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The world seems to think that the custody battle between Usher Raymond and his ex-wife Tameka Foster Raymond is over and done after the Judge in the case, Bensonetta Tipton Lane released the final order granting Usher “primary” custody of their two young sons.
[READ: Raymond vs. Raymond: Judge Rules in Usher's Favor in Custody Battle Against Tameka]
But trust me when I tell you Tameka is NOT giving up without a fight! Especially since Usher’s attorney and the judge who ruled over their child custody battle, may have a relationship that created a bias in the case!
Yuup… it’s about to get good!
Exclusive details + explosive documents showing link between Usher’s attorney & the judge below…
For those who don’t know, Usher was represented in the custody battle by attorneys Ivory T. Brown and John Mayoue.
According to documents registered with the Georgia Government Transparency and Finance Commission, the law firm of Warner, Mayoue, Bates & Nolen, PC held a fundraising reception for Judge Lane back in 2008.
$1,278 is listed above, a small amount? sure… but it’s possible Usher’s attorney’s connection to Judge Lane could potentially be seen as enough of a bias to warrant new proceedings under a new judge.
*** [UPDATE: The document above shows $1,278 because that was the amount it cost to HOST the fundraiser (for stamps, invites, etc...), while in all actuality the firm raised a total of over $24,115.91 for the judge's campaign.] ***
If you have any doubts that Usher & his team had unequal footing in the case, here are a few things to consider:
1. Prior to the end of closing arguments last week, a reporter asked Mayoue if he’d had a hand in any fundraising for the judge and he said he didn’t know anything about it. Did Mayoue forget that his firm held the fundraiser back in ’08?
2. Just hours after closing arguments in the case, sources spoke of a phone call made by Usher where he asked Tameka “How does it feel to lose?”… IF this happened, how the heck did Usher know he’d won the case before the judge had even rendered her decision?
3. Another major issue to note… Usher’s blatant disregard for Tameka’s attorney’s request that he take that drug test! While Tameka actually submitted to each request that was asked of her… i.e. drug tests, psychiatric evaluation, etc. Why was Usher allowed to brush off p*ssing in the cup…
[READ: Raymond vs. Raymond: Usher's Ex Says He Does Drugs... and She Has PROOF!]
4. Oh… and about that psych exam? My sources say that the doctor used for both exams was chosen and PAID for by Usher (you do the math) and while the exams showed that both had “narcissistic” tendencies (i.e. they’re both a bit loco!), Usher’s attorney tried to say that only Tameka had a “mental disorder.”
5. During Tameka’s sister’s testimony, she spoke about Usher’s dysfunctional relationship with his mother, who he refers to as “Jonnetta” (never Mom), and how he drove his truck HEAD ON into her vehicle 3 times on October 18, 2009.
Usher was reportedly so angry with his mom that he wanted to hurt her (she was in the vehicle as he drove into it)…
They have a VERY volatile relationship. She is controlling, bossy and would disrespect him, as if he was 9 years old. This is WHY she is not managing him.
Mommy issues aren’t an issue apparently.
And last but not least, we’ve all questioned the Judge’s decision to release the portion of the order that cited Usher for contempt, prior to her releasing the final order where she ultimately ruled in his favor. Could that have been another one of Usher & his team’s manipulation of the media? Seems plausible… since he already knew he was going to win, why not give Tameka a lil bit before he hit that slam dunk?
Anywhoo… loyal reader VAY (hey girl!) was able to break down the judges order for us in the comments section and she did a great job of noting all the pertinent points of the order. Clearly the two can’t communicate effectively and while the judge has granted Usher “primary” physical custody, the order suggests that each party has to consult with the other regarding the children.
Shouts out to HipHopEnquirer for obtaining the final order, which you can read the documents below if you have some free time.
BTW… the couple has to return to court September 11th to hash out a few financial matters… Like, who’s paying for Tameka’s legal fees.
As you know, it was Usher who initiated the custody proceedings and while clearly Tameka needed to hire attorneys to defend herself against the action, Usher doesn’t feel that he should have to pay… for Tameka’s attorneys that is (clearly her friends are another matter).
Did Usher’s attorney’s prior relationship with the judge create an unfair bias in the custody battle?
It ain’t over til it’s over…
Wow. This is all a hot mess. With his lifestyle, I just can’t understand why he would want to be the primary parent..the kids will end up being with Nannies all the time on his watch. It seems he doesn’t want Tameka to be in any position where he has to "give" her anything..i.e., money, authority, etc. How did he go from "Here I Stand" to "How does it feel to lose your sons?" (If that’s true.) Thin line people..very thin line (b/t love and utter disgust)
Exactly, he dissent seem to want her to have anything. Alot of times a man rather take the kid(s) because they don’t want to pay child support to the mother. Usher has always treated his mother crappy.
You say that as if Tameka is a at home mom….She also has a busy schedule as well, so what makes her a better fit?
She aint touring the friggin world, chasing groupies, shooting videos, and living in other states. Usher is all over the planet and never in the Atl. People are jsut dumb and blinded by the hype. he is scandalous, his mother is too, Ive heard all about the Jeanetta stories in the A.
Girl, share some of those Jonetta stories!
You just proved team Usher’s point. No she isn’t touring all over the world, but yet she still needs a Nanny!! Why the hell isn’t she home with her freaking kids taking care of them like a real freaking mother would. What the hell do you need a freaking nanny for if you are not out touring the damn world to put bread on the table!!??
Why does this make her a better fit!?
You sound so silly and just a hater of Tameka because there are plenty of women with children that work….
The real truth is nothing was proven that stated that Tameka was unfit and Usher also never took that drug test as it relates to him crying on stage last year….
sweedy u can say that again….this is a whole mess and everybody knows that. buyinmg judges off to take kids away from their moms is below looooow!!
co-sign…everything you said!
and a blankstare @–>Jonnetta” (never Mom), and how he drove his truck HEAD ON into her vehicle 3 times on October 18, 2009
Now I understand why Usher mom in court look like she gave 2f*cks about being there.
Most of child stars did that when their parents managed them..Brandy,Brittney,Usher,Bow Wow..it’s enforced so that they are taken more seriously from my understanding
the bible says "respect thy mother and father so that thy days and years will be prolong on this earth" whether child star or grandma/grandpa star!!!
did you read the report because it says that one of Usher’s sons falled from a high chair while he was under Tameka’s responsabilty. Tameka never told it to Usher and he only found out during a skype session, only because he noticed that he was cut.
Tameka is too busy chasing fame, tweeting to notice that one her son falled from a chair;
Usher is NOT a monster he wants the best for his kids, he doesn’t want them to end up like Kile.
Tameka ACCEPTING MONEY from the MAN WHO KILLED HER SON TO NOT PRESS CHARGES on him is WORSE than anything else, hope that Usher will use him as well
“Usher is NOT a monster he wants the best for his kids, he doesn’t want them to end up like Kile” Even thought that was an accident we cant forget that neither parent was present at the time. He was on vacation with his father but where was the father, not around. Don’t let friends and nannies be the primary caregiver for the child
okay you don’t have kids. Kids will and do get into things. And I think it’s safe to say that a baby will have atleast a fall in his or her life. You can try to watch them like a hawk and it can still happen. She’s a human being.
