Attorney Phaedra Parks of The Real Housewives of Atlanta was spotted lunching in L.A. recently looking very “southern bell-ish” in a cutesy pink top!

Phaedra’s adorable outfit exemplifies Southern style and grace, and she will soon be sharing her take on southern etiquette by releasing a woman’s guide on how to be a lady.

With the sudden influx of VIDEOS LIKE THIS making their way online, Parks hopes to share a few personal tips with misguided women through a self-help guide that will hit shelves this Summer.

More photos of Phaedra lunching in LaLa land PLUS details about her new southern etiquette guide below:

Phaedra reveals to RadarOnline:

“It’s about being a southern belle and all the accouterments that go with it,? She says.

“It’s a modern day twist on etiquette and being a lady. And it’s alright for women to embrace their ladylike side.

It’s high time that women start enjoying being ladies again. People have moved away from that.?

Phaedra, who?s never been shy about her love of shoes, big hats and eye shadow believes it’s high time to bring back traditional southern values and customs like high tea, pretty frilly things, hats, gloves and ?things that make you unique? ? which she?ll highlight in her new book.

?I want to give my tips. So many people over the years have asked me about how to have it all without losing yourself.?

An adorable husband, a cute bambino, a successful legal career, a producer (BET’s “Tiny & Toya Show”), a reality show star and NOW an author? Wooooow! Phaedra is proving that nothing is impossible!

Oh… and in case you’re wondering why Phaedra is in Hollywood, it’s probably because she’s pitching three new reality shows that will focus on empowering women instead of the current status quo.

Phaedra explains:

?I’m more into the uplifting programs?

The first show is a docudrama and will take a group of women and empower them. The second show is more of a documentary that deals with serious issues of dating.?? And the third show is more fun and lighthearted focusing on alternative lifestyles.?

Phaedra has always been so inspiring! She makes me seriously want to step up my game.

I can’t wait to see what all she has in store for us!! Stay tuned…