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The caught a few shots of the cute couple, who were together last weekend in Macon as Kandi & her RHOA co-star Phaedra Parks played host to “Ladies Night” in Macon with ‘The Infamous ReDickulous,” the male stripper that caused an uproar at Kandi’s birthday party on the show this season.
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A lot of my readers have inquired as to why I didn’t blast Kandi about being a “homewrecker,” and honestly, it’s because I never believed the story.
Homewrecker? What’s does that mean exactly?
Honestly, think about it… how the hell could Kandi have wrecked a home if dude was never married?
Annnnnd if he chose to leave a dead end relationship to pursue a positive relationship with a woman of substance, how is that Kandi’s fault?
Fantasia and Alicia Keys on the other hand… now THOSE two could possibly be considered ‘homewreckers’…
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And while there are women out there whose only mission is to seek & destroy happy homes, some of you women THINK you’re in relationships but your man still believes he’s single.
For example… if it’s been years and he hasn’t put a ring on it, then there’s a huge chance that he’s probably killing time with you til his wife comes along.
The situation is soooo common… you THOUGHT you were on the trek to marriage with a man who’s been in and out of your life for years… only to be unceremoniously dumped and finding out weeks later that said dude is about to get married. Happens all the time.
But I digress… *steps off soap box*
I’m just happy that Kandi seems so happy these days!
Love is a beautiful thing and with a hectic life like Kandi’s (i.e. her Bedroom Kandi sex toy line, successful music career, the housewives, and her NEW reality show which is coming soon), it’s hard to imagine she even has time to entertain relationship drama.
Oh… I also ran into the cute couple last night at the “Safe House” screening in Atlanta. Y’all can sleep if ya wanna, but this thing right here between she & Todd… seems SERIOUS!
Could Kandi be on her way to becoming a REAL Real Housewife of Atlanta?
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You can wreck a home but not a happy one. But I wouldn’t label Kandi as one. I think she deserves to be happy and this man could be the one. More power to ya gurl!
That’s what someone with no morals would like to tell themselves I’m sure. But someone is married,living with someone or in ANY kind of relationship with someone and cheats with another,the other party is a homewrecker.
That’s bull… the one who is married, living with someone or in any kind of relationship and who cheats with someone outside of that relationship is the one who is a homewrecker, cause they are the one wreckin their own home… they are the one with no morals… always wannan put it on the outside person, when the real fault goes to the one who is in the relationship…stop takin up for the one who goes outside of the home or relationship to cheat… that’s like blaming someone who gets rape that it was there fault… wake up dumb as people
khAndi .. is about to wear the poors man penis OUT!…
And what does Todd do?
Congrats to Kandi. They compliment each other.
I am very happy for Kandi. She deserves to be happy. She seems sincere and real out of all the women on the show. I only have one question: Is dude the guy who was on RHOA episode that went with Kandi to the country singers house to work on music?
She looks happy!!(both)
It’s not real. If you all remember correctly in one of this season’s episodes, she commented about meeting some rediculous deadline about having another baby and being married. This is a smoke screen.
Go Kandi! He is cute and I like the idea that someone famous dates someone who isn’t. I think it reduces pressure. He is HOT
Toya, I believe, if I am correct, he works behind the scenes on the show.
He looks like Jim Jones……or how Jim Jones would look if he had a hair cut and a bath! LOL
who is she takin care of now
You better say it Miss Brown, Hmmph! and Go Kandi!!!!
So Kandi is a ‘TIP DRILL’?! LOL
The person in the relationship who chooses to step out and not consider their mate or home is a home wrecker. How can you approach and persue a single person knowing that you have someone at home? I dont fault the single person
I feel the one who decides to say f#ck my woman/man and our house IS the home wrecker.
You’re right about the homewrecker description, but did Kandi start seeing him BEFORE he moved out, or BEFORE? Once you know the answer to that question, then we can decide whose the homewrecker(s).
I meant to say, after he moved out, or before?
