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A Fulton County Superior Court Judge denied Usher Raymond‘s ex-wife’s emergency request for custody Friday afternoon (August 9, 2013).
[READ: Raymond vs. Raymond: Couple Returns to Court for Emergency Hearing...]
Tameka’s attorneys filed for the emergency hearing on Tuesday after one of her sons, Usher Raymond V (aka ‘Cinco’) nearly drowned at her Usher’s home on Monday afternoon.
Several disturbing factors were brought up during the hearing and while I won’t address each and every one of them, I’ll drop a few in this post.
First and foremost, Usher wasn’t at home at the time of the accident and had left the boys in the care of his Aunt Rena, who admitted having a disability stemming from a back injury suffered during a 2007 automobile accident. It was revealed that Baby Usher was stuck under water for almost 4 minutes while Usher’s aunt ran downstairs for help and that 4 year-old Naviyd jumped into the pool unattended to try to save his big brother.
Tameka Raymond broke down on the stand speaking about her concerns for the safety of her children. In tears, after revisiting the frantic 911 call made by Usher’s aunt, Tameka (visibly upset) yelled that it was “total chaos” in her ex-husband’s home during the period her 5 year old son was stuck under water.
One of Tameka’s attorney’s said it best, ‘Lightning doesn’t strike twice and it almost did when Tameka nearly lost a SECOND son to an aquatic accident” while in the care of her ex-husband.
The judge in the case apparently didn’t feel the same…
More details + if you missed the live feed, watch video of entire 3 hour hearing below…
Judge John L. Goger said he felt Tameka’s standards for a caregiver were unusually high and pointed out that many people often leave their children with family members.
Tameka’s attorney’s agreed, but felt that in light of Usher’s busy schedule, Tameka should be granted the ‘right of first refusal’ in providing care for the children… i.e. the mother should be first on the list to take possession of the kids if the father isn’t available… not a grandmother, an aunt, etc.
In her testimony, Tameka claimed that when Usher called her about Cinco nearly drowning, she was told he had a cut on his arm and was being transported to the hospital.
She stated she wasn’t made aware of the seriousness of the incident until she arrived at the hospital and saw her son being restrained by medical personnel.
VIDEO: Raymond vs. Raymond – Emergency Custody Hearing (8/9/13) Part 1
On Thursday, Raymond posted a picture of the couple’s son in hospital…
Tameka also shared the following caption:
Tameka’s attorneys revealed on the stand that she’d been at the hospital day and night since her 5 year old son was admitted on Monday afternoon and that Usher was no where to be found when Cinco’s heart rate dropped in the middle of the night a few days ago.
Angela Kinley, an attorney on Tameka’s legal team, also noted that the R&B superstar didn’t contact his ex-wife to alert her of the accident until almost an hour after the it occurred.
In his testimony, Usher stated that he merely sought more information about how serious it was and his son’s injuries prior to alerting Tameka.
VIDEO: Raymond vs. Raymond Emergency Custody Hearing (8/9/13) Part 2
Before dismissing the case, Judge Goger said he wasn’t certain anyone really could have done anything to prevent the accident…. but he also admonished Usher and advised him to keep his ex-wife well advised of his whereabouts and who’s taking care of the children when he’s not around.
After the hearing, Usher approached Tameka and the couple exchanged a few soft spoken words before embracing. It’s evident that they both care very much for their children and it’s MY hope that they can come to some sort of amicable agreement soon. This whole custody battle has become a media circus and the two need to work together for the sake of the kids.
As of the date of this post, Lil Cinco is still hospitalized due to concerns for his breathing.
According to Usher’s attorney, he has directed doctors to run every test imaginable to ensure that his son is on the road to a full recovery and while Cinco could have been discharged earlier this week, doctors plan to keep him hospitalized until at least Sunday.
Again, this was merely an “emergency” hearing that was requested due to the fact that Cinco will return to Usher’s home when he is released from the hospital.
Tameka and Usher’s actual custody battle (stemming from the modification filed back in May), resumes August 27, 2013 in the same court.
What do you think of the outcome of the emergency custody hearing?
I don´t even understand why this was made public. People are way too nosy. This is a very personal family matter and should have been treated as such instead the media is bent on humiliating Tameka. My heart goes out to her because I know she´s hurt to have almost lost another son to a water tragedy. She´s devastated now in spite of what some idiots think. God bless her and I hope this brings some closure for her and Usher so they can start working together for the kids.
Usher is such a liar.
Usher will get his.you reap what you sew! You will ne exposed.Usher is way too cocky,walking around with his leggings on.Im sure Tameka skin was crawling when he touched her.ewwwwww!
If Usher called that gold digging slut up right and told her he wanted to get back together, she would be over his house before he hangs the phone up. Mama always knows best, and his mama told him she was trouble before he even married her which is why she refused to go to the wedding.
Lol Usher uninvited his mother. You sound bitter,hurt and angry who stole your big wheel?
Usher uninvited his mother to his wedding? When they let you out the crazy house?
