Kandi Burruss of The Real Housewives of Atlanta had a “ReDickulous” 35th birthday party last summer… and by “ReDICKulous” I mean the long dongged male stripper notoriously known around town for his “oral skills”.
Last season Kandi treated the ladies to Mr. Lucious during a segment of her late night sex talk show and the Grammy-award winning songstress had her favor returned with a performance from the legendary male stripper as a gift from her RHOA castmate, attorney Phaedra Parks.
While it was all in good fun, ReDICKulous’ “performance” didn’t sit too well with Kandi’s mom, Miss Joyce, who could be heard uttering on camera “this is some bullsh*t!’.
Miss Joyce felt totally disrespected after ReDICKulous pulled out his donk and displayed his ummmm “oral skills” in front of the shocked crowed. Kandi’s Mom promptly exited as well as castmates, NeNe Leakes and Cynthia Bailey.
NeNe, who has admitted to being a stripper back in the day (her stage name was “Silk”), said she was utterly disgusted by the performance.
ReDickulous called into Watch What Happens Live last night and gave us a bit of TEA on why NeNe dissed him the way she did and of course, she’s already issued her rebuttal.
Details + photos and video below:
Apparently, this wasn’t the first time NeNe witnessed the talents of the legendary Redickulous.
“I actually gave her a lap dance here in Atlanta. She was just egging Kandi’s mom on, I guess to make a scene. She was trying to keep it cool and be reserved,” Redickulous speculated about NeNe’s reaction to his act.
“It did kind of upset me and offend me, but, you know, she’s an exotic dancer. She came with an entourage the very first time I danced for her, and they called me over and they had a lot of money and they were tipping me like crazy, and I was doing those same tricks.”
CLICK HERE to watch ReDickuous’ phone call from last night’s on What Happens Live.
NeNe didn’t waste any time responding to the male stripper and took to her twitter to defend herself, stating:
NeNe also denied Redickulous’ claim of giving her a private show….
“Andy [Cohen] wasn’t at Kandi’s party. Didn’t Phaedra give her the gift? Why are y’all making this about me?” she also tweeted.
“Would you be at a party with your mom, aunt or people you do business with and watch a stripper suck his… in front of everyone?”
And in case she hadn’t made her point perfectly clear already, NeNe added, “For the record! I have the RIGHT to leave any event I want to!…There’s a lot of things I use to do that I don’t do no more! It’s called GROWTH.”
Here’s the link to the stripper segment that pissed Kandi’s mom off >>> Watch HERE.
Whatever the case, a man who sucks his own meat isn’t particularly appealing to me but it’s all entertainment… I guess.
It’s a moot point since I already know ReDICKulous plays with boys….
but if a man has the ability to “pleasure himself” does that make him G.A.Y. since he’s had a d*ck in his mouth?
I’m just sayin…



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I like me some male strippers, but I don’t want to see one suck his own thang. That’s just nasty, he was at the wrong party lol.
HeeLarious….Kandi’s mom was 38 HOT!!!
why would dat make him gay he pleasuring his self and beside he didn’t do it long enough to cum…dam give him a break he’s an entertainer he’s entertaining I guess….lmbo…..
That was a bit foul, no straight male would do such a thang (imjustsayn)
I’m seriously nauseous right now. WTF!
First of all why was her mother even there? I myself had a Party for my 35th and believe me with the friends that I have, I made sure my mother and I celebrated earlier in the day! I just cannot standddd NENE she has always been a Fake hatin ugly negative female that wishes she was anyone of the other Housewives beside the one she is now. If I was Cynthia I would watch her around my Husband because she is feeling him and if she could have him she would. I wish I could see what he is working with, I am officially on a mission to find a video or something.
I agree Quiana
lol@’ReDickulous’
NeNe needs to just go away. Everyone says she’s the show but she’s dragging the show down acting the way she does
Speechless! Who would want to watch such a thing? I’m shocked that miss prissy southern belle Phaedra would even be in the presence of something so disgusting. Shocked but not surprised.