@ Asha…WHAT is ur problem?…the man was not married 2 anyone…a person has a right 2 exit a relationship when & if they see fit 4 any reason…if he loved the ex he would have married her, not left her…some women are delusional & believe they are in a "relationship" but in reality they were just getting fxxxed all that time….a home consists of a husband and wife….there was no "home" 4 Kandi 2 wreck…HE made the choice 2 walk away…women & men get left all the time…if wanted 2 be with the ex he would still be there…if it were serious with the broad he would have married her….YOU need 2 chill out…if u can’t keep ur man, that ain’t the next bytch fault….
He looks yummy! Go Kandi. If that person is not in a committed relationship then your not home wrecking. Some people date or hook up for months then get mad when they see him out with another girl. If you never had that conversation stating the status of your relationship then both parties are free to do what they like.
Secondly marriage is not for everyone. I know several couples who have been together for years but have no desire to marry because of financial reasons. Sometimes you don’t want to be in another tax bracket
Not that Kandi cares but I’m very happy for her! and if she is taking care of him that’s her business not like she can’t afford it!!
Not shocked at all. I am shocked at how the other 2 ladies were talked so bad about,but yet what kandi is doing is okay and something to celebrate. Smh…
Anneisha, you’re absolutely right! We’re living in a selfish and morally corrupt society and alot of people don’t see anyhing wrong with cheating UNTIL it happens to them.
wow wow wow so if u like the person who gets involved with someone in a relationship they’re not wrong but if u dont like them they get the home-wrecker title??? We do see it all the time that men leave one for the other but the point is that even if ur not legally married theres some understanding. So he’s a cheater and a liar but not married so its ok? He’s disloyal and an opportunist but these are ok traits in a man?? oh ok as long as he aint married…..
You and I see this exactly the same. I know Atlanta is short on single, and straight black men, but this is morally wrong no matter how you look at it. And, to be honest, this doesn’t surprise me at all about Kandi. She’s always come across as having loose morals with no boundaries. Like they say, the same you got him will be the same way you lose him.
^^^ Right. I don’t agree with this post at all, but hey…whatever floats your boat.
Co-sign. It seems like the more likeable the celebrity the quicker they are to receive a pass. Or, if the ex is a celebrity or vocal, the public is more likely to believe the ex. I believe Todd or whatever his name, was in a relationship, at least enough so that a woman was comfortable with claiming him. Its embarrassing for women to say that men chill with a broad until someone better comes along. That is unacceptable behavior for men and for women to accept. To me, he saw a come up and went with it.
Wayyyyy to much azz kissin on this site. The writer is clearly bias.
ummmm??? i believe it is homewrecking when someone’s enterfering a relationship period whether its positive or not….until the agreement is met to call the relationship off if anyone comes along trying to get in i would consider that HOMEWRECKING!!! ijs….now im thinkn i read something wrong but if not thats just my opinion….far as kandi im happy for the broud,even thought i know she taking care of dude lmao glads shes happy or looks it.
You go Kandi! Kandi works hard and deserves nothing but the best….the girl has been making a hustle for a long time so she deserves a little tender loving care. Gossip on the street is they came to Macon and showed out at club 32. My peeps are still talking about what you all brought to the MAC town. You all must come again……my peeps brought more toys from Kandi than parents buy from TOYS R’ US.
lawd have mercy..a bunch of debbie downers…..IM HAPPY FOR CANDI…YOU GO GIRL!!!! smoke screen & shaking bobble heads…somebody always talking TRASH!!!
lawd have mercy..a bunch of debbie downers…..IM HAPPY FOR CANDI…YOU GO GIRL!!!! smoke screen & shaking bobble heads…somebody always talking TRASH!!!
A.N.D. says:
February 9, 2012 at 1:51 pm (Edit)
The person in the relationship who chooses to step out and not consider their mate or home is a home wrecker. How can you approach and persue a single person knowing that you have someone at home? I dont fault the single person.
I feel the one who decides to say f#ck my woman/man and our house IS the home wrecker.
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^^^^ cosign! Very eloquently stated.
I’m happy for Kandi she deserves it %100. Kandi has stated on Kandi Koated Nights that Todd is NOT the camera guy (but I think he does work for Bravo, which there is nothing wrong with). Also he wasn’t in a relationship he was just dating around just like everyone else ya know testing the waters. He met Kandi they dated and he just decided to be exclusive with her and not those other chicks. There is NOTHING wrong with that! If he don’t wanna be with then he don’t wanna be with you! Even if atliend is biased this is HER site if you dont like it go somewhere else.!
