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The net is still buzzing about Usher shedding tears a day earlier and some blogs have even put photos from the two different days together, suggesting Tameka was smirking while Usher was crying.
That was so not the case… trust me. I was there.
The photo was actually taken during a 5 minute recess. Usher was in the corner checking his phone and Tameka was grabbing crystal light out of her purse and chatting with her attorney who was standing nearby.
But that’s all beside the point. While Tameka definitely isn’t my favorite person in the world, I’m feelin some kinda way about this whole situation. Especially after witnessing Usher’s dramatic “A”zz on the stand first hand.
Peep this… Here’s at least 5 things that most sites AREN”T saying about the court case:
Usher took the stand again yesterday morning after spending hours testifying the day before.
1. While most think that the video of Usher crying on the stand the day before is all about his feelings being hurt over having defend his honor as a good father, his tears were actually over being questioned about that bizarre incident in Berlin last year.
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The videos circulating clearly show something wasn’t quite right with Usher and as you know, Tameka’s attorneys have requested that Usher take a drug test.
Apparently that request was made AFTER Usher’s attorneys requested for Tameka to do the same. She complied because she had nothing to hide, she also submitted to a psychological evaluation at their request.
As for Usher. He’s the star in the relationship and clearly money talks. The superstar singer still refuses to comply to the drug test, stating that he feels it’s Tameka’s way of harassing him.
But think of it this way. If he’s clean, why not just take it and be done with it? Right?
But anywhoo… I used to love me some Usher but I’ve seen a totally different side of him during these proceedings.
2. Usher started Day 2 on the stand revisiting the fight he says occurred between his ex-wife Tameka and his side piece turnt main chick Grace Miguel (yes, they’ve been kicking it for years now). What struck me as odd, is that he couldn’t get his facts straight as to IF there ever really was a “fight”.
When asked why he didn’t just drive off if Tameka was on the passenger side punching Grace in the face, he didn’t have an answer. First stating he wasn’t in the car yet, then switching to he was in the car but not all the way.
At some point, Tameka’s attorney asked why Usher didn’t try to break up the fight IF one ever really occurred and he said “I’m not a referee“. I couldn’t help but think that it would seem that if the “love of your life” was being attacked by your “crazy baby mama” you’d want to protect her. Right?
BUT I DIGRESS…
3. Usher was also questioned about that death hoax that occurred earlier this year. If you recall, just moments after it hit the net that Usher had been “killed in a car wreck,” he tweeted photos of his new physique.
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Tameka heard about it on twitter and frantically reached out to him via phone, text and email. No response.
He finally said that he had his mother call her back. (Who does that? Wouldn’t you think he’d want his sons to know he’s ok? Especially in light of his celebrity status, they could have heard it anywhere!)
Because of his lack of response, Tameka’s attorneys suggested that it was all a publicity stunt. And I’m prone to believe them.
I almost believe that his filing this action is one as well. He DOES have an album coming out soon (and don’t act like you haven’t thought about that too).
4. The Nanny issue was brought up yet again. Usher accused Tameka of having a “revolving door” of Nannies but Tameka’s attorneys brought up the fact that he’s been refusing to pay them, so they quit.
Usher stated that there were discrepancies in the dates that the nanny’s cared for Lil Cinco and Naviyd. He also pretty much said he ain’t paying for all those other kids to be cared by his 2 son’s caretakers… more specifically he carefully brought up the fact that there are “other children in the situation” as if he didn’t know Tameka had 3 kids before they had their two sons.
In their settlement agreement, both parents agreed that Usher would choose the caretakers for the boys and even with that, there were issue with him paying them. Usher kept saying he didn’t approve of the nanny’s so he wouldn’t pay the invoices.
One in particular, was once a nanny for Tameka’s two son’s by her first husband, prior to her having Usher’s two sons. While Usher still maintained he didn’t know the woman, it was actually determined that he did, because she was a family friend who was also at their wedding.
But wait… here’s the clencher!