OOOMMGGGG!!!! why did u even have to waste seconds of ur time explaining that to this foool….did he/she really say "end up like kile"??? woooooooooow ignorance is sooooo f*ckin bliiiiiiiiiiss. this idiot’s comment is the worst i have ever heard..i have a son and accidents do happen,same as it happened with kile a*shole!! shame on u for sayin that.
Deliah, do you have kids? I have 4, 12, 5, 4, and 11mnths, and things happen to them all the time. Not that I am proud of that fact, but they are kids, and kids will be kids. But it doesnt make me a bad parent, for anyone to want to take my kids. While fixing a puzzle a couple of weeks ago my 5 yr old fell and broke his wrist. I was in the room with the baby, does that make me a bad mom? NO I got it together, got them ALL dressed, we made it to the hospital and got him all fixed up, he’s fine. The same boy chipped his tooth when he was 2 playing with his sister!
This USHER mess is despicable, I love Usher as an artist, but this hurts my heart. She just lost one son, by circumstances beyond her control, so a few weeks later you go and take 2 more of her kids? If Usher thought she was such a bad parent, he didnt know it before he had 2 boys with her? At that time she already had 3, so whats up with that!!!!
It wouldn’t have been up to Tameka to press charges. It would have been up to the state.
Right. Further proof that we are dealing with a child. Or Darshelle. Hard to tell.
Despite all this "evidence" that has been dug up I still don’t see the problem with Usher having primary physical custody of his kids they still both have JOINT CUSTODY so what’s the issue? If a fundraiser was given by the lawyers firm is 08 you think Usher researched all that and then had the judge fixed on the case? Why AFTER the ruling all this good hardcore "evidence" is now being released? Momangers have always had issues with their kids just look at Brandy and her mother they still have issues with each other their is a terrible line that has to be straddled when your kid is your client somethings are sacrificed in the name of business that a parent wouldn’t do but a manager would. You wasn’t on team Tamika but now all of a sudden you have changed your mind? I don’t think Tamika is a victim here I just can’t buy that at the end of the day this should be about the kids not the adults everyone seems to be forgetting that smh. I hope Tamika’s appeal is turned down so that everyone can go on with their lives shit let it go already.
No you need to go on with your comment. Bye girl.
I agree the78msj!! SMH he’s a father and last I checked fathers has rights as well..SMH
Usher wants them boys, just so Tameka wont have them and dont have to pay child support. He’s evil! Why change joint custody?seems fair for 50/50 shared custody. Boys need there mother n there father, not there Father because hes RICH and will have nannies, and girlfriends taking of them…that aint being a parent.
Whe he would be evil because he doesn’t want to pay child support? Tameka should know that collecting child support is not a job. Glad that the judge ordered that she has to move out Usher’s home. She can say goodbye to the swimming pool and the big mansion, now she is going to live in a small appartment like every jobless baby mama
well if you did your research before commenting or went back and read some of Michelle stories before she was pro Tameka then you would know that Usher was fine with the 50-50 arrangement. It was Tameka that wouldn’t let him see the kids at the time they arranged and would never have them ready on time. Money don’t have anything to do with it, because he was fine paying her before they went to court adn he’ll be fine after. These are his children not some strangers he found outside. If he didn’t step up you all would still talk shit about him
Wait, so if he has the kids, he’s not going to support them??
That’s why yall don’t make any sense. If he has physical custody of the kids, he’s still going to support them. He’s not getting out of anything. I don’t see the judge telling Tameka to pay child support.
Deliah, she owns two shops. Far from unemployed.
there’s nothing wrong with a father havin primary custody of his kids….but this is a case that usher wants to hurt this woman for nooo daaamn reason. he should have fought for primary custody,but no,he fought for sole custody….that means he didnt want this mom around her kids,and why would a man wanna do that to a woman.with him calling her to ask her "how does it feel to loose ur kids??".really??. this aint about a man’s right of having primary custody of his children but a superstar with a nasty and spiteful ego.
I agree honey! If she wasnt willing to allow him to have 50/50 custody, and SHE wanted SOLE custody then I could see him wanting to put up a fight, but she wanted them to share joint custody, why take kids from their mother? The same way, why take kids from their father if that is where they were at, and there were no problems. So it’s not a mom/dad thing, its a thing of why break something that isnt already broken?
$1200!?!?!?!!?!? $1200!?!?!?!!?………. I HIGHLY doubt you can bribe a judge for $1200. IJS. Besides, there is nothing illegal or unethical with contributing to a campaign.
She can leak all the stories she wants it doesn’t change the fact that her son died while she was partying
It doesnt change the fact that according this report one of Usher’s kids falled from a chair and she didn’t bring him to a doctor
She is too busy lurking and stalking people on twitter to take care of her sons
She doesn’t have the custody of her sons with Ryan Glover because of her mental issues.
She is dangerous
I wonder if Usher will tell to the judge about how she refused to press charges on the murderer of her son against money?
Tameka just keep on digging her own grave. She needs a therapy to move on.
I wonder if she noticed that Usher and Chilli are following each other on twitter. Maybe she is going to raise Tameka’s sons who knows
How do you know what she was doinf when he died? And what does it matter? If one of usHERs boys get hurt in his custody, will it be her fault too?
OMG,your comment made no sense at all.
Usher and Chilli are perfect for each other, both losers. Maybe he can be the new face for her "handbag" collection. Usher going back to Chilli would be hilarious and her taking him would prove her weak, goofiness. Shes a cute little girl for him. I believe that I read that she has Joint physical and legal custody of her other sons. I dont know why people say this is fact. She had joint for both kids. Usher is a cunt. I will never support another Usher album, video, song, concert, award show, zilch! he is a queen hoe for this and I have lost all respect. Fuck a team Usher, I was apart of it but wrong is wrong. Im out.
I’m sorry but your comment makes absolutely no sense. Are you saying that just because you have children, you can’t party. I am sure that they were under supervision while she was out having a good time. Being a parent doesn’t mean that your life needs to stop and as far as the chair incident, the fall might not have been severe enough to the point where she needed to seek medical attention for the child. We all have fallen and gotten back up again as kids. Some of us are still doing it as adults. Now from a legal standpoint, if there was not enough evidence to make Tameka seem as though she was an unfit parent, then she should not have lost custody of her kids. Furthermore, this new evidence that has surfaced is quite interesting and does show that there might have been some biasness in the judges decision. I pray for the both of them.
Actually it does not. All of this information is on the public record and anyone can view it, hence ATLien posting it here. It’s not some secret, backdoor dealings taking place. IF Tameka’s lawyers would have done their homework, they could have easily found this information out (just as ATLien did), determined there was a conflict in their minds, and filed a motion to request a new judge. I think Tameka needs better lawyers.
