Dumb decision! Go and pay her respects. They knew what they were signing up for when they got on reality tv!

She shouldn´t go. As Off the Wall as she is she might try to fight her while she´s still in the casket with Kandi standing by waiving her hands crazily doing nothing looking bewildered making more excuses.

Dumb decision… She needs to be there for Todd/Kandi… And let go whatever her issue is. Grow the hell up

As long as she discussed it with Todd and they collectively came up with that decision then I agree with her decision. But hopefully Moma Joyce has learned her lesson which she should´ve learned years ago that life is too short for BS!!

RIP Ms Sharon

Dumb.

That is one old bitter, baggy-eyed bitch! Why wouldn’t she go to show support for her daughter and son-in-law at a difficult time like this? She wanted Todd’s mom out of the picture anyway. First AJ and now Todd’s mom. She is definitely using that voodoo on people to keep them away from Kandi. Todd had better watch out. He’s probably next on her voodoo list. We all know she is not too thrilled about Todd and Kandi trying for a baby so she is working her majic right now. Let’s see if my prediction comes true. #devil

the way she treat that women, she should keep her mean ass at home. women like her don’t care about how they treat people.

Finally doing the right thing!

That´s not news she want b missed by Todd now will she
They don´t need evil 2 attend only family n friends who matter the most people

Nobody has time for this foolishness now. BUT she would probably be a distraction since Miss Sharon´s NY peeps will be giving her the side eye.

Mama Joyce needs to keep her Ratchet self away from the funeral. She should have made peace with Todd & his mom a long time ago……Kandi needs to put her mom in CHECK instead of writing checks for her!!!!!!

this woman is serious issues crazy has no shame!

This is why we are so fkn dumb. Worrying about this bs instead the REAL issues in our society. WOOGIE WOOGIE NIGGARS

That hateful. She should show support for Kandi and Todd honor the respect of grieving…She need to stop been hateful even they argue with each. Get that devil out your mind….

i think she should for kandi to show support she actually liked her mother in law also it would show she not the spawn of satan

That´s reasonable

Reasonable decision since they weren´t cool anyway…

Her and that lady didn´t like each other….no need to front now.

I think it would have showed good faith on her part to at the least show up and express her condolences. But some people are stubborn and set in their ways. It seems a bit immature of her not to go and support her daughter and son-in-law, especially if you say you want to work on improving that relationship, although in her mind she thinks she is doing the right thing. To each its own….

Good decision. After the way she has behaved, her appearance would only be distracting and hurtful for those present who truly cared about Mama Tucker. Condolences can be shared in other ways and any true and sincere healing she plans with Todd can start later. The funeral is not the place.

Smart God rest dead but why should she go ?

she need to stay her ass at her new house she never like her or her son sit down mom bad heart.

She´s sending flowers & that´s good for her. Joyce is saying she wish they could have resolved their differences before her passing, then she should have tired harder to get along with her instead of being peaty. RIP Miss Sharon.

She needs to stay home. Ms Sharon´s family is grieving and there is already tension between them and momma Joyce. Her presence at the funeral may upset the family. It would appear very fake.

Dumb

Thats some cold f****** s*** grow up give your f****** respect if that was your f****** ass he would have been right there with candy

Totally disrespectful

I say it´s a-typical for her and her ways. . Not shocking. She needs to put her self aside for once and do the right thing for her daughter and son in law

She doesn´t need to go. I am do glad she knows her place.

The reality of it is Momma Joyce is damned if she does go and damned if she doesn’t and it is all her own fault. If I were Todd I would not want her nasty spiteful ass there anyway. It is a bit late in the day to now want a better relationship with Todd and I would not blame him one bit if he told her where to go. But being the nice well brought up sweet guy that he is I doubt he would do that.
Another commenter said that they were beginning to dislike Kandi as much as momma Joyce so am I, she maybe business minded and I am seriously beginning to question that Don Juan seems to be the driving force behind her she is afraid to say boo to a goose without someone behind her she comes across as seriously weak minded and she should have put her nasty momma in her place years ago. Ultimately it is better that the nasty old heifer doesn’t go I can just see her now making nasty comments about the flowers, the service ect. Also the family may very well beat her ass because I know I want to and I am not related!

Regardless of their differences she should be adult and show some respect. Out of love for her daughter and son in law she should go to support them.
She´s too damn old to act like this. I see why Kandi daddy left. Her new man wont stay long either.

What a B*tch!

Mama Joyce is acting like she works for a circus just clowning and acting a fool. Sit down somewhere Mama Joyce.

Petty old bitch

SHES A BITCH!

Mamma Joyce is a damn fool

I don´t get the hate for Mama Joyce behind her decision NOT TO ATTEND THE FUNERAL – she´s expressed her regret of not being able to patch things up with Miss. Sharon & out of RESPECT for her family & friends, it is best that she not attend. The only thing she can do now is better her relationship with Todd & his daughter. I wouldn´t go to someone´s funeral that I was at odds with & everyone knew it, that´s fake & Mama Joyce is making the smarter move by staying away. Her presence could make things get out of hand.

She needs to stay away

She need to keep her but home. .u didnt respect her while she was living..soo dont go pay your respect..

Ms Sharon wouldn´t even want her ass at her funeral

Evil to the core. Even if she didn´t like the lady, funerals are not for the dead but to show support for the living. She is only making her relationship with her son-in-law worse. What would it hurt to attend and offer him condolences? She will regret her actions. Shame on her!