5. The same woman had also traveled with Usher in the past to care for little Cinco. And once, while the entire family was in Miami, the nanny walked in on Usher in bed with one of Tameka’s bridesmaids! *faints*
Needless to say, she quit too…
I swear… this is better than ALL MY CHILDREN.
It was around that time that court recessed for lunch and I had to go home to take a nap. The only reason I went in the first place was because I thought Tameka was going to take the stand. Usher and his long winded attempts at avoiding any question that was asked prevented that though.
Now we all have to wait until next month to hear the REAL DEAL! That is… unless these two can come to some sort of agreement in the meantime.
While I’m totally entertained by their real life drama, I’m praying that they don’t go back into the courtroom.
I think I put just about every thing I remember in this post so, feel free to share your thoughts…
#TeamUsher? #TeamTameka?
[Sidebar: I'm totally Team KIDS, but if I had to choose between #TeamUsher or #TeamTameka, it would be Tameka.]
(I hope y’all realize how hard it was for me to type that… 
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Ursher, have several damn seats. We don’t believe you, you need more people!! How in the hell you gone TRY to get custody of your children and you REFUSE to take a drug test to prove that you are clean?! Ursher is a hot dayum mess!! Save them damn fake ass PR tears dude. And cut yo damn hair!!! geesh
ok all this tit for tat is getting old..Michelle I know you have a job to do but this shouldn’t even be in the public eye..However, I used to have a minor crush but erra uh..I don’t like dramatic men..Puffy taught him well..i’ll stick with the music
Like they say.. There are 3 sides to a story.. his side, her side and the truth. Whatever the side is the truth, Those are his kids and they need to live the same lifestyle he lives. His mother told him not to marry the woman but he didn’t want to listen. Usher is not a child. I feel like both sides are not telling the truth. Tameka took her drug and psych test maybe he should take his. Dude is messy. What grow ass man let two women fight. The longer Usher sits in court the more we will see his issues. I think Tameka is going to sit back and let him talk. I think Usher is narcissistic and they think they are smarter than everyone else. He will do himself more harm than good.
(hand on chest) Well I do declare!
Cosign!!!! @JerseyMike
He’s a dummy. He’s losing credibility with the court. Hard to see how he wins since he can’t answer basic questions or recall major events, fictious or otherwise.
Usher won’t win with all this mess..All I can say is teh babies are ok they don’t know but her older children do and I can only imagine what they are going through right now..However, I do agree with one thing if there wasn’t a stipulation in the divorce for him to provide ‘ANYTHING" for her other children and she agreed, then she is wrong for allowing the nannies to take care of 4 instead of 2, if the nannies wanted more money behind that, then I agree he shouldn’t have to pay only for his own. They have a father who can contribute as well.
You did a good job in telling the TRUTH!!! SO MANY believe the hype of the star and we have seen MANY who try to use it to their advantage and think they are above any law and everybody. It’s really sad these kids will see this eventually when they are older or at least hear about it. Then what will he say?
goodluck usher…tamenka should be ashamed of herself…old bat
*tameka
#TeamNeither. Both of them need a swift kick in the arse and they need to grow up and be co-parents to their kids.
Chile! I’m glad you are in the court room. It seems only Meek business is getting out in the street (non of Ushers!)
I’m team Meek!( I like rooting for the under dog)
Na’am! Normally! He will get between the two and say something like ( Go ahead! Naw! I’m not letting you fight her or go ahead in the house)
I’m seeing another side of him too! (He likes playing victim. When he at fault too!
#TeamTameka from DAY 1… I said it in a post a couple of years ago, Usher is an arrogant mutha_ _… Well, you know the rest. I believe he AND his Mom, unnecessarily, give her a hard time. I’m glad THE REAL USHER is shining through. SMH.
Fuck tameaka I mean y’all appreantly can’t see that all this man wants is the ficking kids and to go on but that dumb bitch who isn’t even stable for the current chideen she have bow is trying to stop him. He could give those fucking kids what the hell ever they want and give tem live while working she can’t look at her old nasty ass go to hell you ugly old bitch
Do u know her personally? If not dont judge!! take care of your kids and worry about that!!
