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Extreme Parenting? Mom Publicly Shames Daughter For Lying on Facebook… [VIDEO]

May, 28 2015 | Written by ATLien
Social media is filled with predators and these days, parents are utilizing extreme measures to ensure their kids understand it’s dangers.

Some parents have even sought to publicly humiliate their child by ‘teaching them a lesson’ online.

[FLASHBACK: Mom’s Quest to Publicly Shame Daughter Backfires… ]

Well… once again, a mother’s Facebook rant has gone viral, with over a million views and counting.

Valerie Sparks posted a 5-minute video online last Sunday of her confrontation with her 13 year old daughter. When the Colorado mother discovered that her teen had been pretending to be 19 on Facebook and posing for pictures in lacy lingerie, she shot the video to publicly shame the girl for her actions.

In the 5+ minute video, Sparks makes the girls admit that she doesn’t own any lacy underwear, has a 10pm bedtime and still watches children’s shows.

I’m not quite sure how or why the video would necessarily stop the teen from doing it all again, but I guess anything is worth a try.

More details + watch full video below…

VIDEO: Denver Mom Shames Daughter on Facebook

The recording above clocks it at 5 minutes, 40 seconds and shows Val Starks berating her daughter and forcing her to admit that she is a just a kid who still watches the Disney Channel, doesn’t wear makeup and owns no sexy underwear.

Starks posted the video on her Facebook page Sunday, and it instantly went viral. By Wednesday night, it has racked up more than 10.6million views and 313,000 shares.

‘You’re 13,’ Starks, a cosmetology student from Denver, tells her daughter in the video. ‘So why does your Facebook page say that your 19? Are you 19?’

‘No,’ the girl replies, standing with her arms folded across her chest in the front yard of her mother’s home.

‘And are you a freak?’ Starks inquires of her daughter, to which she quietly replies, ‘No.’

The Denver, Colorado mother says that it’s the fourth time her daughter has done it and she’s hoping her viral video will end the youngster’s dangerous social media practices.

What are your thoughts about this ‘extreme’ parenting?

Smart move? or Dumb Decision?
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- Athena Monaree via Facebook
  
  This is what makes kids rebel she better hope she don’t end up pregnant by the time she 16…ijs I was once a teenage girl too.
  
  Guest!
  
  Atlien,you may not understand why shes trying this,but us parents do whatever we think may work.We cant afford to give up.I do know why you said it though.
  
  Guest!
  
  This may be just the thing needed,so she wont get pregnant.Not sure if you wanted this Mom to just sit and pick her teeth,but I say BRAVO MOM!!!
  
  mimi
  
  I wonder what the child’s Mom behavior was like around her age??? There are several factors to consider..Hopefully, Lil Miss Hot Potato learned her lesson.
- Liljoe Rose via Facebook
  
  Smart move…
- Destiny Khan via Facebook
  
  Copy cat
- Tammy Johnson via Facebook
  
  I don’t have a problem with the way people handle there children. I’m not raising them or taking care of them. That’s there business. I feel like this it’s nobody’s business if she is right or wrong. At the end of the day that’s her child Not ours. Because I wish someone would get in my business I tell you what it won’t be pretty.
  
  Keya
  
  so true
  
  Ms MOCHA
  
  That is the problem "it not our business"…and if this child becomes a hooker or a thief it becomes our business? It takes a villiage! We need to make it our business!
- Anton E Dent via Facebook
  
  I see people saying that it’s not our business and I agree with that, but if it’s not nobodies business why put it on the Internet and then the national television!?!?
- Dominic Shamaine via Facebook
  
  Very smart.
- Loving This Site
  
  This video is old and just like all the rest of these humiliation videos. The mother informing us of something then having the child parrot what is just told. Learn to parent without subjecting your child to humiliation and bringing your parenting skills into questioning. This is just like the other video that went viral of the step mom cutting her sons hair for smoking weed and failing in school. Both mothers are on social media bragging about all their new friends and followers.
- Matt Smith via Facebook
  
  I totally agree. There’s too many fast girls out there with no respect. They need to have grown up back in the day when you could whoop your child and no one could do nothing about it!!! I love this mom!!!
- XoXo
  
  Hey, do what you feel you have to do. I’d rather see this video than I would the momma pleading for someone to please return her missing child. She gon learn today!
- Celia K Dale via Facebook
  
  It became others business when she put it on Social Media. So since she put herself AND her child out there, it’s fair game. Now…. public shaming is NOT addressing the root cause and therefore pointless. I don’t have to watch the video to know that mom lost control a long time ago. Children do what we either teach or allow them to do.
- Celia K Dale via Facebook
  
  Deal with the fact that she even has a FB page in the first place. Since when do our children make choices that we either don’t know about or approve then get mad when they abuse it? Please don’t tell me you can’t know what your kids are doing in this technological age. Ask Whitney Adams how I stalked her ass on the internet from the time she was 14 to present and she’s 20.
- Greta Tunnie Walker via Facebook
  
  She STILL GONNA do it in another name. That’s gonna let her no next TIME NOT to get caught. Kids today THINK outside the Box
- Attorneymom
  
  #Salute to this Mom. She is a great Mom and American!
- stlbelle
  
  Must be a slow news day, because this story is almost a month old.
- Tiffany Jones-James via Facebook
  
  Well hey you got to do what you got to do… Girl 13 and lying saying she 19 she about to get some dude hymed up. Not cool.
- Cheree Davian via Facebook
  
  “Desperate times call for desperate measures”
- Anela Tea-ana Claiborne via Facebook
  
  I don’t feel the need to lie on Facebook so this is non irrelevant
- Hot Caddy Girl
  
  That’s what her little fast ass gets! I would have embarrassed her too. I’d rather embarrass her than to have her come up pregnant, missing or dead by someone she met on Facebook. #teammom
- Sharon
  
  Wow…alot of you can’t be mothers saying what you say….I applaud, and I’d rather her embarrass the child than to be on the news reporting her child missing. Us parent’s can’t be everywhere that child is, so I doubt some of you stalk your child as hard as your suggesting…always somebody trying to out do somebody else…smh…parent your child as you see fit. Somebody’s always going to judge. And it’s usually the ones that WISH they would’ve done the same, but it was too late.
  
