Michael Jai White posed for the photo above as he partied in Atlanta during ATLLive on the Park earlier this week (CLICK HERE for more photos).
The actor, who is currently featured on Tyler Perry’s ‘For Better or Worse’ recently took to his facebook page to pen an open letter to all of the girl’s he’s loved before (cue Willie Nelson).
Following years of trial and error with romantic relationships, it appears that White has had an epiphany of sorts when it comes to dating, love and his all of his former girlfriends.
In his letter, White details the issues he’s encountered in his many relationships and how women were ?crazy? with their relationship demands, stating:
As a man, you have to deal with hand holding, ?yes dearing,? and freaking cuddling! I endured this for years until my relationships reached their natural demise due to some natural chemistry flaw between us or the woman?s natural chemical imbalance- Yes I said it…
I believed all women were crazy and the only choice a man had was to decide exactly how much crazy he?s willing to deal with to sustain a relationship.
Read more Michael Jai White’s full letter under the cut…
The actor, who is now ‘happily’ married credits his undying love for his wife, Gillian Waters, with transforming him to better understanding on how to cater to a woman’s needs like ?a man.?
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Here’s the full letter, which was posted to Michael Jai Whites Facebook page…
APOLOGIES TO ALL MY EX?S!
In all my years as a grown man I knew, without a doubt, that women were different than men and required a gang of emotional attention. I came to the resolution that part of a man?s role was to endure women?s emotional neediness by patronizing them much as you would a child:
?Yes, Dear, I?m listening??even though this is some rhetorical bs. ? Of course I miss you? even though I just saw yo ass a little while ago! ?I see you?re calling me?? even though I just F*^?#?ing? talked to you 20 minutes ago!
As a man, you have to deal with hand holding, ?yes dearing,? and freaking cuddling! I endured this for years until my relationships reached their natural demise due to some natural chemistry flaw between us or the woman?s natural chemical imbalance- Yes I said it!
I believed ALL WOMEN WERE CRAZY and the only choice a man had was to decide exactly how much crazy he?s willing to deal with to sustain a relationship.
It?s crazy to think I, as a man, would ever want to spend every waking moment with a woman, to be all-up-on each other constantly, to talk endlessly about ?every-damned-thing? and see each other ?every-damned-day!? I was always the spoiled Alpha Male who didn?t have to try as hard and I dealt out advise to my brethren due to my abundant experience with women. I had Alpha Females, ?Dime Pieces? with degrees and plenty of them!
I pretty much got every woman I wanted, rich or famous and who could argue with my numbers? On every level, I was ?The Man!? Agreed? Well take my numbers, ?Dime Pieces,? and vast experience and apply it to what I?m about to say- I WAS WRONG ABOUT WOMEN ALL THESE YEARS! My Ex?s were right!
The interesting thing about every good argument is the shifting percentages of validity on each opposing side, but only one concept will tip the argument past the 51% and expose the unflinching reality of the truth. My new life philosophy is to look forward to being wrong because each time I?m wrong, I learn something that unlocks the door to a concept I struggled to understand. The truth is then revealed and to live in the truth is to live in enlightenment.
I am now in a relationship that I never knew was even possible. I?m in love with my best friend who I shower with endless affection, talk to all times of the day and miss the moment I leave her side. I now understand what the women of my past desired from me. They INSTINCTIVELY KNEW that love actually looked this way! Everything from the hand holding to countless daily declarations of love were not only a byproduct of the man?s emotions but it was something easily volunteered by the man who?d truly loved them.
I simply didn?t love my Ex?s in the capacity their spirits knew organically needed to be loved. I believe woman nowadays have learned to settle for what?s FAMILIAR to love. In turn, the?ve had to decide how much of a man?s love they can live without to sustain a relationship. As we men are natural leaders in providing security, it is women who are the natural leaders in how to love. They are instinctively born with the barometer to feel when love is real. The behaviors they?ve required from men IS the behavior that is true for love. The crazy lesson for men is that YOU?LL NEVER KNOW HOW MUCH OF A MAN YOU CAN BE UNTIL YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEONE BEYOND YOURSELF.
I can say that I am now the very best version of myself and that?s due entirely to my relationship. My perspective is clear, my goals are defined, distractions are nonexistent, my business and personal relationships are stronger than ever.
I don?t feel like ?The Man,? anymore. I feel like A MAN.