Team They both need to sit their butts down somewhere and take some parenting classes. They both are acting like complete idiots who don’t give a damn about their kids. It’s sad, truly sad!
Divorces are public record so reporting on your observations is just fine. I don’t have sympathy for Tameka whether Usher is dramatic or not. She will get child support and it won’t be $800 a month. It will be sufficient to meet the needs of THEIR TWO children. As for lifestyle to which the children are accustomed, that will be maintained through shared custody. He won’t be living in a double wide when they visit daddy. He’s refusing to buy her a house to live in, once she has to unass their home-when the court speaks but he most likely will have to provide a home for his children to reside in but it doesn’t have to be a mansion like what she wants. Homes, very nice ones, are cheap here in Atlanta. She doesn’t have to live in The Enclave at so and so to have a decent standard of living for the CHILDREN. Children are pawns in these divorce games. I’ve never read anything that called Usher’s love for his children in to question. Why shouldn’t he have shared custody? Whatever she’s insinuating he’s doing regarding alleged drug use, was apparently ok while she was still the Mrs. If she’s suggesting the kids are at risk in his care, where’s the proof of prior bad acts? Anyway……I hope she doesn’t get a dime more than absolutely necessary to provide for their 2 children. Get a job, Tameka. You have to provide for your kids as well, like the rest of us. Marriage is not Lotto.
Wow I love how you gave BOTH sides and I appreciate that,,,needless to say i am too TEAM KIDS and there isnt a handbook on parenting so I beleive unless you are just downright TRIFFLING then the kids should be with the mother IMJ
*IJS
This was some good readin’ here. Sadly, it confirms what I’ve said from the beggining, “Tameka is NOT innocent, but Usher ain’t either! I think Usher’s dollars allows him the opportunity to paint Tameka in any light he chooses while she’s relegated to throwing a tantrum on Twitter to get her frustrations out, which gives further credence to the fact that people call HER crazy. I’m glad you’re not jaded in your coverage of this case and definitely not caught up in the celebrity of Usher. Tell it as it happens and let the people decide. I TRULY believe that Usher is a mother f*cker… but I TRULY believe that Tameka is a mother f*cker TOO!
#teamTameka
I can’t stand a male whore especially one that doesn’t take care of his kids and sleeps with his woman’s friends.
Good heavens, Usher has no class and no dignity. I’m so glad I never paid for any of his CDs. What a loser!
You did the damn thing with this recap! What a hot mess, that’s why I love Straight From The A. You always share the real scoop!
Usher has his faults in this situation and he is clearly no angel, but Tameka is a nut. Usher dumped her and she just can’t let it go so she is going all out to shame the man. He can’t have shared custody of his children, he can’t control his temper, etc. but you were married to him and told the world how great the marriage was everytime someone shoved a mic in your face. This whole ordeal is about the cash and not the kids for her. If Usher tossed her a few million for herself and a house this court battle would end. I feel sorry for her kids from her previous marriage. I wonder if she cares as much for them as she does for her 2 little paychecks by Usher?
Damn, she is one ugly biter ass bitch.
Even tho i don’t care for Tameka I’m sure Usher is Bat Shit Crazy As Well.. If Grace was down the hill in the car . You mean to tell me u couldn’t out run tameka to the car and pull off??? Then he said she spit on Grace wtf?? If i was her the car has locks/windowns your to grown to entertain foolishness and allow someone to spit on you(especially if your not going to defend yourself). Usher should’ve drove off away from this maddness which gives me to believe he enjoys Drama in his life. Sidenote: Just Read on another blog Usher Attempts to Harm his Mother WTF?? He allegedly rammed his car into hers when she came to his house. But no one is reporting Crazy Usher..smh Poor Jonetta… Usher should be kissing his mother’s ass she helped mold him into superstardom . But he allows other women he fucks to run and ruin his career. She is the only one who really had his back. This techno ish is going to be the death of his career ..Horrible
5. The same woman had also traveled with Usher in the past to care for little Cinco. And once, while the entire family was in Miami, the nanny walked in on Usher in bed with one of Tameka’s bridesmaids! *faints*
..THIS ISH right. I can’t.A new low for Ushero_O He just needs to stay single.Like they say once a cheater always a cheater.
