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As you know, Usher is seeking sole custody of the couples two young sons, Usher Raymond V, 5, and Naviyd Ely Raymond, 3, and the statements heard inside that Fulton County courtroom would make for a hellavu great movie.
The storyline would go something like this:
a superstar R&B singer marries a woman who his family doesn’t like. He makes a few babies, but realizes his fans don’t like the “married” version of himself. Instead of riding for his family, he decides to ride for his career. Divorces his ex (but only on paper) and then proceeds to “pretend” to be single… but all the while he’s dipping in and out of his now “ex” wife’s bed. Fast forward a few years and his star has risen significantly and he’s chosen to move on… but wait… there’s one problem. His “ex” wife who has custody of his kids, wants to move on too and his ego won’t allow it, especially if she chooses to move on to another high-profile entertainer.
But I digress… that’s merely my imagination… this is “real” life. Add in the fact that Tameka just buried one of her sons a few weeks ago and we get a story that would melt even the most heartless among us.
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Having sat in that courtroom and heard what I heard, it was really hard for me to write this story, but here goes…
From the beginning, reports have been crafted to make it seem as though it was Tameka who started the proceedings, while it was actually Usher who filed for full custody.
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Yeah… we heard about the Saks VIP Discount card that Usher canceled and Tameka wanting an increase in child support, and we all immediately assumed it was her greed that was the impetus for the court case, while it was actually Usher who initiated the proceedings.
I know I’m being a bit repetitious but some things just don’t add up and while we on the outside may NEVER know the true nature of this custody battle (but it’s fun to speculate).
We heard about Usher avoiding drug tests (which he never took by the way)… and we can’t forget about the bridesmaid that Usher bedded while his now ex-wife was knocked up with their 2nd child.
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It was all made for tv drama! But when Tameka’s son Kile was involved in a terrible accident that subsequently took his life, we all just knew the two would do the right thing and handle whatever issues they have with each other OUTSIDE of the courthouse. Usher’s PR went in crisis mode and are rumored to be behind the stories that Usher was going to settle in light of the horrible circumstances of his “stepson’s” accident.
Not true. No one believed me when I said that Usher decide to move forward & go hard in the paint against his ex-wife just days after she buried her son Kile. It was not a judge who decided to move forward with the case, it was Usher. Period. Point blank.
As I’ve said before, at any time the “petitioner” could choose to drop the case. And while it’s true that he wanted to delay it, I commend Tameka for wanting to move forward and get everything settled and done. And don’t even get me started on Usher’s attempts to deny paying Tameka’s attorney’s fees… being that he initiated the proceedings, it’s interesting to not the extent of his B.I.C.T.H.-ism.
I’m just an observer… but seems to me that there’s way more going on than just a father who wants full custody of his kids.
VIDEO: WAGA News Coverage of Closing Arguments (Fox5 Atlanta)
During the closing arguments Usher’s attorneys said Foster is neglectful and incapable of being a proper parent.
“We believe the evidence is that Ms. Raymond is incapable of being a proper parent to these children. That she does not have the emotional stability or capacity to bond with them, and therefore she is handicapped,” said an attorney representing Usher.
Foster’s attorney, Lisa West, accused the international singer of milking the situation for the benefit of his career, stating:
”This is Usher’s latest performance… he basically put on a show. Like everything else, this is an Usher concert.
She pointed out that his seeking custody is ridiculous being that he’s on the road all the time. As I stated IN THIS POST, Usher wants to take the two boys with him on his 2013 European tour …. but who would keep the children? Nannies.
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I could go on… and on… and on… regarding this custody battle. But I won’t.
What I will say is this…. Usher is mad about something that has absolutely nothing to do with those kids or Tameka’s mothering. We all know Tameka has a STRONG personality and it seems as thought targeting what she loves the most (i.e. the children) is Usher’s way of hurting that woman to the core.
And that’s just my personal observation.
My prayers go out to everyone involved…. especially that mother that just lost her child.
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Sad. It’s nobodies business who gets the kids on weekends and Christmas. This should be a private matter. All these lawyers and legal fees could go to Kiles charity for water safety that Tameka is spearheading. They need to do this quietly and like mature adults. This is a media circus. Stop wasting time Amd money on this drama.
"Kiles charity for water safety that Tameka is spearheading."
Kiles chraity is actually called Tameka’s pocket … and that is exactly where your money will go! Please believe
I co-sign that this is a media circus! But since Usher Raymond filed this action and asked the courts for sole custody he is the "Ringmaster" of this circus.
Usher has issues, maybe since he isnt very relevant anymore or his new girlfriend may be putting him up to this. It seems fishy that Usher "loved" this woman so much, defended her publically, married her, had kids (plural) with her and now hes dogging her out in front of the media. He might be bi-polar or coo-coo. Either he is still madly in love with her or he really hates her, but either way he seems crazy af. Im an outsider looking in, but I think he is still i love with Tameka to do all of this.
This is sad! I hope that this comes to a close and soon. While I am a fan of Usher’s music I wonder about his character. This is a woman that he went on TRL to "DEFEND", the woman he chose to pro-create with and now that he’s moved on she is the worst thing since slice bread. This is wrong on so many levels. You may be right Michelle, Usher has alterior motives b/c I can’t see it!
Co-sign.
you should wonder about Fatmonkey character as well, last time I checked even her own friends are convinced that she is a bad mom who won’t take care of her own kids.
No wonder Kile died while she was partying and drinking. Usher better protect his kids or the are going to end up like kile , dead by accident.
The most interesting part about this story is that she is giving a free pass to the murderer of her son I bet that Ryan Jr joined his older brother aand is hating on this mom/ professionnal gold digger.
Usher filed for full custody for obvious reasons before judging him wait until you got kids, he is doing nothing but trying to protect them from an abusive mother, who let her own son dying bec
Poor thing. Seem like you need a friend. I’ll be your friend. I’ll even remind you to take your pill- I mean, candy. Yeah, candy.
lol, ah hell just roll it up in a piece of bread and shove it down her throat like a dog 0_0
IF this is the case, why would you marry someone who already had children? She would have been "unfit" towards them right? This what I don’t get, he got with her, married her and had children. If she was such a bad parent those signs would of been there from the beginning. Not defender anybody but just wondering…
So Usher had to wait to have two kids with her, cheat on her with a bridesmaid, bomb in his career, and rebound in order to figure out what kind of mother she is to her children. Shoot I heard things and I never met her. All I can say is that that papers song (along with other things) shows how immature he is.
you should wonder about Fatmonkey character as well, last time I checked even her own friends are convinced that she is a bad mom who won’t take care of her own kids.
No wonder Kile died while she was partying and drinking. Usher better protect his kids or the are going to end up like kile , dead by accident.
The most interesting part about this story is that she is giving a free pass to the murderer of her son I bet that Ryan Jr joined his older brother aand is hating on this mom/ professionnal gold digger.
