Exactly. On one hand, you do feel sorry for these women as they ABSOLUTELY have the lowest of low self esteem; they (specifically and especially the 4th-17th mothers) have CHOSEN to permanently shackle themselves to the balls of this irresponsible, absentee, narcissistic "father" who has no intentions of truly parenting his children…and let’s just keep it 100 – there is NO WAY he can genuinely or effectively parent 34 (+ 1 one the way – ugh!) children. Let’s take looksy:

1. He ABSOLUTELY can not pay child support that will have any real value. Even if he paid a nominal $300/month, (we/parents all know that amount would be a steal of a deal in the Land of Child Support, considering the ACTUAL cost of raising a child) he would have to have the education and experience (we know he doesn’t) to secure a job that would allow him to NET $10,500/month. This doesn’t include any income for him, period, and meets no financial obligations other than CS and taxes.
2. How does one demonstrate redemption for being completely emotionally, physically and financially unavailable to 34 (and counting) children?
3. Even if he could demonstrate redemption, how would he maintain a relationship of any substance with them all? He couldn’t even spend 1 day a month with each child. On a generous month, there are 31 days…does not compute. I repeat, "Does not compute".
4. How does one keep 35 children connected with their siblings, especially with 17+ different mothers? Never mind who’s getting along with who and how one navigates the pure drama of it all!

I could go on for awhile with this but we get the pic.

On the other hand, these are women who made conscience decisions to have unprotected intercourse with him. This is 2015 not 1915. We have access (and free too!) to a plethora of prophylactics that allow us to protect ourselves from STD’s and pregnancy. Does he bear any responsibility? ABSOLUTELY. However, by design, as women, we are much more vulnerable to STD’s and we are, more often than not, left to carry the weight of parenting the children born out of these types of dysfunctional relationships.

We ALL have to be mindful of this fact: any time we choose to have unprotected sex (of ANY kind – oral, anal, vaginal, etc.) we are literally putting our lives, our health and our future in the hands of our sex partner. And fancy this – in that moment, you’re also choosing the father of your child! With that said, Ladies, if he chooses to put himself in harms way, we have the option, moreover the responsibility, to arm ourselves with the weapon of life! Make it sexy. Make it sensual. One way or another, make condoms a requirement and use a back-up spermicidal. The outcome (no punt intended) is yours!

The only good I can conceive coming out of a Jay Williams reality show is if OWN distributes his earnings to his children. And if, as a result of his exposure from said reality show, a music career is borne then those earnings would also provide his children with a more opportunities and stability.

If the show is aired and his earnings aren’t used to support his children then Jay Williams is nothing but a prostitute and OWN is pimpin’!

On a final note, I would 100% tune in if OWN (or any other network) did a reality show covering his much-needed and long-awaited, anticipated and hoped for (by the public) vasectomy. Yes, Jesus, take the wheel