[Editor’s Note: After the positive response former NFL baller Bob Whitfield received on his 7 Reasons Why Women Cheat, I’ve decided to give him the SFTA platform yet again. This time Bob takes aim at Cupid and the fairy tale feelings of LOVE vs. LIKE. Again, I have to state I have absolutely NOTHING to do with this commentary, and while he has me feelin ‘some kinda way’ right now, these are clearly all BOB’S views and opinions and do not necessarily reflect the views and opinions of me… ATLien! ]
LOVE is… ‘a non-muthaf*ckin factor boo’ in your relationship! (I can hear the boo’s raining in now!)
For couples, love is like the flour mixed with the grease that makes the gravy.
LOVE has a magical all-purpose element to make a relationship recipe that is much more robust, exciting, romantic, etc and so on…. but who just wants gravy, or the special love sauce?
Relationships, for LOVE’s sake, lead to Marriage. Which is simply a social economic relationship between two people that provides tax and legal advantages for their union. [In layman’s speak: you get a tax write off and someone that can’t be forced to snitch on you in court]
I’m not against marriage, relationships or being in LOVE for that matter. Continue Reading…
A Michigan woman says she was “shocked, humiliated and embarrassed” by a Facebook romance gone awry and is seeking damages from her former online love.
Cheryl Gray, a 50-year-old unemployed paralegal says Wylie Iwan, a 35-year-old Applebee’s employee, led her on.
Gray claims she spent hundreds of dollars on gifts and a trip to visit Iwan, but was humiliated when he posted vulgar comments on her Facebook wall and was “devastated” and angry when a week before her planned trip, Iwan said he’d met someone else at a bar and no longer wanted to continue their “relationship”.
Now, “I feel foolish,” Gray said. “I’m not so much mad or angry. I feel foolish. I am disillusioned.”
Gray has decided to take her hurt feelings to court, filing a lawsuit seeking to recover $8,386.88 from her former online flame. Continue Reading…
[Note from ATLien: I was planning to do a post on this the other day and mentioned it to my friend Bob Whitfield, who decided to share his two cents. For the record, I have absolutely NOTHING to do with this commentary. These are all BOB’S views and opinions and do not necessarily reflect the views and opinions of me… ATLien!]
Seven reasons why your woman would cheat on you….
#7. “Soft as Twinkie Filling”
You have the ferociousness of a tabby cat and she wants a mean old lion. A man needs to understand how to dominate a submissive women.
She will seek out restraint from another man just to compensate for the lack of manhood around her. Somebody has to pee standing up….
#6 ” Eww Nasty”
She has a sexual appetite that one man is unable to fulfill or sustain. Different from “#7” this is pure sex and for a man that feels that he has all that his women needs will be for a rude and crude awakening, when you come home and she is having a leather clad gang bang in the middle of the den.
#5. “The Terry McMillan” Continue Reading…
I’m so happy Beyonce chose “The Best Thing I Never Had,” as the 2nd single from her new “4” album because CLEARLY she was in my head at the time…
There was a time I thought, that you did everything right.
No lies, no wrong. Boy I, must’ve been outta my mind.
So when I think of the time that I almost loved you,
you showed your ass and I saw the real you
Thank God you blew it. Thank God I dodged the bullet. I’m so over you. So baby good lookin’ out!
In the video for her hot new single, Beyonce goes from preparing for her wedding to thanking God that she finally saw the light.
Been there… done that… bought a t-shirt. [Sidebar: What goes around comes around. I bet it sucks to be you right now… you know who you are.]
Watch the OFFICIAL video for King B’s “Best Thing I Never Had”… Continue Reading…
Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher, of New Bern, North Carolina, took their ’til death do us part’ marital vows literally. They would have celebrated their 87th year of marriage on May 13, 2011 had one of them not passed away.
The cute couple, who jumped the broom back in 1924, were recognized in 2008 as Guinness Book of World Records’ oldest living couple after hitting 84 years of marriage.
They survived together in marital bliss until Mr. Fisher passed away on February 27, 2011 at the age of 105, leaving behind his 103 year old bride.
When asked about their initial attraction to one another, Zelmyra admits that Herbert “wasn’t much to look at, but he was sweet.”
Little did she know that that “not much to look at” man would be there with her through thick and thin! Continue Reading…
Last year, Sandy “Pepa” Denton sparked a new found interest in Asian men when she displayed her affection for “Tom” during her dating reality show.
After CNN ran a story about how we Black women were being too picky, a new trend emerged where many successful Black women began dating Asian men.
[READ: New Trend Alert! Successful Black Woman with Asian Mates…]
Well, apparently all that mumbo-jumbo about Asian men being so different was just that… crap! The air in China doesn’t breed a different type of mate, in fact, they are just as prone to effin’ up as any other race.
Case in point… This Chinese woman’s man literally sent her over the edge!
Details below: Continue Reading…