Usher filed for full custody for obvious reasons before judging him wait until you got kids, he is doing nothing but trying to protect them from an abusive mother, who let her own son dying because she doesn’t want to spend money on his dying son
You are a complete looney. To even speak on her sons death is disgusting. Michelle should block you for being an insensitive demon. Kiles accident happened while he was with his father at an outing. How is that her fault??? What an ass wipe, kill yo self for being such a vile, gross person. Usher is a douche and you sound just like him, maybe youre him. Jump off the nearest bridge.
IT SEEMS TO ME WHEN TAMIKA FOUND OUT HE WAS SEEING GRACE SHE PUT A STOP TO USHER DIPPING IN HER COOKIE JAR. I HEARD THAT WAS THE SAME SITUATION WITH LUDA AND HIS BABY MAMA OVER HIS STANK ATTITUDE AFRICAN GF & THE BM ALMOST SNATCHED THE WEAVE OUT OF THE GF’s HEAD WHEN SHE GOT MOUTHY WHEN THEY WERE ALL AT HIS OLD RESTAURANT. LOL!!!! ANYHOW IT SOUNDS LIKE WANTED HIS CAKE & TO EAT IT TOO BUT TAMIKA WASN’T GOING FOR IT SO THIS IS HIS RETALIATION FOR ENDING THINGS. HE’S SUCH A (B)EY-OTCH!!!! AND IF YOU KNOW HIM YOU KNOW I’M TELLING THE TRUTH……..JENNY JONES!!!
YES…YES…and YES!!!
Hahaha Grace is not a hottie, I agree. I would not want to go behind that. She looks like she bathes in hemp leaves and oil. Usher has strange taste, this woman looks wide and smelly.
Custody battles are never pleasant. If they could work it out in an amicable way then they wouldn’t need the court’s intervention. Having said that, nobody knows what brought them to this point but them two. It’s all speculation for us, but yeah, it is safe to say they do not like each other right now.
@Reesie….Soo true, but that would be too much like right….SMH!!!
ATLien, I know you and Tameka use to not have the best relationship so for you to defend her, in addition to the fact that you were at the courthouse, makes me believe all the more what you are saying is true.
I was thinking the same thing. There’s no way ATLien could make this stuff up. LOL,my name is also Ashley…
Well I love my children and the thought of them not being with me would take my breath away. The kind of hate that is spewing from Usher is just awful she is the mother of his children and nothing will change that not even money ! Sad so sad.
This is a sad situation however we must not forget Tameka walked away from her first husband and three children for Usher. They were having an affair. I do not know about her parenting skills but for a woman to walk away from 3 kids says a lot about her character.
Mimi … U are so right. Tameka gave up her 1st son who is now 22 to her family in Oakland for her career in LA then ATL. She met Ryan Glover & never incorporated her oldest son into that relationship Then, when she cheated with Usher, she left the two boys with Ryan, never incorporating them into her relationship with Usher. I would NEVER bring a man home, marry him if he did not accept my kids as his own. THATS MAMAs fault, so dont cry now that he didn’t make it to the funeral, visit the hospital, etc., etc. Get ya mind right from the gate!
MiMi I just want to point out that "name required" is the one agreeing with you…*walks away so you can ponder that one…
If she left her first son for her career and the other two for Usher.what make you think she wouldn’t abandon usher kids when she found another celebrity again.
Ciss where is the evidence of this "fact" besides what u read on blog’s? I rest my case your honor. Lol
And Shay…might I add where is yours? And in addition, please understand the very fact that you are reading a blog..GTFOHWTBS!
Where is my what simple Simon? I didn’t comment on the actual story either way because just like you I don’t know the facts. I read blogs for entertainment purposes not to attack someone’s character. Grow up, get a life and find some business of your own. Blog troll.
I dont believe that rumor that Tameka ever left her kids. Theres pictures of Usher with her kids and I never stopped seeing her kids when she was married to Usher. I saw a picture of Kile with Usher alone he had to be no more than 5. That is a silly rumor and you are spreading it with out fact. Why would have to leave her sons to marry Usher he knew about them, it makes no sense. Thats an ugly rumor. Dumb too.
So true!!
WELL I’M GOING TO TAKE A STEP AHEAD AND ALREADY THANK THE SWEET LORD JESUS FOR NOT TAKING THESE KIDS FROM THEIR MOTHER. SHE NEEDS THEM AND THEY NEED HER. PERIOD. USHER IS PLAYING DADDY. SHE PROBABLY TOLD HIM THE TRUTH AND THIS IS HIS WAY OF GETTING BACK. BUT TRUTH HURTS. BANDAGE YOUR EGO AND STOP BEING AN ASS USHER. HE HAS LOST ME AS A FAN FOREVER. MY HEART HURTS FOR TAMEKA. SMH.
I don’t believe for one minute Usher will get full custody; he better hope it doesn’t backfire and Tameka gets full custody.
you are more than stupid Tameka knows she is going to lose that why she is tryng too hard to look like a victim. Kile and Usher ain’t coming back so she can go back doing drugs in her room to forget she lost everything
Coming from you, I feel pretty damn smart! Since your sense of reality is obviously upside down, it’s a safe bet to go in the opposite direction. Girl, clear up your pimples and go make friends. Come visit STL…I’ll take you to Sweetie Pies. I’ll be at her new restaurant this Sunday.
we don’t know what happened between these two people in their relationship. we don’t know them for real to dislike them. Nobody in this world is perfect nor do we know why people do the things they do.There’s no reason to take sides because there are three sides to every story
Usher is throwing a big boy temper tantrum, he can’t get what he wants so now he’s trying to throw his weight around. He seems some what immature and egotistic to even continue this charade.
I don’t understand why these two intelligent people , who are rich, famous, can’t work together, for the children. My ex and I aren’t any of that,we out our child custody. They both should be ashamed of themself. Both of them are equally responsible.
Seems as nannies keep her kids what difference does it make? What does she do for a living why she needs nannies and family to look after her kids? Why is a store card so important to her? Sorry she lost a child again the child was not in her care,I find it hard to feel sorry for either of them….what made her think he was going to be faithful….wasn’t she the married one ? You reap what you sow…
Tameka was a well known stylist for years before she met Usher. Get your facts straight. We all live and learn,but you my dear need a hobby
How con 90 percents people didn’t know her until she start reaping usher.did yourself even us to know her?
Because 90% of YALL can’t afford a stylist so why would you need to know her?
I say Dayum Shay! lol. Valid point, cuz the only celebrity stylists I know are Tameka and her bridesmaid-turned-tailcoat Maya, and only because they’re connected to Usher.
tHE WHOLE SITUATION IS HORRIBLE . lOSING A CHILD IS SOMETHING SHE WILL NEVER RECOVER FROM AND TO TAKE HER OTHER CHILDREN FROM HER BECAUSE OF NOTHING MORE THAN ANGER IS MORE MESSED UP. pRAYERS TO EVERYONE INVOLVED …I KNOW PERSONALLY I CANT EVEN LISTEN TO USHER ANYMORE …TAMEKA KEEP YPUR HEAD UP MA ..THE BAY STILL RIDES FOR YOU!!
