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The nasty custody battle between Usher Raymond and his ex-wife Tameka Foster Glover Raymond resumed in Fulton County Court today (May 20, 2012).
You may recall Tameka hit the stand a few weeks ago and admitted to stating she’d “F*ck up” Usher and his new boo during a heated argument and recently it was revealed that it was Usher who initiated the suit to obtain full custody of the couple’s two young sons, Usher V and Naviyd.
Earlier today it was Usher’s turn to make an appearance on the stand after performing just last night at the Billboard Music Awards.
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While he changed his baby blue suit for a more conservative dark gray, the Grammy award-winning singer went in on his ex-wife, accusing her of viciously assaulting former side chick turnt main chick turnt manager, Grace Miguel.
Watch exclusive video of Usher on the stand below…
VIDEO: Usher Raymond Takes the Stand Against Tameka
Usher and Tameka are battling over custody of their two kids and it was Usher who initially filed the suit seeking full custody of the boys.
According to TMZ:
Tameka once went ballistic and “wanted to fight” … when he showed up at her house with his new sidepiece.
Ush testified Tameka walked to his car and said, “I’m gonna kick your ass. Bitch get out of the car. How dare you bring this woman into my subdivision in my house?”
He added, “She continued to spit. At this point she pulled the door open, tried to swing at her.”
Usher claims he had to get out of the car and block Tameka … who then hit him. Usher said he pleaded with Tameka to calm down, but claims “she threw a plate of food at the car” … as he fled the situation
Usher testifies about his ex going through nanny after nanny and said he worries about who is caring for his kids. He also testified Tameka has a violent history and said she sent a threatening email to a friend of his and later attacked her.
The couple married in 2007. Their marriage lasted less than two years. This doesn’t look like it’s going to end well….
Team Usher? Team Tameka?
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Why would you bring that woman to her house.. I think he is just as much the problem as she is. It takes two. He has the fans on his side to make her look crazier. He needs to own up to his side and she needs to own up to hers.. They both crazy as hell if you ask me.
Thank u Mike!!!! I am sick and tired of his fans speaking ignorantly (about isht that they no nothing/very little about nor concerns them). HE filed for sole custody after HE cheated and is trying to make HER, his EX-wife look bad!!!
YOU NEVER bring the new chick to the old chick’s house..NEVER..especially when you know ther are wounds that haven’t healed..plus he also knows her temper..typical man that gets off with women fighting over him..i don’t care if he was dropping or picking up his sons he knew better..I am a huge fan of Usher but i’m riding with Tameka on this one..that was blatant disrespect and Grace should have KNOWN better
It’s time for Tameka to take her big girl pill and put on her big girl panties and act like a civilized adult! You can tell she’s a hoodrat. Anyway, Tameka blatantly disrespected her KIDS!!! No one threatened Tameka, nor did anyone provoke her. Tameka is violent and I wouldn’t trust her around my kids either. I just wish someone had called the cops and made a report. Now, THAT would have given Usher custody immediately.
If down the hill meant not on her property and they were divorced then I really don’t think he did anything wrong.
He didn’t do anything wrong. She sounds like one of those unreasonable women who ALWAYS blows things out of proportion. Some women think they own you for life. But, I bet you a dollar she doesn’t treat her first husband this way.
Also, I get it folks need to move on..BUUUT if she thought it was still something there only to get blindsided with the new chick that he was lying to her about in the beginning..galavanting around the neighborhood and the kids schools making it known..even the most sane woman would have caught a case..and considering Tameka doesn’t have it all to begin with..that was a HUGE fail on Usher’s part
@2bme I cosign everything you said except I’m not a huge fan of Ushers. He seems to thrive off of drama with women. The confessions album skyrocketed the charts in part to the drama with Chilli. I don’t understand why he wants full custody. I guess the nanny’s will raise the kids while he’s on tour.
why oh why did he bring his girlfriend to Temeka house, really ninja really. especially fresh off a separating/divorce..Immma go park down the hill…what kind of ish is that. Meka should hve whoop’ed his punk ass for that messy ish.
