonder what they think of him. I do not condone no parent not to pay childsupport for there children. These kids did not ask to be brought here, hello………..! We must as parents take on the responsibility to see that our children are being taking care of until they are 18, point blank. Also I just want to say that Atlanta sucks when it comes to a parent trying to get support for our children. The laws needs to be more strict on that issue!
@Toni… he has his kids more than she does why should he have to pay her bills too. He provide for his kids. They are not toddlers they can ask him for whatever they need. They know their mom dont have it.
If she cant provide for her kids then maybe they will be better off in the custody of their father full time as opposed to 75% of the time. I dont believe for one moment that he will let his kids go without. Sheree thought she married a fool… Look at her now.
Someone said that these kids didn’t ask to be here,and that is true.That’s pretty much the ignored mantra of goldiggers like Sheree.All these non-relevant non-talented chics are getting money out the azz for doing nothing more than having babies.It’s bigger than "Powerball"! But even powerball money gets spent quicker than earned money.While Sheree might be managing her earned money (though even Phaedra was in disbelief at the new Porsche),she still thinks Bob is stupid enough to give her more of his earned money to throw to the wind.If his payments are reduced,maybe this will be a blessing in disguise of a lesson she chose to show the world she needs,…how to manage money.And especially in todays economy.
Sheree talked about Nene’s past financial problems,non of which we’ve seen on any of the 4 seasons.Hence,PAST. Yet her’s have been on-going from before RHOA and more likely well past RHOA. And most of which we’ve seen right on our tv’s.Really,her storyline is only relevant on blogs.It’s time for her to exit RHOA and get her family business straight before for she ends up in jail or homeless. She obviously has delusions of grandeur not unlike a crack head and she’ll do anything to present that fantasy.She can’t keep up with the Jone’s. The Jone’s WORK!
If Bob is not handling his responsibility. Why would Sherri own mother give Bob a hug and kiss after the court proceedings?
Sherrie going to turn on Phandrea NoW? I have to admit she was stunned
court docs on MTO say Sheree "defrauded" bob of $425 grand in the sale of their primary home which is why he not giving her child support. She supposedly took the money upfront and was supposed to split it with him but didnt.Which is why court system dosent like her…she violated a court order.Her crying though is kinda throwing me,is it for the camera or is this a side of her she dont show.Its kinda touching,then she go into her mean girl act and I dont know …..anyway,is that why she was scared to go into court. She knew Bob was gonna bring back this "425" which if true means she not getting child support and may end up with more shit garnished.I dont think Phaedra should have taken this case….she too close and like her legal assistants said…Sheree has a reputation.Iam also wondering whats up with Kim’s older daughter and that new baby?
I don’t care what Sheree does or does not do, Bob needs to pay his child support. Also, waht kind of women are you to attempt to justify why he should not. Women like you are the reason why men are so trifling, I bet you love Bob cockeyed ass, and will do whatever he tells you. You always hating on Sheree, I know she has you beat hands down in the looks department, but now we know it’s becasue you on sloppy, sloppy seconds!!!
It doesn’t matter how many receipts Bob has.If he has been court ordered to pay a certain amount in a certain way (i.e. to the primary guardian, Sheree), he is out of order.
It doesn’t matter how many Birkins Sheree has, Bob still has a financial obligation to his children unless he is indigent.
Bob, why u stick ur tongue out! shameful…but got a good laugh from my hubby!
Sheree need her butt whooped… how u gonna bring 50k worth of labels to Phaedra’s house and your son is sleeping on the **** floor.
Please Bob get custody of your kids… that is not right at all and she had the nerve to say Nene didnt have furniture in her home. WTF is wrong with her?
I say that you Michelle Brown (ATLien) are a DUMB ASS!!!..
The only reason that you are taking sides is because you letting bob crack them lips. Which I shudder to think about.
I know you lost like a TON of weight and im happy for ya. But really you still got about 300 more pounds to go!! then you should work on ya GRILL. Casue that is LACKING LIKE A MUGG. Furthermore WHY THE FUCK would want to get with a man that is not paying his dues to his kids. Let him handle it the smart way IN COURT!! I am not SHEREE. I DONT EVEN LIKE SHEREE and could careless if she is on RHWOA or not.
What I am is a woman that hates women like you who BECAUSE a man may have shown them some attention or may have a Penney or 2 saved now supports men that are DEAD BEATS!!!
Weather he pays money or not he is not being a real father to them kids as them kids have been shuffled around 2 3 homes in the last 3 years. HIS SON SAYS ON NATIONAL TV THAT HE WISHES HE WOULD SPEND MORE TIME WITH HIS DAD!!
