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Usher Raymond and his ex-wife Tameka’s bitter custody battle continues.
For the record, there has been no decision from the judge regarding Tameka’s motion for a new trial and the couple currently maintains the original “joint” custody agreement that was in place prior to Usher seeking sole custody.
A loyal reader recently sent the following email inquiring about Usher’s motivation for it all:
from: melswife247
to: “StraightFromTheA”
date: Sun, Sep 30, 2012 at 10:18 AM
subject: Usher and exTMZ is reporting usher is selling the home his ex wife is currently staying in, Also she has no income of her own (how is this) and can’t afford to move.
They are saying that their divorce decree says that can do this all he has to do is give her 60 days notice….Why is usher going so hard??? I need to know the motives!
Ok “melswife” the first question you should have asked was… ‘is this true?” but I’ll address that in a minute. You wanna know why Ursh is going so hard in the paint on Tameka? I’ll break down the facts for you below:
First thing’s first, my sources have confirmed that the story isn’t true (at least not yet).
It’s true that Tameka still resides in the home that was purchased by the superstar singer, and word on the curb is that it was put up for sale months ago.
Contrary to all of the hearsay, the home isn’t listed (yet) and I find the timing of this most recent rumor a bit odd, considering it’s been floating around for almost two years now.
[2010 FLASHBACK: I Heard: Tameka Raymond May Be Homeless Soon... ]
For the record, Usher has threatened to kick Tameka out of the home MANY times. It’s a form of control.
A well-informed source close to the situation revealed:
Just like he’s using the kids to hurt her, that house has often been that ONE THING Usher had to hold over Meeka’s head. When she doesn’t ‘fall in line’ with Usher’s demands, he (or his high powered PR) go into attack mode.
Now that she’s shown that she’s NOT giving up her fight for the boys, it’s on an poppin yet again.
The home isn’t currently on the market, but my source says that if he does decide to sell it, it’s true that he has to give her 60 days notice AND cut her a check for half of the value of the property.
Ok… not that THAT’s out of the way. I know y’all thought I was kidding when I said that Usher’s been dipping in and out of his ex-wife’s pool even after the divorce, but I wasn’t.
Another bone of contention is Tameka cut him off. The source continues…
I would have cut him off too. Meeka’s a good one! If it was ME… I would have cut his d*ck off.
He expected her to still give it up whenever he was in town. Like she was supposed to go from being his WIFE to his jumpoff? When it became clear that Meeka finally pulled the plug on that cat, he got pissed.
Usher didn’t want her to have the boys around any other men, and even put a clause in their divorce agreement that there were to be “no overnight guests.” The agreement was for them BOTH but he had them around Maya (the bridesmaid he was sleeping with), Grace (his manager/girlfriend) and God knows who else.
So to answer your question about why Usher is going so hard on Tameka… it’s because he’s still gets HARD for Tameka.
YAWN!!! I am so tried of hearing about these two people. Anyways, I tend to believe what TMZ has reported because their information is a lot more credible than yours- SORRY! TMZ doesn’t have an agenda to make Usher or Tameka look bad,so why would anyone believe anything that you report as facts, JUST SAYING! Everything you have reported has been shot down by real credible news,so I will stick the real sources, HOLLA!This website reminds of the (sandrarose) website, she supposdely have her sources too- LMAO! Anyways, I don’t feel sorry for anyone of them, both a grown and neither one of them need to be baby. Also neither one of them a innocent in this situation!
EXACTLY!! I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO tired of this story on StraightfromtheA!! GOD GRIEF!! Yes!! We’ve got it! You are not an Usher fan!! You guys are straight "Team Tameka"!
OKAY!! We got it! GEESH!! Now can y’all talk about something else for a change!
Next thing you know, you’ll be reporting about how Usher is wrong for not wearing the drawers that Tameka once bought him!
#getyalife #timetomoveon
Ditto!!!!!! So over it now. Keep your business out of the media, blogs, and twitter ,and keep your focus on those little boys. We don’t care anymore!! Sheesh! This drama has been going on for too long now!!!!!!
Yall lying. TMZ gets paid off to post that shit so believe what you want to. If this Blogger ain’t credible why you here? Go have 2000000 seats at a canceled Usher tour . Pick a seat any seat they ALL empty!
TMZ is a male oriented website and in their videos the news crew, dominated by men, always beak on the men’s side, in addition Harvey Levin is gay, and there is nothing wrong with that, but he has zero empathy or sympathy for what heterosexual are going through be they men or women, he thinks he does, but he really doesn’t have a clue.
Why is it so hard for you to believe Usher would do this to Tameka? Not even the death of her son has stopped him from attacking her, and hiring a law firm that has the judge in it’s back pocket, so kicking Tameka out of the house is nothing.
TMZ is a queen run site. So yes they are probably the headquarters of *Team Usher* their headlines are disgusting and they want to tear her down. She ought sue ALL of them. Usher is a bastard for letting all this negativity come her way at all. I respect Lil Wayne, Rocko, Eddie Murphy, even Diddy for the respect they give to their kids mothers and ex wives. Usher is showing that he was a little girl to begin with. He married a grown woman and now is treating her like nothing. I can see why the gay rumors swirl around him. He’s acting very female these days. Who fights for custody and takes kids for no reason proven???? A feminine man thats who. TMZ gets paid by PR to roast the other party. Old news they are never fair in their reporting look at Lindsey Lohan.
THANK YOU THANK YOU I am sooooo tired nof this. ATLIEN should have told MELSWIFE 247 that it was in the divorce decree that he could sell. The BITCH should have thought about this before giving that WACK ASS interview. And she has income she has her business for kids and she is a stylist so she says that’s why she needed the SAKS card back. She has had 3 years to find her a home if it was me I would have moved the first chance I got why would I want to stay some where with so called bad memories. And by the way if USHER wanted her he could have her. GET REAL SHE IS OBSESSED WITH HIM AND I AM STARTING TO THINK ATLIEN IS ALSO
be quiet!!!!!
On yeah, also can you name your sources- I though so! This website is like FOX NEWS, you get your sources from thin air, hell maybe I can give you some tea!
This blogger is too caught up in this mess.