Please tell me you’re 12, because fighting for any reason other than self defense makes you a hoodrat just like Tameka. And, it’s against the law to assault someone unprovoked.
I just wish someone would’ve called the cops on this gorilla. I find it highly questionable that some of you posting are adults anyway, because no one seems to be concerned about the kids being left alone in the house. The Hoodrat mentality is just unbelievable these days. I hope none of you have kids.
oh I forgot….If Tameka has a HISTORY of violence, why bring yo BITCH to the crazy ex-wife house. This ish smells like a set up. Meka fell right into the damn trap.
and really who says subdivion…..instead of house, home…that dont sound right! Im not a fan of Meka’s but that was out of line Usher.
When you lack impulse control, you can’t blame anyone but yourself. Tameka can kiss those boys goodbye and wait until her time comes for a visit.
See I don’t see how ATLIEN or anyone else can ride with Tameka in all of this mess. Usher is NO angel but I’m not turning no blind eye to the nutcase aka Tameka. How long have they been divorced again? WHY is she still checking for him & WHY does it matter who he brings in a passenger seat of a car to her house if the person not even getting out the car?! And I don’t want to hear “oh you know he was still sleeping with Tameka after the divorce”. What exactly is that supposed to prove other than she is a complete moron and have no self-respect for herself. He didn’t knock her down and rape her she knew what was up and she “thought” if she could still sleep with him she would either a) get knocked up with a 3rd child (ching ching$$$) or b) make Usher get back with her. Either way am I supposed to feel sympathy for this biopolar nutcase???
FINALLY, someone with common sense!!! I completely agree with everything you just said. To often women will defend another woman just because she’s a woman and dismiss anything she does wrong, then blame it on the man. If Usher has this much mind control over her, then he would have forced her to act like a caring mother whose more concerned about her kids than the woman he’s in a relationship with.
To Kendra Johnson.. Why does Tameka not deserve anything from him. It takes two to make a baby. Usher wasn’t forced to marry her and to have kids with her. His kids deserve to live the same life as he does. Sounds like Usher is just as crazy as she is. He seems to like drama. If he didn’t he would not be dating Grace. She was Tameka’s friend back in the day. Talking about drama. The kids need to be with the best parent be it Usher or Tameka.
I don’t understand this “don’t bring the new chick around the old chick house”??? These aren’t teenagers these are ADULTS he should be able to have whomever he pleases in HIS car as long as that person does not get out of the car or disrespect the homeowner in ANY WAY. Yall acting like this relationship is fresh off of a breakup….if they divorced in 2009 WHY in the heck in 2011-2012 is Tameka caring about who he dates UNLESS her kids are being subjected to unsafe environment. That Bihh is MENTAL . I would want my kids from around her as well.
YoursTruly….
"I don’t understand this “don’t bring the new chick around the old chick house”??? These aren’t teenagers these are ADULTS"
When they BOTH start acting like adults maybe that can happen. They are both at fault. I may not care for my ex wife but I will not disrespect in front of my kids and we get along because of them. Usher or Tameka act like adults.. They need to the FCK up for the kids
It’s clear that he doesn’t want to give her any money. Tameka is bat shit crazy. And she proved that herself with all the shit she’s been saying on Twitter since their relationship started falling apart. I can’t call how this is gonna end. There’s a reason why she doesn’t have custody of her other kids though. That may play a part in these proceedings.
I don’t think a woman should always have custody just because she birthed her children. In this case, she’s just a carrier of life, and that’s it!
This s*** is getting waaaay out of hand. Can the Raymonds puhleeze get it together and be amicable for the sake of their two boys? That goes for Deion and Pilar Sanders as well. #Crazy as all hell
Tameka is smart , cus if she gets full custody she gets more child support money ..
