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[READ: Kandi Blames Wendy Williams For Her Mama Joyce Issues... ]
But Mama Joyce isn’t the only issue Kandi is having this season!
Former NFL baller Chuck Smith and his wife Mynique Smith appeared on the most recent episode of the show and Smith blatantly lies about once dating the Grammy award winning songstress…. referring to his dealings with Kandi as a ‘one hit wonder’ (click HERE if you missed that).
As I stated in this week’s RHOA recap, it’s common knowledge around Atlanta that Smith has dated a slew of who’s who and Kandi and her BFF Phaedra Parks are definitely on Chuck’s list of ex-girlfriends. While I’m assuming it was hard for Chuck to confess his dating history in front of his wife (with cameras rolling), it’s still not cool to totally LIE about the situation.
I caught up with Kandi and she’s NOT happy about how Smith threw her under the bus. She also spoke about her disappointment about being caught in the middle between Mama Joyce and her future husband.
Watch my exclusive interview with Kandi below…
[Sidebar: I had no idea we were being photobombed by that guy in the purple velvet jacket!! 
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Kandi made an interesting point about the Chuck Smith situation and even revealed an odd coorelation to her current situation where Mama Joyce claims not to like Todd because he’s not a provider:
What’s so interesting to me is that…. speaking of that episode, is for Chuck to try to play me like we were never in a relationship… and to know how close he and my mama was… Still for years after we broke-up, he was still calling my mama seeing what’s going on.
And my Mom used to be like ‘aw, you should have never broke up’… and it’s like ok, now this dude is on TV tryna play me?
It just goes to show that just because a dude is ‘well to do’ doesn’t mean he’s ‘good for you’.
Welp Mama Joyce… Kandi has a point.
What do you think about Kandi’s statements?
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Good interview! I gave Chuck the side eye when he said that ish about Kandi. I hate when men do that ish. Smh.
Chuck ain’t got no rings. Kandi has a Grammy. Enough said.
SO! A grammy and no common sense dont mean a damn thing!
You mad?
Agreed. Khandi has no backbone and no common sense.Also, Khandi is becoming a finger-pointer and a liar, and I think this is why she and Kim were drawn to one another – they evade the truth like little lying children. They NEVER grow up and become women, so everyone has to make decisions for them. I used to switch channels when Kenya came on the screen – now I can’t bear to see that crooked smile on Khandi’s foolish face, so I have to switch channels when sound comes out of her face too! I lose about 20 minutes per episode switching channels during RHOA, because of all the liars:So far, the only one to NOT LIE ON THE PROGRAM IS CYNTHIA (AND PETER, MAYBE, AND HICK KROY).
No ma’am sounds like you’re mad! ISAIDIT is shonuff tellin the truth!
Thank You for that. A big booty attached to a dumb woman, same damn thing. A long bank account without financial guidance does not equal financial stability. Can you catch my drift?
BOOP! You said that!!! lol!
I had to side eye Nene. A few seasons back Nene didnt know Phaedra except for her grandmother babysitting her but now Nene sits there and explains to Mynique how they all went to school together. Started from the bottom and we here! Really? South Africa then, Savannah now! WOW
They attended the same high school. Phaedra and Nene were not classmates.
agree she knew of her she didnt know her personally big difference.
soooo she didn’t know her personally but knew what that mouth do? yea totally not the same thing. (foh)
Nene has always lied about the other housewives. She did about Kim about a lot of things but what got me was her saying Kim probably faked her pregnancy as an excuse not to go on the trip and Kim gave birth 5 weeks later from that filming. She and Kim were best friends just like she is with Cynthia who she is now being nasty too.
Nene was so darn messy with that, truly uncalled for. It´s her life and I know she loves her mom but that was embarrassing and she and her crew were out of line.
They did not have a problem bringing up Charles Grant. Kandi dated Walter too. Kandi is always talking about having sex.
I agree Nene ass is very messy! Nene is always trying to bring up someone’s past but when someone comments about her stripping or past sex life she always plays the innocent role! Like how dare you compare stripping and sex toys I’m too good for that! I’m like bitch please your ass wasn’t too good when you was shaking that ass on the pole ,but now your offended whenever Kandi brings up sex! Oh and Kandi never dated Walter. She said she said he tried to talk to her and she turned him down. He said the same thing also!
Kandi and Phaedra have brought up Nene’s stripping past on several occasions, so don’t get mad, when some of their stuff comes up. Nene did not call Kandi a one hit woner, his wife did. Nene said she heard a rumor about Phaedra.
Khandi does the A.
I know and you know the topic will surface again in the season. She pretty much called Phaedra the Superhead of Athens lol I thought it so rude to say all that in front of his wife…..with cameras rolling…lol but, I guess they’re are setting up a fire strom lol for the show….mess.
Why doesn’t anyone bring up Greg cheating on NeNe since she acts like she walks on water? He clearly had a long term affair on her, but she finds a way to dodge that conversation whenever its brought up. Let’s face it…NeNe is a former stripper who claims she’s too holy to talk about dildos; she dogged Kim for sleeping with a married man when she in fact was "messing" with the white Italian guy why she was still married to Greg; she recently purchased her own engagement ring and was cheated on by an old man, who’s 15 years her senior…let’s not mention her escapade with Charles Grant. Who’s the real head doctor?
Right his wife was looking crazy like WTF???
Just another example of how easy and blatantly men can lie.
Nene didn’t have to bring up that dumb garbage, because everyone has a past including her! I don’t care how close she is to the couple, she should always show respect for their marriage! Nee was just pure ghetto from ground zero!
@ Versatile CAN WE ALL SAY APOLLO!
Yes we can and thank you.
Of course he is not going to tell his wife about all the women he has dated. Surely he is not going to tell her he signed up to do a reality show with his ex-girlfriend. that boy had the nerve to try to down play Kandi with calling her a one hit wonder. Wonder if Joyce saw that since she liked him so much.
Watching now, just lost alllll
Watching now, just lost alllll respect for Joyce. What a selfish, disrespectful .@$&. What the hell kind of mother is she? Just read on fb a pastor said today “Damaged mothers create damaged daughters”. What are we doing to our children?
All I can say is Kandi’s friend showed great respect as well as restraint from knocking that old clown slap out! Joyce and her sisters just sat there and lied about the situation! I have lost ALL respect for Kandi due to the fact she has no guts which means she gets no glory! She will recognize when Todd, who Kandi has introduced to the world, walks away saying to hell with this junk! There are real women waiting in line for him without "mama" issues!
So glad you pointed out that Joyce’s sisters ganged up on Carmen, not the LIE that the aunt told Khandi. They must all be on Khandi’s payroll each month. I’d like someone to find out if Khandi has bought each of them a car, or does she bail them out each month when they need money for bills…betcha she does!!!!! Something sick is in the midst of that family, vicious and sick.
I hope the pastors (do any of Khandi’s family go to a real church?) of their churches call them out (but not by name) and point out their horrible bitch behavior in a sermon so that everyone will know who he’s talking about on Sunday. A bunch of snakes, all five of them.
Todd, leave those sticky gremlins alone! They are the kind that stick to the men they marry and make them pay forever, even after a divorce! Walk away! Find yourself a real woman, not a ‘haint’. Not sure why we should believe anything Khandi says in an interview separate from the show. I hope Bravo kicks her off after this season.
I don’t feel sorry for Kandi, she needs to be alone if she can not tell her MaMa to get a grip and let her live her life and be in love with who the hell she wants. her Mother acted a complete fool in that Bridal shop! she better be glad she didn’t jump up to get beat down. everybody aint Kandi, somebody going to knock her old ass out.