"Usher’s been dipping in and out of his ex-wife’s pool even after the divorce, but I wasn’t"- Sorry that just is more evidence that she is not “all there”. No sane woman opens her heart and legs to a man that has divorced you, brought another woman to your home, slept with not one but two of your brides maids and let his momma dog you out. Even Scrappy check his mom and said “Don’t call Erica a B, that (insert child’s name) mother”. He tried to sell the house after the divorce, but I guess she put it on him and he didn’t put the house up. Give him some goodies and keep your house Meeka. Like I said in the other post, she would have been got evicted if I was Usher.
I believe Ursher is going hard because she went hard. From my understanding, he owns the house and has been paying the mortgage on it, for her sense 2009 (what a bad guy). Yet, she has her cronies like the editor of this site constantly talking trash about him and she’s doing interviews on TV trashing him, in his house. Really…lady? That’s not smart.
If her cooch was that good he wouldn’t be leaving her; I call B.S. on this story. Because if he told her he wanted her back I’m sure she would run to his arms like the wind. Instead of, running her mouth to everyone who will listen, she should be staking paper. TAMEAKA, it is time to get into the freak-em girl gear and do what you do. Also, stop aligning yourself with women who want to trash his name, playing the victim, because they are bringing you down faster than you can fall on your own; while he continues to rise. When you are a SUPERSTAR not the ex-wife of one any publicity is good publicity. This site single handedly keeps him relevant. As a matter of fact, all the negativity about him spewed on this site made me buy his album to see what is really going on. GOOD JOB!
Very on point…..they are at war…..they really need to stop. Although he did probably still want to sleep with her that’s pretty common among divorced people.
Gullll ain’t nobody wanting Usher worn-out d**k ass, he has slept with more women then Serta. Insteada worrying about WHO has slept with his around-the-way ass, she need to find the few good women that have NOT. He looks like a short, ninja turtle to me but women will drop their panties over some money and a few dance moves. I digress, homeboy is ugly and only gets shine cause he’s a known singer. You’d pass his mug on the street if he didn’t carry a tune. Usher is over rated and not CUTE one iota.
He started the "going hard" stuff by dry snitching to Oprah with his tired, les miserables ass Mother, she is sickening to watch and so son obsessed. Its not cute Ms Jannetta to live across the street from your grown son and to leave your HUSBAND to mettle in his life. Who does that??? Oh yea Jannetta. Who else does she manage now that he has kicked her to the curbside (AKA "retired her")? I’ll bet NObody, cause she’s still sniffing up Usher’s butt, co-signing him taking his kids. SMH What a pair of losers!!! They trashed her, I notice that she has said nothing ‘turrible" about him yet. Im sure its coming in 5…4…3….2…….
LOL! I am cracking up with the way you put things "Lei Spikes" You are correct, I do not find Usher attractive either.And we would pass him up on the street if he could not sing. As for Ms.Johnetta Patton(his mom) how will she explain to her grandkids the reason she did not attend Usher’s wedding? She needs to get a life! She was dead wrong for trashing the mother of her grandchildren. She claimed on the Oprahinterview that she had high standards for whoever Usher dated. Are you kidding me??? Where were her high standards for him when he cheated on Tameka, and admitted it? KARMA izzz coming. Just like you,I too am shaking my head.
Gullll ain’t nobody wanting Usher worn-out d**k ass, he has slept with more women then Serta. Insteada worrying about WHO has slept with his around-the-way ass, she need to find the few good women that have NOT
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In my Smokey voice (from Friday)
DAAYYUUMMMMMM!!!!!_
Puff Puff Pass STlCHick because Lei Spikes serves the good stuff! lol
And you said that shyt….LMAOOOO!
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Ce, please. For men, the only thing better that good pussy is new pussy. Everyday, all day long.
Tmz is not a creditable source either. A lot of her stories from Atlanta usually has some truth to it. I cant wait until this is over, I feel sorry for the little ones. Until then ill keep on reading
TMZ stays getting busted behind lying..They used to be credible but not anymore it’s very easy to pay them off
So to sum up this ENTIRE post…..Usher is a bitch. #ThatIsAll
Let it begin..Tameka loved a man more than herself and she’s paying dearly for it..everyone plays the fool but to do it in the public eye I could never imagine..I’ve gone hard on tameka in the past and I still say she needs to learn self control and pick her battles..but with that said..I don’t know if I COULD be that strong to contantly fight on a daily basis..when do you decide enough is enough and regain some sense of sanity? She’s said herself that Usher is used to having things hjhis way, and she needs to take ownership of enabling him to continue to be the asshole he was and still is to her. Once she signed on the dotted line she was done, he made his choice and as painful as it was she needed to do the same..hindsight is a bitch
well said, 2bme. Especially that 1st part.
usher ain’t going hard on tameka. if she’s the independent businesswoman she claims to be, she can buy her own home with her own money. unless stated in the divorce decree, he is not required to pay for a 12,000 square foot house for her to live in. that was the marital home and the marriage is over.
this chick is in no way, shape or form a victim. and judging from her recent interview, she still doesn’t get it. trying to subtly bash usher about shit that happened during a marriage that is now over only makes people see her for the bitter, scorned woman she is.
if i was usher i’d sell the house too. let her have all these "waiting to exhale" moments on her own dime!
I don’t care about the house and I’m sure neither does Tameka if she can get her children back. That should be her main ambition, to have a successful appeal to a Georgia Appellate court and overturn this horrible verdict or it will sent a horrible precedent that the non custodial parent can, for no reason, no abuse or neglect, walk into a court and say I want primary custody and not proving anything wrong with the primary parent, get it.
Well it wasn’t proven that anything was "wrong" with either of them….he is obviously just as fit as she is or the court wouldn’t have ruled in his favor….so when people say "he hasn’t proven her 2 be an unfit parent"….it can also be said that she hasn’t proven him 2 be an unfit parent either…I think women feel that because historically the mother has always gotten primary custody that family courts should always give the mother custody…they need 2 understand that times are changing & new precedents are being set….women want EQUAL treatment in all other areas of society…well men want equal treatment 2, especially when it comes 2 parenting & rearing their children….