Tameka is smart??? Are you kidding me? If Tameka is so concerned about her kids, she’d want custody without support if you really want to be technical. Some of you baby carriers (women who get pregnant for child support ONLY) need to be neutered like puppies. Kids need parents who want and love them beyond their own life.
really with usher these women use their kids as pawn to get money that they have not earn there boys they should be with there dad anyway
So far, Usher is proving that he’s the better suited parent to his kids. Unfortunately, their mother lacks impulse control, is violent, and doesn’t seem stable at all. There are over one million single father’s in this country that RARELY get spoken of. I have never been convinced that EVERY woman is worthy of raising her own kids.
Am I the only one who realizes that today is the 21st and not the 20th?
I have 0 respect for Usher. He’s bitch made. Yes, I understand that they are adults, but who in the world wouldn’t be upset about their ex husband bringing a woman he had an affair with to their house? Totally disrespectful. He is ridiculous.
This whole affair is beyond crazy. She looks crazier and crazier, this can’t look good for her. I guess she knows nothing about dignity. SMH.
Technically Usher didn’t bring her to Tomeka’s house, he brought her to his house that he left and let Tomeka still stay in with his children. However I do feel that if Usher really wanted to avoid a confrontation he wouldn’t of showed up with another girl. I think both of them are childish, but then again Usher is a child and she expect some bs out of him. Then on another hand, Usher has money, fame, and power and feels he can do what he want. But on the other hand, the only reason a older women would date a much younger man is so they can control and teach them. I guess he beat her to the punch. I do feel that the children should be given to the grandmother until both of them prove stability and sanity.
Is the judge a man or a woman …only a woman would understand that anger to its fullest
jUCIY!!!
They need to remember that one day they kids will be able to read all about this smh
i don’t see ANYTHING wrong with parking the car down the hill, within the subdivision, not in tameka’s drive way. If all of us are out with the kids and I have to have him home by lets say 6pm,I’m not about to drop grace off, or have her wait in the t-mobile store from fear that yo ass is going to act crazy. Women can be so silly sometime. This woman is going to be around your children. You need to honestly be-friend the bitch. People will take shit out on your children that they can’t take out on you. All parties involved need to grow up. Tameka was all in her feelings cause she had done fixed usher a plate of food and he didn’t want that shit! Thats the real gag!
Its disgusting that they would act that way. Act better for the kids
Team Tameka!
I do not like Usher at all.
If she was his stylist for years and friend then I’m sure her "violent" history is no surprise to him. Yet! He married her and had children with her.
Usher main purpose is to make the judge see her as unfit/unstable etc. so he can have "sole" custody.
sidenote: I’ve often wondered why the ex-husbands (Meek/Grace)have spoken out against Usher (They’ve been quite as a church mouse mmmm). Usher does have a history of getting with married women and all. Just sayin! Meek was married/Grace was married too!
Tameka is silly, she had this man marry her and she still acted a fool. She was just his baby-maker and now he has a new piece..she is being put out the pasture. The new woman is getting her ass completely out the way..Tameka thought she had the upper hand..sorry Boo, your money is not a long and strong like Mr. Raymond..sorry but you are the weakest link..bye-bye..The way she came in is the way she going to leave out..With Nothing..
Amen!
I am so happy he didn’t hit her. Imagine the news headline. SMDH. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
I think Usher is too much of a gentleman to stoop that low. Even if she made him mad enough. I think Tameka hit him because she KNEW he wouldn’t hit her back.
Cant believe u silly people sitting here saying u never bring the other woman to the house like thats a law… this is why black women are getting left behind, unless u can make as much money as your counterpart.. yall make up rules and teach em 2 each other and then when people say you’re crazy, u cant believe it.. there is never a reason for Tamieka to initiate a fight with anyone in ushers car.. simple and plain, if u dont like who he brings to the house, take it to court.. u dont fight the innocent woman.. silly
Kobaine, thank you for stating the obvious to the oblivious. And they wonder why our men choose to marry non-black women.
Grace is a bitch she destroyed Tameka & Usher !