Dam that dude with the velvet jacket on has a big ass head.
Todd needs to get the hell out while there’s still time. all mama Joyce is worried about is Kandis money going towards anybody else but herself. kandi will never be able to have a man or any close friends because she refuses to put her evil lying disrespectful and controlling mother in her proper place. She treated Kandis other fiancé the same way. Todd sweetie if you got any smarts at all GET THE HELL OUT.
I agree!
Nene was wrong…what was the point?!!
Nene just so dang messy but soon as Wendy comes for her she gets all salty.. That Chuck was wrong, real men don’t spread their business, camera recording or not. He was wrong. Grow up people.
Nene was wrong for that,BUT SHES MS LEAKES getem’girl!
Nene asked Mynique to hang out with the girls. It would be really weird for Kandi or Phaedra to let it slip.
Wasn’t there speculation some time back that Nene’s friend Mynique was going to join the show! Now I wonder if this was rehearsed.
There is always speculation. I just think they are friends of the show for now. Most of the housewives have a friend this season.
I didn´t understand that either Marie Franklin-Swann
Will Kandi just respectfully CHECK her mama already I mean damn…. You have to be your own woman at some point and say mama I love you but let me direct you to your lane….
LOL
Sorry but my eyes kept going to the guy in the velvet jacket! He knew damn well you were taping and he didn’t care! Jerk! Kandis mama is so wrong and is afraid her money train is going south.
Love Nene, but she was really messy tonight, and the point was….?
What do these comments have to do with Kandi and Chuck? lol nothing.
True Kandi but at least you know his interest isn´t financial gain. Beware those opportunists!
Nene tring to create drama because those glee checks aint rolling in she need to sang her ass to a seat some where! Also the dude chuck just told his wife that about Kandi to make her feel good like he wasnt with her just to smash, nene Im tring to figure out how it was cool to Chuck for nene to bring this up around him or his lady I think thats why Greg got him up especially if thats his boy Nene a trip if her friends would have rolled up in those damn indianna jones shorts she would have talked about them and said " Girl whats going on with you I know them Bravo checks can buy you some damn better cloths!
Lolol…indiana jones shortz..ha ha..Nene was low doing dirty for bringing that junk up in front of the wife. No class.
I think that was payback for Phaedra trying to bring Nene’s estranged sisters on the show. When I heard what was said about both Kandi and Phaedra I didn’t bat an eye, but I LOL. These two women have gotten around which explains why they cannot attract quality men for marriage. Cautionary tale ladies, don’t let males and females’ gaslight you into thinking that being promiscuous is cool. Men kiss and tell worse than woman. They will sex your brains out but will not put a ring on it. It works for a few but for the majority it will not.
I guess you would know this from experience huh?
Who havent dated chuck smith. His wife was a groupie. We all have been pursued by the chuckster. Especially 1999 superbowl year. He lived in club kaya on the prowl.
do tell miss traveldiva???
I thought I was the only one who remembered the Shark Bar days.
Lol well dang Kandi, who haven´t you dated ?!?
Don’t you mean "snatched up and supported for regular sexcapades". Anybody out there (Carmen, where are you??? We won’t tell our source!!) know how many men fat-assed Khandi (is her ass spreading even more than last season or is it my TV screen?) has lured into her web over the past 15 years??? Her mother has done a job on her self esteem, telling her no man or good friend wants her except for her money.
Joyce says that because that’s she wants is kandies money!
I think that is her business an NeNe need to stay in her lane on the other hand mama Joyce need to be supported to her daughter i think kandi don´t how to tell her mom to mine her own business don´t wait to late u will have no friends and no man if she doesn´t speak up
I have lost all respect for Kandi! I used to admire her strong character, her hustling ways, and the great relationship she has with her daughter and her mom, but this season has just shown that Kandi is completely codependent on her mother, and that she can’t see how incredibly nasty her mom is willing to be to keep everybody away from Kandi. I have drawn the line at all the low blows Mama Joyce has pulled so far, and I still can’t believe Kandi hasn’t said anything. From talking about Kandi’s ring, to lying about how her 10 year old granddaughter felt about Todd, to trying to end her daughter’s friendship over rumors she’s responsible for spreading, to the way she has completely belittled Todd knowing full well he, too, is somebody’s son, I just can’t be Team Kandi this season!
Kandi, you’re making it more complicated than it is. Just repeat it after me: "Mama, you don’t have to like Todd, but you have to respect him.
And Nene was wrong for what she tried. She needs to reign in her ego.
You are so right on all points.
I haven’t lost respect for Kandi and I understand her respect for her mom, but under NO CIRCUMSTANCE no matter how many years and close she is with Carmon…you DON’T LET A WOMAN LIVE IN THE HOUSE WITH YOUR MAN! Jerry Springer has 20 years of $$$ off that story. Don, t care if its your sister,cousin or gay brother. I know Riley needs supervision when she’s away but damn, isn’t that where mom comes in? Not to mention Carmon’s an attractive chic. And just like on Jerry and Maury she pleads to Kandi (because she too thinks Kandi is gullible) " Do YOU believe it?!!" What I wanna’ know is WHERE IS CARMON’S MAN???
Then why doesn’t mom help out? Maybe if Mama Joyce took the stick out of her ass about Todd, Kandi would probably ask her to help out with Riley, but since she keeps acting like a fool when Kandi is there, I can only imagine how evil she would be when she’s not. And since Mama Joyce is so good at getting rid of people who want to get close to Kandi, I’m sure the list of people she can count on to take care of her daughter is very short, and it probably starts and ends with Carmon.
All of these issues would be solved if Kandi just told her mom that she must respect the people she is surrounding herself with. But since Mama Joyce has no problems with her low blows and lying and using her granddaughter in a cheap attempt to shake Kandi, I can see why Kandi has to employ someone else to take care of her daughter when she goes away.
I’m just glad Mama Joyce is looking at herself be manipulative, evil and just downright low trodden, and she’s also seeing that the vast majority of people completely disagree with her.
Would YOU employ a chic that looks like Carmon to stay at your house with you and your man?..or woman? Arnold’s housekeeper was a troll but she was his regular. Would still be working there if kid didn’t look just like him and she wanted more $$$.
Versatile,
I would never allow my mother to do the things that Joyce has done. But even better than that, my mother would never do that to me. So I wouldn’t even run into that problem because my mom is not cut from the cloth Joyce and her horrible sisters are.
And Kandi should worry about other women anyway, because no man wants to be undermined, disrespected, humiliated and have his character completely assassinated, while his future wife sits there laughing at it. One day, Todd will just leave and find the woman who will appreciate what he brings to the table, and that will be horrible for Kandi because she loves Todd. But relationships are hard enough, and Kandi will lose this fight from the inside with the help of her mom.
@Ana…but would you invite or hire an attractive woman lke Carmon to live in your home with you and your man whether you hax a kid or not?
When did they say Carmen lived there? Kandi said she is there everyday becuz she works for her last episode. This episode Carmen said Joyce started acting like that recently after Carmen started working for Kandi. If you think attractive women are so alluring and easy slutbuckets go hide in a cave. Trolls need and GET love too. Like @ana says Arnold fell for and took care of a woman who looked like him. ggggross
ITA. Even though Mama Joyce has totally disrespected herself as a woman of her age; and even though Kandi has totally disrepected herself by having no backbone to check her mother. But there’s something about Carmen that makes me uncomfortable. Those scenes with her, Kandi & Todd appeared uncomfortable. Even my best girlfriend doesn’t need to be hanging around my house like that. These women don’t know they can’t always trust their "friends" around their men like that. I once invited a ‘former’ girlfriend to dinner @ my house with my man & another guy I tried to set her up with. But before the guy I had for her showed up, she made some comments to try & paint me in a certain light to my man. Needless to say I never gave her an opportunity to be around him again.