People are grown and can do what they like.
However. I personally wouldn’t ever get with a man that would leave someone to be with me . like never ever~~
I’m pretty sure Kandi is Big Momma in this relationship…Marlo called that a while back! They do NOT make a cute pair at all. IJS! All that sloppy azzz. YUCK! O_o
They say opposites attract, but only for a while. This relationship won’t last until the next season. By the way, isn’t it a conflict of interest to date the staff at Bravo? Just wondering.
@Please How come EVERYTIME there’s a post about kandi, sheree, phaedra or any of the other housewives y’all have to bring up the other cast members??? Why can’t they just get their shine individually what’s with all the hate I don’t get it. And what in the world would marlo (aka inmate 3726739) know shouldn’t be picking up trash on the interastate or something???? #getalife
I believe in karma. Yes a good woman deserves happiness but I’d be reluctant to become involved with a man trying to hook up with me, when he has someone at home already..happy relationship or not..why? it could be have future consequences ..like him doing the same shyt to me when he decides that he’s ready to move on. I’m not suggesting that anyone stick with what doesn’t work for them but there is a proper way to end a failed relationship.Leave no stone unturned!
Kandi didn’t have a problem with this guy leaving his girlfriend for her, because she would have done the same if the tables were turned. And one day those tables will turn.
AND if it leads to something serious like "marriage" don’t be a dummy..get a prenup!
Seriously??!! (Come on now Mitchell)
She is very much a homewrecker and he is too! Big Momma knew he had a girl. She probably just told him if he wanted to roll with her, he need to tell the girlfriend with whom he was in a relationship with to BEAT IT. Besides, he seems like the average thirsty guy trying to come up, so why wouldn’t he leave his basic relationship for one that could actually pay his bills. I ain’t mad at either one, but please "call a spade a SPADE"!
Anyway, don’t try to make Kandi out to be a Saint…like she’s NEVER done this before??? @ATLien, we get it…she’s your homegirl, but every time you write something shady like this…all I can do is laugh and smh.
So homewrecking isn’t homewrecking when it’s your home girl that’s homewrecking???
One more thing, who on this blog started going in on Kandi about her being a homewrecker??? Did I miss something??? Or is this your slick way of throwing shade on your "friend"???
Either way, this site is truly entertaining.
If he is single, employed, straight and not with her to bring himself up then she has found a good man.
If on the other hand he had a girlfriend who thought everything was cool and he is just using Kandi to further his career and deepen his pockets then she has not found a good man.
Remember Marlo called her a Big Momma.
Only time will tell with these two. Remember she thought AJ was the ish and he had all those kids by all those different women.
Some of y’all are something else, you don’t know nothing about Kandi and Todd except what u read on the blogs..just plain gossip…the man wasn’t married and you don’t even know if he had a live in girlfriend.
You all sound very silly acting like you know her personally. Stop reading MTO and feeding into the gossip. Too much hating going on in this world and not enough support. I hope this works out for her, she just like everyone else deserves to be happy and if it doesnt work…on to the next!!!!! A "home" on a solid foundation cant be destroyed.
Well said Vay…I see we agree on something else…the man was NOT married, therefore she did not wreck anything….I say it’s their personal business….a man has every right 2 leave a girlfriend if & when he chooses…a lot of times breakups don’t "set in" 4 ppl until they see their ex dating someone else….
WOW HE REALLY SEEMS TO LIKE THE CAMERA; IN FRONT OF IT THAT IS. HMM???………..JENNY JONES!!!!
ummmm???
i can understand some view points stated….
