here’s the thing….they did make the decision TOGETHER, however COMMA, under the ASSUMPTION it would FOrevaeva…
MOST, not all, doctors don’t like to do such a permanent procedure on women as young as she is and women who are NOT married…AND as SHADY as it is that they decided together to do this and then he decides "nawww never mind" she still made the decision…a couple of lessons
1. don’t make such a permanent decision while so young, there are other forms of birth control that can be used
2. and even though this is also no guarantee because people go into marriage like "if it dont work we can just get divorced attitudes" instead of "til death do we part" maybe don’t make such a decision with a man who is ONLY technically your boyfriend
3. IT is MUCH easier for a man to go through the procedure which is, in and out, and it can reversed much easier than a woman…so see if HE is willing to go through that before YOU do

just my 1cent on it….

You can lead a horse to water, you can´t make him drink it. What I believe is this. They have two kids. While they were together, they decided they didn´t want anymore. She thought he was going to be her forever & was happy with the two children. Things quickly go left, for whatever reason. Sometimes, even though you´re in a relationship, you have to think about those “what if” moments. I wouldn´t totally blame him, because at the end of the day, it was still her final decision to make. To hear her talk about it on the show, you feel like he was the blame. *shoulder shrug* I don´t think he mislead her? Another question is, why didn´t he get a vasectomy if he didn´t want any more kids? What will really be hurtful, is if he has another baby with the woman in his life now….

Only the second child is his

No only one is his he jus claim both

He is selfish but she can reverse it and have more kids

What she should have done was got married before she pushed out those kids. That was stupid of her ultimitly its her body she should have got another form of birth control but she chose to make a huge decision for her boyfriend

While Ne-yo is a very talented young man, I do not think there is a woman alive who would back him on this. I’m happy that Monyetta has forgiven him, but let’s be honest she did that for him thinking that her future husband did not want to extend their family any further. Otherwise, if she had really done it for herself, it wouldn’t be an issue now. The fact that he is not as sensitive toward her situation as I personally feel he should be, I have a hard time really accepting anything much he has to say. When I saw that woman break down to Christina like that… I don’t see how he can look himsel fin the mirror.

As an artist, great his stuff rocks. But he is an a**hole.

Neyo ugly azz should not be able to impregnate another woman he has some ugly genes in is DNA. Only way to have a cute child is to have one with a gene dominant woman. When I saw his mother I understood why he so choosy about who he date. Mic drop

In my opinion I would never ever Tie, burn or clip my tubes!! Especially For no mf bf!! And if he is my husband…..I still wouldn´t do it!!! Ain´t nobody deciding what I´m going to do with MY body but ME!!! And GOD!!!!

She´ll be aight. She can have a reversal.

She should´ve made that decision for herself, not her boyfriend. A decision like that is too major to bank it on a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

Sharon Dixon, tubes were cut and burned, no reversing

Who cares he dont like women

Hold up I believe that he talked her into that let me explain ON VH1 Neyo was dating a girl she told him she was pregnant his mother did not believe her. The young lady who was supposed to be pregnant took a D.N.A. test and the Boy WAS NOT NEYO BABY look it up. He got with this young lady that is now on T.V. she got pregnant and she took the test the first baby and the second baby is his. I know he took her pregnancy very seriously like any man but again he may not want her to have babies by other men. Relationships don´t always work out that is why he made her mind up trust me AS A WOMEN ONCE YOU GET YOUR TUBES BURNT that mean your mind is made up 100percent and she want more kids that mean she did not make her mind up alone that is something serious

Bingo!!! This is why he made that song about a girl just being a normal normal girl. And how strippers type looking bodies that undergoes Sergey in any shape or fashion includes extra boobs. They don´t won´t that lol! And that´s what he wants it´s actually a really cute song in a funny song at the right time. Many of these young ladies have resulted in working at the strip club getting their bodies transformed for just a moment and now when you have to go back to having a child is going to be very very hard. Many of times we will get with someone and we don´t know how quick they will change, before you change with your business. You ask yourself what is it that they really truly do it what you did not do for them to get them started how independent are they? go back and listen Ne-Yo old song and you will see he´s been hollering out for real woman for a long time. Its just funny that they both get some entertainment action on some TV time on the EXs show. But basically he was saying he would rather paper than plastic! He wants more children and am I forgetting something…this show is called EXs right? http://Www.KhadijaJackson.com now go Google that! 😀 :-*

Ne-Yo is gay anyway…..I am just waiting on the day for him to come out of the closet