  Support our parents and stop judging…momma did what she knew best!!!
  
  Hats off to her!!
- Romeo Callwood via Facebook
  
  Gud for her !!!!!!!
- Kara H Gershon via Facebook
  
  She really went too far with the ass wiping stuff. That really shows her lack of maturity herself. Also, she posted her dughters name and face for the whole world to see? She is a bully. What if she committed suicide from embarrassment?
- 1GrooveyChix
  
  As far as parenting style goes, you know your child better than the person looking from the outside. But what I think would have been more effective, and this is me personally, if she had dad do the shaming if you will. But like most, he is probably is not an active parent in the child’s life. Otherwise this girl wouldn’t be seeking that affection and trying to be somebody she is not to get attention.
  
  Will this shaming video work, probably not. But what it will teach the girl is to be a little more craftier with her lies and hide her social media accounts.
  
  Hopefully after the shaming the girl, she followed it with an open dialogue about sex, men, and her curiosity about both. It’s an uncomfortable conversation for us because they are still our babies….but it has to discussed.
  
  Good luck with that!
- me
  
  I’ll say this, may not stop the girl but it’ll damn sure stop anybody that fears being looked upon as a pedophile!
- Brenda Craig via Facebook
  
  I don’t have an issue with the mother punishing her daughter. However, I do have an issue with her posting it on facebook. People seem to be going the reality show route with their lives. Some things should remain private. SMH
  
  Tonta
  
  I disagree the 13 year old daughter went publicly so why can’t the mom go publicly. Spectators, commentators and haters need to stop and think Facebook is a public social media. Whatever you put out there becomes public yes you can have a private page but it’s not private to your friends and their friends eyes if they share it. I don’t like Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Snap chat and any other social media outlets I left off. I’m old school KEEP YOUR BUSINESS IN YOUR HOUSE!!!!
- Henrietta Green via Facebook
  
  True
- Ohno
  
  This is a classic case of parenting gone wrong! You are trying to help your child understand the perils and wrongs of the world, yet, you publicly humilate her and hope the video goes viral for your 15 minutes of fame? This folks, is how you end up burrying your child.
  
  Tonta
  
  You’re so wrong on so many levels. Until you’ve had a conversation with this parent you can’t condemn her. Her daughter seems to have an issue with being 13 she probably has some friends who’s the same age and their out there so she wanna do what she see them doing. Mom probably have done all she can to stop her bit she continues by getting another Facebook page without mom knowing so if this helps the mom and daughter go for it. Something is obviously wrong with daughter being her age. Growing up to fast will cause this mother grief but she’s trying to control it
  
  VoiceofReason
  
  Here is the problem, too many people "raising" their children instead of instructing them, most importantly by example. Yes, you are to chastise your children when they do wrong but putting it on the internet shows a parents’ lack of parenting skills in that the child has been off the rails for a good minute or so. What does she see her mother doing? So many tell their girls to do as I say and not as I do. But they are WATCHING you, that’s how they learn the behavior. There may be some men out there looking for young bait and her momma done put her on blast. Further, instead of her child showing her body to get attention the focus of her parent is to beautify her mind, making sure she’s in the books and doing positive things. It is already rough out here because not everyone raises their children the same and you just have to hope and pray to the Almighty that what you instill in your children stick, where you won’t have to resort to antics such as this.
- Catherine Love-Becerra via Facebook
  
  This was mild. I bet she tagged that ASS in the house! Little fast wench!
- Danerey Rose via Facebook
  
  Smh
- Debra Goodwin via Facebook
  
  Dumb decision,
- Toni Staton Harris via Facebook
  
  The dumb decision was for the child to defy her mother 4 times about creating an extremely dangerous for herself. The child acted up in public therefore public correction. The child wasn’t concerned about embarrassing herself in public with deceit. Choices =consequences.
- Eric
  
  OK, I watched a little of this video last week. But I didn’t know it was the FOURTH time that this child had done it.
  The mother should be trying to find out why this little girl is seeking attention from older guys? Does it have something to do with her father?
  I do remember the mom talking about how the father has not been there for her.
- Loretta Foote via Facebook
  
  WELLTHE MOM IS AT HER WITS END.THE CHILD LOST PHONE PRIV. NERT,, AN ORHR. SHE IS TRYING TO SAVE HER CHIID BUT THE GIrl APPEARS TO HAVE already been traMPERED QWITH AT LKEAST THEMOM IS TRYING. THIS TAKES MUCH PRAYER. ALL PARENTS SHOULD SUPPORT WHAT THIS MOM IS DOING BEFORE THIS REBELLOUS CHILD IS FOUND WITH AIDSA, OR KIDNZAPPED, DEAD. SO I PRAY FOR OUR WORLDS CHILDREN. JESUS DRIVE THIS CAR.
- Msking37
  
  In my opinion, and I am mother. If she was trying to get some attention, I definitely would have given her some attention. And that is exactly what she got. But it was not the attention she was expecting.
- parent the child
  
  Am I confused? Can she not take her minors page facebook and have them shut it down? Or better yet “let me catch you again and a I will drive you to the juvenile detention center myself”….
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