Actually what is dangerous are Usher fanatics like you that have hated that woman since he married her and you have had it out for her every since.
Tameka has a twitter account and last I heard there is no law against that.You obviously have an account and it is you that stalk her comments.
Tameka has joint custody with her ex husband.You see apparently Tameka is the type of woman that doesn’t mind sharing custody.Tameka’s son just died and you are actually crazy enough to wonder if she is wondering if Chilli and Usher follows each other on twitter?I will say it again,those of you who are Usher fanatics are the real issue.
"it doesnt change the fact that her child died while she was partying"…listen,i hope ur child doesnt die,even tho u have ur eyes on them 24/7….if that happens,u will call tameka and apologise to her,hell u will pray to God for forgiveness with tameka’s name in ur mouth for this comment that u made. ppl talk like they’re shittin,as if death/accident tells u when its coming,so that u can get prepared and not party.
This case is getting better than a Lifetime movie! All I can say is,wow. Usher, this is about to get real ugly and you caused it. Tameka needs to be down at the courthouse this morning. Tameka only sees red right now and you best believe everybody in her wrath are about to pay! She lost her son and now she has to go through this bull. She’s about to snap and I’m going to love every minute of it! Why didn’t he have to pee in the cup? That right there alone is a red flag, especiay in a custody case. Also,it’s good to know you read the comments Michelle!
LMAAAOOOOO im down with u in everyword…but LMFAOOO @more than a lifetime movie tho
This case is over. Appeals don’t happen in family court like other courts. This is not a criminal case. The main reason for that is because imagine the trauma to the children if people if judges had to keep shifting custody because of appeals. As stated earlier, this little money thing is a not an issue. Primary custody usually means he will not be paying child support because he has them most of the time. He still cannot make legal decisions for them without her because she has joint legal custody. This case is over unless he commits some crazy act. Children need stability and judges in family court do not take their duties lightly.
Usher is a Bi*ch!Tameka may have had her faults but he is far too busy for kids full time. I heard he is starting up a world tour so why would he want to pull those boys from pillow to post. He just dont want to pay child support. Those other jump offs better watch out. Seems like the judges are siding with the father now. Dewayne Wade, Deon Sanders and now Usher, Royce better watch out. I dont understand these people with all these nannies. Raise your own d*mn children.
Tameka isn’t a stay at home mom, you do know that? He lifestyle is no different….SMH at yall trying to take away from a FATHER who’s wants to do his job!!!
Her lifestyle is hella different. Stylist vs. superstar. You do the math.
Right!
Exactly! Their hate for Tameka renders these idiots senseless!
Not that different. If she’s traveling to LA/NY to style her clients, who’s watching the kids? She sometimes has to go where her clients are. She’s a celebrity stylist. She’s not just working with folks in Atlanta, she’s traveling all over. She also travels for fashion week and photo shoots. It’s a very hectic job because her clients need red carpet clothes, press junket clothes, styling for photo shoots, everything. She’s a top stylist, or so I thought.
Schedule still not as busy as an A list superstar, Rebecca. Not by a long shot. That’s like comparing his schedule to Vanilla Ice’s lol. Who do you think is more busy? Tameka, no matter her ranks as a stylist, is still C-D list at best.
so u’re telling me while tameka had primary custody,he wasnt doin his job as a father?? then shame on him…as far as i see,he was payin paparazzis to follow him all the time he was with his kids,that means nobody stops him from having time with his kids…he do have time with his kids soo what mooore does he want now,but to put a mother thru heeeell.
You all do realize that Usher has a seasonal job right. He isn’t putting out cd’s every year, touring, and in the studio 365 a year. Hell he doesn’t even have to work 5 days a week if he doesn’t want to. He has time for his children and they aren’t even school age yet. Whereas Meka make have to go to Africa to style someone at the drop of a hat if they call her.
A SEASONAL job?!…Usher isnt a Santa Claus at the mall!! His job is Year round all day every day…
Exactly. Whew! lol
Tameka is really DUMB. Usher’s relationship with his mom has nothing to do with his relashion ship with his kids.
She is talking about his mom because she can’t prove he is a bad dad, and as long as she can’t prove it she is going to lose.
Tameka better find a home, a job and three new kids.
Neither does her relationship w/ grace, but it still came up. What ex wife gets along w/ a mistress? Right. Im tired just reading abt the shit. Cant imagine how they feel. I understand a mother never wanting 2 give up, but she need a few mos.
Wow, some people are so cruel! How dare you say she needs to find three new kids? Lets see how you feel losing a child and then having to go through this BS? Usher needs to remember she gave BIRTH to the youngest two. There is no way she will be out of their life completely. You can’t erase her… if he didn’t want her apart of his children’s lives, he should have picked a different woman to bare them.
They were already going through the custody trial before Kile has his accident.
Further, he’s not trying to erase/replace her. She can still see the kids and get them. They will always be her kids and she their mom. Wonder if she got all up in arms when her other ex-husband started dating someone.
PS. You can’t be a mistress if you’re divorced. Usher and Tameka have been divorced for two years. Come on now.
Right, Heather. HE proposed to HER.
Rebecca, Usher was NOT going for the joint custody he was awarded. He was going for FULL custody, that would have indeed removed her from the kids’ life. Also, he started his affair while she was pregnant with Navi, and they were STILL married. In the midwest, we call that a mistress. As you say, come on now.
thank you sugar.well said
@ Delilah: If they can ask Tameka about her first pregnancy and life at 19, then they can ask Usher anything they want. It’s court honey….
ok it’s obvious you are extremely young for making that statement..As a mother, as i’m sure many on this blog are if someone told me to find 3 NEW kids after losing one to death and losing two where i no longer have any intial say in their lives..i would come FIND you..there is NO greater pain then to lose a child..you’re hatred of Tameka is unwarranted, it’s childish and petty..you don’t have to agree with her actions but to say she needs to find new kids was a hit belo the belt that i even felt and you are WRONG for it
I know that’s right..who says crap like that? Yes, we are watching all of this play out in the blogs like a soap opera, but this is a real woman’s/mother’s life we’re talking about..A mother who lost a beautiful child at age 11 over a freak accident. A sweet and innocent baby. Not even an enemy deserves that.
^^Exactly^^
oooooh yess!!! usher’s relationship with his mother has a whole lot to do with this…if he doesnt have a good relationship with his own mother,how is she sure he can have a good relationship with his kids.think about it.he will treat the kids the same waay jonetta treats him cos thats what he’s acustomed to,he will raise his kids the same way he was raised,which he didnt turn up right.
Your statement about Tameka *finding* new children, was completely unnecessary, cruel, mean, and just plain wrong. You’re probably a beautiful young lady don’t muddy that wonderful image with a despicable, underdeveloped mind and a lack of class and compassion.