And a real man would make sure that his kids had a stable home. Weather it was on Bankhead or Buckhead!! As cheap as homes are these days in the A he could take less than 90k and make sure that his kids did not have to move again.
But that is your man and right now he can do NO WRONG..
BTW he picked your Muppet Miss Piggy Looking Ass because your not CUTE Which makes you easy to control.
GET A CLUE !!
Last point!!! I don’t get why women like you would run the risk of messing up your money for some DICK!!
I’m sorry, I had to comment on this. First off, whether or not Michelle and Bob are dating is irrelevant. Why the hate? Second, if Sheree can have enough money to buy Birken bags and Dolce and Gabanna clothes and build houses from the ground up and all that, what makes me think she is in dire need of child support? Bob sees this too, which is why he’s doing her the way that he is. He knows the bitch is a gold digger – we ALL know it. I believe he does take care of his kids, but since the money isn’t actually being put in her hands, she’s crying bloody murder.
And Sheree’s mom is fake, too. If you feel so strongly about Bob being a dead beat dad and all that, why give him a big hug when he was walking past you in court? That kinda gave it all away, if you ask me.
Bob isn’t a deadbeat. He’s smart enough not to be taken by a broke, uneducated gold digging bitch like Sheree. All yall on here who keep saying he’s a dead beat and yadda yadda yadda are prolly the same type of bitch that Sheree is. I hope Bob wins the case and continues to take care of his kids the way he’s been doing all this time. Don’t think he hasn’t been doing it. If he hadn’t, the bitch wouldn’t have waited 4 fucking years to go after him. So phony and transparent.
that MTO article though!
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I think all parents who receive child support should be accountable for what it is spent on. And if you are buying a porsche, hermis bags, & chateau Sheree it is apparent she can’t manage or budget. Sheree’ probably thought she was entitled to the same life style for the rest of her life. I think she got a lot for a 7 year relationship. I am sure they argued over all her ssspending. She doesn’t come of as being intelligent or well educated, blah personality, and when she is on tv it is about money, her trying to get money, spending money, getting back doored, and how everyone is a hater. Send her back North. Way to go for hugging your ex mother in law. Thelma you need to check your daughters ego boo.
Correct me if I am wrong but how can you complain about someone paying you child support when you are spending money on bags which are not a necessity!! I’m all for having nice things but how is her crarying around a 10,000 dollar bag helping her children?? How is her buying a new car which is over 100,000 helping her children? When I have seen her son on the show he always looks dingy to me.. I am a woman who has a childs father who pays child support and you best believe that my child is just as well put together as I am. There is no mistaking that when you see us.. I think Bob is a asshole when he’s leaving out of court peeping around corners licking his tongue out behaving like a child but I also feel like Sheree is abusing the system!! Hint number one is if you by a car worth more than a hundred grand please make sure your son is not sleeping on mistresses on the damn floor.
I don’t care how many zero’s you have in your bank account that is chicken head status 100% right there.. I can’t stand to see these woman use their kids as meal tickets to support there on shopping habbits and think that they are a victim when they aren’t using the money correctly anyway.. Making sure your kids have a better quailty of life isn’t about how much your car cost. It’s about investing in the childrens futures and their educations and having a savings set a side for them. It took me 4 years from working hard to get the vehicle I wanted and I didn’t feel bad about spending the money to roll out because I knew it came from the money I worked and earned. It also took me 5 years to save a nice down payment for my home which I absolutely love but those things came from my money mean while my daughter is in all sorts of after school activities and we already have enough in her account to send her through her first 2 years of college and she is only 13.
All I’m saying is that we as women have to do better and learn that child support is not your golden ticket to be able to afford a handbag you couldn’t otherwise buy or a vehicle you really couldn’t afford without the child support..
@Sassmina!! Girl I love that in you.. Now see I can honestly respect a woman who keeps it real and you my dear are the type of female I surround myself with in my inner circle. I can’t stand a crying female talking about child support to support their own (CAN’T AFFORD) habbits.. Babygirl that was so well put and anyone who got a little salty with that comment you made is best believe drinking from the same same lazy, gold digging pool as Sheree!! It makes my skin crawl to hear women who have nothing going for themselves use their kids as pay days when the rest of us out here work hard everyday and beat the pavement..