THIS CASE STARTED IN 2011 GET IT TOGETHER
FATMONKEY REUSED TO PRESS CHARGES ON THE MURDRER ON HER SON BECAUSE IT WOULD COST TOO MUCH
AND REMOVED LIFE SUPPORT BECAUSE SHE DIDNT WANT TO SELL ANY OF HER ASSETS
SHE IS NOTHING BUT A GOLD DIGGER LOOKING FOR MONEY WHO WOULD RATHER LET HER SON DIE THAN SELLING SOME OF HER ASSET
STOP DEFENDING THIS FRAUD
USHER ON THE OTHER SIDE IS TRYING TO PROTECT HIS SONS FROM HER BAD INFLUENCE AND FROM HER CRAZINESS
IF DOCTORS ASKED HER TOO TAKE PILLS ITS BECAUSE SHE HAS PSYCHIATRIC ISSUES
IM SURE THAT YOU DONT WANT YOUR KIDS AROUND SOMEONE WHO IS MENTALLY ILL SO DOES USHER
U right! This women is a fraud & a joke & she is crazy. I’m sorry for her lost, but it does not take away from the truth. TAMEKA HAS BAD JUDGEMENT – She got knocked up by one of the biggest drug dealers in Oakland as a teen, stole, lied, forged, bad checks, went to jail. Gave up 3 kids for some money & d***!!! Married USHER after her ran from the alter (shoulda let him go then) … ETC, ETC. Her crazed social network outburst, the botched tummy tuck in Brazil for a man that didn’t want her any more … SHALL I GO ON!
Usher is doing the right thing, protecting his kids from a crazy women!!!
Aawww….some lonely person is co-signing her own posts again.
Shall you go on? Yes. Go on to a new hobby. A new topic, because this one brings out your worst, apparently. I’m going for a run in a little while; increase my seratonin and get some exercise. Maybe you should do the same. Isn’t your school having a dance or something?
Don’t you just love it when crazy people get on blogs and start accusing everyone of being someone & they have no earthly idea what they’re talking about … REFERRING TO >>> @stlchick … Funny shit!
And speaking of crazy, as if on cue…
HEY, NAME REQUIRED!!!
Atlien are you on Tameka’s payroll? I swear your facts leave out what Sandrarose and Rhymes with snitch don’t. I read all 3 blogs and you are the only person caping for Tameka. Where is the testimony from Meek Meek BFF that said Tameka took a different flight from her boys and sent them with the BFF. If you are going to tell it…you should tell it all.
so are Sandra and Rhymes on Usher’s payroll since they only give statements that make Tameka look bad?
They also mentioned Tameka’s sister’s testimony describing how Usher rammed her and his mother’s car. You failed to mention that ; )
The child that was burried wasn’t her "youngest" child as noted, it was her "oldest" child (the youngest child would be one of Usher’s kids.
It was her third born, the youngest until she procreated with Usher. Her oldest is in his 20′s.
Thank you ATLien for giving another side to this debacle…Tameka is always made to villan…interesting how none of the other blogs reported what Usher’s attorneys stated or wanted yet they wanted to rake Tameka over the coals…this whole trial was idotic and a waste of time thanks to Usher…I’m completely disgusted by him
So what if he wants custody and filed for custody…Michelle I am disappointed in you too. You keep saying Ushers PR….everybody knows (in my Phaedra Parks voice)that Usher initiated this….SO WHAT??? I don’t get your point. Nannies….how about his grandmother, mother, and aunt….I’d take that anyday over a stranger watching my children…also, he was an artist/entertainer when she met him and it wasn’t a problem until he filed for divorce. And lets do some simple math….How many hours do you think Usher spends on stage in a weeks time. I know it’s not 40 like normal working fathers have to do. Would it be wrong for a normal father who works 40 hours a week to seek custody of his children because he has to work to provide? I dont think so…. and it’s a blessing that he can afford not only monetarily but just with freedom to take his boys with him. I wish it were possible for me to expose my children to different parts of the world. Big deal….Michelle you and Tameka need to go to sleep. And stop bringing up her son who has passed away….nobody anticipated that happening….it will never be a good time to continue on with this custody case for as it relates to her son who passed. It also doesnt make Usher a bad person to want to just get it over already….and again if he wants sole custody….SO WHAT!
Show business is not a 40 hr/wk business, and he doesn’t just perform a concert and is done with it. He has rehearsals that last all day, recordings, interviews…he’s "on" more than he is "off."
Yes that’s understood….but you have dad’s who put in 40 hours a week and sometime go to a part-time to take care of the family. That’s life. But while Usher is working or rehearsing….however you want to put it…he is in a position where he can bring the children. I am in the business…at Ushers level…he is off more than on…he has staff to handle all the big things…sound check is the band…back up singer….stage crew etc. By the same token…Tameka is a very succesful business woman running several businesses she too is away a lot of the time….she was out of the country on business I can assume when her son was injured….So again…So What if he wants full custody? They both have that right to want it…they are both in this business of entertaining…that’s how they met.
I hear you. I don’t think he…or Tameka…deserve full custody. They concieved them together, they should raise them together. As a dad, I don’t understand why he’d want them on tour w/ him at this age. Maybe he’s trying to beat the fame clock? Want them to see him while he’s still a success?
I don’t think Usher’s going to win. At ALL! And if Tameka decides to pursue full custody in the future, I’ll be slamming her too. Children need the love of a mother and a father.
He may not be on stage 40 hours a week, but he has rehearsals and all day radio promos and appearnces to promote on each tour stop. Trust, he will be working way more than 40 hours each week and the boys will hardly see him.
Bobbiedoll…how old are you, 5? You do your homework today. I think yo mama just called you. Gon’ … run along now!
Why, what I say make too much sense for you?
^^^5 KIM! U brought in some very very valid points!
@Miak than you,I’m not an usher fan….but her hands are not clean in this either….she needs to get employment and stop relying on child support. To support her lifestyle….
LOL She runs two businesses.
AND THEY ARE BOTH HHEADING TO BANKRUPTCY #POW
Thanks for bringing the truth. Good luck to Tameka. And a big F.U. to Usher
Usher’s not thinking about his two sons who just lost a sibling. They are young and missing him and won’t understand why he’s not around. Then to be taken from their mother too. If he really was worried about them he would think about that.
BOOM!! Exactly.
… but all the while he’s dipping in and out of his now “ex” wife’s bed
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to which she was obviously good with, because she let him do it. Divorce on paper or off means the marriage is dissolved, she’s partly to blame for the act as well.