Tameka is out for $….point blank….all those interviews with her upset her marriage is over…its OVER….let him raise his kids tameka stop holding on for the sake of cash….i remember tameka on twitter talking about how much can she get from the divorce…and quickly deleted it…..she is a gold digger…his mother was right…and usher learn from yo mistakes…stop kicking it with the help please
Usher is just gettin what he deserves after playing with so many women over the years. God don’t like ugly…plus he was messin with Grace while he was still married to Tameka soooo why should she be okay with him showing up at her house with his side piece…
People can’t read. Usher did NOT bring Grace to the house. He parked way down the damn street, but Tranmeka being the messy thirsty hO she is wanted to be nosy and see why he parked way down there. Grace was in the car and trust she coulda laid Tameka’s strong jaw having ass out, but like I said before.. She plays her position. Grace is 110% behind Usher, and she doesnt wanna do anything that could jeopardize his case. Grace loves Ush so she’s gonna lay low and do what she has to do only on the strength of him. Tameka’s ugly rat ass will stay losing. Just watch.
Tameka is Fidgety in Court like she is going INSANE. Thats #1,,Girl Be Still,Why is she trying to look so busy,Girl you are not an Attorney she is a nervous Wreck and soo embarrassed because she likes to front on Twiter like she is Soo Happy and over him..I love USHER but you Dont bring the woman you were cheating on me with while we were married to our house…Thats all im saying.I dont like Tameka Either, She seems like a NUT..But im with her on This one.Plus Usher is Hood Im sure he told her to take her ass in the house and tend to the Kids, Dont worry about why I parked down the Hill. Usher is going to win custody Watch.It will be another D Wade Case.
Michelle I’ve been on your site for 3 hours! Will you hire me if I get fired? lol
Grace is a raggedy looking bitch 47 years old creating fucking drama girl bye
Legal custody and visitation are two separate things to iron out. Tameka was hurt. He put her through alot. Remember when he broke off the wedding the day prior. She’s also insecure and vulnerable. This is the same woman who flew to Brazil to have lipo and a tummy tuck shortly after giving birth and suffered a heart attack. She was doing everything she could to hold on. And he discarded her anyway.
Now he’s trying to limit her access to the kids and pay her less. It’s pretty simple. These kids will suffer if they’re not able to sustain a loving relationship with both mom and dad. I hope saner heads prevail and they stop inflicting pain on each other. The kids are just collateral damage.
Like others have said…….Usher did not bring Grace in the house.The real truth is that tameka had no right to lay hands on the woman.
They need to resolve whatever issues they got with each other. Maybe try counselling or something, just so they get along and draw boundaries. What’s best for the kids is to have both parents.
For the sake of the kids I hope they pull it together. Due to her actions in the past on this website I know how she can be but that’s a sore spot for any woman who’s been hurt and the kids suffer in the end. I guess the drug use was no problem then no? Yeah they need to get it together.
It comes near nobody because it may well be ugly as hell but as she has light skin means …. With this critical person.
I am very surprised nobody mention that this woman (Grace) was a very good friend of Tameka … she stole her husband still and betraying their friendship but it looks to be a normal practice!!!
Usher should leave this old woman she is too old for him , not pretty et she’s bad because she’s broke his relation with his mother(and mixed business and love it’s not good for anybody).
She is very TOO OLD for him, she is 46 years old or 12 years older than him, she is not pretty, plump, the surgery esthetic helped to lose weight, dresses badly, has no class short for me it is worse than Tameka.
So I think it is much too old for him and it really does not look in love, and then the story began on the cheating, lies, etc …
She (Grace) has betrayed a friend (Tameka ) … so bad karma for you … GRACE they say: "you will lose the same way you’ve got (trickery, lying, conspiracy)
He should to stay a few time lonely and looking after her children, and after it should be a pretty, smart and class woman between 30-40years (because he loves it) single, no children in order to build a family, get married without drama.
It’s all I wish for him because I have the feel his Gf Grace change him , his style of music since album "Confessions" has much changed and I honestly don’t like this style of music
And the most important I find Usher cannot seem happy and even less in love.
Usher is WRONG period. If Grace is the mistress turned girlfriend and she came to the ex WIFES house, she was wrong. Usher is wrong too, Im sure that she stated that she didnt like her or want her around her house Usher is just being so messy.