This is not Tameka’s decade, whew! I think she needs to go and get herself a fabulous 3 bedroom apartment that she can afford,and completely eliminate all communication with Usher and the rest of the world. She can work on herself and emerge in another decade healed. He’s her nightmare. Get out of the nightmare. She has more than most women as far as ends, she has to let all that "fabulosity" go. It’s over. He will use her need to be a part of it as long as she lives.
Yeah, I tend to agree. She does need to go somewhere and get healed. She has lost 3 sons, one to death and the other two to a man without "integrity’.
Uhm since why does usher have to support this grown woman’s lifestyle lol?? Seriously if see didn’t save her child support or spousal support money that’s her problem. She needs to support her own lifestyle and s
I think TMZ is adlibing on that part, TMZ has never supported her, even they way they headline thier articles like ‘GET OVER IT USHER WON’ and many other things. when it came to this court case you can tell usher had a different agenda than just the kids, even Fox atlanta reporter who was in the court room has even said that it so easy to forget that its about the children. Usher is going hard and its really clear it not with good intentions. if usher is controling the way tameka then I think its best for her to move out and have her space where usher can not get to her. its her rules and on her timing not on ushers. if you wacth the clip of her lawyer speaking ushre taps into her computer and calls her at the airport wondering when she is going to be back from where ever she is going and she never gave him info or understand how he is able to do that. So i think its a good idea that she moves out. The way usher is going about is really harsh but it could be turned around for good with her choice to get her place and get her life back. including with what usher makes which is 120 mill $8000 in child support is not that much compared. its like a penny in the bucket for that dude. there are guys who makes less and have to pay way more than he is paying.
I agree!! He is worth 120 million???? He is tripping over a house note? $8k is all she gets in support? Where is that written, that’s insane. Usher is DEFINITELY doing this to spite her, but why? I think this blogger is on to something. He’s just picking at her to get a reaction. He isn’t doing much else maybe this is for the publicilty. He fell off with this new album. "Lemme See" ummm no lets not.
It read it in the court docs she got 8k but asked for an increase of
To bring it up 11k as the kids were staying mostly with her
Uhm since why does usher have to support this grown woman’s lifestyle lol?? Seriously if see didn’t save her child support or spousal support money that’s her problem. She needs to support her own lifestyle and spending habits they are divorced its over with!! Which further
If the divorce degree says he can sell the house after 60 days notice but must give her half of what the house sells for, he’s not doing this for the money, rather Usher is trying to emotionally, if not literally bury Tameka.
This woman needs support and this bought judge had any conscious at all she’d help put a stop to this, but that’s probably not going to happen and Tameka will have to go to a higher court for her appeal for the return of her children.
God is watching Usher, and no one gets away with bad behavior forever.
Ummm Since why YOU on a blog and not in English class?
Excuse the incomplete thoughts but back to what I was saying this further proves that see is beyond obsessed she needs to get a grip and move on!! Usher is a dog blah blah blah True we get that but he has to pull the plug at some point she can’t keep using him to stay relevant if they were still having sex why has she not blasted him on that ??? She’s spoken on everything else why not this?? Usher may be a lot of things but she needs 2 take responsibility for her actions and move on with her life for real smh
Az it should be…
what the hell that man look like letting her azz stay in his house when they are DIVORCED and he has full custody of his sons….what the fukk is her purpose…she need a mansion for weekend visits?? #Stop All that shyt she talked in court about this man being on drugs n shyt..fukk that lady…her first husband ain leave her no fukking mansion why the fukk should Usher?
#Please
Number one you are over there hot and sweaty about Chilli?? WHO???????? Usher hasn’t been with no damn Chilli since he was a little boy. He has many women between them and Chilli is not a factor being that he put a ring on another woman. Usher has two KIDS too you know?? Why are you in the 80′s still.
Tameka was his wife and Usher spoke to Oprah first, bashing her and saying that he regret marrying her. She didn’t really say nothing bad about Usher on her tv interview. I heard her say her screwed her bridesmaids, but he ADMITTED that himself on Oprah!!! So why are you mad again?
You so busy being a "stan" you don’t even realize that you’re stanning for the wrong person, another dog ass man thats mistreating another woman. Dumb broad. You’d probably side with your own rapist. Dummy. She said that she has businesses, I saw them on Entertanment Tonight, Im sure going to court doesn’t help them and her son passing isnt motivating business either. You are stanning for a dog nigga and women wonder why men DOG us out and treat us so bad. Women support it. FYI: Chilli looks like a baby boy, #GetMad #StayMadBih
Leilani, thank you, well said.
And you break that down rather nicely-liked that!:)
Chilli a non-factor i freaking think she is. this man was just crying in vibe magazine(2010) about how he wanted to marry her. the broke up 6years ago why talk about again. then damn truth tour singing her name in lyrics, even now he talks about it when he sings Burn about his one true love. so trust he still thinks about her. Even behind the music u can see it in his eyes he talked more lovely about her than his own damn ex- wife. She was his first love whether u want to like it or not. yea he may have fucked alot of chicks in this world but nothing compares to your one true love and dats not a fantasy its a reality. i already let it burn with her taking his ass back . but people in the comment sections bring Chilli up & other want to discredit the relationship becuz he was young & he married tameka.. man alot of people marry the wrong ones thats why divorce rates are soo damn high. stop marrying people becuz of sex, knocking up, thinking u change someone, etc. if its not right in the relationship it won’t be in a marriage. you can’t commit adultery & expect the next marriage to be blessed by the heavenly father. Grace needs to recognize this too. #GETYOLIFE
Now on to the subject. Just like you can’t turn a whore into a house wife. You can’t turn a manwhore into a Husband. His confessions wasn’t nothing new. Thinkaboutthat.com
Tameka might of had that GOOD GOOD but Chilli must of had the Great!! Great!! for a nucca to still be talking about her in magazines,tours, referencing his ex songs & he hasn’t took a "DIVE" in that since 2004. #Thinkaboutit.COM #GETYOLIFE
Gurlllll, you in here stanning for ole silly bag maker Chilli aint cha?? This gul done made a buffoon of her damn self tryna to get little man Ursh’s attention it didn’t WORK. He is with Grace, trust me Chillli would have run back to him. Grace has him wrapped around her pinky and Chilli/VH1 had a reason to play up the decade old romance (her show launch), I really don’t believe he wants "what Chilli wants", sawwwy. ;-( She doesn’t have want he wanted clearly. If it was that Great Great he knows right where to find her and without effort she’d come running. He was 21 and it was cute, because they both were Laface artists, both run through by L.A. but reality is, he didn’t wife her and hasnt gone back for her. Sawwwy again, #GETYOLIFE and #ALIFE
Ain nobody stan-ning…I just don’t like the Bih!!…lol
#RunTellDat!