Usher is a stank ass man. I’m officially through with him. What a skank ass man!!! He must really be a hate filled person, after his step son died how could he go this route. Usher should have dropped the case…. didn’t HIS sons lose enough with their brother dying???? Now he is trying to take them from their Mother too? There was NO abuse, hunger, neglect so why would he go this extreme? He is a fool and will lose many fans over this dumb act. He is so poorly advised, my word. His managers should be shooting themselves right now. Stoooopid!!!
did you read the report because it says that one of Usher’s sons falled from a high chair while he was under Tameka’s responsabilty. Tameka never told it to Usher and he only found out during a skype session, only because he noticed that he was cut.
Tameka is too busy chasing fame, tweeting to notice that one her son falled from a chair;
Usher is NOT a monster he wants the best for his kids, he doesn’t want them to end up like Kile.
Tameka accepting money from the man who killed her son to not press charges on him is WORSE than anything else.
You speak as if you know them both. Bet money you don’t. And really, kids that young need stability. Not running around on tour with Usher. P.S. Why did he refuse to take the drug test?! If I was not a drug user, I would have not one problem! I see none of your post touch on that. Your just bashing Tameka, when really,Usher has clearly done wrong as well.
It’s not "FALLED" people don’t "FALLED" from stuff, her son FELL.
THANK YOU!!…GEEEZZ
LMAAAOOOOO i didnt even notice that loooooool. Falled??? education is important u know
LOL right!
@ Delilah:
What is "falled"?
I don’t have children, but I have heard my friends speak about how quickly babies and toddlers move. You just turn your back for 2 seconds, and they have hopped off the couch, etc. It’s not good that he fell, but unfortunately toddlers and babies sometimes fall, bump their heads, etc. That does not mean that they are being neglected.
Also, as for the accusations you keep making about Kile’s death, you either need to provide proof (as Michelle did with the connection between the lawyer and the judge), or you need to leave it alone.
THEY ARE TELLING YOU ITS NOT A WORD THAT BELONGS IN YOUR SENTENCE GIRL!
Are you dyslexic? You keep writing "responsabilty". Stop it. It’s working my nerves
Hunny is Ursher paying you?? His relationship with his mother and anyone else is relevant have you heard of character witnessing?? I mean isn’t this why you are bashing Tameka because of what you have HEARD??
chile bye!!!
Tameka is always having meltdowns on twitter, I don’t bash her dusty ass because of what I’ve heard.
Please tell her to stop spending her money on paying blogs because she could have spend all this cash on kile’s lifesupport
Right, changing…no self reflection whatsoever lol.
lool i swear that idiot needs some IV in her blood.
ok , SFTA you take sides and i think you are confused yourself, one day you like tamika the next you dont which one is it?
Honestly it seems as tho alot of people are siding with tameka after her son passed(rip. I feel for her as a mother i honestly do i could only imagine what shes going thru.
Im not siding with usher becuase i see there are questionable things in this case HOWEVER there has to be something that the public does not know in regards to this case things are just not adding up. Tamika needs to keep her a$$ off twitter(nuff said)i dont care about "she has the right to express herself" blah blah blah she needs to learn to keep her mouth shut after certain situations or if she cant why not jot it down in a diary(ijs)
both usher and tamika have very bitter feelings toward eachother and what they havent realized yet is that its not about the them its about the children i know it hass to already be confusing going from house to house, its time they become adults and come to an adult decision about their kids.
Tamika is also fighting to keep her child support going. 8k amonth isnt enough i mean u live in GA really? wtf you need 11k for tamika? LOL.
I follow tamika on her twitter, she is just as busy as Usher so the both of them need to cutt the foolery. Period.
Oh and about the whole ushers lawyer kmnew the judge yada yada yada KNOCK IT OFF PEOPLE AND WAKE TF UP. that law firm is not soley owned by ushers lawyer f.y.i(Warner, Mayoue, Bates & Nolen, ) now yal;l just looking for reasons for why he got custody. i mean really if her son had not passed away(rip) would u be really siding with tamika ooooooor would you still be team usher etc etc. Im sure that judge covered her tracks period. One of them were gonna get custody we just didnt know which one and its not like he has 100 percent custody she still has rights and access to the children. They need to do whats best for them children period.
messy messy messy.
Tameka should focus on grieving. Kile is watching her chasing money and fame. I’m sure he isn’t proud of her. Tameka is CURSED.
God HATES her
Does Usher pay you? And fool, God does not hate anyone. God is not about hate. You sound real simple. And if that is the case, God is not all proud of you with the hate your putting out there right now. Oh.
god does not hate but KARMA is fucking Tameka foster like a bitch: No home, no kids, no child support
and nooo usher for u?? how much u fight for him,he wont f*ck ur stanky p*ssy!! bye tameka hater.
Deliah, you keep referring to Karma and how it always comes back on a person. Well, take a minute and ask yourself: just what type of Karma are you putting out here into the universe? Saying such horrendous things like God hates someone and other such nonsense.
Nakeya’s right, Deliah. You’re retarded.
You can’t make me believe you know a thing about God with all the hate and judgement your IMPERFECT self have for Tameka.
I thought that was your dumb ass! For you to stay off this blog is like a day without sunshine, ain’t it?
It is NOT up to you to judge and since You want to bring up God how do you think HE feels about what you just typed? Don’t be ignorant your entire life..do better
So this must be the Vice President of #TeamUsher-gurl BYE. Here’s my seat, you can have it and you definitely need to take it. Its a sad day in the world when ppl talk about someone’s deceased child, and say it was a result of God hating them-now, you know you are so very ugly and uneducated for that!
LMAO! No, same girl..teamusher4life. She can’t stay away, girl. Can imagine her grades.
@ Asaada25
"He is a fool and will lose many fans over this dumb act" REALLY?
So if Tamika won would she have lost her"fans/supporters"?
It’s funny how his new video came out hours after the ruling,I see you Usher Baby LOL. I’m glad that the write-up in HHE is coming to light, ppl need to read more and talk less. If I knew it was open to the public, I would’ve been there to witness for myself. For ppl saying she didn’t have custody of the other boys, she did just JOINT. Also, if Kile was with his father at the time of the accident and she was at a wedding…so. If Kile was in her custody and Ryan was at a wedding would ppl be saying the same thing? NO! Ya’ll slay me with these double standards. They BOTH need counseling individually and together(as parents)and they both need to sign up for Divorce Care. Tragic all at ends and on every corner!
@ Me: Great comment. Preach!
Exaaaactly…preach oooon buddy!!!
Who cares! Haven’t these kids been through enough? Tameka needs to fall back and give these kids a break. This is all about her and not about the children. She spent the last three years with these children primarily, it will not kill her to let them stay with their dad for a while.
And Michelele, you really should consider getting a legal analyst or legal writer to report on such cases because you are NOT equipped to break down the law. This isn’t cultural matters, it’s LEGAL matters.
Tameka does not need to fallback in any situation that involves her children.
never! thank you.