Grace ain’t shit but a opportunist that saw a weak boy and he will see that this relationship is a farce, how did she suddenly become his manager??? Where is his mother? Im sorry Im Team Tameka on this one, people can say that shes crazy but the truth is she did what any woman would do. Especially, coming to the house with him to drop off their kid. Usher is really foul and he is the messy dog in this story.
Women, yall need to get over that mess…and so does Tameka. If you are no longer with him, regardless as to where YOUR feelings stand, get over it already!!! That man has moved on with his life, deal with it and get on with yours. Your kids are going to be around another woman regardless as to how you feel or what YOU want. Stop getting mad because he has someone else. I am a mother as well and as long as my ex has my daughter’s best interest at heart, I don’t give a flying fu** what he does in his personal life! *smh* Tameka needs to act her damn age, take care of her sons and move on with her damn life. I bet Usher wish he had listened to his mom now! Mother’s ALWAYS know!!! She knew Tameka wasn’t about sh**. Tameka is bringing alot of this mess on herself.
I am neither for nor Usher Tameka but I can understand his reaction (regardless of what motivated her pregnancies, her marriage) but I feel she still has feelings for him and I think the fact that this new woman is a friend of hers, I must say it’s enough (even while being very quiet in nature) to make a scene, it’s really a lack of respect from Ush because despite everything, she is and will remain the mother of two of his children.
And Grace this for a woman her age 46 years doing this to a friend that’s really the worst thing is disgusting!
Thief husband! Very bad friend.
I do not know if they are believers but do these things, they pay a day when the other.
I think that Ush has not yet met the woman of his life, and Grace this date will lose ALL her work and her boyfriend.
I think Usher should focus on her children and her career, draw a line under this heavy sentimental past few remaining single time before engaging in a real serious relationship with a woman who is not a thief of a husband , a woman who does not deceive her own husband to be in a relationship with him, a relationship that begins in a pure and most uneventful maybe he can finally build another family, to marry and be happy and we make beautiful songs rnb / soul and pop with the stop (though I’m French) because it does not use his beautiful voice.
And leave this new woman Grace this, which I think we do not tell (her Meeka but everyone said), I feel it benefits him she and her little family (see photos of his daughter @ twitter itsmeleaf ….) we see Usher with his children on the feast of mothers and I do not think he was in Atlanta with his mom Jonetta but New York Brooklyn Grace and what his children and a small child (baby 2 years old … about the son of ush??).
Usher is a opprotunist he is using this to sell more cds…. think about it. He know damn well he can not promote an cd, do a tour and take care of kids. So his just as unfit as Tameka is.
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I guess she’s a lil *bitter* I’m rooting for your girl move on you’ll be alright.
The point is that Usher was well aware of how Tameka would react if he brought another woman over to her house. This is the reason he parked down the hill. He said this himself.
It’s not about him being respectful of Tameka by not bringing another woman near her house. It’s about Usher knowing the possible consequences and doing it anyway.
If I were Grace I would be made as hell that my boyfriend brought me over to his ex-wife’s house knowing good well she is crazy and I get spit at and swung on. However, Grace is not innocent either. If Tameka was her ex friend she knows that Tameka is crazy. We all know which of our friends is crazy! Be for real!