I never heard that Carmen lives in the house. In fact, Khandi said she comes and helps out whenever Khandi needs it, like setting up the table that time. I perceived Carmen’s reaction to the accusation by Joyce as being stunned, and unable to think of a RESPECTFUL comment about Khandi’s DISRESPECTFUL mother. If Carmen has been getting Khandi’s cast-offs since they were young girls, then so what???? Joyce seemed to be saying to my mind that Carmen was just a poor girl begging. For all we know, Khandi was BUYING CARMEN’S FRIENDSHIP just like Khandi has bought all the men’s relationships…I don’t see CArmen as guilty, just restrained and not wanting to cuss out her friend’s stupid mother. Why would Carmen want a man who "wants" Khandi? Why not just go ahead and take him a year ago???
Versatile,
I totally get your point about the attractive female, but I feel like Carmon and Kandi are like sisters. They know each other since they were little girls, and I don’t think every woman is out to take their friend’s man. Why is it so unbelievable that Carmon is a good friend who wouldn’t do Kandi like that, and that Todd truly loves and respects Kandi?!
I’m sorry, but Mama Joyce is wrong. She’s reaching. The man already agreed to the prenup, and he has maintained his cool while he’s being disrespected in his house. Even Carmon has maintained her cool after Mama Joyce has completely attempted to destroy her character. Those vicious rumors Mama Joyce is spreading are hurting people more than she can even see, or she even cares to see, and it’s not right that people just expect others to take it because she’s an elder.
Have you noticed that Carmen looks a lot like Kandi. Carmen is a lighter version.
preach Ana!
Ok "I Said It". Since @Ana won’t give a yes or no answer, would YOU ‘hire’ a chic like CARMON TO BE AT YOUR HOME AROUND YOUR MAN WHEN YOU’RE NOT THERE? Please don’t curse me out, I know that’s what you’re thinkin’. I’m just looking for a sane yes or no answer. I’ll be able to gage whether it’s SANE when I see it. Oh wait..I think I’m settin’ myself up for this one..but aw hell, I’m gonna let it hang.
Versatile,
I would hire the person who is best qualified for the job. If the best person for the job, which in this case would mean taking care of my child and being around my husband when work keeps me away is a good looking woman like Carmon then that’s fine. To think that I would be looking for a person to take care of my child, and my household and make the fact that they are not good looking a requirement would only mean that I am lacking in the self confidence department.
But to each his own. What works for me, doesn’t work for you, and so forth. Todd works in the entertainment industry, and has access to plenty of good looking, industry people of all the time, so that’s why I don’t understand your argument. Besides, Carmon is not better looking that Kandi. They are both beautiful women.
@Ana…they are equally beautiful women, but I can see that when your assistant has that short big head baby with no father in sight and Todd, I mean, your man takes a fatherly role with it, you won’t get it til you’re paying your man’s child support. Nanny McPhee is the ONLY type assistant/friend/house sitter you should have around your man.
Versatile,
I’m done trying to explain to you the difference between my opinion and yours.
I wonder if Mama Joyce’s behavior stems from her being afraid she is going to be alone. I think when her son got killed, Joyce developed an unhealthy, codependent relationship with her daughter. I don’t think Joyce is evil, just scared and used to behaving badly to get her way. Shame for Kandi, though. Todd seems like a good dude.
Todd is an opportunist, I trust Mama Joyce.
I agree, Todd’s not right.
And what’s up with all those selfie head shots he takes? That’s some narssistic shit right there. He’s got about 50 headshots on another site. Who does that? None of which could have been used to secure a job.
Would YOU employ a chic that looks like Carmon to stay at your house with you and your man
your low self esteem having ass
@meise; WHAT?? How DARE you speak to me that way !! I can tell YOU don’t have a MAN!!!!!!
@meise; after reading yet again you saying that I have low esteem…KISS THE LOWEST CURVE OF MY BEAUTIFUL BOUNTIFUL AZZ YOU MORON. Sit on a horse dick to massage your dumb azz brain idiot. All you can find to do is follow somebody like thedumbazz you are thinkin’ you’ll get a chance to get a dig in to make your dumb azz feel smart. LOSER!!!
I agree. I say Kandi should stop one of them checks she sending her until her momma get some act right in her and then we’ll all see how humble and respectful Mama Joyce becomes towards Todd then. Especially since it seems that she’s nothing but a money hungry bully trying to protect her financial interest!
There is a respectful way of speaking to your Mother & I think Todd said it best when he said she was allowing her mother to disrespect her future husband. I know it’s harder for Kandi with it being on tv. My mom may not agree with her children’s decisions all the time, but she was never disrespectful with it. She’d pray for us & keep it moving and I love her for it. And NeNe who does that in front of someone’s wife? Smh
Nene should not do to others what she would flip out about if someone brought her pass up, most sports figure are wh???, the more money they have the more they feel like they can touch all genders, Todd should drop Kandi like a hot potato its over before it starts cause Mammy Joyce will never stop her non sense, Kandi don´t know what´s appropriate to say to her mom and what´s not she was always taught to be mandible towards her mom sad cause Joyce is dysfunctional in her own right and to old to care if it´s ripping her daughter heart
Nene has a jealous heart, god will not give some one your blessing, I have always felt Nene is phony, I can see people not liking her her mouth is poison and fire on purpose and she loves when the girls fight
I agree with all of the comments. Just because you are a mom doesn’t mean your right. Kandi needs to realize bad behavior is bad behavior regardless of who it is. I don’t believe Kandi would take this type of behavior from non-family members. Kandi needs to examine herself to find out why she continues to allow her mom to destroy her relationships. It frustrating watching a mother remove people from her daughter’s life unnecessarily while ripping her daughter down in the process. As long as this continues Kandi will never be able to have the full life she seems to really want and that is just too bad so sad.
I agree, basically Mama Joyce is telling Kandi that her only worth is her money and that is why people want to be around her. So what does that say to Kandi? She has no worth except for what her money provides. Good message to send to your child.
Nene was being very messy. I can’t stand when people bring up past s#$t. What was the point, I thought you said these people were your friends. Of course the dude lied about his past relationships in front of his wife, to admit to anything may have gotten him a beat down. Very disrespectful and shady Nene.
Nene’s my girl but that was as shocking a question to his wife as it was to us by the expression on her face. Totally wrong in any situation. No diva scores for that one.
Nene asked if Chuck dated Kandi. At first, he said they used to hang out. His wife said Kandi was a one hit wonder and Chuck agreed. Chuck has been married for 10 years, I am sure his first concern was not Kandi. It doesn’t appear that Kandi is too concerned about Todd!
I believe NeNe brought it up because she said she wanted them to hang out with the other girls and such. We don’t know how her and her friendship is with that girl, but maybe she was trying to say that rumors were that her man dated 2 of them and that could be awkward. Maybe she didn’t use tack and was trying to much to be funny about it. Do remember they tried to set her up and blind side her with Marlo.
Also people are saying she lied about knowing Phadera. I don’t see it that way. I went to school with over 1,000 people. Heard rumors and knew many just based on their reputation. Did I know them? No. Did I know OF them? Yes. All nene kept saying at that reunion show was that she didn’t know her as in they never spoke, hung out, interacted.