Ok i agree the situation is bad however im not throwing usher totally under the bus in this situation. I understand Michelle that your in the courtroom and your right something was done to usher that pissed him off. Do we know what? NO!!!! Is it really so hard to believe that usher loves his Children so much that he wants them to be around him all the time. Those ARE his only children, and i do feel bad that tameka lost her son. However saying usher won’t be around his children because he’s an artist and they’ll spend majoriety of the time with the nannie or his mother. How many people on this site were raised by there grandma or auntie and turned out fine ( Raise your Hand ) When the accident happened where was Tameka? She wasn’t around! Does that mean she’s a bad parent ????? I don’t think so but yet its still a valid question. There are ton’s of unanswered questions, they’ve both cheated, they’ve both disrespected one another and acted out of pocket. The scales are even in my eye’s, when they split up they put it in the courts hands, when she started collecting support they put it in the courts hands. Now there putting the custody fight in the courts hands unfortuanately in court the best actor wins
Biological parent trumps nanny…or granny, aunt, uncle anyday. Unless, of course, they are indisputably unfit, which neither Tameka nor Usher has been proven at this point. They’re simply not perfect, and they’re expecting perfection from each other.
Usher didn’t dumped her because of his fans, he threw her in a trash because he was in love with someone else: GRACE MIGUEL
Usher files for full custody because she wasn’t cooperative regarding the parenting time and she was using her own kids to manipulate him. She was wrong if she thought that Usher would stay with her because they had kids together
She is a GOLD DIGGER because this black card HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THS CUSTODY CASE. She just wants priviledges.
I am APPALLED that she has the nerve to bash Usher for not tweeting about kile when SHE FORGAVE HIS MURDERER AND REFUSED TO PRESS CHARGES ON HIM
SHE IS OLD, FAT, DARK SKINNED, WHASHED AND JEALOUS BECAUSE SHE AINT GETTING HIM BACK.
HOPEFULLY SHE WILL END UP IN A PYCHIATRIC HOPITAL BECAUSE THIS JUNKIE IS CREEPING ME OUT. AFTER SEEING HER FACE, IM PRETTY SURE SHE IS STILL DOING DRUGS BECAUSE OF HER DEPRESSION
SHE IS A BAD MOM WHO IS LETTING HER KIDS TO FLY ALONE, SHE IS A BAD MOM FOR JNOT SUING THE KILLER OF HER SON.
WE ALL KNOW THAT USHER WILL WIN THIS CASE, TAMEKA IS CURSED: SHE LOST HER 3 BABY DADDIESW, SHE ALMOST DIED IN BRAZIL, SHE LOST HER FAVORITE SON, HER STORE IS DOING REALLY BAD, AND SHE IS GOING TO LOSE 2 CHILD SUPPORT AND HER KIDS
TOO BAD HUH
SHE WILL STAY MAD
SHE CAN SAY WHATEVER SHE WANTS KARMA WILL ALWAYS BE AFTER HER AND WILL TAKE EVERYTHING FROM HER. SHE WILL PROBABLY GOING TO END UP AS A CRACKHEAD BEGGING FOR MONEY IN THE STREET
ouch!
prayer would probably be wasted on you….your soul is probably rotted to the core
Right! Wow…
I didn’t know being dark-skinned was a bad thing along with being fat and old. Oh, how I wish webcams would screen shot idiots like gold digger. Something suggests to me that she doesn’t look much better.
Get out ya feelings guhl! Your statement was more about you than Tameka!
Tell it, Hollanday. I suspect this young girl looks like a pepperoni pizza from the neck up.
WOW! you seem to have a lot of anger towards her. Does she owe you money, steal your man or woman? Why the venom?
PREACH!!!!
Darshelle? Is that YOU, chile? Um, didn’t you accuse someone of writing a paragraph in another thread? What’s with the short story, girl? If I had ink in my printer I’d print out your comments and wipe my *ss with it, give it the attention it truly deserves.
I didnt follow this drama at first because I didnt agree with Tameka mixing her professionalism with pleasure. What i understood was that she used to be his stylist. Fact being, she shouldve known how those industry guys are and kept her non- professional behavior intact. I believe she is a strong mind and willed woman as myself and believe that he is attacking her personally by fighting over the kids. Usher knows that his schedule is far too busy with appearances, studio time and personal time for kids.No man should want to take kids from the mother. How would he feel if his dad did this to his mother who is a loving and caring person. Tameka, woman to woman..fight on! I read that she wants an extra 3grand for child support, at the end of my case, I ended up with an extra $300 per month. This is one time when the generic version was not as good as the name brand.
What is so wrong with co-parenting? I can’t! I hope that whatever the decision it is in the best interest of the CHILDREN!
Is Tameka paying you for this ridiculous, poorly written mess. This woman doesn’t even have custody of her other kids. But wait, their daddy is worth millions. I read your nonsensical website site for laughs and you really do provide them.
Is Tameka paying you for this ridiculous, poorly written mess.
SHARON!!???? Did you have to use the term "poorly written" — I wanted to say it, I did! I wanted to say it real bad, but I didn’t have the heart. So thank you Sharon for saying it for me!! LMAO
But jokes on you because while u are trying to be disrespectful with your post its very inaccurate, in other words filled with lies. Get yo life and stay out of grown folks business. Kid.
Whoa Michelle, put down the kool-aid glass & walk toward the light. LMAO at the ignorance.
Let me get this straight, since Tameka lost her son she is a "saint" …. So all the articles you don wrote about her are what ??? LIES?? So you calling yourself a lair! Damn, Michelle, u good, U real good.
Usher suppose to just let his kids receive substandard care from they crazy mama cause she lost her child, Usher suppose to just take the death treats and hope she don’t act on them? DAMN MICHELLE – U GOOD!! ROFLLLLLLL….
Anyway, I hope what sandrarose wrote about you screwing Sheree ex-hasbeen football player aint true, cuz negro look like he was thrown away, picked up out the garbage, hosed off (no soap), patted on the back and they said "there ya go buddy" … Put down the hose Michelle!! #DEAD
Umm, ATLien, the roaches are back. Can you spray them again, block them out? They make the whole house look dirty.
I block em and they come right back…. I need some stronger roach spray.
Tameka looks like she has aged 10 years since the death of her son….and this is not meant to put her down, just my observation. She looks so sad. Let that woman keep her kids!
She should stop using those kids against their father. I remember her posting a photo of one of the kids pouting…and she made it appear that he was pouting because he didn’t want to see his dad. Who does that?
After sitting your ass in there all week…this is all you have to report? What about the deets on the relationship with his mom, or the controversy over him allegedly "blowing" off Kile’s funeral?…Suppose I just expected too much, but I take it you’re trying to use some discretion and protect a bit of their privacy, although your headline indicates otherwise. Kudos!?!
"After sitting your ass in there all week…this is all you have to report?"