NeverDidNeverWill….like future say on "Pluto"
"YOu DeSEeeeRVe IT…YoU DEseRRVe IT"
BOL…#GoOnTameakasPuzzyOrSum
#FindSumbodyWhoGivesADamnBoutYoHoeAzzIcon
then she got the nerve to try and make the world sympathize with her fake azz…#GirlBye
#ImStillMadBoutHimMarryingYouOverChilliBih!
People (TEAMUSHER) really need to get over this chilli thing they did not work out for a reason, and they both made it clear after her radio rampage back in the day that it wasnt about the cheating it just didnt work (just because they looked cute together doesnt mean they are meant to be) I have see so Many cute couples in that same situation for being cute but maybe not meant to be together. IT WAS 10 YEARS AGO!!!i dont understand why fans do this you get fixated on fairytale that has nothing to do with reality. they may never get back together. so just as you want tameka to get over her situation, GET OVER CHILLI.
So I guess Usher is supposed 2 let her continue 2 live in his house rent free?? GTFOH with that….IF she is 2 get half of the amount of the house then she shouldn’t have a problem finding her a new home & paying her own daxx rent….I seriously doubt Usher still wants her in any sort of romantic way & donot belive he’s mad cause she cut off the cougar kitty cat….they are divorced & it’s time 4 her 2 move out of HIS house…..she gets a LOT more child support than the average woman & she needs 2 learn 2 budget if she’s claiming she has no money…..and why is she still supposedly sleeping with a man who did her "wrong"?…I ain’t buying it….take the money & get out of the house….Usher is not gonna be able 2 foot her bills indefinitely…..she should get her a MAN & stop chasing after big boys anyway…..
Atl you always hard on usher like she played no part in this mess…a property settlement is part of a divorce where there is property therefore he does not have to give her the house…and if she was letting him dip in that pond after the divorce she’s an ass. Give as a break with the wedding pics…..that is sooo over!
So what, she has to move. This happens in a divorce…supposedly she has more than one business…and…she is still a stylist… Right…
She needs to get over it…he has…and move on with her children…she is really making me believe she is crazy…
Better hope she can recoup her old clients….gain new ones and make some money…also…grow up…she is not a teenager going through a break-up..
No sympathy and alot of people including me hope that it is true. I think that she needs a fresh start in her own space with fresh memories. If it is his house I think he should sale it to recoop all of those attorney fees that he acquired. I refused to watch her whack interview on E.T. you won’t get any ratings with my support. I think she would get more help if she builds her brand and leaves him in her past. I would also go back to my maiden name; too many bad memories.
Entertaining story! I don’t doubt they were having sex after the divorce. She is an absolute fool for that. Any man will do what you let him. If she is staying in a house he pays for of course he’s going to try to control her. She’s trying to maintain her lifestyle she had while married to him. If she wants him out of her life and just be a father to their kids, she knows what she needs to do. Obviously she doesn’t mind because she staying right there living off of him. Going to court concerned about a Saks card in his name & more child support. Everything comes with a price and she is more than willing to pay for it. When most people are done with something they leave it totally & start over. They don’t stay & feel entitled. Two years of marriage doesn’t entitle you to much. Now their two children are entitled, her, not at all.
100% on point
They were only married for 2 years and he has been paying for that house for 3 years longer than she should have. To me that makes Usher a nice guy.
Shhhhh. You hear that? Exactly I don’t hear nobody complaining and Tamekas lifestyle and what she take off of him but yall. Jealous much.
Hold on subject change: I am mad that Tameka was scratching her weave in the middle of the interview.I only saw the preview but that part had me rotflmbo. She seems a little off and as if she is caught in a bad dream!!
She’s not doing interviews every other day. Maybe a lot was running through her head. Sometimes people really just don’t have the best people around them. To give them honest and real advice. I wish her well. I hope that she knows God and don’t do anything cray…like cause harm to herself. That’s all. The lady is going through a lot. Stuff I can’t imagine. So leave her alone.
*Side* Usher’s PR people.. : )
*sideeye* my keys are on some type of delay lol
I concur
All I can say is WOW!!!
Why do MOST of you ALWAYS go in on Tameka? I am a lurker and I have never posted but I have to get this out of my system. I can remember reading that Michelle, from this site, used to "Go in" on Tameka until she "learned for herself" the true facts!!! Regardless of her personality, fabulousity, grand demeanor, rotten ways, etc… Tameka is a woman and a mother and regardless if she has terrible attributes we as women and mothers need to acknowledge the fact that she is both. We also need to put ourself in her shoes and ask OURSELVES if we were in her situation with USHER, as it relates to the kids, what would we do? would we just give up or would we fight until we have no breath left in our body? Now it’s another thing when it comes to the womanizing that USHER has taken her through but again, lets look at "ourselves" I am SURE that at "some" point in out lives that we all have taken some BS from a man or even somebody that we wanted to be our man, hell some of you are CURRENTLY taking BS off of somebody; After being hurt enough, I learned to stop taking the BS and realize that I AM THE PRIZE. But unfortunately everybody may not be at that point and when Tameka was still sleeping with USHER obviously she was still in love. Everything AIN’T always about money, maybe at the time of the divorce and even after, she could have been still "IN LOVE and maybe hoped for a reconcilation? who knows? all I am saying is Give her a breake!! Now ask yourself, What BS are you "taking" that you should not be taking? and from who? and for how long? Sometimes Love is more than a notion and it ain’t always about money!!!!!