TAMEKA WAS WRONG!!! IM GOING THROUGH SOMETHING VERY SIMILAR. THE MOTHER OF MY FIANCE CHILD HATES MY GUTS. THEY WERE TOGETHER FOR 4 YRS OFF AND ON AND WHEN I CAME INTO THE PICTURE ALL HELL BROKE LOOSE. SHE HAS NEVER KEPT HIM FROM HIS CHILD UNTIL "ME". WOMEN GET ANGRY WHEN THEY KNOW THAT ITS NOT GOING TO BE ANYMORE OF THEM. I DONT’T KNOW WHAT HAS HAPPENED BETWEEN THEM IN THE PAST AND IT’S NONE OF MY BUSINESS SO I DON’T CARE. TAMEKA STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR USHER AND IT SHOWS BUT SHE HAS TO BE AN ADULT ABOUT IT AND PUT HER FEELINGS TO NTHE SIDE AND MOVE THE F*CK ON FOR THE SAKE OF THE KIDS. LOSING YOUR KIDS DUE TO YOUR STUPIDITY IS YOUR OWN FAULT. LOOKING AT IT FROM BOTH SIDES IF I WAS USHER I WOULD HAVE TRIED TO AVOID THE SITUATION AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. IT DOES SEEM AS THOUGH HEWAS DANGLING BAIT INFRONT OF TAMEKA BUT AT THE SAME TIME DO YOU REALLY EXPECT HIM TO STOP LIVING JUST TO ACCOMIDATE HIS EX-WIFE… NO MA’AM!!! BE AN ADULT ABOUT IT AND TAKE IT FOR WHAT IT IS AND MOVE ON. SHE HAS DONE NOTHING BUT MAKE A FOOL OF HERSELF FOR THE SAKE OF A MAN OF A MAN THAT HAS MOVED ON….
First and foremost Tameka is not crazy, she’s a mother! Yes, she might have anger issues but that has nothing to do with how she reacts when the "new" woman in Usher’s (and the child’s) life is the mistress and basis of their marriage falling apart. Infidelity should not be excused here; Usher is wrong! Period. And about Usher bringing Grace to the house, I find that a little spiteful because I honestly believe that Grace found it "cute", she just should not have given ammunition. They should wait until the court handles their trial and settles it, and then they can be cordial, or whatever you want to call it (fake!). But until then, she should have steered clear!
OK I stand corrected..I wasn’t able to watch the video because I was at work..If Usher did indeed park down the hill to avoid a confrontation and Tameka decided to act as an overgrown hoodrat then I have no sympathy for her
He brought his new girlfriend to the house HE owns and allows Tamika to live in. Lets not get it twisted Tamika doesnt own SH*T!
I understand some of the talk about not bringing Grace to the house Tamika lives in however, at what point is going to be a good point? Its not like he walked up into the house with the woman or she was walking up the driveway with them all hand in hand. She was in the car waiting. They’ve been divorced going on like 3 years, at what point is a good point to have the woman in the car down the hill from the house? Tamika is a very grown woman who should know how to control herself plain and simple. You cannot blame someone for your actions. She is her own person and should be able to control herself.
I think her bigger issue is the way she got Usher is the same way Grace got him. They worked together, and became close friends and confindants and it turned into a relationship. That was Tameka’s main story how they met. She was his stylist and he’s always talk to her about this woman problems and bam they got invovled and wasnt she still married to Corey Glover at the time? Yup I think so.
My point is she’s a mother of several kids, 4 or 5, and she has other issues to worry about besides who he’s dating. If she had a man none of this would even be an issue. She’s pissed that he’s moved on and she hasnt. Its so sad.
All this could have been avoided had you LISTENED TO YOUR MOMMA IN THE FIRST PLACE! UGH! Poor kids.
And I agree….I don’t give a ham what happened…you do not bring another woman into her space. You call first and give her a heads up and let her know you have company in the car outta respect.
Not condoning how she dealt with it though. Ghetto bird.
Why can’t adults act like adults? Her marriage to Usher has ended, and he has obviously moved on. Fighting the new woman, over a perceived slight, when she is sitting in a car parked far from the house is ridiculous. She left her home and walked down the hill to confront this woman for what reason? Drama Queens I’ll tell you. Why not avoid the nonsense and stay your azz in your house? Is it that difficult to control yourself seriously? Isn’t Tameka in her 40’s?
Usher was trying to start some mess. Why bring your mistress to your wife’s home? That is some ghetto ratchet type mess. He must like seeing women fight over him.
I hope the judge sees through his facade. So disappointed in Usher, I thought he was better than that.
Tameka is no saint but I believe she tried to be a good wife and mother and Usher just used her as a rebound and a means to get back at his mother. These momma’s boys are a real piece of work.