#DEAD@Relle
I have a feeling the judge is going to come down heavy on Usher. He picked a hell of a time to do this. This woman just buried one child and now he’s trying to take two from her just to take them on the road with him. Usher, sit down somewhere. No matter your feeling towards Tamkeka, she’s a good mom. If she wasn’t, you (Usher) wouldn’t of married her after knowing she already had children and then had two more with her.
SAM??? U stupid, huh? … please listen, cause imma type real slow … Usher started the custody case B4 Tameka lost her son. Usher wanted to delay the proceedings, but Tameka said NO!
SAM!!!! Are you comprehending the words that I’m typing on this blog?
Gurl please. You type real slow because you have to. Quit frontin’.
And how the F you "listen" to someone type? Just sayin’…
There’s a reason for you never saying your name.For the record, I can’t "listen" to you type real slow. Usher did start this before her son passed. However,he could have stopped this at any time. He wants to see her suffer for whatever reason. Also,to answer your question, I’m not stupid at all. I just so happened to have graduated at the top of my class and I am now working on my Masters while teaching third grade. I comprehend very well. Thank you.
What’s the story with Tameka’s friend testifying against her. I want to know more about that piece. Also, Usher had a doctor testify that Tameka was unstable. Feels like a war is being waged against her
That post is coming Monday… I wanted to get more info on "the godmother" first. But trust… it’s coming.
I agree with your analysis. I refuse to believe that he would have 2 children with a woman he is now deeming unfit. As a mother, I could not even understanding having to defend myself to the courts. Prayers are with Tameka. Usher is a clown, and karma is real!
I totally believe the "friend" (Ryan’s godmother) that she kept Ryan every weekend & T is a hands-off mom! … If you follow Tameka on Twitter she is out partying every weekend – two, three times a day/night, different events. She’s posting that she’s running to a baseball, football game (watch the game & leave, no quality time). Then she’s out in the streets trynna be young, trynna keep up with the ATLIENs, doing God only knows what & why? You have 5 kids, my Lord, u birth them babies, please stay home and take care of them.
Usher has joint custody & all you see when he has his kids is him out with the kids, doing something special, enjoying his time (these are not pix he posts – these are media posts).
If Usher needs ammo that Tameka is not home with her kids, just check her Twitter timeline, the story is there & she has implemented her damn self!
Girl, those games are her SON’S games! Pay attention! Do you "READ" the words she types on twitter?!?
Tameka is supporting her children’s games and events while still being a working mother. Remember, Kile was just in a play and in her twitter pics you see her doing his hair and running to do an event between shows because he had three shows that day.She does hang out from time to time,but what mother doesn’t?
She stays on twitter around the clock…so she can’t be paying that much attention to her children. IJS
Those kids could be in the same room while she’s tweeting. It’s not something that requires privacy…could be done standing in line at the store.
Concerning her pic of little Naviyd (sp?), you’re right, that was inappropriate. And unfortunately a lot of parents act petty during custody battles.
It really doesn’t take a rocket scientist to be on twitter while doing other things including parenting…trust I have a VERY active 20 month old who gets PLENTY of attention and I utilize social networks. As far as the picture…I remember her posting it didn’t see a problem with it then and still don’t. I feel people are reaching…now that she is coming across as the one slightly more normal then what the world wanted to believe it’s “well what about when she did this?!” and “what about when she did that?!” I take pics of my son ALL the time and post them, even pics to where he may be crying because he don’t want to go with his father…so what!!! It would be wise to take people from under the “celebrity” microscope and let them be human…WHICH means they WILL make mistakes…they WILL have moments of weakness, they WILL say and at times do things that they shouldn’t. We make mistakes but don’t have people checking for the details of that failure…could you imagine how that must feel? This lady has been called EVERYTHING but a child of GOD and she is still standing and fighting. I call her a strong azz woman and not even our dirty little words spoken over her will change that. Some of us are checking so hard for that speck in her eye that you are blinded by your own dirty little eyes…get it together folks and please don’t respond back talking about what about Usher…because even though I don’t agree with what he is doing I feel the same way about him as well.
Half of you don’t even like the woman…WHY in thee HELL are you following her on twitter anyway…check your motives folks.
AND please remember the very evil words that we speak over someone are the very words that become OUR destiny.
This mother doesn’t! nothing is more important to me then my children ( I have 5) i am a medical billing specialist.. and i work 8-430 and other then that time, I am home or out with my kids! Cant tell you my last "night out" was. My kids are MORE IMPORTANT to me!
Dammit! All this mayhem and foolishness is getting my pressure up. I’m going for my run! And ATLien, I do agree…I want more TEA!
Remember when court TV used to sit in on court cases, all day everyday? That’s what the hell we need lol.
ridiculous. always claiming people pretending to be divorced. Wasn’t she 7months pregnant when he was pictured with other women. If you do the math from the announcement that would not even be him going back after the divorce final that would be papers filed maybe some change of heart her figuring out a way to get a few extra years of security and him realizing I dun gon and f*d up again. She/you are the one claiming that he upset if she moves on especially to another entertainer…that was brought up in regards to her being a fame chaser and not interested in having the kids but the lifestyle. You said it right him having to cancel the saks card was the tip of the iceberg so much more behind her alterior motives. I still think Usher is gettig everything he deserves there were enough red flags before he got married for him not to continue. He should have listened to his momma even with the prenup she finally convinced him to put into play he got trapped so he is just a big ole dummy.But if you are going to tell the story tell the whole story. Oh but you did say this was just your observation so it is okay if you look wile crossing your eyes. You know if you fuck with someone long enough you start to look alike
I was right about Nene & Greg tho huh? Pay attention and don’t believe everything that is spoofed to you. Celebs often do things just for their "public" persona that has no truth in "real life"…
It is a shame that these celebs cant deal with their private lives better than this smmh…Karma has not even begun with usher yet! like my Great Granny said if you live long enough the truth will reveal itself! God dont like ugly and we are all human! Tameka has the right to mourn over her child it is saad that this has too play out like a chess game…i see usher mom looking too happy in court as if this were a joke! people grow up…i think it is very unfortunate that most of our black men have subcome to this type of resolve! this really is a bad look for a generation such as myself to see idols such as Usher, Dewayne Wade, Chris Bosh etc dealing with their marriage issues in such manner shame on them! and thank God for Obama!he is truly a REAL MAN and LOVES DARK SKINNED WOMEN by the way lol. a real man wont air his dirty laundry that is your child mother no matter what MAN UP and respect your kids! this is their mother! how can 1 hate so vast when they were just "so in love" with a person hmmm…
(Sips!)
I believe that there is some "TRUTH" to that imaginary story line.
Ahem!
I’m sure all the tea has not been served! (SIPS!)
sidenote: Please! His momma thought Chilli was perfect for him…and Chilli past skeletons are slowly trickling out the closet..Momma is not always right!
