The Real Housewives of Atlanta aired the 13th episode of it’s 6th season last night (January 26, 2014).

[RECAP: Life Lessons Revealed During RHOA S6, Ep 12 (WATCH FULL VIDEO)]

This week, NeNe Leakes invites all of the RHOA couples to a sexy pajama party for a little pillow talk? i.e. messy talk!

As expected, the lighthearted frivolity turns into an unforgettable, all-out brawl, leaving several relationships forever changed.

Check out the 5 life lessons revealed this week + watch the full RHOA episode below…

VIDEO: RHOA Season 6, Episode 13 (FULL VIDEO)

LIFE LESSON #1 – Anything worth celebrating is worth an elaborate celebration!

Phaedra Parks enlists her long lost friend Dwight Eubanks (where he been?) for another one of her over the top soirees.

[FLASHBACK: Introducing ‘Prince Ayden’! Phaedra’s Son Celebrates 1st Birthday (PHOTOS)]

Phaedra and Dwight prepare and over-the-top “inauguration” party for her newest son, Dylan (aka Mr. President).

[PHOTOS: A Peek Inside Baby Dylan’s Living Quarters (PHOTOS)]

Considering Ayden received 12 Birthday cakes for his first 12 months of life, Dylan’s celebration is just as grand as the newly inaugurated ‘President’ rocks a tux and has his own choreographed dance crew for his entertainment.

LIFE LESSON #2 – Rotten eggs won’t make a baby?

Kenya Moore is still on her quest to make a baby of her own and this time its her fertility doctor who keeps it real with her.

Moore reveals she’s ‘dating a man in Africa and her clock is ticking’ but instead of having a child with her imaginary boyfriend, she’s seeking InVitro-Fertilization. ?Kenya’s doctor reveals that IVF may be out of the question due to the fact that her tests reveal her ovaries aren’t producing enough viable eggs.

The doctor explains to Kenya that she can either 1) try to have a baby naturally (invisible sperm can’t make a baby tho), 2) seek donor eggs or 3) visit a sperm bank and try to work a miracle with her own eggs.

LIFE LESSON #3 – ‘Dating Up’ is subjective?

Kandi Burruss is sick and tired of everyone critiquing her relationship with her fianc? Todd Tucker.

During this episode she revealed to Todd her conversation with Christopher Williams’ wife Natalie, who considers Todd an ‘opportunist.’

Kandi gives Todd the 411 about what went down during their wine tasting and ?Todd doesn’t seem to have a clue why Natalie had such negative things to say about him, especially considering that the ‘friend’ in question wasn’t necessarily in a position to be considered ‘Dating Up’ at the time.

Kandi reveals that she’s ride or die with her man and she doesn’t give a dayum what anyone says about him. ?In fact, she feels that she’s the one who has ‘come up’ in the situation because of their love for each other.

LIFE LESSON #4 – ?Money comes and money goes? especially in the strip club!

During Nene’s pajama party, the couples take part in a lil question/answer session.

Cynthia Bailey’s husband Peter Thomas shares his thoughts on strip clubs and Apollo Nida cosigns with him, stating that he spends THOUSANDS in the shaky booty clubs of Atlanta.

Apollo onscreen confession has everyone giving him the side eye. Especially in light of the recent accusations of bank fraud?

[READ: WTF?! Apollo Charged With Bank Fraud, Forgery & More? (FULL COMPLAINT)]

But I digress?

LIFE LESSON #5 – When all else fails have your Gay BFF fight your battles…

Another day another fight started by Kenya Moore. ?I know y’all think I go in on her a lot, but I wouldn’t have anything to talk about if she didn’t act a fool on my tv each week.

That being said, Moore starts again with Christopher Williams and his wife and you already know the night of the pajama party ends with a huge battle.

While Moore’s mouth started it, it seems it was Apollo Nida’s anger that ended things when Kenya’s Gay BFF Brandon got up into his face.

[READ: ?RUMOR CONTROL: Did Apollo Beat Up Kenya’s BFF Brandon? (VIDEO)]

(SIDEBAR: I think Brandon has been lobbying for camera time since last season when he bucked up at Kordell? but I digress.)

At the end of it all, Nene blames Kenya’s big “A”zz mouth for ruining yet another RHOA event.

Notables: You may have noticed that Chuck Smith and his wife Mynique Smith were also at the PJ party also but it seems there is no more drama to be had outta those two.

But who knows? there’s always next week.

What did you think of this week’s episode?

Did you ‘learn’ any life lessons?