@ delilah
Ummmmm O_o.
do you need a mental evaluation? The only person who can judge Tamika about her wrong doings is God. U need to chill with that "God hates her stuff" Karma is a Bad one sweetie choose your words wisely ijs
Foolery, she pops up every other day saying hateful things about Tameka. I call her God’s piss-poor representative, since she’s always trying to speak on his behalf. A socially inept teen, clearly.
@ STL chick
I def. agree with you. I think shes missing some screws. As much as she talk aboiut Karma etc etc , Karmas def. coming for that A$$ lol
I think this is just terrible. I commend him on wanting to be in the kids life but they are so young. At this age they should be with their mother. Around 8 or 9 years of age then she can pass the baton and let him raise them.
A woman can’t teach them how to be a man. The father can then step in. I can’t with these two yahoos.
I wish somebody block these damn usher fans from the comment section…dont nobody want to see them biased ass comments. smh
I’m an Usher fan but right is right and wrong is wrong and this entire case is making me dislike him even more. His character shows that he is only being greedy and is trying to hurt Tameka even more than the hurt of her just losing and burrying one of her sons. Usher needs Jesus in his life. He doesn’t even have time to care for 2 children living the life that he lives.
Tameka we know its you. Find a job and stop chasing child support boo
Tameka lost her son because she was too busy partying instead of being with her son. She is going to live with it her whole life.
Forthe record this case started before SHE REMOVED HER SON FROM LIFE SUPPORT, the fact that she killed her own son has nothing to do with Usher wanting to have his sons; get over it;
SHE WAS A BAD MOM BEFORE REMOVING KILE FROM LIFE SUPPORT AND SHE IS STILL A BAD MOM AFTER REMOVING KILE FROM LIFE SUPPORT
She was too busy doing what? So you mean to tell me no mother but her goes out?! Miss do you have kids? If so, do you sit in your home all day with your kids, and never leave? You sounds really stupid. All your post on this topic sound really simple. Get a clue. Parents go out and guess what, kids fall down! What kid do you know does not fall down? My son sure has! I think you need to stop acting as if you know them, stop acting as if Usher pays you to write this stupid crap, and go have several seats. All the hate for a woman you don’t even know. Chile bye.
ooohh wooow!!! and to think all of the signs on kile’s death leads to usher….boo did u hear usher used kile for alluminati sacrifice??? now roger that B….and get a LIFE!!
I hope she gets better lawyers this time because it seems the blogs knew about the judges connection before her lawyers did.
@deliah
I guess the lord sent that message to you to deliver to us all. smh you need a prayer and jesus
The lord already delivered his message; Where is Kile?
You have really got to be not only mentally ill but you also sad to even use the death of Kile as if it was some of karma for Tameka.
smh. You are clearly a hateful person. My bible says the devil came to kill and destory, and you miss must be one of the people he uses. All your doing is spewing hate all over this post. Go sit down and pray somewhere. Clearly you need it.
why are we wastin our time on this idiot?? she’s sick,dont u notice/havnt u heard?? the girl is still stalkin usher,after goin to his house and getting hit with a restraining order by the judge.now she’s on blogs hating on a grieving mother and talking sick about God.
Where is yo mama?
I bet with everyone on the Tameka band wagaon that reality show she was shopping around will now get picked up.
Glad you brought that up…that’s probably another reason he was seeking full custody. Trying to distract her from doing so.
There is nothing wrong with a father wanting custody of his sons if they are for the RIGHT reasons..both Tameka and Usher need to stop with the games..It’s about both of them having control and at this point it’s not even about the children anymore..IF the allegations are true about the judge and his lawers then YES an appeal is mandatory..I do have a question., when Tameka did her eval WHY didn’t her counsel object to Usher paying for it? (waiting for me to become a stan behind this as well)
I heard the Judge disclosed that relationship. So Tameka knew this. Why not ask for a new judge before the trial starts?
My guess is because he’s the one that wanted it.
And no, I’m not accusing you of being an UsHER Raylette lol.
ThankYOU because I was accused of being one behind my comment being miscontrued by an internet thug lol
You KNOW I know the feeling lol.
If this is true… usher is definitely not the man i thought he was. how heartless would that be for him to say that to a women who just lost her kid. smh. if this is true,than what tameka said about usher not giving a f*** about kyles death is true. he has no remorse. i cant even look at him in the same light anymore
Deliah ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
okay hunny. I guess you KNOW she pays blogs because she told you.
what else has Jesus and Tameka shared with you??
lmaaaoooo @Jesus and tameka shared with u??
I don’t think any judge would risk their job for Usher, Tameka needs to stop with all the drama tweets…. You already said you are friends with Tameka so you are just as bias
I really don’t believe the judge and lawyers where apart of this. everyone is looking for someone to blame in this very sad sad situation. and the bad part is that the people who are looking to blame others know neither party involved they just read about them daily.
It seems very biased to me that you never once mentioned the fact that Tameka does Not have primary custody of her other boys. Ryan had primary custody of them and they both have joint custody. The same as in this case with Usher.
Also, all the facts about Usher’s attorney have been public knowledge since 2008. So I’m sure that her attorney’s knew of this fact before the case started. Since it is something that has to be and was published before the case started. So for her to make a big deal out of it know, really only makes her look like a sore loser. She would have to prove that the decision was biased becase his firm not the attorney himself but his firm gave money to support her election but they would have to prove it in this case and in other cases as well that the firm has represened.
I am in no way an Usher fan but Tameka has burned many bridges for years. I hate to see a mother lose her kids especially in her circumstances but if the father is the more stable parent then by all means the kids should be with him.
THE FACT THAT SHE DOES NOT HAVE PRIMARY CUSTODY OF ANY OF HER CHILDREN SPEAKS LOUD AND CLEAR. Something is just not right about that picture no matter how you look at it.
CO’Sign!
Preach!
One other thing, this so called phone call that Tamekas’s camp put out there that Usher made to her, I will not believe it until it is public knowledge. I’m sure if he made the phone Tameka will be making it public in 3..2..1..
She has no problem with trying to show Usher in a bad light but I have yet to read or hear an interview where he as said something bad about the mother of his children. He chose to say his in court where it mattered. She choose to put hers out in public daily either in tweets of an interview.
Once again when a women does not have primary custody of any of her children it speaks volumns.
so you didn’t hear the song papers? oh ok please continue
LOL. I would’ve stop sleeping with his ass after that!
lmaaaooooo
usher uses his relationships to sell his music when he FELL IN LOVE with Tameka yall usher stans didn’t buy his album "here i stand" then all of sudden Tameka is crazy and mentally unstable? He said himself she was his FRIEND for many years so nothing in her character warn him to stay away? not only did she become his girlfriend, but he MARRIED her and decided to have not one but TWO kids by a mentally unstable woman…yeah okay. Then he sleeps with her bridesmaid and gets caught by the nanny yeah okay he’s a real upstanding guy..