Meeka is just being thrown under the bus because she is not considered the standard beautyand she managed to pull USHER! . Grace isn’t innocent either. She was married ( when she was busted creeping with Usher?) Don’t she have child/dren too? and she is "OLD" too?) People DOG Meeka way more than Grace! The two of them are no different.
u are right – and for someone who knows grace this gossip post is very true
http://bossip.com/596257/bossip-exclusive-is-ushers-new-girlfriend-the-key-to-his-success-or-his-impending-downfall/
Grace doesn’t stay on social websites telling all of her business…..that’s where Tameka is going wrong. It makes her seem bitter. You should read the stuff that she posted today. One tweet was so bad that she deleted it. You shouldn’t make fun of medical issues that people may have.
Grace was a bitter divorcee and angry at her 1st x-husband for MANY MANY YEARS – hell she still is mad at that man. She also was in a custody battle where she was seeking full custody and LOST. Grace should have a little more compassion and advise her boyfriend/client better…
She also left her 2nd husband who loved her very much, loved her kids and was a good man because she felt they weren’t on the same "level" and because he wasn’t making enough money…As that marriage was fragile and she was working on the Bieber project she meets Usher…
I agree, social media might not be the best place for Tameka to vent but this situation is far more complicated then it may seem….Just curious, what did the tweet say that she deleted??
Unfortunately, these type cases happen more than we know realize. This happens to be a high profile case due to Usher.
First, I think parents shouldn’t have to go to court to work out their differences in custody battles. They could get along in making them, they should be able to be civil enough to put the interest of the kids first and not their owns. I remember when everyone was saying how crazy Tameka was. I don’t think that changed overnight from what I can tell, unless she has gotten a lot of medical attention (psychological). And this is before Kile’s accident and death. Now I do think Usher could have postponed the court date. But, who’s to say how long a person is to mourn, especially a mother? That could hurt Usher or harm his case, but only time will tell.
There are plenty of single mother’s in the industry, why can’t a father fight for his children if he sincerely see a need?
"I remember when everyone was saying how crazy Tameka was. I don’t think that changed overnight from what I can tell, unless she has gotten a lot of medical attention (psychological).}
So what made her crazy the fact that PEOPLE saw/witnessed something personally (other then her blocking them on twitter lol) or the fact that EVERYONE said it…
I am not here to defend her (as I really dont know her) BUT I think that the labels that people put on people in general is crazy. Other races will never stand a chance hating us the way we hate ourselves. At what point do we STOP trying to label these people and start lifting them up?
Tameka didnt want the court date postponed and I dont blame her no MOTHER wants to grieve the loss of a child while worried about fighting to loose two more and I have YET to hear from ANYONE a valid reason why this woman should lose custody of her kids.
Soul-ties are nooooooo joke and will make you do some strange things like even take your kids mother to court and try to take your kids away…I have said this once before so I wont go into anymore details…look it up if you dont think so…YOU just might be dealing with one also.
Tameka and Usher needs prayer and deliverance…no Judge can provide that.
@atlien lets not for that Usher has always been a dipper and so have ms Tameka she was married when she got involved she no better she is not of the hook. Yes Tameka and Ryan lost their child now that I relate too all to well. Usher wheres a shirt and he is going to lose anyway..Dont know why the judge entertain this foolio..Usher
Anybody that makes a feeble attempt at journalism which is now in the form of crude Blogs should still try and not be swayed by either side and remain neutral. I remember a time when Tameka got no love and now she’s a victim, I guess you must have experienced Usher’s cold shoulder before,because the tables have certainly turned. I will be glad for all parties involved when this custody battle is over, because this is really sad. Why so much hate between two people who once loved each other?
Contrary to your assessment, Usher has always been quite nice to me and well… you can google my prior experience with Tameka back in the day. At any rate… If being "swayed" is being observant of all the facts and forming an opinion, then yuuup, that’s me and guess what? Everyone doesn’t have to agree.
How can you pray for someone when you speak venom against them in attempt to paint the image you want of them? To gain readers? "You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye." You stated that your on the outside looking in, you still have no knowledge of chamber meetings, lawyer’s meeting, or any communication via the lawyers between the two. SO why report with a slant. I just don’t understand the biasness in your reports. Anyway since I am on the outside looking in, based on your report..when its comes to parenting..evidence has been presented against Tameka’s parenting but so far the only thing that has been said about Usher is he is going on tour and has wandering eyes and hand. None of those say he wouldn’t be good parent and doesn’t deserve custody. If I was the judge legally I would be in Ushers favor, emotionally with Tameka. Interested in seeing how the judge rules. Wish them all the best.
What is so wrong with a father fighting for his children? Who cares if he filed or she filed. I really believe that you are being paid or promised an interview or something from Ms. Raymond. Your coverage of this situation has been biased from the beginning. You only tell the negative part of Usher’s case. What about hers? What is so wrong with him wanting to show his children different parts of the world. If she has custody most of the time what is so wrong with him having them for a month or two. Most kids spend the entire summer with another parent. He don’t get that. What is so wrong with a father wanting to go and pick up his kids in peace?
Sometimes the ex-women is so vindictive that the father has no other choice but to go to the courts to try to get some help. I’m sure that he knows he will not get full custody. But what he might get out of this case is more visitation. More time with his children without having to answer to the mother. Tameka wants to call all the shots. How can you tell a father who he can or can not have around his children when they have or never will do any harm to the children.
You have said things in your post that even the local Atl ABC news, who I might add had a camera in the court, report and play tape daily on the news opposite of what you have said on your post. Your reporting of this story clearly has a motive. Sure she lost a child but it has not changed or neglected the things that she have done in the past. How about the fact that she comes out of the house when he comes to pick them up just to see who or if anyone is in the car. Even when he parks down the street. My point- if you are going to report, report truthfully and fairly. Without your spin on the story.
OMG…cme you took the words right out of my mouth, it’s funny how AtLien has done a complete 180 degree about face were Tameka Raymond is concern. If memory services right AtLien accused Tameka of stalking and harressing her only a few years ago while Usher and Tameka were married and subsequently during their dirvoce proceeding. AtLien also accused Tameka of sending her emails under the name of someone named "Margo" or something like that I can’t remember the spelling of the name but I sure remember reading the goes on concerning the Atlien vs Tameka Raymond drama.
And it wasn’t that long ago, also out of the blue in May of this year all of a sudden AtLien gets an "Exclusive" interview with Tameka after all of the bad blood, dirt, insults and threats of legal actions that went on between these two. At one time AtLien was the leader, co-founder and head member of the Usher Raymond Super-Stans Team.
Hmmm, it makes me wonder if this about face of being on Team Tameka has to do with the fact that maybe AtLien’s groupie dreams of being the next Mrs. Usher Raymond didn’t come to pass. This article sounds BIAS as they come. AtLien sounds salty as if she has a person dislike towards Usher.
I am in the legal profession and this is what I’ll say this about AtLien’s in the court room commentary, I don’t believe it took place. Most custody proceeding are closed and if there is permission for television cameras and press coverage to be granted it has to be legit and reputable press not a random blogger.