I agree with what you wrote especially about her still being in love..we don’t know what he was telling her to get her hopes up..but there does come a time when you have to love yourself enough to know when the end is there..The key to that was the divorce..If he truly wanted to be with her he wouldn’t have cared what others thought.He divorced and she agreed and still allowed him to sleep with her..at that point all bets were off..Usher played her and through the blindness of love she allowed it..now with that hard dose of reality comes more pain then could have ever been imagined
She old enough to know bedroom promises dont mean anything. She has been in the business longer than Usher, so she should know to get things in writting. Maybe Usher told her no matter what the house is your, could be; but promises are a comfort to a fool.
Yall so Damn one-sided. It take two to have sex. Maybe she wanted it just as bad so they played each other. Too many pretend spy cams in their bedroom.
It’s About The Dough, She Had A Husband And Kids Prior To Usher, Lifestyle Wasn’t The Same… All This Talk About Love Is Straight Whack! She Love That Life, She Only See The Kids As A Pawn For More Dough, Look How Fast Her Old Ass Pushed Them Out. #ByeTrick
All This Talk About Love Is Straight Whack! She Love That Life
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IF YOU WERE IN HER POSTION YOU WOULD HAVE ENJOYED THAT LIFE TOO! GIRL BE REAL! She did not push her kids out she lost them to usher in an unfair way. you cant say she didnt love usher your not her heart you have no idea what was in there. she could have really loved him. and he really love her back. not every black woman that gets with a rich well known man is a golddigger, thats a very closed mind prespective to have about it. If this is the case if you ever get with a rich well known man i will automatically assume its because he has money in his pocket and you wanna be famous!
I agree with you "HOLLA" I am sick and tired of people calling Tameka a goldigger and they are not calling Usher anything. People forget that Tameka was a stylist who had won awards for her styling of celebrities before she married Usher. We do not know what is or was in her heart. Usher did say in his interview with oprah that he did love Tameka. He may still love her as his first wife.
She pushed her other sons out along with her first husband…Whats love got to do with it…GOLDDIGGER
Funny Thing Is, I Am Married To A Wealthy Man. I’m Ex-Military and Own My Own Biz, Like She’s Suppose To. Again! Using The "Love" Statement is Whack!!! And Furthermore, I Didn’t Call Her A Golddigger You Did. And When I Said Push Kids Out, It Meant Gave Birth To His Two Kids Rapidly, Ensuring Their (Her) Position in Life. Two Years of Marriage, And She Has An Entitlement Factor. You Be Real, Every Woman Is Not Trying To Live Off Of A Man, Get Your, Keep Your Own And Then You Won’t Have To Worry About Trying To Keep A Damn Credit Card To Shop! Should Have Been Saving $2 Instead of Spending It All Trying To Gucci. Think About Your Kids Future ALL OF THEM.
You mad your wealthy man won’t let you push none out huh. You should trap him like yall claim she did and maybe you wouldn’t care. U actually sound like the gold digger.
Thank you, Tmar!!! Couldn’t have put it better. If she moved out tomorrow and didn’t ask for another single dime, his fanatical crew would still hate her. If she went back to Tameka Foster tomorrow, his fanatical crew would still hate her. She will never win for losing.
There will never be another chilli. Tameka will always be usher’s 1st wife, he will never marry any fan (unless, of course, she gets hired as his back up dancer/video vixen and makes her way up tohis manager). Live and let live.
Tameka should have been moved. Fuck giving any ninja power over me. And she can’t have any overnight guest! WWHAT THE FUCK! This bitch need to stop acting like a victim, but her big girl draws and dig in on this fool.
She is stupid. He is stupid. And the only ones that are getting hurt in this entire situation are all the kids.
I’m tired of Usher….for real for real.
He needs to have serval seats…him, his moma, and the whole crew have a seat.
Can we move on to this T Boz reality show
meant *several* have several damn seats…lol
This story is so one-sided that its super stupid. If Meka is so tired of her EX-husband than WHY won’t she cut herself free and MOVE? If Usher is such a horrible person as this page NOW make him out as (in the beginning Meka was an old gold digging opportunist) than why did Usher not sell the house a year after the divorce? She’s not weak or naive. They’ve been divorced how many years? At some point a dog gets tired of being kicked and bite back. What is Meka’s breaking point and why won’t she MOVE ON, he sure has.
I guess you don’t realise the entire media industry is one sided no?
At 50 I don’t realize nor do I follow the media hype. I come to this page to read about the Atlanta housewives. Lately there’s been a daily thread about how horrible Usher is and how wonderful Tameka is when at first he was good as running water and she was the devil. Maybe if Tameka would move on, get her own place, stop talking about him while living in his house and show Usher she mean business (cut him completely off) then and maybe then they both could concentrate on being the best parents to their children.
From what I read up top she already has, which caused the problem? And I don’t think anyone thinks Tameka is wonderful, just because some of us think he’s being a dick overall. Just sayin’.
Tameka is almost my age. At some point common sense set in and you move on, cut off wife duties and get your OWN PLACE. They have joint custody, now raise the kids and show them more love than the hate they feel for each other.
At some point a dog gets tired of being kicked and bite back. What is Meka’s breaking point and why won’t she MOVE ON
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Hence her interview.
I didn’t watch his or her interview. Why won’t she move?
Why hasn’t she moved? Because that’s where she lived with her sons and it was never an issue until now…not with Usher, but with his devoted "fans." But if this story is true then she will be moving, apparently.
EVERY post said the same thing. Now all yall need to go do the same thing and vote for Obama.
YES!!! Thank you. I’m going to put as much energy into exercising my right to vote as I do exercising my opinion here. Well everyone else do the same?
CHALLENGE!!!!!!
*Whispers…most of them arent old enough to vote but have relationships and love down to a science…blankstare
And YES I will be voting!!
…..LOL….I LOVE trash TV & gossip in general & I will be voting!!….who says we can’t walk & chew gum????
Rite!If you’re not registered to vote, please don’t respond to any post on here-you got more important things to do, chile.
You guys tameka needs to except responsibility 4 her own actions!! No usher prs here it’s called logical thinking!! Tameka can not continue 2 ride he hurt me train some woman have been done worse!! Usher is a dog azz dude true fact! But she played a role on how she’s being portrayed tameka had a bad rep & attitude b4 she and usher met!! Yes we’re all women but facts are facts karma is a b$$$$ and they are both catching prospectively she’s not a victim neither is she!!