Nothing but ignorance from this site I see. Everyone from the writer if the article to the ones that agree with it. B/c you all like Kandi she gets a pass even though the writer always talk about kandi dating men who are already in relationships and you guys say she deserves to be happy and good for her; but because you don’t like fantasia (who is with a regular guy), Alicia, LeAnn… etc they get labeled as home wreckers. Oh please, if you guys were in a relationship and I approach your man or he approach me and we start dating the only way I’d be a home wrecker if if you and I some how knew each other (friends, co-workers, relative). If your man steps out on you, its his fault not mine. So if you label one something it goes for all. If in your eyes kandi isn’t a home wrecker, then stfu about the other women listed. Some woman are just ignorant……
First of all it’s not homewrecking if your not married. Let it go, Kandi deserves this happiness. He is FINE. I’m so happy for her to find love after all she went through in the public eyes. If this man was happy elsewhere he would be on this picture with Kandi. God Bless.
Where is all the "homewrecker" business coming from?? Did I miss a post?? Someone please spill the tea!!
I’m thinking this is how she rolls for real tho. Remember that football player she was dating — Willis McGahee?!?!? He had a girlfriend with a baby on the way!!! So give me an effin break about Ms. Kandi being a saint, etc. She’s gutter just like the rest of them!
Well, at least he’s not ugly…
Michelle, Kandi and the rest of you chicks who think that getting with a man who is in a relationship but not married is okay sound like birds! If that situation were to happen to you, I’m positive you would not be so accepting of it. You would be trashing the other woman as much as you possibly could. When are women going to get tired of accepting men’s bs???
lets keep it real, dude is an opportunitst and kandi is desperate and dont mind being a big momma to him or his kids.. that is if he got them. and dudes girlfriend spilled all of the tea, talking bout he would call her wack along with her singing skills. its gonna be ill gotten gains. just get a prenup. idiot
STOP HATIN U DON’T KNOW THAT GIRL FROM A CAN OF PAINT SO DON’T ACT LIKE YOU DO! HAVE YOU EVER SPENT TIME WITH HER, BEEN IN HER HOUSE! HELL NAWL SO WHY COMMENT LIKE YOU KNOW! AN FOR THE RECORD ON ALICIA KEYS & FANTASIA SITUATION THOSE WIVES CAME FORWARD AN STATED THAT THEY WERE STILL WITH THEIR HUSBANDS! WHEN THEY WERE IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH THOSE MEN! HAS A WIFE OF HIS CAME OUT NO!
you will side with kandi because you are friends and she gives you inside scoop on certain things. fine, but dont go labeling fantasia and alicia, because like you said you cant take a man that dont want to be taken …secondly, you shouldn’t speak on others relationships when you dont know all the details. now this right here, A FARSE!!! I dont believe nothing about this , it seems forced and fake…how can you be so sure this is the one and she just met the man? wow….sad sad black women when will you all learn, every man with a penis that say he like your face and butt dont mean he is marriage material! Wake up Kandi and Atlien…
every good woman deserve a good man and i feel like yes kandi should have a man that is sent from God and she should wait on God…this just seem too convenient….since she put it out there….kandi has lost her dad and her brother,and her ex fiance, she is an insecure woman searching for love in the wrong way. she need to slow down and wait on God like i did! God will do it, if you let him, dont go before God or else you will have heart break all the time!!! Kandi, BEWARE OF DOGS CHASING A BIG BUTT AND A SMILE!!!! LET GOD DO IT , IM KEEPING IT 100%!
Reading this board has made me sad. Morals in this country and in our community are gone. You can not build happiness off of someone else’s sorrow.
Fact is the man was in a relationship. Fact is Kandi probably knew. IMO, if Kandi knew, BOTH are homewreckers. If she did not know, than it’s his fault.
yes, i would also like to know, whose calling her a homewrecker and why, did this guy have a wife and leave her for kandi? scoop please…and also, why would kandi date her friends ex? her ex fiance was also tiny’s ex, why would she want someone leftovers even it was years ago? can we say leftover queen??? she accepts leftovers because she is insecure and is void of love. she is straight atlanta only and therefore everyone in atlanta has had their pice of her and thats why she cant get a man outside of atlanta like a football player or a basketball player or a rapper or a businessman….they know she is spoiled and a hoodrat bottom line! birds of a feather flock together, kandi get some class i expect more from you because you are a mother!!!!
i wonder why kandi didn’t get with the guy that was on RHOA making country music with her! the guy that said he had 6 horses and bought her a cowboy hat. he seems to have a lot in common with kandi. i guess he wouldn’t have caused any drama, so he didn’t interest her. some women only want drama. while todd is nice looking, i would pick the guy with the farm and horses for kandi. cause a successful woman should have a successful man.