I do believe that she (AtLien) is getting her information from an inside source i.e. Tameka and so her "reporting" of the proceedings are one sided. If, your going to report a story AtLien you need to realize that a good journalist stays objective not subjective. And realize that somewhere between both Usher and Tameka’s stories lies the truth and at the end of the day it’s not about what we the public believe it’s what the presiding authorities are presented with and, what is in the best interest of the children.
Having been through a similar situation I can appreciate that the author see’s through Usher’s BS. Like a typical abusive/controlling man, he is targeting the kids to hurt Tameka. I pray for Tameka on a daily basis. I’ve always purchased Usher’s music, but I am done now. He is a boy who probably never felt truly loved, acts out in adulthood and never takes responsibility for his actions. Tameka, God will see you through this.
If you see the way Usher has always interacted with his mom, the fact that he rammed her car is not surprising. Then add to that fact that James was arrested for assaulting his baby’s mother AND the baby?! Clearly these men don’t know how to care for a woman they love. Seems like she was more manager than mom, and the result is two man boys who are stuck in Neverland.
Wow, your comment basically sums up exactly what I was thinking! I try not to pass judgment on situations that I have no real knowledge of but based on what I’ve read and what I’ve seen Usher is being a tad bit catty! That’s never a trait any man should carry, especially a father but unfortunately most of these new age dudes all seem to have it in em (Chris bosh, D. Wade). I guess this is the result of being raised by women, SMDH. And we wonder y so many of our young black men wanna be women or be with other men!
aren’t they his kids too? maybe he truly wants custody of his children. no one has proof otherwise except for speculation.they both love the children.
This is one of the most biased blogs O’ve read in a long time!
Clearly Tameka is a close friend of yours. I find nothing wrong
With a man who wants to fight for full custody of his
Children! I hope he wins too, b/c there’s more to what
Meets the eye where Tameka is concerned. Something is
Just not right with that chick!
I’m glad that someone on this site that have since.thank u boo
What is "since"? I might want some.
There is a word for it Bipolar!
Before I forget, did y’all check that deathray Tameka shot at Usher’s family? Damn! If looks could kill…
When I first heard of the crazy antics I read them on here not to mention the ones witnessed on twitter. However she’s a great Mom from what I see. Truthfully none of us know and it should of remained private, but what I do know is I hope it works out for the sake of who really matter. Urv and Navi.
Tameka sending you all my love and prayers to you. Stay in faith because trust me and believe me Usher has to pay the piper for his thoughtless heartless actions. There are people who are not stupid and know all that’s being done. But God is all seeing and will deal with your ex husband firmly and severely. I feel sorry for him, it will be brutal.
Droppin’ that knowledge. Yes, Karma is real. People better recognize. Shay, I’m sensitive today so I’m going to leave that "since" comment alone lol. I see NMKY is not the only commedienne on board lol.
USHER WANTS TO AVOID PAYING TAMEKA CHILD SUPPORT!!!!!!!!! DISGUSTING he would take the kids away from their mother for greed!!!and as a mother Usher’s mother AND grandmother should be ASHAMED of themselves for supporting another woman to lose her children!!! Kile is Tameka’s angel now and he is apart of the "ALL Knowing" and I pray he is fighting for his mom!!
I seriously doubt that….I think he just wants his children with him. If she really has a mental issue, could you blame him?
Lol at Tameka lookin like she’s aged 10 years. When has the ugly bitch ever looked young? Smh. Anyway, I see this blog is continuing to cape for Tameka but the facts will still remain. No one said Usher was an angel but Tameka is FAR from one. She’s shady, she has lied, and will continue to do so. It’s a reason why her friend testified AGAINST her. She is bitter ass, vindictive woman. Why isn’t it talked about how she stalked her first ex husband down to Jamaica where he was with his NEW wife? And she’s cute, might I add. Tameka is bitter as hell that she’s a two time divorcee, unattractive as all get out, and that every man that has walked into her liife walks right back out like she didn’t exist. Ryan and Usher have both moved on without missing a step. Why do you think she dumps the kids on th nannies while she goes off in her room and sulks n depressed n shit? Depression isn’t anything to joke about and needs to be treated but the point is, she’s just not capable of staying objective when she needs to be. She’s constantly worried about who and what Usher is fuckin instead of being a good mom to those kids and it’s pathetic. She uses those kids as pawns and Usher is sick of it. For those who bad mouth Grace, she and Usher speak the same kinda language if you know what I mean.. That’s why she’s still with him. She doesn’t try to change him, doesnt talk crazy to his fam, or talk crazy to hia fans, etc., and she didn’t leave her kids to be with him either.
In other words, she tolerates an open relationship? Is that the "same language" you mean? Just asking for clarity. Not being a smartass. Not today lol.
You find it "funny" that this mother has aged from the insurmountable stress of losing a child? She’s "ugly" because she’s devoid of mutated recessive caucasoid genes? You sound deeply brainwashed & likely insane…please seek the help you desperately need!!
Girl sit down! The complexion and race horse has been beaten beyond death. It doesn’t matter what Tameka looks like as far as that’s concerned. She’s not cute PERIOD. If she was light, she’d still be ugly. If she was mixed, she’d still be ugly. She just isnt a physically attractive woman. That jawline, that long sloping ass forehead, she looks like a dude, etc. Her attitude also exacerbates what she looks like. Go somewhere and read a book.
I don’t understand the need to want to drag a 3 and 4 year old up and down the road across the continent of Europe. At such young ages, the boys need to be in a secure, stable place where they can have some sort of normalcy. The fact that their father is a high profile superstar artist means that their lives will already be under unnecessary scrutiny as they grow up.
The first video from Fox, village people, Usher purposefully damaging his mother’s car, Tameka being called disabled….It’s enough to make you second guess ever thinking about becoming pregnant. Too much drama…..
At least let the children have a stable home now. I see that their grandmother is in court. By the way, where is Tameka’s mother/father? I never hear anything about them. I am genuinely curious. I am not throwing shade at Tameka.
I just herd Tameka’s sister testimony and why would Tameka need to be at the birthday party? When my children have parties I tell the parents they can leave (have some R&R time, grovery shop etc) and pick them up at a certain time. That right there, says he is controlling.
That just shows that he is concerned about his children. These kids are young, and didn’t they say one of the children had a food allergy or something. I would want to be there to make sure they weren’t fed something they shouldn’t be eating.
Oh please just because he is a star don’t mean his kids can’t be around their FAMILY without him knowing their every step. As long as they are in a safe environment with FAMILY and mom approves who cares about him not knowing. I see kids daily being taken from homes because their mother/ father is unfit. This is a waste of court time and I hope the Judge check his azz about it. Grown men tantrums are not sexy.
I am amazed at how people can sit here and insult Tameka. Firstly as much as we might like to believe, 1) none of us are perfect and being divorced doesnt make you a failure in life, but rather maybe a bad judge of character (for all you angels out there yes this happens when you fall in love) 2) I think you should all tread very carefully insulting this woman’s past history because guess what we dont really know it.