I love how everybody goes in on Tameka about she said this and did this, not to be funny I haven’t heard this woman complain and I personally think after what she is going through she has every right. She told her side of the story, like Usher did? I am soo amazed how you lot can all dog her out after she has been through, do any of you know her personally? No so how about if you do not have anything nice to say, say nothing at all.
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Agreed, and if you go on twitter and on
Her fav page, the things ushers fans
Say to her is appaling and completely
Horrible my mouth dropped when I read
A lot of them. Telling her to die , and if I see you
I’ll put my fist in your face, this one person
Said that The dying of her son is her fault
And that it’s karma and that what you get
And these girls doing it are teenage girls and
Early 20′s women!!!! It’s terrible what people
Say about this woman. They should feel
Shame
I’m having a real hard time believing that two people who seem to dispice one another are still sleeping together. If so, she’s a crazy fool and him he’s just dumb as h3ll. Didn’t read the story cause I’m tired of the subject, but I felt it was my duty to ask Michelle if her bf gave Sheree’ a house and why doesn’t he support her? I guess the same reason Usher don’t support your new bff…b/c they are not married. That’s all.
@MyBiz:Go in and let have…Preach!!!
Oh and Sheree has custody of her 2 minor children…
LOL..I agree with you
GAWD give this a rest … LEAVE USHER ALONE yall went hard on him but what about the first husband who had custody of HIS KID AS WELL …… EVIDENTLY something is wrong with the chick she STILL on ET SOUNDING like she in love with him co-signing about the bridesmaid was caught in his CHARM GIRL by she better get with Marlo and learn how to GET HERS …..
Maybe Usher will be left alone when Tameka is left alone?
BTW, your name is HILARIOUS! lol
This name-CLASSSSIIICCC!
Damn SFT get off this shit. I hope this stuff doesn’t go on another week. If so I’ll call, for a boycott, like I did with TT. All this stuff is just a bunch of no class, messy BS.
Ofcourse he still wanted to screw his ex wife and keep his playboy image. Usher is a cad and a disipicable person. I hope that dumb chick Grace don’t think he really want her. Usher and his mother are acting in a very pety childish manner. The children love their mother also.
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A child support check is to support the children not to live off of.
If you are living in a man’s house and your name is not on the deed…SHUT THE HELL UP!
When it rains it pours for some…damn! I feel sorry for her because I know emotionally this must be a taxing time but on the other hand…if she doesn’t have to live there and its his house, then uhm…you gotta go. He’s got the boys now so uhm…you find your place of residence and they’ll be dropped off there.
*sucks to be her right now…shyt*
The more I read and comment the more I realize that this needs t end..they will continue to fight long after we have stopped paying attention..everytime tea is spilled on Usher, it’s spilled on Tameka as well..this needs to die completely..they BOTH equally look foolish in their actions and it’s getting old
You ain’t never lied! This is just a tragic mess on both sides.
He comes out looking like a demon. She looks like a gold digger and the kids…the poor babies. I mean this just goes to show what I said lies true…don’t procreate with just anybody.
Wow that’s hard hitting reality
Hopefully they will both see it
How do you hold Usher and Tameka responsible for what the media put out there? The real problem is the world all up in their business. Everybody got an opinion and ain’t walked a day in their shoes
Why is everyone bashing Usher? Like you all know what went on behind closed those doors. There is always two sides to everything. Even though Tameka is a mother that does not mean anything. She could have very well used those kids against Usher too. (Have we not witnessed how the Nas and Kelis divorce went down?) I dont blame his ass, she would have had to leave my home too. How would you feel if your ex had another chick living in a home that you bought? They are no longer married so she is gonna have to provide for herself now, which she should have been doing every since they seperated. Has it ever occurred to any of you that maybe she just wanted to sit on her ass and collect his child support for the rest of her life? When her son died he tried to settle for joint custody but she did not want to settle for that and wanted to continue the custody battle and be granted sole custody(being greedy), now she has ended up with nothing. It is an unfortunate situation but I dont feel sorry for her. Sometimes you get what’s coming to you!
Lena, I read where in the beginning they had joint custody. But he filed for primary custody. I saw a part of an interview where she stated that she thought that everything was fine between the two of them and then he changed his mind to ask for primary custody. After the funeral, he asked her if she wanted to postpone the court case–not to refile for joint custody. She said no, she wanted to get it over with. I do agree with you, she really does not need to stay in that huge house. Move out, and move forward and I beleive that God will help her to rebuild her life.
No my dear there is 3, your missing the truth
How many times does it have to be said
She never went for full custody
She responded to usher and filed
For joint custody with primary care!!!!!
Read up on your info before you type
Goodness! You female fans!!!!! Usher has not
Handled anything behind closed doors
He has publicly humiliated this woman down
To a T. And has no shame!!! And with
All her business ventures you can tell
She is not sitting on her ass
She is a lifetime award winner
No if you get that sitting on your behind
Then many lazy people just won that too!
You fans are so up on usher that you can’t see
How jack this situation is. People are not bashing
Him for no reason he did wrong lied and won’t take any
Responsibility and blame tameka when they are both
At fault
Are u serious? He’s not the first nor will he be the last….is this the first nasty divorce you’ve heard off?
he has only given one interview so how does that equate to "publicly" humiliating her? she’s the one who has tweeted, posted on facebook and given fifty-’leven interviews talking about what should be a private matter between her and usher.
he doesn’t have to tell me publicly that he did a damn thing because he isn’t my husband. tameka is a vicious scorned, bitter woman and she was that way BEFORE usher ever came on the scene. that’s why her ex has primary custody of her older children; and that’s a fact not blog gossip.
women like tameka and siovaughn wade are the reason more men are fighting for custody of their children. just cuz you push a baby outta yo ass doesn’t give you carte blanche to a man’s checking account for all eternity. tameka is gold digger and she shoulda been stashing her coins during that sham ass marriage cuz stevie wonder and ray charles saw this coming to an end.