I’m #teamkids poor babies…..
@ Kass
Obviously she isn’t a "nut" she did pass her psych test.
@ ATLien
I usually give you a hard time, but I will give credit when it’s due. You didn’t seem bias with this post. I would like to see you have more unbiased posts, but it’s your website. But, good job with this recap.
Marriage is not lotto LOL!!!!!!@ Aiyiti Cheri
I appreciate you telling the truth. Hate how Tameka is made to be the bad guy in all of this and people keep reading like she’s trying to keep him from the kids.
wooooop woooop Team Tameka. Thank you ATLien im glad you were there and for posting the truth. I knew something was up. This is saying so much cuz i love me some Usher but i knew he was WRONG and Tameka was Right. TeamUsher on twitter need to fall all the way back and give Tameka a break and STOP being rude and disrespectful in her mentions. Gullible as* dummies.
There has been so many women out there going through the samething as Tameka. It is sad to see so many women against her. Im not going to take a brother’s side when he is wrong. I have sister’s, nieces and had a mother. I feel Usher is wrong it this. I don’t know Tameka but from what I have seen of Usher. In court, in his previous relationships,and how he has treated his mother.
Usher knows Tameka is a GREAT mother that’s one of the reasons he fell in love with her in the first place.
He should be ashamed of himself sleeping with one of her brides maids…GOD DON’T LIKE UGLY…
Grace bettter get while the gettin is good…
Team #JerseyMike "PReach"
I’m sorry but I’m team Tameka! Yall know damned well if Usher was your man you’d be insecure too! He’s a wh*re! She went off when ish didn’t add up in her marriage and yall would too! Now I woulda snapped about him bringing the same chick to my house that took part in us breaking up. He thinks his money can buy him anything. Old nappy head clown. Any man that chooses a woman over his momma is a fool anyway. THEN he know how many kids she had before he bedded her so if they have a nanny paid and she’s keeping all 4 and not just 2 kids, yeah he can pay! Why have 2 nannies and say boo boo and kee kee yall gotta stay wit Miss Anne and Usher and Navid are going to Mrs. Fancy pants?! That’s stupid. One nanny can keep all 4 of them. The other kids aren’t small kids so they aren’t a hand full like his 2. *Bleep* Usher nappy head self!
Did she not get ANYTHING out of the divorce settlement? Her lawyer in that case couldn’t, even at the very least, get her a house? And why does she need nannies? Does she have a job? No job = no need for a nanny. Take care of your own kids. You HAD 3 of them before you met Usher, I’m sure you didn’t have a nanny for them. Have your mama watch them when you want to go out, same thing you were doing before you met Usher.
I am definitely not a Tameka Foster Fan, but I have always thought that Usher was getting off easy by only having to pay $5000 a month and day care expenses for 2 kids.
Dddddaaaaaannngggggggggggg!
This whole custody battle just has Grace written all over it.
@ Stacie Boyd
If he did have the kids and its being reported that he was dead, that would obviously be the reason she was trying to contact him and why she believed it, especially when he wouldn’t answer her calls.
Tameka has a job(it’s not about the money)…she owns two businesses. Usher brought this custody battle on and now Tameka have to fight for her children. Kids need/should have both of their parents.
Usher needs to take a seat I can’t stand a man like usher .
TEAMTAMEKA…..I have YET to hear that she is a bad mother and if she is just so horrible…is it just to Usher kids and not the 3 prior? Tameka antics irk the hell outta me sometimes..but, just because you are USHER and want to play house with the lady friend don’t make you RIGHT or a good father. FYI…why not ask for FULL CUSTODY during the divorce!