If you pay any attention to usher over the years he likes chicks with a little hood in them, the type that the machine don’t want him to have..he’s been fighting againt his manufactured image for years and that’s a good reason why he and his mother don’t get along as well..Chilli has hood in her too TRUST and he likes that..As far as Tameka being unstable..let’s be real when you merge a friendship into a relationship you look at things differently..and you react differently..Usher probably assisted in making her cross over to "crazy" and it’s not hard to do when you have so much stacked against you
If he slept with a bridesmaid that should’ve been something that came up in divorce court 3 years ago and not during a custody hearing. Tameka was married when Usher knocked her up, so why wouldn’t it be ok to cheat on her? Everyone calls usher a womanizer, but you can’t prove it. We’ve only heard about him being with Chili, Meka, and Grace. all the other names are people Tameka is throwing out there. People will lie to get what they want, not saying usher didn’t lie, but Tameka had no proof.
Girl, please. His albums are testimony to him being a womanizer. And have you ever read an interview? He’s admitted to a different woman every night, sometimes two, to the point he was asking himself if he was a player or a man whore. Hell, I think I still have the article at home.
And as far as his other women, go to whos dating who. Then add to that list Carmen Electra, Kim K, Mylissa Ford and Monyetta Shaw.
STL you ARE correct Usher is Community Peen all day long and he makes no excuses for it..any woman that tries to tie him down has lost her mind..she may be the bottom bitch, but she will still have to share that’s not going anywhere and I truly believe Tameka KNEW that. As long as she had her ring and kids she didn’t care she dealt with it, at the time it was love and he was her dream. She already knew the man she was marrying, so to even bring it up in court was merely for an edge..whether she had a problem with it or not, remains to be seen..but i think she accepted it because it came with the territory IMO.
You got a point there about his albums. Too bad Tameka wasnt listening to any of his albums while styling him because he was making music long before she became his stylist.
And I forgot. And Rihanna and Kelly Rowland to that as well.
You all act like Usher wanting custody happened because one of her kids died. WRONG. He was seeking custody every since Tameka thought it was her right to cancel his scheduled time with them and not have them ready on time. They’ve been divorced since 2009 and she is still bitter, she didn’t fight this hard for her first husband and the kids they have together. You all want to say she is a great stylist and mom, but you can’t tell me why she didn’t have her own Saks card and visitation with her other two boys. So that leads me to believe that she’s a stylist like Kim Porter is a model and she either didn’t want her her kids or she’s not fit enough to care for them as the primary caregiver. She’s the only one that can’t move on and she just keeps embarrassing herself. She obviously have problems if she can’t realize that her legal business doesn’t need to be aired on twitter.
Are you done?
but you can’t tell me why she didn’t have her own Saks card and visitation with her other two boys.
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That’s been addressed in this thread and many more.
lmaaaaooooo ur comments are killin me meeen hehehehe…obviously he/she has no idea where the movie is at yet and i guess she shld just press the restart button and stop the daaayyuum talk.
No one has explained yet as to why she cant get her own Saks card. She has two stores and a slew of clients, how come she cant afford her own card. 3 years after a divorce why is the card still tied to Usher, is this part of his spousal support agreement?
@ Loving This Site: The Saks discount card is part of the divorce decree. What is the obsession that commenters have with this card? Regardless of people’s personal opinions, if something is in a divorce decree it MUST be honored, no exceptions. I have seen employees have to give half of their six figure 401k to their ex in a divorce decree. This is NOT unusual. Can we please stop talking about this Saks card?
ooohh yes it was part of the divorce settlement and people needs to get this clear about the saks card…usher is not paying anything with that saks card,it is a discount card..A DISCOUNT CARD. she gets discounts with the card when she shops for the kids and clients,so therefore,no money comes out of ushers pocket with that card,it doesnt COST USHER ANYTHING. Get IT??
Ummmmmmm yall KNOW better then to be going back and forth with Bipolar…Deliah today Peter tomorrow!! lol
*whispers* Psssssst Deliah…I’m shocked that no one has checked you on this lie you keep posting…the Kids where with USHER when one of them FELL out the chair and chipped his two front teeth. There was a total different incident that happened in Tameka’s care… so basically both Parents have had things to happen and didnt report it to the other parent…reading is fundamental boo!!
I’m sooo tired of this case I say HELL give me the kids!!!! lol
@Michelle thanks for the shoutout. Appreciate ya.((((((((hugs)))))))
Gotta run today is the hubbys birthday and unlike Tameka and Usher I like my baby daddy!!
Anyone who has had a kid or taken care of younger siblings know that sometimes they fall and hurt themselves. Kiss the boo-boo put on a Flintstones band-aid and let them play some more.
@Loving This Site…yes kids gets hurt all the time. These folks just lie for no reason saying the kids were with Tameka when they were actually with Ush?! lol Crazy.
I would take those boys in a heart beat…with my son I have become so partial to boys. They need as much of a normal life as possible…all this mess is too much for little minds.
"I’m sooo tired of this case I say HELL give me the kids!!!!"
Give the kids to VAY she is more level headed than the both of them together.
I think we can ALL agree on that.
Happy Birthday Vay’s husband! I’m serious Vay, lets get joint custody! These two need to sit in a room for a week and talk,scream,yell, and whatever else they need to do in order for them to move on and coparent!
Thanks honey!! He gets spoiled been getting gifts since Friday. lol Yes give us them babies!!! I hate to see kids going through anything like this. They have a LIFETIME to deal with grown up stuff…let them be kids!!!
@ Vay: You are hilarious. Congrats on the shout out
Thanks ALM!!! If I typed HALF of the stuff that come to mind…hahahaha
Alrighty den Vay, you gotta be like the Kandi and Rasheeda post with them "legs to da moon". LOL
hahahahaha @NMKY…I am so tired this leg aint going no where…I hope the hubby go to bed so I dont have to FAKE a headache!!
But tomorrow we can give Kandi and Rasheeda a run for their money. I got a big booty we will make lots and donate it to the "Stop the Tameka Hate fund" ok…maybe…not but at least I thought about her right?! lol
Girl, you are crazy. It’s that man’s birthday! You better love him long time! lol
Baby I put my church finger up and excused myself right on downstairs to my couch. In that ORDER!!! lol
LMAO, not the headache route! My husband been stop falling for that one, he’ll insert a side eye.
HEY VAY, ready for ya close up!
I know right!! Cheese!!! Hey I have a confession (in my Usher voice) I JUST figured out what the heck your name was saying to me (as if it was talking to me) and when I got it I was like "GONE GIRL!!!!" Girl Power!! lol
LOL, (in my JJ Evans voice) " Well you know what can I say"
ok this is stupid after reading the docs, they have joint custody. Pretty much equal time with the kids, what she said she wanted. So honestly why even appeal at this point. I think the judge made a fair decision, not based on any bias. Now if Tameka only got one weekend a month, or no weekends there might be something. But damn her weekend even start on Wednesday, that’s 5 dang days. I’m just saying.
excuuuse meeee(tapping ur shoulder)!!!! maybe u shld rewind ur tape,he has primary custody….thats not equal share.joint custody is just a fact to say,the mom will still be in their lives but not that much since he has primary custody.thank you.