Kandi is not her mothers keeper, how can so many of you hold her responsible for what a grown woman does. Ms. Joyce is doing the right thing by not going, because Todd’s family will beat the breaks off her!

Awww I´m sorry to hear about her passing. Sharon didn´t didn´t like her anyway. She should stay in the miserable space she´s in, and not attend. She´s a messy, sloppy, immature, leach. Total disgrace to black women.

She the one who stabbed that voodoo doll so she could stroke..she better not go..

Dumb as hell

Joyce isn´t human, she´s so heartless disrespectful mean evil so called mother which has no such class at all I feel bad for Kandie to have that for my mom that´s for sure.

It is the right thing to do, why dig her hole any deeper than it already is, and now that the Mama Sharon Tucker has passed on, mama joyce has to live with the un-easy feeling of regret forever.

Mama Joyce knows that she said some mean and hurtful things to and about Ms. Sharon that she´ll have to deal with. However, if Mama Joyce attends that funeral it would be a mess! The Tucker family would be ready to smack her down for the way she treated Ms. Sharon. So at the end of the day, she´s trying to keep the peace so she´s making a good decision.

Dumb as hell. You can clearly see what kind of person she is, if this is a true story. This may be the downfall of Kandinsky and Todd´s marriage. I hope this is not true.

I´m sure Mama Sharon would prefer it that way…she wouldn´t want a woman she had beef with watching her in that position..just remember her for when she was alive and well telling folks to go to hell…♥ and if Todd Dont go to Mama Joyce funeral, (we all gotta go one day), then that too is understandable…nobody is getting along from the get go smh

Good

What she died? Lemme re read that!

She shouldn´t go…she´s doing the right thing especially since she wasn´t able to apologize before Ms Sharon passed

Well said Vee Gibson!!

Well said Ver Gibson well said

She no fool…..she know what it Is……

Flaw af

she should @ lease pay her respects & apologize 2 todd 4 everythng. its the rite thng 2 do. momma joyce has 2 live w/ tht feel n & answer 2 God.

Thank you Momma Joyce. Ms Sharon would not want you there. Your spirit is evil.

Momma Joyce now has faced her own mortality & all that venom & vitriol with a wicked tongue willl haunt her spirit so she best give her support from afar.

Very smart.

For the First Time I agree with mama Joyce

she is wack

She should go

Smart move she waking on thin Ice.

Beef or no beef, why should she go? Why go to support her daughter, who is going to support “her” husband?

She is sooo wrong actually from day one but she needs to watch herself cause she doesn´t know what her tomorrow my be ignorant old b****

A very smart move if she can´t truly feel heart felt emotions for Mrs. Sharon Todd n Kandi along with other family members n friends the wish thing 2 do is 2 stay away Kandi is such a warm loving person I find it hard to believe Mama Joyce is her mother Kandi continue 2 try n show her love but whenever Kandi do 4 others she gets angry. She should b so very proud her her daughter n the compassion she have 4 others I pray she realize what God gave her an angel

Good!!! She don´t need to go.

DON´T NEED TO SHE DIDN´T LIKE HER ANYWAY.

OK now Mama Joyce! You better get your behind to that funeral and support your SON! Have some compassion. You never know you might need him some day. Money don´t fix all problems .

That bitch the devil

I wouldn´t want her there, it would be phony of her

Dumb move

She certainly doesn´t deserve a house.

For all who think Joyce should go, a question: if your guy friend or girlfriend mama cussed your mama out, called her a prostitute and called your father a pimp, would you want to see them posted up at the funeral and the repast? Also, a marriage where one spouse does not consult the other about something as big as the purchase of a 7 bedroom house for the parent of one person, who mind you, already had a house, does not bode well. I think Todd is storing it up until all the straws break the camel’s back.

If here attitude has changed she should go. I definitely think she has forgiveness in her heart. A lot that happens on these shows is just that show. Just for rating. Now its time to be private.

My prayers go out to the entire Tucker family. Old school teaching by mama Joyce is trying to protect finance. And why would a producer come from behind the scenes and start dating a cast member I hear that´s a no no in this business. he doesn´t have much money as you can see from the wedding he said he gave up everything for her while he´s living off of her.

Mama Joyce is a low down dirty bitch. I truly believe she a drunk azz. I heard Kandi say on RHOA, that Mama Joyce and her boyfriend was tearing up her house. That bitch is on something. Kandi is a stupid azz, for keep supporting her stuff.

It´s not about her, it´s about Todd and his family, my condolence

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Mama Joyce is one ignorant dumb stupid old as bitch this woman is dead and gone

Mama Joyce is a rude bitch

Joyce is a despicable cow. Kandi enables her. Stay home and shove your flowers, nobody wants you at the services, you were cruel to Miss Sharon while she lived, nobody cares about your empty words now. Karma is a bitch Joyce and she knows your address.

Why would she knowing good and well she wasn´t nice to her

Mama Joyce should be on her knees asking God to forgive her for her selfish ways. She is greety and only cares for herself. She doesn’t care if her daughter is happy. I hate to see the wrath she has coming to her. You reap what you sow. Kandi , right is right and wring is wrong. Mama Joyce is all wrong and you should not turn your head and act like nothing happened. You are just as guilty as she is because you allow her to be such a asshole. Mama Joyce needs to stay home. She does not deserve to be in Ms.Sharons presence.

Joyce is SO VERY embarrassing. I felt for Ms. Sharon and would LOVE to have her NYC Pals on the show to give Joyce a good dressing down!