Nene’s sisters did not agree with her rendition of the past. They contacted Phaedra not the other way around. They wanted to oust Sneaky Leakey. Notice none of her sisters was in her wedding. Athens is so little, they prolly only have 1 high school. Plus Nene’s grandmother was Phaedra’s babysitter.
Nene’s sisters were not raised in Athens. What grandmother? If Nene’s sisters know Phaedra, it was after Nene was an adult.
Did you read the kendle-kenya-sparks-davis story on straightfromthea? Nene just wanted to embarrass Phae on national tv because she dont let stuff go. Always on some get back stuff. It aint Phae fault Sneaky Leakey dont get along with her own sisters.
I’m sorry, but just because you’re related to someone by blood (Mother, aunts, and whoever else will show up to try to destroy Kandi’s relationship) doesn’t give you the right to hurt them and then justify it by saying that you’re just looking out for them! What kind of parent (and aunts, or the gang of rabid dogs, like they are no known in my household) goes to the their daughter’s dress fitting to completely break her heart?! What kind of parent feels justify to belittle, humiliate and completely destroy the character of another person, without realizing that they too, are someone else’s child?!
Mama Joyce is a manipulative old witch, and Kandi isn’t smart enough to see what she’s doing! Nobody is telling Kandi to write her mother off, but no relationship will ever work out, when you got someone constantly bashing you, and to make it worse, on national television. Todd should just focus on his career and find himself a woman who appreciates what he brings to the table, and won’t allow others to disrespect him. I mean, aren’t relationships hard enough without people like Mama Joyce?!
I’m sorry, but I’m no longer Team Kandi after this display of codependence, and spinelessness!
Ditto! I was saying, why would all of them ask her to try on another dress, just to say. "I don’t think you should marry him" That is just wrong. They are really tearing Kandi up and down. I think it’s just jealousy on Mama joyce’s part. She has had Kandi to herself for so long, that it makees her sick that Kandi is moving on. I think she would much rather for Kandi to be a baby momma than a wife. Because that way, She could be included on every decision in Kandi’s life. She knows that will cease when Kandi gets a husband.
I just don’t see how anybody can just continue to go in on their daughter like that and still claim they are doing it for her well being?! I wish Todd’s mom would just show up and put Mama Joyce in her place. I cannot stand her at all. And I can’t believe how blind Kandi is. I hope she doesn’t do Riley like that. Even Riley seems mature enough to see through the BS her grandma is pulling and she’s the child!
IF Kandi doesn´t put a stop to it,Todd WILL get tired of it and pick up n leave her ass.I´m starting to think he´s better off without her cuz as a couple you need to know its you two against the world.No 3!!!! If not stopped there will be a couple alright but it will be Mandi n her Mama living happily ever after.RUN TODD!!!!
Nene was wrong!! It seems she trying to bring up everybody´s past put hers.Also calling Phaedra a “head doctor” she took it as oral sex to me a head doctor is someone who sells weed.Maybe while in college she did that big deal!!! She needed that money to get where she is now!!! I don´t fault her,but that Nene is terrible
Maybe she was sucking all the good juices out the head that men don’t know what to do with. NeNe shouldve tried it instead of stripping for that broke down Gregg.I am #TeamPhaedra all the way. You cant hate her hustle,or her way of thinking. People will always need a lawyer and people will die. She dont have to wait around for the industry to secure a check. NeNe..bow down Boo.
#ForeverTeamNene..just stop already! That last line nearly killed us!
There you go! What Nene should have done with all those Trump checks is to go to night school and get some kind of specialty degree so she can stop being JEALOUS OF PHAEDRA’S several degrees and several vocations! Nene’s only "talent" (and my 5 month-old grandson has the same) is "acting", which she did when she stripped, when she got Gregg, and when the got on the show. Money is drying up and she is stuck with an old fart (Gregg), no real friends left (Kim, Sheree, Marlo; Cynthia will be too busy WORKING to go shopping and having Moscato lunches now) except whatshername ("security guard"); Portia doesn’t need her as a mentor, she has a great mother already.
I can’t believe the malice you display towards some one as accomplished, caring and down to earth as Lenethia Leakes. She does not deserve to be "drug" through the dirt like that. All because she tried to do her job bringing a lil’ extra to the show. Phae accepted her apology and you’ll see it on reunion. Nene has had a difficult past and she can’t change that but look how far she’s come! Just LOOK! Please don’t let that little snafu keep you from being a fan.
Nene is a hater., she will never prosper always trying to hit below the belt. I can see her 15 minutes is coming to and end. No more New Normal, Glee on its last season. Loud mouth ass haven´t accomplished anything. She can get her money up, but she too busy hating on the real rich bitches.
Yep, I’ve always said that in Hollywood, you’re hot one minute and then you’re not. Nene has to rely on this show now so she’s doing all she can to stay relevant.
High five in the air on that! Even Mynique has a man "wit" money out the wazoo! All Nene has left is a greasy, grey-haired polecat and a rented house.
Oh YEAH? Greggs hair maybe a lil’ grey but he’s NOT greasy all the time. He’s definitely NOT a polecat (whatever that is). And he can wear the hell out of a white suit! While there might not be anything in that briefcase(except a signed prenup)…Nene loooooves him. And at d’enodaday?..that’s all that matters.
Chuck callin.her a One Hit Wonder? O.O Really! I hate when niggas act brand new in front of there significant other! So fake! Speaking of one hit wonder…who the hell is Chuck!? I watch football? I guess nobody told him how short lived football is? Lol or what happended to the so called ballers such as Terrel Owens and many others on the field & off…talk about one hit wonders
Chuck Smith is retired and he chose his wife. He not concerned about Kandi or Phaedra.
Kandi,
One of the main reasons that I´m divorced today is because my ex-husband could not transition from his mother´s son to my husband. All relationships change and somewhere despite all of your success you are stuck being your mother´s little girl and you should now be her daughter/friend. She should be providing guidance, not instruction. She´s raised you and should trust that you will make the best decisions for you and your family. Todd seems very patient and is lovingly asking for you to put your mom in her place. He also remained very respectful to your mom despite her blatant disrespect. You have a second chance at love when a lot of people won´t ever experience it. Please don´t allow your mother´s insecurities to ruin it for you or you´ll end up like her, alone, bitter and clinging to Riley for your only source of love. Break to cycle. My prayer is that your family comes around and that God gives you the strength to make the right decisions for YOU whether or not they do. Keep your head up
@Traci..Hope she reads this. A therapist couldn’t say it better. I guess sometimes we have to stp being so differential, take chances, make mitakes, do what maybe the wrong things just to do them. Find out what’s real and what YOU feel. Human beings are terrible messes. It’s not about being rational, it’s about following your heart. Love is too complex, sometimes we just have to let it happen. Welcome to the human condition.
I couldn’t disagree more. Love is blind and it will take over your mind. Something is off about Todd.
Joyce just stop it. Didnxt you get to feel the joy of love and marriage twice. TWICE Joyce! Can Kandi get to feel it just once? Your caged bird can sing but she also wants to fly.
I think that what’s "off" about Todd is that he is a uniquely well-raised gentleman…something that young black men are never shown to be on TV. We are so used to bling, big mouths, aggressive and angry mysogynists that when a REAL MAN in black skin shows up on TV (not as a newscaster, serious actor, or Denzel), we call if "something off". In the old days, Todd was the kind of man who got out of his car, came up to my parents’ front door, introduced himself and asked to take me on a date…what we see now is some niggah blowing the horn, his radio bumping the whole street, and him dripping in gold chains, a cap ON his head (even inside), shorts and sneakers. Todd is not "off", he is "on" perfectly – TOO GOOD FOR A GHETTO RAT LIKE KHANDI AND HER FAMILY OF SHE-GREMLINS.
wwwwWWHAAAAT!?? I can see right here that you weren’t raised right.
that versatile is annoying as FUCK!!!
ck,I totally agree!