Tameka has always had a nanny but seriously he’s no longer with her if it wasn’t in the divorce decree to provide for other children then he shouldn’t..I stand by that..the rest is plain foolishness and needs to be out of the public eye..keep everything irrelevant..Usher sleeping with a bridesmaid is a mark against Tameka not his parenting skills and if it was already brought up in court proceedings don’t do it now. I’m on Team Kids..i think they are both handling this wrong
Guilty from both sides! I hate when kids are involved in ignorance from adults! Now I thought when the death allegations came out he was in Cali with his kids? So why would Tameka believe that?
Guilty from both sides! I hate when kids are involved in ignorance from adults! Now I thought when the death allegations came out he was in Cali with his kids? So why would Tameka believe that?
ok..so which one is Maya Fox Davis?? That’s the bridesmaid he supposedly slept with..is that the same chick that he took a pic with at the park with Cinco in the swing?
Usher didn’t listen 2 his mother, who warned him about this woman, so he made his bed. She was a golddigger all along, she knows his weaknesses & is exploiting them. If she didn’t have those children, it would b a moot question, b/c she wasn’t married long enough to him. He needs 2 come 2 some type of agreement w/her. He’s gonna have 2 give her some money, b/c she’s gonna "f" with him until she gets what she wants.
The one thing I can say about this case is, no matter the outcome, it will hurt his female fanbase. It seems like a lot of women are starting to be cool on Usher because of his testimony with a crazy ex-wife, which if I could remember correctly, when he was first with her y’all all thought was crazy! Now, you guys are letting your women empathetic side move in and taking what he’s saying personal, instead of isolating it to Tameka! ATLiens should know she’s done some very sneaky, crazy things and being a man/victim of a crazy sneaky woman, you can’t explain why some things you let slide, and why you stick around as long as you do other than the love you have for her. Especially if kids are involved. Another thing is, you have to think…Usher feels real stupid and embarrased that this relationship turned out exactly like his mother, friends and fans said it would. Stop taking what he’s saying like he’s on trial for murder and start listening like he’s personally going thorugh a CUSTODY BATTLE!
I get what you’re saying I.A, I can’t speak for anyone else but a dramatic man is a huge turn off for me Usher or anyone else..i’ll take my crush to Michael Ealy..lol
Ok so just becuz this report something y’all quick to jump sides. Im team usher all the way but he’s a dumb ass to marry dat manbeast in the 1st place so now his ass is on fire. No matter wats his attitude is like and wat he did he’s still a good father that love his kids so y take them away from him. dat evil witch is just bitter becuz he left her get the fuck over it n move on n get the hell off Twitter. Dem kids her meal ticket n how to get under usher’s skin. If the divorce settlement didnt state that she gets the mansion n he’s toalso take care of her other kids den i dnt see y he should. And also all these allegations about sleepin wit bridesmaid, drugs n other ish y didnt she used that during the divorce so she can get all she fighting over now which aint the kids. I dnt believe it one bit i hope usher gets his kids get manbeast Tameka off his back n kick dat gargoyle bitch Grace to the curve too n get his shit together.
Oh n as for manbeast lawyer suggesting that he rather party around the world that take care of his kids is ridiculous he’s a dam performer he has to promote his music n dat bitch tameka knew that b4 n after she got the ring. Dats a weak ass move she love getting dat child support and million dollar mansion tho n running around using the man’s name tho acting like she still wifey.
I don’t usually respond, I just read b/c I love this site, but I feel that it takes two to tango! They were friends before all of this started and they both knew how each other acted before they got married! Tameka being married and divorced before should know how this goes. Usher has dealt with other women who has children (i.e. Chilli)so dealing with Tameka should have been a breeze. I have no sympathy for either party. They both need to come to an amicable agrrement about their children b/c in the end they are all that matters! They need to realize that this is not about them!!!
I’m glad he has those Bieber checks coming in because he is burning bridges left & right lately.
Poor kids, this is why you need be careful about who you marry and have kids with b/c this is the type of mess that you will have to deal with.