She may have done bad things, but sorrry if she had three children before I am sure her parenting skills would have been visible prior to Usher marrying her. So who is the dummy there Usher not her. And I am amazed that women can sit here and say Karma and call her stupid and blah blah for the accidental death of her child. I pray for all of your souls because you reallllly do not know what hand in life God may serve you. Why are we soooo damn judgemental and disrespectful. Truth be told NONE OF US not even the blogs know the reason behind Usher’s actions, but I refuse to believe she is that bad of a mother otherwise I am sure he would have asked for custody earlier and why hasnt she lost custody of her other children. If you do not have anything nice to say about her refrain from talking or commenting because KARMA is a BITCH! Just because they are in the public domain does not give us the right to judge, the only judge is God not us.
Damn I feel so sorry for this women, your husband apparently cheating on you, losing a child and then having to fight for two and so called WOMEN sit here and dog her out. Like I said I will continue praying for all of you and her. And to the SILLY SILLY IGNORANT fool that labeled Tameka being dark skinned as an insult, I really pray for your soul that you think the complexion of a person makes them more or less unattractive. As a race we have soooooooooo far and I would suggest rather than sit here and give all your energy into capital letters written hatred, take that energy and invest in WORTHWHILE hobby, how much are you paid to insult this woman NONE. And yes I commented because I am sick to death of the stupid comments on here. Sometimes I wish black media wouldnt even comment on stories so baffoons would not have a voice.
Remember life is short so live in PEACE AND LOVE AND LESS JUDGEMENT!!!!! (And educate yourself in the process)!!!
Well said damn it! Well said!!!!!!!
^^^yep! And this is my LAST posts, because dammit I could go all day on this. Aawww, sookie sookie now! Peeped Tameka’s and Usher’s twitter, and it’s very telling. Usher pretty much shot himself in the foot, talking about the pressure of the business and people wanting you to "shut up and entertain." Does that make for full-time parenting plausible? As far as Tameka, she went IN on Grace. This was posted on Bossip (and re-posted by someone on this thread: Here goes;
Tameka J Raymond
Heck, if was barren, sterile, infertile, I’d probably want another womans sons too.. Its a cold world we live in, but all to "play" house?
Goldie Taylor
@TamekaRaymond You know I understand. Head up, knees bent. You know who’s in charge.
Tameka J Raymond
Im logging off, before I say too much. Im strong, but very hurt.. I am human & can only withstand so much. Yall dont even know the half. smh
Usher keep messin’ with this woman, she’s going to make him sorry for real.
That type of behavior right there is what makes her appear unstable. Usher has not once commented on this custody case. If she would just stop with the all the adolescent tweets, people might think she actually has some sense.
That right there is a MOTHER whose tired of being f-ed with. People behave that way all the time when hurt. She may very well realize one day that her tweets were unnecessary but until then stop judging. Hurt people hurt people and that’s a fact. One day she will be perfect like u Im sure. Lol
Yes, he has. And I agree with Shay, and dammit I’m finished!
Y’ALL STOP POSTING SUCH INTRIGUING COMMENTS! LOL
stlchick,I’m off for the summer and I have been commenting on the article ever since she put it up here! LOL,I can’t help it! Usher’s ass needs to take Grace by the hand and have a seat somewhere. I can’t wait til’ the judge come back in favor of Tameka! Joint custody is great for those kids! Usher wants full custody,so they can’t see there mom?! Please,no judge is going for that! His lawyers said she was emotionally unstable due to all of the hardship,especially the hardship of losing her son. This is bull. Go to the hood and you’ll see single mothers whom have gone through so much more and are still raising their children! Tameka is just like any other strong black woman. She has faced so much turmoil and yet she stand tall and take care of her children! Kiss my *ss Usher! As a mother,I am pissed at this whole ordeal!Tameka was good as long as she allowed Usher to lay with her,but now she’s not because the sex stopped and so did the control? Usher,please take a seat and take Grace’s *ss with you!
SAM…I could HUG you!! Lol I agree with everything you have said EXCEPT Usher kissing the a$$…dont want those lips no where near. lol (smile) I recognize that alot of the people here are young so when speaking about certain things it goes over their heads. I can also tell who us "old heads" are that have been through some things and speak knowledge from experience. Usher was cut off and decided to cut Tameka off…yes I believe there is way more to it then that but I also believe this is playing a big factor. At some point Tameka was EVERYTHING that Usher wanted to the point he really didnt care what anyone had to say about it. Yes it may have seemed short lived in our eyes but please believe he MARRIED the woman he wanted to be with and he HAD KIDS with the woman he wanted to have kids with. That alone keeps my mouth off of her and their situation. Folks keep saying "he should have listened to his mama" NOOOOOOOOO he should have listened to his heart and not let people speak all that crazy stuff…he should also have learned how to control his man parts. There is NOTHING worse then a woman who feel used…you will catch hell. I pray that they both heal from all this hurt and forgive each other because at the end of the day she is ALWAYS be those boys mother and he will ALWAYS be their father and you better believe the boys are watching…
Usher will burn in hell for this bi*ch move…I believe Tamika is a good mother and those boys have no business on a concert tour with Usher….I use to like Usher but he has lost all my support RIP Kile
He’s going with you and your family. Bitch
Girl, grow up. Not agreeing with someone doesn’t warrant any name calling. Learn to disagree without being disagreeable (insults, name calling). You have no idea how bad/immature you just made yourself look.
u most me immature.ain’t nobody on their right mind will tell someone to go to hell.I will never tell my enemy to go to hell.
But calling them a bitch is much better, right? And her talking against a celebrity you don’t know makes her YOUR enemy? Think about that during recess tomorrow.
I thought about something last night… Usher doesn’t have mommy issues (my thoughts) he has DADDY ISSUES his dad wasn’t ther when he was kid and it hurt him alot and he talks about it in most interviews. I think Usher is trying so hard not to be like his dad & crypto.prove that he is great father that he is just being all messy in the process. Usher chill out and let those kids stay with their mom. He seems like he is a good father already and Usher V and Navi love him. That’s what I think
Without going into why,I definitely will say that what ATLien says is true as it pertain to Tameka and Usher…
I’m very perplexed as to why people who have never met Tameka hates her so much?Usher is not the saint many of you feel he is and Tameka is not the devil many of you feel she is.
Poor Meka
Can’t get a break…
First I’m sorry for what happened to Tameka’s my prayers go out to her and her family. Now as usual we forget none of us know what happened behind closed doors we are speculating.Both of them have bashed each other in the media ,so for me sides cannot be taken. One thing we have to understand is those are not Tameka’s kids they are both of their kids. Just like D-wade and a few others he has a right to ask for custody.He’s also away from his kids alot but he got custody. Just because a woman has the baby does not give her automatic custody anymore and its about time.
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