I am totally devastated you all feel that way. I can see that I’m not wanted and I’ll oblige your wish this very night and quietly return into oblivion. Oh, and I’ll miss you. Bye.
@meise…I’m retracting the comment and find YOUR MEISEY BEASTY azz annoying. Fuck you and every annoying thing you say. Like in ‘Bambi’ you reeking skunk, don’t say nuthin’ at all.
your sentence should have started off with ‘one of the reasons why i didn’t marry so and so…’ you knew your hubby to be was a manboy, but because you were so doggone desperate to say you had a huuuuusband, you married him anyway..now you stuck with kids looking stupid…
omg! do you 2 know each other? WOW
REALLY?
I’m glad Kandi cleared the record. You could tell dude was lying. And Nene was wrong for stirring the pot and trying to throw everyone under the bus in 30 minutes. You could tell he was uncomfortable in front of his wife and had to play it off like it was nothing with his exes. That wife might want to keep her eyes on Nene though. IJS And SN: That dude knew darn well he was on camera and was smiling like "Imma be on TV!" Joker. Lol.
Kandi mom´s came there to be mean and ruin her day honestly . And she had her side kicks to back her up. And I know it hurts for her to have to defend her mother and she says she doesn´t care what people think say etc but stuff like that wears you down.
Having 3 people coming at you being negative that has to hurt especially on one of your big days. That should be a special time. I could feel the hurt on WWHL. Nobody needs that type of stress in their life.
Me too.It hurt me to see Kandi in tears over this situation. I’m glad she had her girl Fantasia with her. What REALLY ticked me off though was when jew boy started spinning those clips of Kandi’s mom and that last lil’ montage where some of his butt buddies painted bright red lips on Joyce pissed me off so bad I just wanted to jump through that screen and push a pineapple up his azz.It took all of her patience to sit there. I notice that bastard has gotten bold as hell interviewing his Black casts but especially Kandi. Fucking bastard.
In reality, this franchise is hellbased. All of jew boys shows break up marriages, families and lead castmebers to bankruptcy. It’s lke looking into satan’s crystal ball, watching evil spirits swirl into tsunamis around dinner tables, tranquil islands, African safaris just breaking down once stable families. Who’d EVER have thought Lisa and Ed wouldn’t make it? I know it’s the choice people make getting on these shows, but if they could think about wether they can weather what will be a storm before stepping on his stage, they justmay want to hold on to what they’ve got. Andy is evil, and relishes in it.
Hate to disappoint but all of those marriages were bad before they even signed up for reality TV. They will all tell you including Porsha that things were bad before TV. TV just makes a bad situation worst. Trust if they weren’t on TV their marriages would probably end in divorce anyway.
I actually think Andy, who is also Kandi’s employer, took it very easy with her. If Kandi doesn’t want to be asked questions about her relationship with her mom, her relationship with Todd or anything she does, then she needs to turn down the contract they offer her.
Andy is shady as hell, but he sheltered Kandi from phone calls, and didn’t even talk about how awful that experience was. I’m sure you realize, he’s the host, and he’s not 100% responsible about all the content shown on the show, since he has producers who take care of that for him.
And finally, no reason to call him "Jew boy."
Ok, I’m sorry for calling Andy a ‘jew boy’. Won’t do it again. I hope YOU don’t mind him portraying Joyce who is a Black woman in a ‘MINSTREL’ fashion.
Joyce has earned the way she is portrayed herself. She has acted horribly, and this is not her or her daughter’s first time on the reality tv rodeo, so she’s well aware of their tricks. But to be honest, Joyce made it too easy for the RHOA franchise because she acted in a disgusting, uneducated, callous manner, and she has shown she doesn’t care about her daughter enough to not continue to hurt her on national television! And now she’s not talking to Kandi for the things she took upon herself to say, even though Kandi hasn’t even held her accountable?! It sounds like to me like Joyce needs to get a reality check and take responsibility and ownership of her terrible attitude. What do you possibly expect when you act like that?!
Joyce did it to herself and I hope she spends a good while embarrassed because she acted like a damn fool. There’s no excuse for what she’s done so far. NONE!
And again, Andy is Kandi’s boss. If Kandi didn’t want to deal with this, she could just quit the show. She is one of the few women on the show who has a true net worth that will not be as affected from her leaving.
ANA please ignore versatile! You seem much too logical to deal with someone so wishy washy! Everything youre saying is on point! Versatile thinks just because joyce is the mother (I use the word mother loosely), she has the right to treat Kandi this way.Thats messed up.so sad…
@lovintheholidays; Why favor Ana over me? What did I say that’s so illogical? Ana won’t even answer my certified logical questions…unless..perhaps..she’s CARMON!!!! Anyways, I never said that I agree with MJ’s actions towards Kandi. If anything, I understand Kandi’s love for her mother. They’re in a stuation now where MJ’s not speaking to her and Kandi misses the mother she knew before this show. Kandi needs to get her mom away from this franchise, the embarrassment MJ feels is devastating but will fade in time. Get help for their relationship from Iyanla, Dr. Phil(maybe) and definitely T.D.Jakes. MJ’s ‘gang’ are not supporters but will pretend to be. Their as scared of MJ as Kandi is. My heart and prayers go out to MJ and Kandi. Kandi will step up when she’s ready but right now she really needs a hug from her mom and her mom don’t know it but she needs a hug from her daughter to help her through her fear of change. I have reservations about Todd but neither I nor any of you are in a relationship with him. I’m just happy that SFTA is an exciting outlet for my OWN eccentricities.
Oh, my God. Now I’m Carmon?! LOL! I guess Lovin the Holidays is right!
@Ana, I warned you.In one breath Versatile says he dont agree with Joyce and in the next he talks about her embarrassment.any embarrassment that Joyce is dealing with,she caused on herself.My Mother would NEVER treat my sister and I like wer’e her property.She insulted her daughter’s ring (which I think is beautiful)to the point it made her cry.Its all she talks about is material things.Versatile you really need to stop making excuses for Joyce.Kandi is not missing the mother she had before the show,Joyce has always been this way.This is who she is and she seems to be too old to change. I would not be surprised if Joyce told Kandi "put me on the show".Kandi said in an interview,that when the show first started ,Joyce and her sisters were walking around acting like they were stars.Disgusting! The way you talked about Andy is so un-necessary.One minute youre calling the man everything but a child of God and the next minute youre praying for Joyce. Andy is just doing his job.Joyce is doing her job too,just NOT AS A MOTHER!Ive never seen that side of you.She is a FULL grown woman with mixed up priorities! Money is her God! My Mother would cut off her leg before she treat me or my sister that way.If there was a problem,she might pull us aside and talk,and even if she disagreed,she would support us.ESPECIALLY at what should have been a special moment for HER CHILD!
@Lovin the holidays:
Boom!
I agree with you 100%!
@ana; good for you and I agree to disagree. You don’t disrespect so No hate.