Last I heard Tameka is not on Facebook. Now please provide proof of these interviews and tweets you speak of. Besides the E interview you won’t find one. Also her ex don’t have primary custody so your facts are false.
Now ill wait for your proof.
There’s a difference between postpone and settle. HE wanted to postpone. She wanted to get it over with, which I completely understand.
I think part of this custody issue is that he’s been wanting to unload the house for a long time. I think he is an absolute DICK for his timing, but I’m not surprised, just disappointed. If I were Tameka, I’d take the proceeds from that home and buy me a nice little bachlorette pad. Like other people have said. Fuck Usher and all ties to him BUT their children.
Bell pepper nosed muthafucka. (I read that somewhere and it always tickle the sh*t outta me lol).
bwahaha i’m so DONE with you right now…
Usher still wants Tameka, do you all really think about this crap before you type it? Usher is not lacking on people willing to drop the granny panties (or their dusty nuts), is it possible that Tameka was comfortable giving the poon-toon as long as she thought she had Usher, then she found out..not ever gonna happen. Now think about this..because its the ammo almost every guy uses in the US. What guy do you know is willing to foot the bill for something he don’t use no more? The house is his, he has every right to sell it and it should of been sold and split when the divorce was final. I don’t even know why she would want to stay there and let him even think he has some control. Let’s think again..what man you know will foot the bill, then walk away and never, ever, ever inquire about their investment. How many of you all have inquired the guy who pays your light bill and he thinks he has to right come over watch tv and sit in the air when he get ready. Yall are just picking on him now. I will admit that Usher might be low-down and dirty but guess what, she slept with him, married, had two children, etc. So when you talk about him, your making her look just as bad.
He probably dont "want her" but I believe that he wants to hit it. All men start pulling the rug, when they cant get their way. Give us another explanation for his behavior?????? I’ll wait. When youre "over" someone you ignore them not harass, interview, sue, file stuff, call, berate, etc… Done is Done.
He is the one that started this case, not her. Supposedly HE filed this last year, what man wants to fight if he isn’t mad at something??? He said on OPRAH Next Chapter that he broke down on stage in Europe cuz his marriage didn’t work! He just said that 3 weeks ago. Love is a mutha, you probably didn’t believe he married her either huh? Dont be so sure about what you type. Did you think about that crap?? Ex wife vs. Groupies to drop their panties? You are naive mami. But you were right that is why he doesn’t want to foot the bills… anymore. Wise up.
How am I naive again? This aint exactly my life so everything I say is simply my opinion. When I left my ex, I left but then you just proved my point with:
When youre "over" someone you ignore them not harass, interview, sue, file stuff, call, berate, etc… Done is Done.
That is a true statement for most folks and done doesn’t mean you stay in the house they paid for and continue to pay for. And as far as the case, you guys are having a hard time with the fact that he has just as much right to HIS kids (you know that ones that were created with his little dancing Ushers) just as much as she do. The whole issue is when they divorced, they should of settled it, clear cut, down the line, split everything down the middle. If that would of been done, they probably wouldn’t of been having this argument now. Both of them have their motives.
you guys are having a hard time with the fact that he has just as much right to HIS kids
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That’s a generalization, which very few people have actually said.
So when you talk about him, your making her look just as bad.
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Right. And the same can be said about Usher’s fans going in on Tameka, cuz like you said, he slept with her, married her, had two children, etc.
Neither of them are saints. Both did their dirt. Both need the focus on the kids. We need to go at least 3 days without an Usher/Tameka post! lol. This is worse than Obama/Romnuts.
I am with you..only 3 days though?
LOL. How about a month? Maybe until after the election?
I guess Tameka better break out her "Saks discount card" and get to work! #30%off
Tameka could buy the house herself if and when it goes on the market! (LOL)
Chile well why she aint bought it yet?
Why even comment on these stories? The writer for SFTA is such a Tameeka supporter and an Usher basher.
(long sigh) michelle, please.. let this story go. you have milked it. there’s nothing else. now you’re resulted in just making shit up. geez find something else to report on. i’m sooo over this. you should be too.
let me make sure i read this right. Usher still wants Tameka and that’s why he goin hard on her? bwaaahahahaha! who comes up with this nonsense? somebody at the blog keyboard smokin crack.
omgggg atlien you are officially OBSESSED with these two! i dont even think tameka is as worried about this as you are. what really gives?
Atlien will stop posting when we stop commenting..regardless of how we feel..we are making her site popular..however, if you are going to continue to click on links complaining on the post about a subject that you are tired of..it’s a moot point..Michelle do you
113 comments to THIS post alone and counting!! Get it Michelle Boo!! I aint mad at you at all.
….sips!……sips!…..sips…
I see that TeamUsher and I-Hate-Michelle-On-Her-Own-Damn-Blog Club are holding meetings here yet again today. After reading these comments, I have come to the conclusion that some of y’all are just dumb as hell.If you can’t see how this whole thing is going down, you gotta be as blind as Ray Charles was. I’m stanning for the damn kids-forget Usher and Tameka at this point. I will say that I personally am going in on this lil boy because of the way he is handling things. No matter what Tameka did, no one deserves this, especially your former wife and children’s mother. Usher wants to make her life a living hell, but this dog needs to remember he will have his day. And Tameka just needs to not say a word and just let this dude keep tarnishing his own brand. It amazes me that most of his stans are women-how could u condone him treating ANY woman like this? When it comes to each other, women are the most divided and disloyal creatures, I swear.
You get the comment of the day award. You don’t actually GET anything tho…
but I totally cosign…
What you said lol.
Hmm,. The same ninja who had Navi tested because he wasn’t 100% sure he was his? The same ninja who was smashing chicks left and right before the ink was even dry on the divorce papers? This man?? Lmao. Y’all really don’t know the half. This is slanted severely. Usher’s cocky ass is never pressed over any woman’s vag, especially letting him tell it. If he were, he’d never let it go. He does like variety but if he has a good piece, he wouldn’t divorce it. It would make no sense for him to do all that. Now I won’t specify whether or not Tameka was tryna throw it at him, that’s another convo. But usher is not as pressed as you’d think. Think for a minute, why would a woman who was supposedly so distraught about her man sleeping with her bridesmaids (and other women and knew about it during the marriage), and this man divorced her, disrespected her on multiple occasions willingly sleep with a man after he clearly showed he didn’t want her anymore? Self esteem be damned. There is much more to this, but this is not it. Usher doesn’t care if Tameka had the kids around other men, he just expects her to use good judgment. Because unlike her, he is not obsessing over her every move and what she’s doing or who she’s doing. She really needs a change of scenery because it would do her some good. If you thought she was depressed before..