@ honey
technically it is the same thing, just the tables have been turned. Now instead of him having the kids 13 or 14 days out of the month she will. She is still in their lives just as much as Usher, only difference is he can take them out of state etc etc. Ity would be a dramatic difference if he had FULL custody.
Have you looked at the documents? They have about as equal custody as you could get. If you do the math its comes to about 14 days a month out of 30. That’s equal
Usher is still mad at his momma for allowing Puff Daddy to molest him when he was first trying to get on, and lived with him in New York. He has emotional trauma and needs to seek psychiatric help for past abuse.
I hope this wasn’t the case, but I do feel sorry for those kids who grew up in the "industry"….it aint no picnic for them.
When having children for a pay check goes wrong… Tamika will find another victim soon enough.
Lmao people are still mad this man has primary custody of HIS children? Blasphemy. So because he’s a successful artist he won’t be a successful parent? Ok. Well someone should send that memo to Beyonce, Alicia Keys, and every other entertainer who’s a musician with children as well. Makes no sense to use that as an excuse to why he’s incapable of raising his children. I’m sure Tameka can find another man to have babies with since she wants some at home with her so badly. Haha.
"I’m sure Tameka can find another man to have babies with since she wants some at her home so badly. Haha"…Grace, trick, is that you?GET OFFA THIS DAMN BLOG!
Lmao Grace isn’t on blogs. She’s too busy takin care of her and her man’s biz.
If Grace has sense, she’ll be watching Usher’s conduct with Tameka. From all accounts, it’s no different than how he treated Chilli in the end. This man has little to no respect for a committed relationship, his or others.
Realness lol Tameka will have the kids just as much as Usher so she wont need to have any more kids to have some at home…she will have her own with her nanny and Usher’s child support. Please dont believe the lies that some blogs have stated saying that Usher will have to tell her when she can have them/see them…that has already been set by the courts. So far the kids are still winning!!
Funny cuz that’s not what he said or what the order I’ve read said. Tameka only gets them a few weekends a month and Usher said they will be with him 90% of the time. The truth will come out. I’m not gonna say too much.
They have joint custody so that is a 50/50 split. Tameka will get them on the 1,3 and 5th weekends of the month with the "weekend" starting on Wed-Sun. This is during the school year on the 2 and 4th weeks of the month she will get them on Wed for dinner. During the summer they will alternate weeks. So one week he has the boys the next week she will have them. Once the boys turn 8 they will spend summers with her.
Wait did you say that is not what HE said?! WHO is he? hahahahaha You talking to Ush in your sleep? Stop it! lol Well tell HIM he is lieing the kids will not be with him OR Tameka 90% of the time. lol
I need to hear a tape of the "foolishness" he said to her on the phone and I need to know why her lawyers didn’t do their homework, if this lawyers and judge relationship thing is honestly such a big deal.
@2bme girrrl you spoke the truth at 2:56 that’s what I been saying from the beginning, folks put themselves in situations and then look crazy and try to figure out what went wrong when that person shows you who you already knew they were. She worked with that man long enough to know what kind of person he was, I’m sure she seen first hand the revolving door of women……but she wanted to be about that life! RIP to that precious angel Kile
Irrelevant..1 Just because his firm hosted the party does not mean he went door to door. Besides his firm is not the only one in America to do a political fundraiser for a judge or politician 2. If the telephone call exist, Tameka needs to produce it to the courts. 3. If Usher indeed rammed his moms car, then I am sure the police report would of been introduced to prove him unfit but we all know that legally, with no police report it didn’t happen. 4. I am not going to call Tameka mental, but their is something to be said about a grown women who would bed and marry someone 10 years younger. Lastly they have joint legal custody, which she is basically mad that she can’t yank his visitation when she wants.
@ OhMyDang: So marrying someone a decade younger is an issue, even if that person is of legal age? If so, then 50% of the men in this country have major issues. Or is this a double standard that only applies to women who marry younger men?
Maya? Do you think she would call the cops on her son? Not likely. And many people marry younger.
No judge/attorney is going to compromise their career and all they have worked for in exchange for $1,278.00!!!!! It is common in the legal community for attorney’s and judges to have a relationships and work together to support each other’s professional endeavors.
And as far as Usher being a womanizer – he can’t do no more to any woman than she allows… stop playing victim and take some ownership in your role in this saga! you gambled and lost! next… *rolling my eyes, neck and ass follows*
So men should be excused because women allow it? Please. Are you familiar with LHHA? So Stevie J should be patted on the back because he is playing two dumb women? Yes, women need to be held accountable, but men need to step up and be men.
I’ll leave the neck, and eye rolling to you.
This is not unusual for a Law firm to hold fundraisers for Judges.Tameka Raymond is Clearly a Narcissistic.Instead of looking at the Facts:
#1 Attacked Usher & Spit in his New Girl friends face
#2 Door Fell own child
#3 Child Falls off High Chair
#4 Refused to let her sons brother leave with Usher to Birthday outing
#5 Unstable on twitter Cursing out Usher Fans and Family
#6 Out of town when her son is hit my a jet-ski
#7 Admitted Under oath to threatening To Kill Usher and his New Girlfriend
#8 Admitting Under oath to pushing and throwing Plates at Usher
Just wondering if any of these incidents could be the reason Usher was given custody?? Ya Think.
A (THIRD-PARTY) Meaning the JUDGE heard the case but allowed an outside source to rule on the verdict. (Which was Fair)
Tameka is trying to look for anything she can to discredit the ruling
. I see on alot of Blogs and forums Single mothers and mothers period disgusted at Usher for taking Custody of his kids away from there mother. Its astounding that when fathers don’t step up theres a problem and if they do Its still a problem. Yes, Tameka Raymonds son died in a tragic accident,but this case was already ongoing. Usher motioned the court to delay the presiding but she insisted on moving forward instead of healing from her sons death.
Just because you are the mother of a child does not make you a better parent. There are alot of fathers that are more affectionate loving and attentive than the mothers. Tameka is bitter,revengeful,argumentative and Clearly out for money from day one. Usher only married her because she popped up pregnant is what he stated,which was not by mistake. A blind man could see that she trapped him. Two kids in record breaking time. Tameka Tweets pictures all over the world partying and hanging out more than Usher and partying goes along with his job. Usher works alot but what parent doesn’t? God allows things to happen when you are reaping what you sowed. Clearly Ushers mom was right about Ms.Foster and her intentions.If good always Wins,Then Usher won and Tameka is Reaping what she sowed
The Gravy Train Ride is Now OVER<<<
Preach!!!!!!!!
+1
Why didn’t Usher take the piss test? Since you know so much,answer that.
Let’s look at your FACTS!!!
#1 Attacked Usher & Spit in his New Girl friends face *SO what…you bold enough to bring your chick to my house…you bold enough to get a beat down. ALL about respect.
#2 Door Fell own child *Yes and child is still alive, well and did not need medical care. Accidents do happen.
