Monyetta Shaw revealed quite a bit of tea about he ex recently and admits she compromised her values while in her long term relationship with singer Ne-Yo.

According to Shaw,?she’s done several things to keep her man happy that weren’t necessarily in her best interests because she thought he’d with he forever.

I love hard and I went hard for my man, no question and I feel like I did those things at the time because I felt it was necessary and I was in love.

If you would?ve told me that we weren?t gonna be together I would?ve told you that you were a damn lie! I knew that he had my heart and I had his heart no matter what.

In addition to bearing two of Ne-Yo’s children, and agreeing to undergo a permanent birth control procedure at his request, Monyetta admits she also allowed the singer to experiment in the bedroom by inviting additional participants.

Details below…

In a recent interview with Bossip, Monyetta speaks about her new book, ‘Bigger Than Me‘. ?In her book, Shaw admits to giving her ex ‘hall passes’ to cheat as long as he used protection.

When asked if she would advise others in relationships to do the same, Monyetta states:

Absolutely not. Girl, run! Don?t do it! [?] He has such an amazing heart, he?s such a good person he really is. He was my best friend, it was straight up ride or die.

I just saw my family breaking up?I don?t know that world, my parents have been together 44 years. So I?m like, what do I need to do? What is it? I know this is your problem so here, this is what you gotta do thinking he?ll get over it. [?] Even though I?m dying inside.

As for experimenting with threesomes, Monyetta admits she regrets allowing another ‘person’ in their bedroom.

You?re in a relationship, you know your partner, I wasn?t a prude. I went hard for my relationship, it kinda happened and that?s what it was. The reason why I thought it was important to put it in there [the book] just when my daughter gets old enough to read it, or my son, it?s necessary [in the book] because whatever you do?you ain?t gon? keep him.

Maddie, don?t do it girl. If it?s not what you want. ?At the time it was what I wanted, I?m not proud of it and I wouldn?t recommend it if it?s not part of your lifestyle. [?] I?ve never tasted the seafood, let?s be clear. [?] I have no desire to taste the seafood.

[Sidebar: The REAL tea here is Monyetta’s statement that she’s “never tasted the seafood”. ?That leads me to ASSUME that the third party in their threesomes were men?? Hmmmm…. ?? Interesting.]

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