There are lots of strong opinions surrounding the fight on last week’s ‘Pillow Talk’ episode of The Real Housewives of Atlanta.

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And there are quite a few of you who blame Nene Leakes for RHOA’s first official onscreen fight.

I received the following email from a reader who adamantly explained how she felt about the situation.

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from: Christine
to: StraightFromTheA
date: Tue, Jan 28, 2014 at 5:22 PM
subject: Episode 13 of RHOA

Hi Michelle,

After watching the past episode RHOA, one thing is very clear… Ne Ne instigated the whole thing.? You didn’t mention that in your post.

Who do you think started the brawl?

You have to admit, once Kenya was actually at the party, she was actually behaving well. It was Ne-Ne big horse face ass that started when she mentioned that Kenya went in on Natalie at the winery. I am forever a fan of your blog but I think you being a little easy on Ne-Ne.

You know that big nose horse started the fight.

I coulda sworn I was clear in my recap (click HERE to re-visit). I fully fault Kenya Moore-whore…

Here’s why…

First off, I do NOT condone violence of any kind. That being said, I don’t think that Christopher Williams was a threat to Kenya during their conversation.

It was when Natalie began mouthing off, that KENYA jumped up in a threatening manner and ‘forward pedaled’ her way over towards Natalie.?

From what I saw, Christopher happened to block Kenya’s path to his wife (as any good ‘common law husband would) and grabbed her arm in the process.

That being said, while neither Kenya nor Nene threw any punches, it was Moore’s BFF BRANDON who popped off violently (just as he did to Kordell last year) and it seems his thrist for camera time created the hostile environment.

So in my opinion, Kenya is guilty by association. That’s my feeling and I’m sticking to it!

While Nene certainly stirred the pot, I don’t think she’s at fault this time.? My blogger boo Funky Dineva agrees…

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NeNe took to her blawg recently to explain her position:

I created this game called ?Pillow Talk? and it all started from Gregg and I basically discussing our day once we got in bed at night! Obviously this party is for adults only with adult topics and content. I was the hostess with the mostess! The guests were invited along with a dress code and everyone knew what they were walking into.

My intentions were to build couple unity within the group but as you can see, things got turnt all the way up! You ask why? Everybody in the room were asked questions that were touchy because that was the bases of the game! We all answered, including me and Gregg. We really had fun with it contrary to what you thought you saw and I stress ?what you thought you saw? because there are always intentions for these parties or group gatherings which is totally out of my control!

Let?s get to the good stuff: Kenya arrived three hours late to the party! I was really aggravated because we can?t really end the scene until all housewives have arrived!

Keeping it real is what I do! Some might call it messy, but see it as you may!

Christopher had a question in his hand that he wanted to answer standing up for reasons unbeknownst to me! I walked past Christopher and took my seat! He then began to speak to Kenya about the false accusations Kenya had told his wife. Chris?s wife Natalie started saying ?don?t back paddle now? and Kenya got up and charged out of her seat towards Natalie (but you couldn?t see that part) (I wonder why?). Chris stepped in to stop her but not in an aggressive way. Kenya then got all extra saying take your hands off on me! Her girlfriend in the red pajamas jumped up in Chris?s face and that?s when the explosion started. I don?t condone violence! I can?t control adults and it?s not my fault if adults decide to fight on their own!

In my opinion Kenya was the spark that lit the fire.

Whenever she?s around, we have the worst times! I?ve been on this show from the very beginning and we have NEVER had a physical altercation on this show! I am all about a good read, throwing shade and even getting you together when need be but violence is never okay to me. I think it?s a sad display of behavior and I think it is sad to the black community to be a part of such negative activity! I am bigger, I am better and for that I apologize!

Here?s a few questions I would like to ask you: why do you think they let Kenya narrate the whole fight scene? Why do you think they took the part out when Kenya was charging across the room? All the housewives would say we were having a good time! Why do you think they showed it as if we were not? Thanks for watching!

Stay Fabulous,
Nene Leakes

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