That was nasty I would have done the same as ms Joyce and NeNe and left
That’s sum ole bullshy! LOL ROTFLMBAO@Kandi thirsty rich ass buy aht you cant have I guess!! Her mom is hillarious!
. .i was #done when he put it in her drink, then he put it in his own mouth! O_0.. #dead lol. Thats foul.
Yea, it’s not attractive..but I was more bothered by why was Kandi’s mother causin’ such a damn scene? She yelled at Kandi like she was a child. Kandi didn’t ask him to come, that was a gift FOR KANDI, not her mother. And people should know by now Phaedra is as freaky as all outdoors..lol..that woman loves her some strippers. To each it’s own, I just didn’t like the way Kandi blew up. And NeNe needs to shut her beak up!
That is flat out disgusting. He should keep that pleasuring hisself trick in the closet, lock that key, and don’t EVER NEVER EVER do it again.
that was a classless act for sure he should be quite ashamed and embarassed…who does that ??…yuck…ewww….nassssstttay
is he a gay stripper?…cause if so then maybe thats what they do…i dunno
i will never forget the faces some of those chicks were making but there were quite a few who stayed and liked the party including khandi
it should but hell im still intrigued and interested that he can
When did Kandi get so thick?
Does Nene’s ignorant behind not realize the word is GUESTS not GUESS. But she’s "very rich bitch" but cant use proper English. Hahahaha!
all that oil has clog his pores and he really looks dirty.how can any one find him attractive.
That was slack!!!What Mr.Lucious does is tastefull stripping but wat this man does is (gay porn) and he wasn’t even cute he’s butter face everything cute but your face and I understand why kandi mom was mad and Phaedra the southern FREAK should of known better because you don’t do things around other people moms that you wouldn’t do around yours I think Phaedra has alot of skeletons in her closet and I hope NeNe took her eyes out her purse and put them back in her head so she can drive and see lmaooo Love her
I agree, he’s nasty with that.
And is it me or does Phaedra still look pregnant lmao
Mrs NeNe (Man Man), as an elder, one would think that you would conduct yourself better. Nothing that this stripper did was as disgusting as your foul, loud mouthed, uncouthed ass. You were a stripper (oh, you sold an illusion) yeah right, you were sucking more dicks than P.Diddy. Clubs were not as regulated back then as they are now. How do I know (Man, Man)? I use to strip with Silk back in the day…. I know what we ALL use to do to make money BACK IN THE DAY. Silk (Ne Ne or Man Man) was doing the same thing she is doing now, except she is not on her back…. Silk is and always has been a hustler.. going for the money. Why do you think she married old ass Greg. He had a little money to take care of her and her son… (who REALLY resembles her so called "father" she found). He actually may have been one of her tricks in the club back in the day….Bryson (her oldest sone) really looks like "Allen". Remember the fruit does not fall far from the trees, her mother was a hooker from coast to coast. This was ALL silk knew how to do was trick…
More to come….Peace and tell the truth
I loved it when Andy played back the video of Kandi and her mom stating that they have strippers at every event. kandi mom should have sat down and looked the other way because if the birthday girl and host wasn’t upset why was she?
Also if nene wants to talk about proper etiquettes, she should know better than to go over cynthia’s house and talk about her sex life in front of her husband. Now that’s just things you don’t do. Cynthia better watch Nene cause that was deliberate, she was trying to have a second conversation within the first with Peter cause she knows Cynthia’s dumb ass wouldn’t catch on
There was nothing wrong with the show Redickulous but on. I will be the first to admit, I love some male strippers. Just came back from the A from the male strip club and it was off the chain as usual.
Ne-Ne needs 2 jus sit her RU-PAUL LOOKIN ASS DOWN SOME WHERE…..I BELIEVE DA BITCH IZ ON STEROIDS…….Ugly ass whore!!!!