#3 Child Falls off High Chair *This happened when USHER had the kids so why is this even on here…your FACTS are not correct so therefore I am throwing your testimony out of the courtroom…you are dismissed!!!! lol
Wont even continue with your other "facts"…do better CHICAGO!!
LMAAOOOOO Vay absolutely right…daamn u saved me some time loool
I see you fell for it SFTA. RIP to Kyle Glover and trust I really feel for Tameka because I could never imagine having to bury your child. But no one anticipated for that little boy to get killed, nor would anyone have wanted it to happen. You need to realize that this case was already happening and with that in consideration you need to be unbiased, but I can’t ask you to do that.
But a campaign contribution? Really? $1200? REALLY? Wow. The judge probably has hats that cost more than that. So you need to get it through your head that NO judge is going to risk their career for something that EVERY lawyer does.
I think you need to read the article again.
This information was available to the public BEFORE the custody battle began. If Tameka’s lawyers were worth the money she is paying them, they should have requested that the judge recuse herself from the case prior to issuing a ruling. This is an unfortunate situation for them both. But it appears as though Ms. Brown is a little biased and is scrapping the barrel to find a story favorable to Ms. Foster. Sorry but I call it how I see…this story is a waste…
All of yall are funny. I’m not pro or con either of them. But everybody is so down on Usher but the point is Tameeka basically started this garbage. Because she was bitter and angry that he no longer wanted her and had already moved on, she tried to keep this man from his kids just because he was already with someone else. This is what she gets-regardless as to how it ended. Had she been what a real mother is and iron out mess so that the kids can be with both parents while they get their own ish together instead of pitting kids against parent and not allowing the other parents to spend time with kids he obviously loves. Don’t play with fire if you don’t wanna get burned. Tameeka is the typical vindictive, evil woman who got mad at her ex. She should have got over it and moved on just like he did. Now, here she is-has lost 3 kids. Just stupid.
And you claim to not be pro or con either? In that case, me too.
And joint custody is not "losing" kids.
while you’re at IT,rewind ur tape and u’ll find out that usher started this whole MESS and not tameka,he filed for sole custody and not the other way round. thank you.
Before I can form an opinion on the judge in this case being biased because of the camapign contributions I would first look to see if she has had prior cases involving that firm and the way she ruled BEFORE(assuming she was up for re-election) and AFTER the campaign contributions for 2 reasons. 1. To see if there is a trend in ruling for the party represented by that firm and 2. If a trend does exsist to see if it exsisted prior to the campaign contributions. Next I would look to see if that same firm has contributed to other judicial campaigns to see if there is a trend in the way those judges ruled for their client. I would also look to see if there is a trend in the way that judge ruled for any other firms that have made campaign contributions.
Say you have a firm that does nothing but family law and they have contributed money to every sitting family court judge would it be considered a bias decision everytime they won? It can be really sticky in situations like this. I wonder how many people besides local law firms and local attonerys contribute to local judicial campaigns. My guess is very few.
Now I am not on Tameka nor Usher’s side and this information might have already come out but was Tameka violating the custody/visitation order already in place prior to Usher filing for custody? If she was interfering with his court ordered time with the kids then I can see why the judge making the decision she did. I honestly don’t think the judge came to the conclusion that Tameka was unfit because it would not make since to give her joint custody if that was the case but IF there was evidence she was consistently violating the current custody/visitation order then I can see why she did some role reversing. One thing people must keep in mind about judges is that violating one of their order’s is like a slap in the face to them and they will and do slap back. Another thing most judges don’t like is to lose on appeal and if this judge has never or rarely been over ruled then she most likely has prior case law to back up her decision.
You sound smart…go read all of the court documents and give your thoughts. Usher was found in contempt for something other then the discount card I just cant remember what that was…Tameka was not if my memory is correct. OK go read (when you have time) and come back and share your thoughts!
Normally in situations like this the person with money has the upper hand and that is Usher this woman had already lost a child they coukd have settled this whole matter out of court because in the end the people that are going to be hurt is those two little boys I feel really bad that they can not put their issues to the side and and co-parent their kids with that said I rest my case
Normally in situations like this the person with money has the upper hand and that is Usher this woman had already lost a child they could have settled this whole matter out of court because in the end the people that are going to be hurt is those two little boys I feel really bad that they can not put their issues to the side and and co-parent their kids with that said I rest my case
@Vay. Thanks..I try.Lol. I did read the documents in the pictures attached to this article but it looks like pages are missing. Did they not release the entire decision? I swear this case has me so intrigued. One thing I did note in the documents above is that the custody schedule is so detailed, it hardly gives them any opportunity to arrange anything outside of that agreement. It actually gave me some ideas on the agreement I’m trying to work on myself. Lol.
Excuse my grammatical errors. I am tired and should be in bed instead of online but I love reading all the comments. Except for the comments from that Deliah chick. I wonder if the site owner can track her down and get mental health involved.
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The whole situation is messy on both sides. Tameka known Usher for what…7yrs and was his stylist. She knew he was no good, yet still divorced to be with Usher. You are setting youself up right there. Then to get married and have kids by this man, who you know got it bad for women. Usher should have seen the signs of a bad mother before getting her pregnant (if this is the case). If you are together 24/7 without the kids red flags should be everywhere! Take notes ladies, stop trying to be on a quick come up having a celebrities baby (or man of power or athletes) these men are getting smart. Look at Reese and Dwight Howard, she can’t even say his NAME. Lets not forget Duwayne Wade taking his kids away too. Now before I get hate comments i’m just saying look beyond the money and fame before you take the dive (get it..lol). One thing I can say is at least he wants to be apart of his kids life and make it work with his schedule, women do it all the time; specially actors. I wish the best for all parties.
Oh yeah and another thing, if you are going to court one should always act appropriately. For example if you are going to court to increase spousal suppor or child support don’t walk in with red bottoms and a Chanel bag talking about your struggling. That would be a FAIL! Same for a custoday battle, don’t use social media to attack people (it’s called print screen or copy and paste). This is when you learn to turn the other cheek. Don’t give him any proof to the claim. She set herself up on that, sorry.
Did she come to court with designer bags? I don’t know. I know that’s probably where Sheree had her issues, with the purses and designer cars.
Concerning Tameka, I absolutely believe she was fascinated by the champagne life. I always had reservations that she purposely got pregnant though. Having already had three boys, and to birth two more babies at her age? yeah, it’s possible, but the older you get the harder it gets. But who knows. All I DO know is, she didn’t get pregnant by herself, and a spermicide-laced piece of latex could’ve prevented the whole thing. GOTS to be more careful.
Right! Tameka’s deal is TWITTER, she has got to control herself or just don’t log on. I understand people will take you there but you have to control it. She tends to go HAM on the social media and not realize that will come back and bite you in the ass if your not careful. Kill with kindness then people would stop picking, never add fuel to the fire. So many people get burned that way. The whole thing needs to be PRIVATE and end for the kids sake.
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