If I couldn’t keep the lights on and me and my daughter were eating bolonga and peanut butter for dinner and we didn’t have nice clothes and I couldn’t put gas in the the (TRUCK)I worked for to transport my daughter back and forth then Huston we have a problem.. Child support is supposed to be used to help support the child not a over grown ass woman who wants to live outside your means.. I mean Sheree made the comment Bob needs to get out and get a job but damn Boo sounds like you should be taking your own advise!! I mean when you are no longer with the father of your child/ren it is his job to help provide for the child/ren not your grown ass!! Again as I said in my last post.. I can’t stand females like that.. It just speaks volumes about your charcter and who you are!!
I read a post a few seconds ago where someone was calling some of the others ignorant and illiterate but if every other word out of your mouth is a curse word then how intelligent does that make you?? LOL!! I mean I think someone needs to get the GHETTO DICTIONARY out and learn what the word intelligent actually means.. I would expect to read a comment that has complete sentences and pronunctations when I am reading from a person who is correcting someone else or trying to state a valid case on what is classy!! I’m just saying I think it’s a wise idea to actually think before you speak if you are going to use the word intelligent and then turn around and use words like shit etc.. I don’t think anyone would be calling out the fact that Sheree has this, that or what have you if she wasn’t on TV trying to make Bob look bad when she looks very unintelligent arguing a child support case and calling someone a deadbeat yet your spending which was displayed on the show is public domain..
When you have a deadbeat father who isn’t taking care if his children he’s much, much talked about but who will address the deadbeat mothers who opt to do the same other than an individual who shares the same ignorant view on having someone else support you while you blow money trying to keep up with the Jones!!
Bob Whitfield is a scorned deadbeat dad!!!!!!bottomn line!!!!!!
I think it is aweful they way Bob is acting. It doesn’t matter what feelings or attitude he has aginst the mother of his children, he should still want to have a relationship with his children where he is not bickering with the mother. No matter what she has done to him in the past. The children are the one’s that will suffer, if he doesn’t want to be in their lives. Sheree is absolutely right. The way he showed hisself on the show, was down right ignorant. It shows that he is down right dirty and his children will see this.
DEAD BEAT DAD HE IS INDEED.
Court says you have to pay then there is a REASON. No payment = dead beat (whether your the mother or father)
far as I’m concerned any "man" who can pick up and move out of state without telling anyone is a deadbeat dad. Any "man" who shows up hours late to his childs event is a deadbeat dad. Get off his nut sack.
B: You are one dead ass Fugly black monkey! You ain’t no hallafama motha f*(^&#$. Your ex wife doesn’t need to raise them, why don’t you?
You don’t pay child support so YOU monkey should take on ALL of the responsibility that you have neglected for over the kids’ lifetime. It’s not a choice anymore black guy. Step up and be a real black man.
Are you just another statistic? Probably so. Another black guy that fucks everything standing and runs.
You are another disgrace to you race. KARMA
it will catch up with you.
It’s so sad but he is the stereotypical deadbeat father who doesn’t realize that one day his kids will grow up to resent him. Even if there is any shred of evidence that he is not providing the court-mandated support, his kids will grow up to hate him. Kids will use the show and portrayal of the children’s deadbeat father to taunt them in school and make them feel like they are so worthless because not even their father will support them. If his excuse was really based on a concern that Sheree would spend his money, he would write checks directly to others for his kids expenses and send her gift cards to specific stores(ie. supermarkets) to bypass this issue. To be a deadbeat father on national tv raises anger among many of us African-American children who grew up without adequate support from deadbeat fathers. He may win in court by using the "deadbeat black father’s defense" but in the end, he will lose the love of his children, which he seems not to care about at all.
He’s not a self-respecting man; just a bitter childish little boy. Man up. I am not a hater, just a victim of the cadre of fathers Bob Whitfield is a part of….
Well if it is true that bob went AGAINST judges orders & FRONTED her that $400 k +, them I feel him, he pre paid then…hes paid up for awhile…I am a mother, but if my kids dad fronted me a large sum of money TO BUY A HOME FOR OUR KIDS, & I DIDN’T DO SO, THEN BEING THE WOMAN I AM, I’D JUST HAVE TO SUCK IT UP & GET OUT & DO WHAT I NEED TO DO, WHICH WOULDN’T BE HARASSING HIM FOR MORE MONEY…THAT’S WHY SHE WAITED FOUR YEARS, CAUSE SHE WAS WRONG, & SHE KNOWS IT! now that being said, my husband has a trifling baby momma, who he works two jobs to support us & another for his support, & yes it’s full time…shes at the dope mans house on pay day, collecting welfare from there different states that he has had to file suit on her…women, HANDLE YOUR BUSINESS, before you continue to have more people you can’t take care of….cause once that support check is gone, sorry, don’t come looking for more!
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