Kandi’s face was priceless. ROTFL
I was there and the show was hot! NeNe has a right to her opinion but she needs to learn how better to express it! My mother always said, “Money can’t buy you class!”
I don’t watch the show, but so many people seem to hate Nene, but in reality they won’t watch it if she wasn’t up there. I watched a few episodes of the first season and they all get on my nerves. But it would be a bore without her, so get over it or stop watching it like I did.
SHUT THE FRONT DOOR! DID THAT fool REALLY STICK HIS D*CK IN SOMEONE’S DRINK AND THEN PUT IT IN HIS OWN MOUTH??????????? I IDGAF WHAT ANYONE SAYS….THAT SH*T IS INDEED DISGUSTING AND GAY!!!!!!
That show was disgusting, Something is wrong with Kandi, she has a sex business so she was with it.
Kandi never said who her daughter’s father is, but you can tell she is a Levert.
DIRK DIGGLER!!!
I think the stripper pleasuring himself was inappropriate for the event. Girl’s night out private party strip on. I this does not hinder Kandi’s attempts to get her singing career back on track, worst case scenerio she can become a video girl. That proclaimed southern bell is an undercover freak, it’s not like she didn’t know that high profile guests were going to be there from the music industry and that Kandi’s motehr would be present (what a friend). No wonder she wanted to leave her husband at home. She really has no class it’s all up that big fat ass of hers and I don’t blame people for leaving that was way too extra.
Just saying!
This guy is disgusting, I’m sure that he has the "Package", he needs "Jesus".
All I know is, Phaedra knows how to throw a party! She brought a well- endown stripper and providing the $ingles, for the stripper? Forget Oprah…..WE ALL NEED PHAEDRA AS A FRIEND.
I think Phaedra should have brought a more tasteful stripper. This dude was really not the one for this particular party with these wannabe social climbers. Also,she should seriously think about her own business endeavors.Everyone watches this show.She will be recognized for Atlanta Housewives more than her litigations. The Funeral business that she’s pursuing is serious money. Does she really want to jeopardize that with raunchy RiDICKulousness? She may be "d**king" herself out of some ridiculous $$$$$!
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Wish my hubbie could suck his own d*&k…maybe I would get a break…LMAO!!! But It wasnt Kandi’s momma party, he didnt come for her so if she didnt like it she should have turned her head or left the room till he was done.
Gay as F**k!! Why do they try to make everything aobut Ne Ne. Like she said it’s called Growth when you move on from things you once did. Phaedra’s raggedy ass makes me sick.
Nene someone thougth what you did was gross and nasty. You were a big man-man looking woman sliding down a stripper pole and couldn’t seduce nobody but old man Greg. What young man in his right man wanted to bring a big he-man to the bedroom but an old man like Greg Leakes. I thought it was gross how she was talking about Greg throwing down in the bed. We all know even with viagra Greg ain’t did too much of nothing.
But females strippers pleasure themselves all the time as part of their show to increase tips. Why are men held to a double standard?
@gwen robinson, When is a big d!ck ever unattractive?? Who cares about his face or acne when he packing like that. You can buy acne cream anywhere but you can’t pick up d!ck like that just anywhere.
That was a tacky, distasteful 35th birthday party. That was not the time to have a stripper. There were men at the party and no straight man wants to be entertained by a male stripper. Phaedra, this was tacky, tacky, tacky on your part. This shows your class as an attorney. Even though we saw NeNe, Cynthia and Kandi’s mom leave there were others that left as well. That were not part of the reality show. I would have left the party also. Nothing was good about that. Kandi owes everyone an apology.
A Hott Mess!!
Why is it Phaedra’s still tripping off of "Gay Skrippers" apparently Apollo is not doing what he’s suppose to do, if she’s star gazing at "Ugly Gay Skrippers" dude is ugly as a "Gorilla’s Behind" I wouldn’t dare spend my dollars on his "BEAT UP LOOKING BEHIND, I might as well give my dollars to "Flavor Flav, Biz Markie, JJ from Good Times" enough said.