@lovin the holidays; But did you SEE that cartoonish remix of mother Joyce? When he played the first one Kandi’s lips were pursed and jaw tight enduring the humiliation of her mother being shown yet again as if her mother was a bufoon. Joyce’s actions were raw no matter how she came to her conclusions. Andy saw Kandi’s expression yet he went on and played yet another vile video which production seemed to pull from an 1800 darky ad. I personally didn’t like it and like everybody here, I said what I thought of it, MY freedom of expression, not to have anyone agree with me. I have no animosity against Jews. I just don’t care for what I recieve as exploitation in the face of those you’re already monetarily persecuting for your own amusement. You deflected my point but it was made non the less. The other night Brandi called Joyce "Black" because she thought she couldn’t swim and didn’t want to get her hair wet. There’s another topic dealing with racism on this blog today. I’m saying, when faced with it speak up. Don’t sugar coat. I was definitely wrong for calling him ‘jew boy’ but that was my own anger seeing him continuously badger this already distraught woman about her mother. She didn’t know he was going to do this but seeing it hurt ME. Yes this will be twisted to whatever way but I don’t care.
@versatile Andy does it to everyone! It rwally had nothing to do wit her race. What was clear to me, is this is a real situation and Kandi is greatly affected by it! Sometimes reality TV is very real and real people are affected.
And nene lied….remember she said she didnt know phaedra in high school but lastnite she said they all went to school together. Why lie?
Good point.
Yeah I caught that too. She called herself checking Phadrea too about knowing her at the reunion. To say that she was a "head dr" was very uncalled for. That whole convo was tacky n hateful. She seems jealous.
Why lie? Because she’s a liar. She’s also upset that she doesn’t have a storyline and is throwing grenades with the hope that one of the pieces of shrapnel will land in the right place to get her back to her "queen bee" status.
I hate to say it but I totally agree with this sentiment. Nene is a bit of a Jekyll and Hyde this season all the while trying to digg a hole of relevance for herself.
She knows how the reality tv game is played and she’s playing her part rather well.
Just out of curiosity, did you know everyone you went to High School with? Just because a group a people attend the same school, or work at the same company doesn’t mean you personally KNOW everyone. Nene although messy as he’ll, carefully chose here words so as not to be caught in a lie. She also prefaced the vicious rumor about Phaedra by saying it was "her take" on the rumor..As for the situation with Khandii, MJ, & Carmen, the whole wedding dress fiasco could have been diffused had Carmen just left when she saw the MJ was out of control. It was wrong to argue with MJ when clearly she was emotionally unavailable. This made for good TV but at the end of the day, lives will be changed for the worse, new characters with new drama will appear, and we all get to decide whether to continue to indulge in this so called Reality.
Kandi all on Watch What Happens crying. We all know that´s your mama but your mama is not acting like a mama would at this time. She running around lying, cussing, picking fights, showing up at the bridal shop with less than good intentions…and she is not speaking to Kandi at this time because of something someone else said on Andy´s show. She is also using Wendy Williams show, of all places, to get her “facts”! WTW??? She is too old to be acting so foolish. Keep defending those actions Kandi and you won´t have any friends, or a man, which is what Joyce wants anyway.
Well Kandi wasn´t a one hit wonder she had more than one hits & I bet her bank account bigger than his…lol now about that mother of hers its always a respectable way u can tell ur mom 2 stay out of ur business & mind her own business
Of course her $$$ is longer than his. Upon approaching, his house looked impressive, but after a still shot of the front..this was definitely aforeclosure that someone couldn’t afford to fix. Dude seriously needs LICENSED contractors to check support in mid section cause one mini quake will cave that house in.
I guess that is all people relate to Kandi is her money! That man makes his own money and supports his family. He clearly was not talking about her music career.
Kandi I wouldn´t even have commented on that remark because only you, him, and God knows what kind of relationship you guys had. I thought it was his way of telling NeNe stop being messy! I was crying when you talked about your mom. You do what is in the best interest of your family and don´t give two hoots what we say on social media because when it all said and done, Ms. Joyce will always be your mother regardless of the situation.
I’m not sure kandi means it when she laughs at the Shit her mamma do. But I’m with Todd thats not funny. None of it is funny. Todd is a patient man because I would be like I’m gone.
Kandi…he that taketh a wife has a good thing..I don´t think it said he that find a good mother. In other words. Respect your future husband and listen to what he is saying to you. Don´t lose a good man because you can´t stand up to your mother. Put your work and energy into your marriage just like you put the work into building your brand. Tell mama and her sisters..I love you all but please let me live my life..and if I make a mistake well as least I enjoyed the journey along the way.
I cringe at times as I watched some of these shows n people putting all their lives on tv, however entertaining. I think it’s perfectly fine for a mother to have their daughter’s best interest at heart, but the way Mama Joyce is bringing it is all WRONG. Allow Kandi to make her own mistakes and grow from them. Every1 sees that she doesn’t want anybody near Kandi except herself. When Kandi had no "apparent" man, it was all good, cuz Mama Joyce was tagging along to all those events and now it’s Todd & she dont like it. It seems for her it’s ALL about the money. Period. End of story. There’s more to life than $$. She sound so damn talking about providing, Kandi has everything, so what is Mama J takin bout?
Kandi needs to grow a backbone and speak openly and honestly to Mama J. He she cant speak to her. She needs to put it in a letter. Hopefully all this drama is for tv & they all getting their coins.
Disturbs me that Kandi is more concerned about Dude´s statement about a one hit wonder thing than the blatant disrespect her mom is showing Todd and Carmen and Kandi herself…….i saw her on Andy´s …cryin´….making excuses….yeah…thats your mom….she provided…nobodys tellin u to cut her out of nothin´….but…youre a grown woman…not a lil kid anymore….for your mom to acknowledge the dog and not speak to your hubby-to-be….and to go gangsta on your BFF…when does it stop Kandi
oh you said that
what makes it worst is that her mom gets mad at her at things she cannot control like the question of the day last week. she stated her mom is not talking to her for andys comment last week. even on her show kandi koated nights it used to be a girl name nique onthere and Kandi blew up on her for talking back to mama joyce. mama joyce was mad at phedra for bringing a stripper why was you there at a 30th bday party you knew was gonna b wild. i say lets hook her up
Kandi mom wants her with someone with money cause that would equal more money and gifts for her. Living off Kandi isn´t enough for her she wants a rich son in law too lol
I wonder how Riley feels? Remember AJ and all his kids and how Riley didn’t want to be around them? Riley also did not want Todd to move it. Now she walks down her hallway and sees another man and his kid in her hallway. Now Riley will be forced to be sisters with another girl she doesn’t like. Only person happy about Todd is Kandi. Kandi learn to date. Don’t marry Todd.
Mama Joyce is this u?
lol!!..it does say "In Charge".
MAMA JOYCE THIS IS YOU AIN’T IT….GO SIT YOUR BAD BEHAVING BEHIND DOWN SOME WHERE!
lol! I think Riley likes todd’s daughter. The few moments she was on the show, the two girls were together. I a lso believe they are about the same age. But I’m just speculating. Just like you, "InCharge"
hahaha! yeah that’s her crazy ass. prob hiding outside a bush somewhere at Kandis house. or looking thru her trash.
If You really pay attention to ne ne she is sad and miserable. oh she likes to act happy with her new found wealth and celebrity… but inside is a girl starving for attention and wanting to be more than she ever will be. sad
nene and her big giant teeth is and always have been messy .. she starts most of the drama cause she wants more tv time. notice everybody that was an original is gone except her., cause she brings the most drama for the tv. she let the fame go to her head and now she thinks she is bigger than life.