The real story – meka still loves usher and hates that he is with grace. she thought she had that box but she is a control freak and loves the limelight and the vip access that being ursh baby mama allows.. don’t be fooled this is a mess mostly because she needs the money. how many chicks shop at her little clothing boutique..she is not squeaky clean..who leaves their young children for days at a time with a damn nanny! oh yeah she said she was going to the movies..who does that? she should have played her position and stop buying 20K purses and banked some of that money
All the men in Atlanta are good for nothing idiots like Andre 3000 and T.I. What’s wrong with all these men who have 3somes and have many women while they are fathers. STUPID IDIOTS. I’m TeamTameka. Fuck Usher for being a total jerk.
Why I’m team Tameka: No decent mother should be without her children. From what I understand, all of her questionable behavior happened during a time of depression. Also, you don’t bring your mistress to my house, and you CERTAINLY don’t fuck my friend during a family vacation (which one, because they all look "fair," and WHY was she with the family?)
Why I’m team Usher: Tameka is a damn fool to expect Usher to pay for the care of her other sons. She worked closely with him and knew what he was like in his relationships; why leave your family for that?
This is a hot mess, but damn if it’s not fascinating to watch!
U guys are fuching idiots. Let’s not pretend that this same blogger isn’t the same one who told HS foster cheated in her husband and then dumped him & her three older kids. Where’s the sympathy in that? So quick to jump on a women’s side because she is a mom and her opponent is a famous man. He knows the kind of woman she is and that’s why he’s in court. It was also posted on this blog that she was being unfair with his visitation and not having them ready on time. As a woman I hope he gets full custody of bother kids, cause she obviously wants the money. I’m no usher fan, but I hate when women use their qû$$ý as a come up. Btw, if he did cheat she was fine with it then so don’t bring it up now. Like Pilar u signed a pre-nup now live with the consequences. Sorry for typos.
As I said they need to grow up for those beautiful sons. Keep it up Shell loved ❤it.
Haha Siobaughn Wade anyone? Part 2. At least Grace has a good rapport with his children already. Tameka is a bitter old soul, I’m tellin you. Grace is laying back, playing her position like his woman is supposed to do.
Well I’ve NEVER been fund of ms. Tameka she gives me a lot of marlo no shade, I’ve always heard her snapping on djs on the radio. Etc. But I’m starting to believe ms. usher ( yes ms) is just too much of a drama queen for me, he is a habitual cheater, obviously. Cheated on chili, Tameka ( with her own bridesmaid) let’s not even mention the complex he has (dating older women) he seems to have a problem taking responsibility for his actions. Money can’t fix everything. So I’m #teamtameka I hope she takes his ass to the cleaners
So that’s how it went down. Wow
This is one version of how it went down. Between the two points of view of the people directly involved, the truth will eventually come out. Everything else posted on blogs is merely speculation until then.
A hot ass funky mess!!
The only people that know the truth about this situtaion are Tameka and Usher but Usher had plenty of warnings not to marry the woman.The one that comes to my mind is the one when "her half sister from Oakland tried to give Usher a warning and Tameka put her hand to her half sister’s mouth to keep her from telling the real on Tameka".
I don’t believe that either Usher or Tameka are perfect people but I don’t believe that Tameka ever loved Usher,that thing seemed to be a rebound situation.I also feel Tameka is very jealous of this lady Grace Miguel and she is trying to make Usher pay for moving on because she appears to not have done so.Tameka Glover Foster Raymond seems to be the type to name drop Usher’s name because she got caught up in his celebrity…..
Team Tameka!
Team Tameka all the way
I’m not Usher or Tameka, but what disgusts me and where I agree with Tameka is that his current girlfriend of 47 years Grace is nothing but a very good friend of Tameka!
I think we can not do worse than that!!
Nobody talks about it but I am shocked.
Anyway I know that in this case there are three views of the Usher of Tameka, and truth.
However this fact speaks for itself and instead of Tameka it is certain that I would not want me take my children to go live with their father who travels all the time (no stable life) and that the woman who stole my husband betrayed our friendship is their stepmother.
Moreover, I find this woman Grace is much too old for Usher, at the time of his marriage to Tameka everyone shouted across: "She is too old, she is ugly …" but she was only seven years apart while this woman Grace has 14 years older than him, is frankly not good so I do not understand why she did not qualify for the same or worse for her as soon ménaupose.