Not 2 be pessimistic but I gotta point ask/point out: 1) doesn’t ANY man have a right 2 a DNA test if he has even an IOTA of doubt??…men have a right 2 a DNA test, especially these days cause HOES be popping out babies left & right….2) wasn’t Tameka smashing Usher left & right B4 the ink was dry on HER divorce papers from Ryan Glover???….I always say nothing "ill- be-gotten" will last….now, I don’t wanna piss nobody off but I had 2 ask…..
I highly doubt that the Usher "DNA test" story is true. You are simply passing along info from one blog to the next one. Where is it that HE SAID that he doubted his sons paternity??? Another rumor being carried and believed by fools.
Usher is a fool if he doesn’t ‘care’ who his kids are around. I sure would. I pray that she is monitoring that sugary mans company, you should protect your kids at all costs. It’s not about being "in love" with Usher, I would hope that the love for her babies would be enough. You sound like a YOUNG fool. You do not have the first knowledge about raising, protecting and monitoring children. I only hope you don’t have any with your immature mindset. I also hope that she isn’t sleeping with Usher or anyone like him. He is a foul man and his heart is not worthy of any good woman. This new chick is probably trash, since she started dealing with Usher while he was married and they had a small baby. That equates to pure trash in my book. Good riddance to them both, if I was Tameka. Never worries life will come full circle and bite him soon.
Tameka said slow news day on twitter and denied it. I hope so because it’s just too much too soon for her. Compassion. I wish this stuff was private it looks like a tennis match. Jointly raise the chirrens and let all of the other stuff go!!!!
Agreed, Gwendella. But I agree with most people, I’d be preparing to move just in case. I think Tameka is smarter than people give her credit for; I can see her having some chips stashed away.
She needs to move not to get from under Usher (which is a good motive), but maybe it can help her leave when it comes to her memories of Kile? Shit, that may be a reason why she’d NEVER want to move. I pray for her because of her many burdens. I pray for Usher because his motives I believe are genuine (for his sons), but he never had anyone teach him how to be a responsible man. An artist? Brilliant. A sex symbol? Undeniable (to most lol). A man? Disappointing.
Tameka Raymond haters why do yall care so much? Half of yall don’t own your own house and the other half live with yo mama. You stalk her on Twitter,blog hop commenting with your lies and swear you can read Ushers’s mind. Yall don’t know shit point blank and period. How in the Hell can u judge the fact that she ain’t moved on based on a Damn story TMZ posted. Or because she told her side on TV after him. Get the Hell on. You snitches want her to suffer, talking about she need to move on. Had she got a new man u fools would be calling her a hoe. Like it or not she will always be the woman Ush married AND the mother of his kids. Now go clean out your own dried up skeletons and you better be saving your pennies in your own Damn "TEA kettle" so your dude won’t have to cancel the next tour. Now Get yo life and no my name ain’t Tameka. Tired of your negative BS towards somebody we don’t know. Now go reap what you sowing.
And why is Ushers munchkin ass so little in that picture? Ass so little he full of shit that’s the real issue.
LOL! That was too funny
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USHER IS NOT A MAN! PERIOD! NO MAN (HEADING TOWARD DIVORCE OR NOT)WOULD SPEAK OF THE MOTHER OF THEIR CHILDREN THAT WAY!HE"S IS SO SLEEZEY ITS UNREAL!
Had she got a new man u fools would be calling her a hoe.
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Agreed. If she did everything they wanted her to, they’d still find fault in it and everythin else.
BTW, your comments have had be crackin up tonight ; )
On to the next.
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It seems that some of you are confusing Usher the celebrity with Your Uncle, brother or cousin Ray Ray who lives paycheck to paycheck. Once Usher married Tameka that became HER home just as much as it was his, it just so happen that they divorced and decided that she would remain in the home and he would move. I do NOT see the fact that she is choosing to keep a roof over her boys head in a stable environment of what THEY have known as home a problem. These kids deserve to have the same lifestyle in and out of their father’s presence and I believe he wants that, why because he is financially able to do so. Clearly at one point this was not a problem for USHER and until court documents are made public this will be my belief. She still has the boys she also has joint custody of Ryan Jr that is THEIR home. The fact that some of you could rejoice in Tameka AND her kids having to “get out” is sad and unfortunate. Would I personally stay in the house…I don’t know…depends on my agreement with my ex-husband NOT how his fans or the media feel about me. I have said it before and still think Usher has that house wired so that alone would probably make me leave. lol I think that Ashley said it best above “I respect Lil Wayne, Rocko, Eddie Murphy, even Diddy for the respect they give to their kids mothers and ex wives." I can guarantee you that with as many issues as Diddy has his kids and their MOTHERS will have a great life in and out of his presence this include homes, cars, vacations, money, whatever it is needed to raise healthy, loving kids, happy kids. I think some of you need to take note… Also laws in GA are pretty simple, depending on when the house was purchased it may be half hers anyway even if her name isn’t on the deed. NOW Stlchick you just touched upon something… the memory of Kile could either comfort her or drive her to pack and move either way she should have that choice.
On having sex…people do it all the time. Hell some of you having sex with men that aint NEVER married you or wanted to marry you so should we REALLY go there?! While I personally don’t agree I can see why it happens. Usher never said he divorced her because he stopped loving her, he divorced her because of the pressure he was receiving from his FANS (according to him), and I’m sure his career was in jeopardy.I personally just dont think he was ready. So they didn’t stop loving each other just because papers were filed…I think he stopped loving her when she punched his butt trying to get to Grace but that’s what happens when you try to be slick and park at the end of the driveway Usher! I do believe it was that very situation that made her cut him off.