Usher pay up and get tha f*ck up.
@ Real_ish
what does "way down the damn street" mean? If Tameka saw them, then they weren’t that far from her house. It doesn’t matter if they were 6 blocks away. Don’t bring your side piece nowhere near the vicinity of your wife whom you are having a heated divorce with. Don’t bring a knife to a gun fight.
yh but the point many ppl are missing in that story is that the new chick was Tameka’s friend…and due to these circumstance nobody and i say NOBODY would take that betrayal now i don’t care of Usher excuses for the car and shit he perfectly know what he did to his ex wife couldn’t u just bring back the kids and meet your other "opportunist old bitch" later on? when i look at all that mess I wish Usher was still with Chili..i believe she was the most decent girl he dated..his mom gave him advice about tameka and all he didn’t listen look how he ended up now? and that Grace isn’t better…no..i really believe Chili was the right one for him u did a stupid mistake to let her go..
why did tameka lose custody of her other children?
@ali
I wasnt trying to comment on this subject but i had too. She (Tameka) didnt lose custody all her kids live w/ her except for the 20 something year old he has a place of his own. People are just stupid putting out the WRONG facts. Ryan Kile Usher V and Navi all live w/ Tameka so she cant be all that bad. s/n Ryan Glover Sr. doesnt seem to have a problem with her so why does Usher?? something not right. And thats all i got to say
In the feb 2012 issue of s2s, tameka said Usher was doing the best he could with the vistation issue. His profession make it hard, for him to have strict vistation. In fact both of them are in the entertainment business, so both of them would really have to work together when it comes to the children. It’s not like they have 9-5 jobs.She is a stylist, she could be out of the country, for weeks, working with one of her clients. He could be on tour, for months. There vistation can’t be set in stone, just totally impossible. This is why the both of them need to grow up and work together or they are going to be in court more than working and raising the boys.
Once again, it doesn’t matter. Tameka shoulda kept her callused heel, ashy ass in the house. It didn’t matter if Usher had Magic Johnson in the car. Usher didn’t bring Grace to the door with him so that doesn’t matter. Tameka is mad that Grace is the woman in his life now, and her haggard ass got cancelled quicker than an all black season of The Real World. And this sounds like it happened after Usher divorced her stupid ass anyway, so she was NOT a wife and Grace isn’t a sidechick. That is his woman now. Pick up Billboard magazine, they’ve made it public that they’re together. Tameka needs to get over it. All this over a man who clearly has moved on. Still stressing and acting a damn fool. All it’s doing is causing her to age more and she doesn’t need anymore help looking a mess cuz she ain’t cute to begin with. Usher ain’t had a pretty woman since Chilli and Eishia, but I digress.
Um @ Realish
Grace is a sidechick b/c she messed with Usher while he was STILL married. It does matter who one brings around their kids when they are dealing with an angry spouse or baby momma/baby drama. Alot of the mess that Usher is going through, he have brought upon himself!
Do you know Tameka? Why are you going on about calloused heels and ashy ass and what she needs to get over? You must not have a man or children. Marriages are nothing to be played with and neither are kids. People need to know how to act accordingly. Yes Tameka can move on and I’m sure she wants to but when you have a man who is creating drama, not wanting to give you an adequate divorce settlement AND take your kids, you can’t afford to sit idly by and be meek. Meek women lose everything!
And why do you have so much hate for Tameka? Would you dog Chili if it were her going through this mess? I’m beginning to think Tameka was right about people hating her because she was dark-skinned and not the typical Alicia Keys/Halle Berry type we are all used to. Oh well. Whatever happens will happen. I can’t see myself dogging a woman/mother out for how she looks when she looked fine enough for Usher to marry her and have kids with her.
Thank u Girl!!! Tired of these ignorant biased Usher stans riding for him through his wrongs..
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@ TianaJay
Good observation! The other men aren’t dogging Tameka out and tryng to put her in a bad light. Only Usher is doing this and probably because he doesn’t want to get off that child support and alimony.