With everything I’ve heard about it, I have also doubts about his real feelings for Usher, the woman who accepts all of Usher (other women etc. ..), it has a total grip on him Usher air easily influenced, it’s a hard woman and authoritarian control it all her life, she has finished destroying his relationship with his mother Jonetta, completely changed his style of music (he went Soul / rnb to pop / electro), pushes him to obtain full custody of his children (I do not think the balance for a child it is smart to keep it from growing up without his mother or his father, she should know she is a mom, she has children) and got a job as manager is not known how moreover, has turned ALL his former team and we always like this one young woman (I would rather say very mature woman), down (false is strategic, it is always with him to follow him anywhere for fear of losing control and losing everything she has on him) that do not require pfff.
My opinion is that this is unfortunately, but I think people say nothing about Grace only because her is light skin and that is severe, a woman may well be wrong as hell (she has developed a Plan to stitch the husband of his best friend), which is ugly and has too old for to be with Usher (for me it will not last 3 years in 50 years and she has him 36 years) .
Tameka is younger, is pretty, has a beautiful body for a woman who has 5 children but it is true I highly doubt (for it too) of his sincerity about whether she really loved Usher or the lifestyle that goes with.!?
Usher should make arrangements with the mother of his children, for the sake of children, separation from Grace (too much power over him) and his team (for she binds him to his ex and this couple is doomed to have any time drama), to rebuild their health, stay a while unmarried, to care for her children and her career and where he grew up out there and it will be able to meet the true love and he will find a woman (single ladies not married) cultivated his image & level, pretty, and young enough to procreate within thirty to forty two years and finally found a home healthy based on love, openness, understanding and not on deception, lies, sex etc. ….
The saying: "As you make your bed lying on it" or as it began with Tameka on very poor foundations that ended badly with Grace’s gonna be the same …
I believe in God and I think we can be happy, in love when you got someone by deception, trickery, deceit and / or doing harm to someone it’s called "KARMA" Grace to you notice what happens to look your best ex- girlfriend Tameka ….
I wish the best to Usher to find the woman of your life, it is not yet the case but he is still young and it will happen I’m sure … but he STILL wrong with your new little friend he goes straight into the wall.
Because (even though I’m not a fan of him) I feel, beyond being a great singer (at least since Confessions) that Usher is a good man, kind, cultured and charming.
@tb
If you knew anything about psycology you would know that the results of a psych test are not definitive proof of sanity, but up to the discretion of the doctor doing the evaluation. Tameka is out for a payday plain and simple.
Not a Usher or Tameka fan he married that messed and turned against his own mother for sandpaper cooch now he is stuck in a venus fly trap. He is a female and afraid of tameka thats why he could protect Grace. For one I find it disrespectful to bring a woman to your ex house Epic fail. When a man marry a woman then he accepts her other kids as his to most nanny get a flat rate for watching all kids. Daycare workers get $8hr for watching 20 kids so I know their nanny which most of the time be her friends be paid very well.
Is Grace Miguel on drugs! I think she is the one who is influencing Usher to smoke ectt
I’m Usher regardless.
Team Ush!! Damn Ush, I’m sure you’ve heard this several times. Too bad you didn’t LISTEN TO YOUR MOM AND CLOSE FRIENDS. This broad was married with children. Now your life is f##ked b’cuz you’re stuck. Why did the judge allow the sleeping with bridesmaid? This isn’t a divorce case, it child custody and support for Meka and Five kids not two. B#t#h upset she can’t use the Macy credit card. She need to seek support from ALL baby daddys. If I can support my two kids by paying $1400.00 mortgage, utilities, groceries and $4.30 per gallon gas in California while only receiving $50.00 per month in child support payments (California judges don’t give a damn) than Meka should be able to support five on free rent and whatever five baby daddys pay.