I don’t know if I would call this article biased but I can see why some of yall think so. People, including this site and about a hundred more, went and are still goin in hard on A.Keys &Fanny. However, the fact is if you’re not married you can just get up and walk out of any relationship at any given time, with or without someone else’s arms to fall into. When you’re married you can leave but the marriage isn’t legally over until the divorce is final. That’s the difference and like it or not it’s a huge difference. A cheater is a cheater though, no matter what. So instead of praising this relationship somebody might wanna remind her that the spots on a leopard don’t change. The same way you get em is usually the same way you lose em.
Let me be clear, I am not an advocate of cheating on any level. But let me ask a question. How did your last relationship end? Did your ex stay single until the blogs said he/she could date again or did they just start dating again right away. How often do people get out of relationships and then immediately go into another one? Often enough that there is a name for it, rebounding. My point is if he wasn’t married then how long exactly was he supposed to wait before he started dating? This dude was not married, so I really don’t understand what the problem is, unless of course he was dating both women at the same time. If that’s the case then he’s dead wrong. If not then please stop tryin to find drama where there is none.
And somebody asked about morals in today’s society…chile they been gone. People lay up with people all day long and then use the excuse that marriage isnt for everyone then get mad and talk ish when that dude they were layin next too is laid up with the next chick. You can’t be mad that somebody did you wrong when your non-marital relationship was wrong in the first place…if we gettin technical.
and all this was posted…because..???…who really cares. good for her she finally found someone, now she can stop playin with them sex toys and acting desperate….uggh..
Kandi will fall for anyone and gets burnt everytime…guys in jail want her address….GEEZ!!
KANDI WOULD BE INDEED FOOLISH TO BFF WITH SORRY NENE ..AND CYNTHIA IS DEFINILY A DAMM FOR FOR MARRY SORRY PETER .. CYNTHIA IS A TROUBLE MAKER AND TWO FACEED SHE COULD WAIT TO TELL WHAT SHERRE SAID.. NOW CYNTHIA IS ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKIN IN WHEN IT COME TO NENE. WAKE THE HELL UP CYNTHIA SHE TOLD ALL OF YALL HER AND MARLO CLICK… TAKE A NUMBER SISTER.
mama joyce wont let her get serious anyway! so i’d advise her to enjoy the trip but be slow to give all u have.
Congrats to the dude . Get paid …… I can’t stand her country azz! Slow talking 2 faced self…… Hope he lightens up those pockets just a little….lmao
I think kandi should date hln news anchor ryan smith if he is single….. he interviewed her the other day and they had some chemistry going on! big time
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CONGRATS to Kandi and her new boo; b HAPPI and have lots of fun together bc it seems like u been thru a lot Kandi and u really deserves it… Forget these haters girl; life is 2 short!!!
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Kandy seems so desperate, every season she has a new man that she shacks up with. how about getting a ring and then move in with the man, I hope that riley don’t get traumatized by all these emotional upheavals from those temporary fathers that she keeps on bringing into the house.
It is not OK to be a sugar mama, I don’t know if you have low self esteem, but you can get a man without throwing your money.
you are a cute girl and your actions makes people laugh at your lack of judgement.
Get married and then move into your mansion. For the love of GOD open your mouth when you talk, always grinding your damm teeth.
da bitch taking care of him like marlo said tem marlo and nene love them 2 like cynthia sheree broke kim still a whore phaedra ok but her husband aint got no job…
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Go Kandi!!!!
all of these people thinkin this woman is a homewrecker, come on n git real. if it was so happy at home todd would still b there, but hey shit happens!!!
she got more miles on her than a grayhound bus lol
todd keep your eyes on the prize lol @ kandy royalty checks lol
Todd has been around the block lots of times,he’s from Los Angeles,his homeies,mike and a few others did lots of dirt in the 90′s so kandi isn’t the only one with tons of frequent flyer miles.
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