You don’t start nothing, there won’t be nothing. All he had to do was hold his family down but it appears fidelity just isn’t in his nature. Poor Grace or whatever her name is.
@Kamalla thank you and i agree with what you said to @Realish keep it 100 girl. IJS but im with Team Tameka on this case.
At this point I am Team Overit..it’s becoming too much and although Navi and Cinco are too young to truly understand..her other sons are old enough to see, hear and be ridiculed behind it..This needs to stop
Lmao I won’t say too much without outing who I am, but trust Ms. Fraudulent Foster WILL get hers. That nasty attitude has nothing to do with how she looks or her bitterness. It wouldn’t matter what color she is, she knows EXACTLY why she is disliked. That complexion sh!t is a scapegoat. I’ve met Chilli and she’s a sweetheart. And she also doesn’t act the way Tameka does, even when she was with Usher. And side chick or not, Grace got Usher the same way Tameka got him. Karma came back around and Usher is gettin his as well.
I don’t understand why people keep saying Usher is a baby.. He is a grown ass man who wants to lay down with all these women while in a relationship. He needs to pay for the kids he help make. Joint custody will be given because both are messy. I really hope both have to take parenting classes.
seems more like to me that this is a trial of past issues in the relationship instead of a custody battle, the testimony in this video has nothing to do with the children besides the fact to show that their mom is crazy, if it’s over it’s over, except it and move on, good thing he left when he did or she would have even more kids, cause once she got started she just kept going
, just my opinion
Tamaka is wack as hell for what she did….and yes Usher shoulda listened to his mother. She knew what Tomika was up too. It shouldnt matter if Usher brought the chick to the front door you DONT put your hands on nobody especially if they havent harmed you. This is foolishness 101! Temeka needs to sit down and pray that things go her way (which I dont think they will) and start to act like a mother in her 40’s and not some hood rat from the projects with multiple baby daddies. WTH is she thinking?
She can wear all the fancy clothes and have personal chefs and whatever she is still class-less! #tragic
Wait…did someone say the childs name was Cinco?
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Lmao, I’m reading so much foolery right about now. Why couldn’t he bring grace to her place while he picks up his kids? The father of my would’ve child (miscarriage) brought his new girl over my house, i went out, we shook hands, and that was it. We are adults, just like her big ugly grown ass!
Ms.Jessica, I’m sorry to hear about your loss. I think women like yourself need to be seen and heard more in our community for young women to know how to act like a lady in all situations dealing with men. Unfortunately, the behavior Tameka displayed is more common in our community than your own. I’m embarrassed for Tameka and all of her followers, because this type of dysfunction is taught at home, not in the streets.
@ Real_ish You aint never lied baby!
what the fuck is wrong with ya people, He could bring the new girlfriend to the house, the tameka woman is just jealous and still trying to get usher, she’s making his life miserable. I hope Grace is not using my baby and her daughter trying to be famous. Usher is innocent in this it’s these women that goes crazy and can’t let go of him. I hope and Pray he gets his kids. Peace and ya make sure ya get the copy of "looking 4 myself" june 12 ya digg
Usher is way out of line. How could he bring his former jump off and mistress to the house of the kids mother/wife. He is crazy as hell and I would have drug his ass down the street too. He is so messy and ugly for that.
Even if the jump off is now his main chick, she still is the jump off reloaded. LOL.. I would have done more to her and spitting would not have been one of them. She should be slapped up coming to that ladys house, Im sure they have had words and she expressed not liking her, Usher is a dirty dog. I heard her slept with Maya Fox Davis the former bridesmaid too. What a nasty dog? Gross there’s no excuse for this stuff. Grace has a winner on her hands. What goes around comes around!!! I will not be buying Ushers new music, no way.
You hoodrat women will fight over the last pack of bologna in the store, because you have yet to learn how to communicate without using your fists. How sad. Your reasoning is exactly why black women are seen as angry, ghetto, loud, irrational, and unreasonable. And you wonder why some black men date and marry women of other races? This is why!!!