Success is fleeting. Here today and gone tomorrow. NeNe is going to look like BooBoo the fool when she and Greg are evicted out of another RENTAL home. She was trashing Kandi’s engagement ring; however please note that Kandi lives in a home that she paid CASH money for and then renovated in CASH.
i watched what happens live and Kandi broke down about all the ppl talking crap about her mother. Kandi I agree that is your mama and yes we all have to respect or should respect our mama but honey you are grown and your mama should give you some respect to. you said it yourself when she sees ppl getting close to you she lashes out. It haves to stop your aunts basically lied and said your friend for a million years called your mom out. I feel bad for Rielly she wants you happy but she wants grandmom happy too …now she is stuck in the middle
I thought Nene did not know Phaedra on Reunion 3 ,4&5? All these lies come to surface now for the camera with your Hollywood Career on hold. If that’s associates hell leave me with enemies. Too damn messy for me and uncalled for. It’s one thing to fore-mention the ladies in the circle and make sure the wife Mo was not going to have any conflict but the million viewers didn’t have to know all the personal (_&& you dished tonight. So now you can tell that Kandi is going to get into with Kenya or Mo in Savannah. What a retreat of connecting Nene, stirring the pot for drama. Bravo must going to give a 2 million dollar Reunion bonus.
Or a $3mil cause Phaedra will spend much time digging up everything she can find on Nene before reunion and of course Sheree and Nene’s sister will help her. Nene is QUEEN but that’s a bus I’m sure she’ll regret rolling under.
NeNe truly is delusional I thinking she is the boss of this show and she is such a nasty individual. She was being messy as usual and it is saddening because when I attempt to give her the benefit if the doubt, she shows why I truly don´t like her. She is a arrogant, insecure, selfish and materialistic fool who has no clue what it is like to be a real friend. She looks for followers like Cynthia is. Truth be told, Cynthia should have checked her when she was all up on Peter two seasons ago, but she was a little mouse and said it wasn´t like that. SMH
Kandi has really dated around Atlanta, it seems. Nene has a past as well, so I´m not sure why she wanted to “out” Kandi and Phaedra.
Maybe Kandi got the ‘good good’ and Phae’s got the "good good head".
@VL Vic, Nene is still attracted to Peter. Notice the way she looks at and interacts with him.
I hope Kandi Listens to her mother #Team Momma Joyce and Nene is tired like the rest of the played out reality stars…anywho
Yes Nene was very messy but let somebody come on the show and put Greg cheating ways out there and she will have a dam fit. I like Kandi and I love how my girl on this site keep it real keep up the goo work. Werk it bish!!
Yeah she does keep it real doesn’t she? Even though she stood smiling with Kandi who I think is her true friend, she threw that "gang" bit in there tongue in cheek. LOL! Now thas’ p’fessional. No bias. Gits the job done.
VL Vic I agree, she is too old to be bitter and hateful. Big ups too Kandi and Phaedra for their success. When the devil in disguise (ne ne) is always waiting to attack.
Kandi stand by your man. Mama Joyce has lived her life and should let you live yours!
Mama Joyce is VERY insecure when it comes to Kandi. She is jealous whenever Kandi has ANYONE else in her life (i.e. bestfriend or fiance’). Joyce knows that Kandi is generous and she is afraid that if Kandi loves other people then she won’t be the benefactor of ALL of her generosity. I have a manipulative mother also and I put her in her place YEARS ago. If I even get the slightest hint that my mother is trying to manipulate me or sabotage me then I shut her down immediately!!!
Saw Kandi on Live TV last night. She broke down and cried and said she did not care what anybody had to say that was her momma. So I guess that pretty much sums it up.
No she don’t care but that is the problem. Acting like it is no big deal is going to cost her a fiance/friend. No one is asking her to disrespect her mother or not to take care of her mother. What child wouldn’t want to be able to give a parent the world. However, as children should respect their parents/elders, parents should not provoke their children. Her mother is wrong. Her concerns are very valid but the way she’s expressing them and treating her daughter is wrong. Kandi can demand respect and set boundaries with her mother about her relationship respectfully without compromising her relationships with her fiance and friend. Mama Joyce is a masterful manipulator and is using her daughter’s love for her as a means to control her. It’s a shame Mama Joyce doesn’t have as much compassion for her daughter as her daughter has for her mom. If she did, she would not be treating her the way she is and putting her through such heart ache and down right embarrassment.
Felecia, very well said. You stated your point with love and logic. I agree with you 100%.
Maybe her fiance/friend can go find someone else to scam.
If mom can be isolated or alienated their game will be easy.
I think Kandi dealt with the situation with respect for everyone involved..The best friend was outta line calling Joyce a fool and "why are you here" mess! I would drop her as a friend because she’s to comfortable w/telling Kandi how to treat her mom.It’s not her place.
I’ve said it before,Nene is 1 messy moose! she tried to hurt Kandi and Phaedra then grin in their face!I’m no big fan of Phaedra but,it’s nobody’s biz if she slurp’d and burp’d on anybody peen.
Nene was so out of line it was ridiculous! Her questions were so outside of the moment and the conversation.
Mama Joyce, sit your old pitiful azz down somewhere, anywhere! Jump up at me and I’ll drop your azz quick. If you start it with me, I’ll finish for you. The two sisters were just as bad. That one was constantly telling Kandi’s friend to shut up when Joyce started the mess. I know that old azz Bertha. I used to work with both her and her daughter named Joyce. They were a bunch of ^%$# starters 30 years ago and nothing has changed. By the way Bertha, with 2 sets of jowls and a pinch of snuff between your cheek and gum, you really shouldn’t wish for much camera time. I’m jus’ sayin’…
WAT!!?? WHAT DID YOU SAY TO..(which one?)..oh ..WHAT DID YOU SAY TO BERTHA?? BET CHU’ WON’T STEP TO HER SCREEN AND SAY THAT!! I BET SHE CAN STILL TAKE YOU! SHE PUTS CRACK IN HER SNUFF NOW SO DON’T THINK SHE AINT’ GOT NO MOVES!
You do know they edit stuff! You did noy see the entire conversation.
Oh I saw it alright. Read it twice. Some other old woman from..let’s seeeee…1983 is mad cause Bertha read her azz and now after all these years she sees her on TV and now wants to "drop kick" MJ. Well just keep on dreamin’ ol’ bitty cause you gotta’ go through the GANG to get to MJ. And just in case you weren’t wearing your glasses when MJ turnt up…I KNOW MJ is ‘quicker’ than YOU!!!
By the way Nene doesn’t know Chuck’s wife – she didn’t even know her name. She called her Monique not Mynique. Fake!
Nene said Chuck and Gregg were friends. Chuck was a groomsman in the wedding.
Aint’ nobody tryin’ to say a name that her momma couldn’t spell. Nobody calls that woman Mynique. If that were the case they’d just call her Minnie.
Who is the horse hair hell are you supposed to be and how in the hell do you know what she is called. Her husband and Greg both called her Mynique and Nene did say the they were her friends so she should respect that woman and call her by her proper name. Too, if you spent just as much time on obtaining a GED as you did on responding to someone who wasn’t talking to your boring, miserable, fat, bald edges, ignorant, slow, special needs, celebrity stalking, underground azz, your life would be much better. By the way, I saw a sign that read, "Buy one life, get two free". I’ll pick that up for you, your mother, and your weave. You tip a trick ‘ho-ho-ho’.
Well,…I never. This is CRAZY talk! Sounds like the worst hate speech EVER! SECURITYYYY!
You pretty much skewered every aspiration I could possibly have in life. Are there anymore devastating adjectives you care to hurl at me before I go? And I apologize…I haven’t felt this despondent in a long time. I hope you feel good about yourself.
on further reflection…why don’t you take your sour azz to the nearest sewer and bond with your fam. Kiss my azz, the horse’s azz and your gonerexic, herplexic, syphilexic, horseface mama’s azz..azzhole.
oh wait, that’s YOU right? No wonder his azz is "Smokey".
