I agree 100 percent Good4u, young girls today see a fictitious, view of teen pregnancy on TV and all these reality shows, and apparently think having a baby when your under age is ok, but it’s NOT. Black and Hispanic teens are those who suffer the most with low self-esteem and therefore feed into the idea of sex, money and popularity. Baby girl must be one of those women suffering with low self-esteem or she would not have responded so negatively to your post and she would have understood your comment has everything to do with Kandi honoring single mothers, most of those women are not, widows or divorced, they are women who chose sex over books (education). Some are now trying to help themselves by going to community college or trade school, but in their younger days enjoyed sex, boys and a good time and now tax payers have to pay the price. Stop being foolish, the girls and women on these reality shows are not happy; they are women with very low self-esteem and using their body instead of their mind. Not everyone can be Kim Kardashian. Paris Hilton and Montana Fishburne tried it, but failed. The moral of this statement is, STOP HAVING CHILDREN YOU CANNOT AFFORD. Instead of standing in line for free gifts for Christmas, turkeys for Thanksgiving or food stamps, go to the clinic for some FREE BIRTH CONTROL. I look forward to ALL the negative post from those with a bad understanding or not wanting to face the truth. Honestly, most of the faces in the welfare lines are Blacks and Hispanics. I pray women of color gain some confidence and self-respect and begin to make better choices. Sex is a beautiful thing and I’m NOT saying you must be married to partake in the activity, I’m just saying to choose wisely, protect yourself both mentally and physically. Don’t have tax payers pay for your poor judgment.