Wow. This is all a hot mess. With his lifestyle, I just can’t understand why he would want to be the primary parent..the kids will end up being with Nannies all the time on his watch. It seems he doesn’t want Tameka to be in any position where he has to "give" her anything..i.e., money, authority, etc. How did he go from "Here I Stand" to "How does it feel to lose your sons?" (If that’s true.) Thin line people..very thin line (b/t love and utter disgust)

Usher is a stank ass man. I’m officially through with him. What a skank ass man!!! He must really be a hate filled person, after his step son died how could he go this route. Usher should have dropped the case…. didn’t HIS sons lose enough with their brother dying???? Now he is trying to take them from their Mother too? There was NO abuse, hunger, neglect so why would he go this extreme? He is a fool and will lose many fans over this dumb act. He is so poorly advised, my word. His managers should be shooting themselves right now. Stoooopid!!!

ok , SFTA you take sides and i think you are confused yourself, one day you like tamika the next you dont which one is it?

Honestly it seems as tho alot of people are siding with tameka after her son passed(rip. I feel for her as a mother i honestly do i could only imagine what shes going thru.

Im not siding with usher becuase i see there are questionable things in this case HOWEVER there has to be something that the public does not know in regards to this case things are just not adding up. Tamika needs to keep her a$$ off twitter(nuff said)i dont care about "she has the right to express herself" blah blah blah she needs to learn to keep her mouth shut after certain situations or if she cant why not jot it down in a diary(ijs)

both usher and tamika have very bitter feelings toward eachother and what they havent realized yet is that its not about the them its about the children i know it hass to already be confusing going from house to house, its time they become adults and come to an adult decision about their kids.

Tamika is also fighting to keep her child support going. 8k amonth isnt enough i mean u live in GA really? wtf you need 11k for tamika? LOL.

I follow tamika on her twitter, she is just as busy as Usher so the both of them need to cutt the foolery. Period.

Oh and about the whole ushers lawyer kmnew the judge yada yada yada KNOCK IT OFF PEOPLE AND WAKE TF UP. that law firm is not soley owned by ushers lawyer f.y.i(Warner, Mayoue, Bates & Nolen, ) now yal;l just looking for reasons for why he got custody. i mean really if her son had not passed away(rip) would u be really siding with tamika ooooooor would you still be team usher etc etc. Im sure that judge covered her tracks period. One of them were gonna get custody we just didnt know which one and its not like he has 100 percent custody she still has rights and access to the children. They need to do whats best for them children period.

messy messy messy.

@ Asaada25

"He is a fool and will lose many fans over this dumb act" REALLY?

So if Tamika won would she have lost her"fans/supporters"?

Who cares! Haven’t these kids been through enough? Tameka needs to fall back and give these kids a break. This is all about her and not about the children. She spent the last three years with these children primarily, it will not kill her to let them stay with their dad for a while.

And Michelele, you really should consider getting a legal analyst or legal writer to report on such cases because you are NOT equipped to break down the law. This isn’t cultural matters, it’s LEGAL matters.

I think this is just terrible. I commend him on wanting to be in the kids life but they are so young. At this age they should be with their mother. Around 8 or 9 years of age then she can pass the baton and let him raise them.
A woman can’t teach them how to be a man. The father can then step in. I can’t with these two yahoos.

I’m an Usher fan but right is right and wrong is wrong and this entire case is making me dislike him even more. His character shows that he is only being greedy and is trying to hurt Tameka even more than the hurt of her just losing and burrying one of her sons. Usher needs Jesus in his life. He doesn’t even have time to care for 2 children living the life that he lives.

You all act like Usher wanting custody happened because one of her kids died. WRONG. He was seeking custody every since Tameka thought it was her right to cancel his scheduled time with them and not have them ready on time. They’ve been divorced since 2009 and she is still bitter, she didn’t fight this hard for her first husband and the kids they have together. You all want to say she is a great stylist and mom, but you can’t tell me why she didn’t have her own Saks card and visitation with her other two boys. So that leads me to believe that she’s a stylist like Kim Porter is a model and she either didn’t want her her kids or she’s not fit enough to care for them as the primary caregiver. She’s the only one that can’t move on and she just keeps embarrassing herself. She obviously have problems if she can’t realize that her legal business doesn’t need to be aired on twitter.

Usher is still mad at his momma for allowing Puff Daddy to molest him when he was first trying to get on, and lived with him in New York. He has emotional trauma and needs to seek psychiatric help for past abuse.

@2bme girrrl you spoke the truth at 2:56 that’s what I been saying from the beginning, folks put themselves in situations and then look crazy and try to figure out what went wrong when that person shows you who you already knew they were. She worked with that man long enough to know what kind of person he was, I’m sure she seen first hand the revolving door of women……but she wanted to be about that life! RIP to that precious angel Kile

No judge/attorney is going to compromise their career and all they have worked for in exchange for $1,278.00!!!!! It is common in the legal community for attorney’s and judges to have a relationships and work together to support each other’s professional endeavors.

And as far as Usher being a womanizer – he can’t do no more to any woman than she allows… stop playing victim and take some ownership in your role in this saga! you gambled and lost! next… *rolling my eyes, neck and ass follows* 🙂

All of yall are funny. I’m not pro or con either of them. But everybody is so down on Usher but the point is Tameeka basically started this garbage. Because she was bitter and angry that he no longer wanted her and had already moved on, she tried to keep this man from his kids just because he was already with someone else. This is what she gets-regardless as to how it ended. Had she been what a real mother is and iron out mess so that the kids can be with both parents while they get their own ish together instead of pitting kids against parent and not allowing the other parents to spend time with kids he obviously loves. Don’t play with fire if you don’t wanna get burned. Tameeka is the typical vindictive, evil woman who got mad at her ex. She should have got over it and moved on just like he did. Now, here she is-has lost 3 kids. Just stupid.

The whole situation is messy on both sides. Tameka known Usher for what…7yrs and was his stylist. She knew he was no good, yet still divorced to be with Usher. You are setting youself up right there. Then to get married and have kids by this man, who you know got it bad for women. Usher should have seen the signs of a bad mother before getting her pregnant (if this is the case). If you are together 24/7 without the kids red flags should be everywhere! Take notes ladies, stop trying to be on a quick come up having a celebrities baby (or man of power or athletes) these men are getting smart. Look at Reese and Dwight Howard, she can’t even say his NAME. Lets not forget Duwayne Wade taking his kids away too. Now before I get hate comments i’m just saying look beyond the money and fame before you take the dive (get it..lol). One thing I can say is at least he wants to be apart of his kids life and make it work with his schedule, women do it all the time; specially actors. I wish the best for all parties.