LMAO!! I know this post is late, but I just saw the show last night. I think it was cool Phaedra brought the lil ole stripper, BUT once Kandi’s mama saw that nakedness, she should have quietly left and came back when it was over. It wasn’t for her; it was for Kandi. He has an act to do, so EVERYTHING was freakin hilarious to me, but not offensive. I do encourage ya’ll who question (ahem, ahem), to do your research (i.e. google) and you will find yourselves shocked as I was, or…maybe not. LMAO @ those faces on the show.
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i just wanna say for starters, that shyt was very degrading, i dont care how big ya d*** is, you just dont go doing that…and as for that going on at a party that was classless, i mean, damn why would u do that in front of a group of ppl even if you are a performer and as for Phadrea bringing a man like that to an event, to celebrate it was out of line, h** u couldve waited to do that in private…smh….ONA i wouldnt mind a man have a big packeage cause thats a girls dream well most, but i mean as for a man being that large thats just not human…lol. sorri but i would run u wouldnt be hurting me puttin me in the hospital messing with my vajaja…lol.
Ah damn.
His shyt was over-the-top and is only appropriate for gay men, not women. The more Phaedra opens her mouth, the more I’m inclined to believe she’s a FREAK and is a bit too cozy with her criminal clients. She sure does have a "thing" for women’s booties a little too much.
Well…I do wonder why so much of the focus was placed on NeNe (and her leaving the party) when it was clearly Kandi’s mother who was so vocal and upset about being offended. Phaedra and Sheree had all the mouth in the world about NeNe being an ex-stripper, but both of them were quiet as church mice to Kandi’s mom. Hm…
On a side note, Phaedra does come off very freakish at times. I would question the friendship of ANY woman who felt it was appropriate to "gift" me with a stripper who stirs my drink with his appendage and fellates himself. It would say a lot about what she thought of me.
As a mofo.
yep, he’s gay!!! a woman could do nothin to please him
No he just love him self A LOT!!!!LOL thats serious U got me SFTA LOL.
Yeah, he’s a fairy for that one right there……
Yes he is gay very much so… ctfu
No cuz it’s his own dick…so that makes women who are able to nibble or suck their own breast during sex for their man gay…..Not!!!
No matter how u put it…he’s still a dick sucker…and any man that puts any dick in his mouth is gay!
no, as long as it’s no one else.
Gay means to be intimate with someone of the same sex, not with urself… He is freaky than a Mofo but by the definition of the word gay… He is not!!
Hell to the yes!!!….as impressive as it is that it’s THAT big…..I’d rather see him put it on his shoulder than in his mouth
Im sorry even if I had the ability like him to “pleasure myself” that wouldnt be no interest of mine. For the reason that I dont eat p@#&$% so why would I do that to myself. Apparently he luvs to suck d%$#@ so he is GAY hands down.
The man is not sexy period! So why all the hoopla during his performance I’ll never know! oh and the act he does is quite sickening~
I seen him perform and the way he did his show, yep, he’s gay… He was hitting men from the back, had his face down there acting like he was giving another man head… He is GAY all DAY….Yall have to see his performance, and this will not be a debate…
saw him getting head frm another man….gay af!
He is too ugly for me to care!!
A huge possibility
Meanie Nene will always be trash. I laugh about how ghetto she sounded I the first season. She "tries" soooooo hard to sound "proper" I also found it funny then anytime the other girls success was mentioned she rolled those ugly eyes… Nene will Never rise above a rock and needs humbling ASAP!
Must be a slow day.
Tiffany Hunt Susan Stephens lol!
Ursula Phoenix Weir Thanks for sharing, lol!;-)
Gay as hell.
He was at my 35th bday party! He is a great entertainer.
Susan Stephens – Haha! Yep, he’s a great entertainer and a great “pretender!” Lol!!