Kandi Burruss of The Real Housewives of Atlanta had a “ReDickulous” 35th  birthday party last summer… and by “ReDICKulous” I mean the long dongged male stripper notoriously known around town for his “oral skills”.

Last season Kandi treated the ladies to Mr. Lucious during a segment of her late night sex talk show and the Grammy-award winning songstress had her favor returned with a performance from the legendary male stripper as a gift from her RHOA castmate, attorney Phaedra Parks.

While it was all in good fun, ReDICKulous’ “performance” didn’t sit too well with Kandi’s mom, Miss Joyce, who could be heard uttering on camera “this is some bullsh*t!’.

Miss Joyce felt totally disrespected after ReDICKulous pulled out his donk and displayed his ummmm “oral skills” in front of the shocked crowed. Kandi’s Mom promptly exited as well as castmates, NeNe Leakes and Cynthia Bailey.

NeNe, who has admitted to being a stripper back in the day (her stage name was “Silk”), said she was utterly disgusted by the performance.

ReDickulous called into Watch What Happens Live last night and gave us a bit of TEA on why NeNe dissed him the way she did and of course, she’s already issued her rebuttal.

Details + photos and video below:

Apparently, this wasn’t the first time NeNe witnessed the talents of the legendary Redickulous.

“I actually gave her a lap dance here in Atlanta. She was just egging Kandi’s mom on, I guess to make a scene. She was trying to keep it cool and be reserved,” Redickulous speculated about NeNe’s reaction to his act.

“It did kind of upset me and offend me, but, you know, she’s an exotic dancer. She came with an entourage the very first time I danced for her, and they called me over and they had a lot of money and they were tipping me like crazy, and I was doing those same tricks.”

CLICK HERE to watch ReDickuous’ phone call from last night’s on What Happens Live.

NeNe didn’t waste any time responding to the male stripper and took to her twitter to defend herself, stating:

NeNe also denied Redickulous’ claim of  giving her a private show….

“Andy [Cohen] wasn’t at Kandi’s party. Didn’t Phaedra give her the gift? Why are y’all making this about me?” she also tweeted.

“Would you be at a party with your mom, aunt or people you do business with and watch a stripper suck his… in front of everyone?”

And in case she hadn’t made her point perfectly clear already, NeNe added, “For the record! I have the RIGHT to leave any event I want to!…There’s a lot of things I use to do that I don’t do no more! It’s called GROWTH.”

Here’s the link to the stripper segment that pissed Kandi’s mom off >>> Watch HERE.

Whatever the case, a man who sucks his own meat isn’t particularly appealing to me but it’s all entertainment… I guess.

It’s a moot point since I already know ReDICKulous plays with boys….

but if a man has the ability to “pleasure himself” does that make him G.A.Y. since he’s had a d*ck in his mouth?

I’m just sayin…