BTW Smokey is a dog, and so are you and your mama – you know that short hip biotch. Thanks for the entertainment, maybe you can finish after your stage act tonight. Don’t forget to disinfect the pole after your use it, that cesspool hooch of yours could give a buzzard an infection. Or do you have to stay home with all those illiterate and illegitimate kids? I could do this with you all day, but I have a day job. Wish you did too, but maybe it takes both a welfare check and pole money to take care of your little no-neck bastards, and your recently released, soon to be returned, dope smoking, ass kicking dude who’s really screwing your gay disease infested brother. Smooches to you Peaches – or Nay-Nay, or Quan, or Makeba, or TaShun, or Alize, or whatever ghetto fabulous name you have. It is so easy to antagonize the ignorant.
See I go your dumb azz blowin’ up. You dog azz sh*t faced mutherfucker go lick your dog’s nasty smokey azz.
@smokin’; LMAO! Seriously you’re funny as sh*t. That ‘buzzard’ thing is some real throwback sh*t! LOL!!
Mama Joyce is breaking Kandi’s heart worse than all the men’s in the world. Mama Joyce and Auntie need their allowance cut. I bet if I was Kandi I could and would calm those old Mama bullies. Mama Joyce has probrally always bullied Kandi like that to have her way. Mad cause Todd said she was not moving in that house with them. Sour, sour!
You’re right!! This mess started when Todd said that she couldn’t move in with them. Now, Joyce is vindictive and angry and determined to run Todd out of Kandi’s life. Kandi, please get a backbone with your mother. You can love and take care of your mother without her bullying you and trying to CONTROL you. You should get a therapist to help you see that your mother is wrong. You are an adult, as such, your mother should RESPECT your decisions. She doesn’t have to like your decisions in order to respect them. PERIOD! Joyce will continue to run people out of your life as long as you accept it and tolerate it.
Amen!
Mama Joyce and Kandi playing all yall.This is just scripted drama to keep Kandi relevant on the show so she can continue to cash in. C’mon people don’t be so gullable! And Todd aint going nowhere because Kandi is a freak in the bed and a suga momma.
Hey my friend. I don’tknow what’s going on but cute picture.
Whose picture? Yours? That’s not cute! Your head’s shaped like a diamond and one eye is dilated! Oh..wait..so’s mine.
With Kandi, I saw the show and her on WWHL and as a daughter who helps her mom too, I get what she meant about that. But, my mother was respected growing up, she was a woman and a mother in her home. My grandparents never said a word disrespectful to her, least of all in front of us. She earned that right. I became a mother and run my house, one thing I always tell my kids is that they will respect me, my rules and anything else. I learned that from my mother, and once she crossed the door to my home our dynamic changed. We were two women, mothers, in addition to being related. That meant respect should be given, like anyone else I earned the right to be respected in my home, including everything in it. We disagree she will always be mother and thinks she knows best, and I will never want her to stop but I truly am her child, she has to practice what she preached and if not, then I need to speak on in then and there, like her she would have never stood for that. To Kandi, You earned the right to be respected, she will always be your Mom and she should celebrate it she did a fabulous job, and you did with Riley who is also watching all this as a future woman and mother. jmo
nice photo bomb! LMAO.
Sounds like Kandi, Stuck on Chuck. Who gets mad over a old relationship and whats being said, when they have moved on with their life.
All I can say is Team Mama Joyce!
Kandi has a good point but I agree with Mama Joyce overall. For a woman it is very difficult to marry down. Todd very well maybe a good guy but tensions are bound to arise since he will be completely dependent on Kandi. Either he or she will resent the dynamic over time.
What that Chuck moment should have taught Kandi is that just bc your mom likes someone doesn’t mean you need to be with them. Mama Joyce is a single, lonely and forever alone black bitter bitty and if she continues to interfere with Kandi’s life, Kandi will become one too. Kandi stated a few seasons back that all the women in her mother’s family were single and now I see why. Kandi break the cycle!
Chuck and Kandi was so long ago. I don’t know what happened to their relationship, but they went their separate ways. Kandi is off. Why is she worried about something that happened years ago, when she be concentrating on marrying the man of her dreams.
OMG WHO HASN’T dated Randi umm I mean Kandi… bish puzzy got more miles on it than I-85……
Kandi acts very simple in my opinion. she comes out of the dressing room and say’s "ok I’m done" she not in the mood (her mother) and I’m not in the mood any more".. really Kandi? in the mood???? your mother acted a complete an utter fool in the bridal shop. say "Im done with you embarrasing me and acting very foolish" she act’s as if the shit is just ok to do. then goes out to talk to Carmen and act surprise when she tells you the shit your mother was saying which is why shit went left. Todd run!!!!!! this is the norm for Kandi which is why she alway’s finds the shit funny with that damn joker smile on her face. she’s not worth it sir.
I’m soooo over Kandi and her crazy momma. Kandi said on the show that ALL the women in her family was SINGLE. Now I see why and I see that they are seriously trying to keep Kandi single as well.
Kandi grow up and have a woman-to-woman talk with your momma and get on with YOUR life!! Waiting till your momma is ok with Todd will burn up the few baby-making years you have left. Marry Todd if that is what you want and if Momma Joyce wants to be there fine….if she does not….that will have to be fine too!!
Kadndi was not talking about her aunts. All of them are married. She was talking about her cousins. Joyce had been married twice.
Candi look so dumb sometime as though she doesnt know which way is up, her mom and sisters came in there look like the Mississippi Wrecking Crew, better yet the good, bad and the ugly, some thirsty 50+ women want that girls money thats what this is about, all that shade they say, what they?
Kandi reminds me of a high functioning challenged kid. She does not seem to process what is really going on. A blind person can see that Mama Joyce is acting like a ghetto fool. Mama Joyce needs to get a job and stop trying to run Kandi’s life. Kandi needs to grow a pair and stand up without being disrespectful. Find Joyce a man! Joyce and her sisters would be much happy with a man to occupy their time instead of running Kandi and her money. Kandi needs to act like a grown woman instead of a half-wit fourth grader.
Just because that´s your moma don´t mean she get a pass to fuck up your life, she needs to be held accountable.
Ya kandi cuss everybody out about her moma , yet the lady ain´t even talking to her lol
Todd? Pssssst. R-U-N-NNNNNNNNN!
thats right… … Kandi will be just like crazy joyce. that old screttcy voice will drive that fine man away
He is shonuff fine!!!!
If Kandi ever needs to stop guessing about who loves or really cares for her best interests, mother, Todd and Carmon even employees. She should have them take a lie detector test.
Lie detector tests and prenups should go together for anyone marrying down.
I missed the show, so I had to go back and watch it. Chuck and his wife look very uncomfortable with the cameras. Chuck’s wife called Kandi a one hit wonder and he did not correct her. Mama Joyce, I just don’t know what to say; I hope she is just doing some really good acting. I was team Todd until the fitness traing came in and caught his attention and he gave he the once over like he new her. Kandi didn’t like the attention he gave the fitness trainer either! Nene was just wrong, I know she sucked more than Greg her self, so she needs to shut up!
Regarding Nene comment – I am sure they all have! Phaedra has made some low comments about Nene too. I don’t like how Todd is always bringing up to Kandi that Carmen and him don’t like how Kandi handles her mom. Carmen seems to be in all discusions!