Rozonda “Chilli” Thomas searched high & low for love during two seasons of her VH1 reality dating show ‘What Chilli Wants’ but oddly enough, she’s still without a man.

Chilli hit up SoftSheen-Carson’s “Picture Of Strength” benefit event last weekend in California to raise money for ‘A Place Called Home’, a youth safe-haven in South Central.

The TLC diva attended solo and admits that she is still seeking a long-term relationship… she?d like another child…. and now she is likely to go at it again without a “relationship” coach or cameras.

?I?m not a desperate person or insecure to the point I have to have a man to validate who I am. I don?t know. I?m in the same place,? she said.

?I?m glad I had this season,? Chilli said, of the recently concluded eight-episode second season shot last fall. ?I met a lot of nice people. I?m sure most women would have more patience than me.?

So ‘what Chilli wants’ is still a bonafide mystery…. and while she may not have ended the show with a soulmate, she did get a paycheck and more public exposure than she?s gotten in years.

More photos of Chilli at SoftSheen-Carson’s “Picture Of Strength” event below:

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More photos from this event HERE.

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