Now I have not always been a fan of Tameka’s antics and for some reason I felt their marriage was all a business arrangement because she had the goods on Usher therefore he married her and gave her two kids so her future would be secure….because damn the marriage just went kaput in a matter of months….I digress. One thing I have never seen Tameka as being is a bad mother. Actually she’s been pretty low key since the demise of their marriage. Now Usher….I’m giving him the side eye as he pulls his repeat of Steve Harvey divorcing his wife antics. Tameka is more settled and can give the kids a far more stable lifestyle than a concert traveling father. I mean really Ush…really? SMDH!
#FAIL #FAIL #TRIPPLEFAIL …. Now Michelle, u know Meka ass has threatened u, u know full-well she threatening Usher, poising those kids mids … BUT MOST OF ALL U know Tameka did not walk into this situation with "CLEAN HANDS" – so hence, I declare the "clean hands doctorine"(gold-digger, using kids for monetary gain … aint cool) … if ur hands aint clean, dont expect a fair result. USHER TAKE YO KIDS FROM CRAZY LADY …. PLEASE!
He should have married her old ass anyway I say he should get his kids since apparently he can be the better provider. Cause if she could provide for them they wouldn’t be in court but honestly they are airing their dirty laundry and its ridiculous!!! #teamusheralways Lynnie I totally agree!!!
I meant he shouldn’t have married her old ass!
ATLien, I can totally understand why Usher didn’t return her calls, and I don’t believe the death rumors were a publicity stunt. He’s DONE with this woman. Can’t stand to see her, don’t want to talk to her. Under ANY circumstances. In his position, I’d have someone call her as well. Or at least text her that I was ok. Wouldn’t talk to her though.
Ladies.. you better be mindful of how you are call Tameka crazy.. Thats what men do to you when you don’t agree with them or you continue to love them through their cheating and bullshit. What are the first words out of their mouth when you are arguing.. B. you crazy. Yes I have done it before but my mother called me on it. I have seen the men around me do it to their women. You are label crazy because you are emotional. You are NOT CRAZY.. you just love with your hearts. You love different than a man. Usher is doing the samething to Tameka that a man has done to you and you are supporting him. I don’t know them personally but I do see that pattern in him.. Usher has done this to just about every woman he has dated. The common factor in all those relationships is Usher. Everybody else is the problem but him.. Yeah right.. When I think someone is wrong I will call them on it. My mother, sister, brother or friend. Like my mother used to say, You will not do wrong and get away with it. Tameka or Usher, Karma is going to be a bitch on them. They have so much hate for each other they are destroying their children. Lets keep those kids in our prayers.
so messy..why does their need to be a team? besides the fact there is no need to pick a side how does one do so when you don’t know the whole story. And what is this really about because its not about the kids. they should just have joint custody and call it a day and someone explain this nanny thing to me. if he not paying for it then you pay for it. i dont care about how much money he has they are her kids too. she has two businesses that i know of so why not. they should have never got married
I DONT FEEL SORRY FOR USHER AT ALL!!
This boy knew he should have listened to his fans and most importantly to his MAMA! She told him not to mess with this old lady and then go and get married to this lady whom already had three kids and a X husband! WTF!?!?!? Where they do that at!!?!?!?
Usher is not ready to be a fulltime dad, hell……HE still needs his butt whooped for messing with this woman in the first place!!!!!
USHER DUG HIS OWN GRAVE NOW HE HAS TO LIE IN IT! smh….. so sad for the boy!
He is letting Tameka get the last laugh, she looks as if she is enjoying watching Usher explain himself b/c she knows as well ppl were telling USHER not to marry her and now taking him through all of this!!…MISERY HAS FOUND ITS COMPANY!!!!
if this is unbiased reporting then…I’m saddened that usher fails to realize that tameka’s children from her first marriage are cinco and navid’s brothers (i don’t use terms like step or half – family is family).
the nanny’s should not only be caring for his own birth children but the children who will forever be siblings regardless of marriage or divorce
furthermore with someone who has been bestowed so many blessings if usher is truly being this petty by not paying childcare because as he is quoted above "other children in the situation" – then tameka is better off without him as god does not like ugly
Pls dnt let him take those boys!! He’s gonna pimp them out like Diddy did him and fluck up their whole life!! they belong with their mother!! #TeamTameka all day