Now this is what I find interesting. SO far every comment that you have made has been incorrect so clearly you dont know what you are talking about beef cake. YES USHER UNINVITED HIS MOTHER AND TOLD HER THAT SHE WAS NOT TO COME TO HIS WEDDING AND THAT SHE WOULD NEVER SEE HER GRANDSON !!! YES your man crush has issues just like Tameka !! Now go ball up in a corner and do your sissy cry.
@ maria-has-aids: What I find funny is that you seem to kno usher personally (STALKER) and he personally told you he told his moms she was uninvited to his wedding and that she would never see his grandson when in court clip, it has been acknowledged that usher moms is one of the caregivers. Silly aids infected bitch, do your research you little slut. What I also find interesting is that now that usher has put a restraining order on for stalking him at his house, your now stalking me. Poor lil whore, no man wants to marry a aids infected cunt unless he is infected to.
These 2 "Cooning As Usual…I Digress.
Tameka made it public, its as simple at that. She wants to be a public figure, no one knew who she was before Usher.
@ HUMBLEKNIGHT Lets talk facts here, I have been keeping great score of this case and who drew "first blood" here, so here they are. I am an EX Usher fan and this case has caused my newfound status:
1. Usher filed for FULL CUSTODY waaaay back in 2011, After he and his wife already had JOINT CUSTODY. Never knew why but he is the Original petitioner in this case not Ms. Raymond.
2. Ms Raymond fought BACK, by counter filing later that year, stating that she too wanted FULL (since he filed first), she also listed other things that Usher was in Contempt of i.e. unpaid nannies, cancelled Saks card etc.. I was initially livid when I heard about the Saks card, this is when I started following the Usher drama, but it was apart of their divorce settlement and he didnt stick to the deal. Now I get it, a friend had to make this one clear.
3. Usher demanded Psych evaluations in the case, BUT HIS SIDE sealed them (trust me I checked) Go to Hip Hop Enquirer too. Not her, so wanna know who’s crazy and who did what? Its all shady ya ask me. Something to hide?
4. He now has filed to lower her child support payments all along, I SAID THIS WAS THE REASON FOR FIGHTING!!!! I was right, I hoped Usher would be smarter but he wasn’t. They should have waited to lower the payments because now this makes it clear to me and Team Usher (Midwest;0) why he is fighting her. Its sad because he started a nasty fight for no reason but those itty bitty child support payments. Most celebs are paying $20-30k for kids and I read that Usher is only dishing $8k per month. Thats a steal for child support for his King Usher status.
5. The media have to go through the court to be there not Tameka, she doesn’t decide who can film, only the Judge/Court decides. Not her, so stop blaming her for everything.
6. I would fight until my kids were 30, for rights as a mother. I would keep protesting and moving forward with a fight. She loves her sons to me. I don’t know. But $8K is NOTHING to deal with 2 active, growing, hard headed boys at that. I highly doubt the fight is over that little cash. I would think that she just loves her kids and want control over their lives, the money is not enough of a gold rush for this amount of humiliation and court hearings. He is not even in Georgia a lot. Doesn’t he live in Los Angeles? Umm The Voice.
Usher is being an ass- Sidenote: I’m geared up and ready for his show at Curacao North Sea Jazz Fest this month. I almost didnt buy the seats but Esperanza and Los Lobos are other faves of mine and I always support them. Usher needs to change and get focused on his sons and new movie, this is not healthy for the kids.
Kiosha Wright you are a breath of fresh air…I could careless who side people take just get the FACTS first. According to everything in the court documents he is no more "fit" then her. Neither of them deserved primary over the other. Oh and the Sak’s card was just a store discount…hell she still had to purchase the stuff. Folks act like it was a charge card…no it was a discount that she used towards her purchase for clients and children. What man getting divorced would agree to this…one that is still having "access" to his ex wife. Tameka cut off the access and Usher threw the biggest national tantrum ever. Let me also address the media…EVERY story that is put out by TMZ favors Usher…and I am sure you can figure out why. Tameka don’t have Oprah calling her for a interview or TMZ getting checks to be biased so she utilizes what she has. Think about many years ago when this mess was going strong Usher was so pissed at his mother that he ran into her car…three times…while she was in it…why didn’t that hit the media?! The ONLY person bold enough to even speak on it was Tameka’s sister and from what I remember was very hesitant.
Poor Tameka…. My heart goes out to her.
Poor Tameka, are you serious she was not crying I did not see one tear.. She does not care about those lil boys or her other sons. Why did she not try to get an emergency hearing and get her other kids from their dad, when she lost her eldest son?
I think she was crying and wiping her tears. You are a cold person to guess this mother isn’t grieving after losing one child and nearly losing the next one. Since she and her other ex Ryan had joint custody to begin with. Why would she need to fight him? Not to mention her other son with him is about 17, so he isn’t in the same danger as her little young kids. I would fight and never cease. You are on his side because he’s famous and Rich. He used to be sexy but not anymore. Gross.
Lightening doesnt strike twice?? So usher is responsible for kiles death too??? I thought kile was with his biological father and I guess im unfit to watch my grandchild since I have back problems. I shouldnt lift 25 pounds either but I tell you what if her life was in danger what I shouldnt be doing wouldnt enter my mind. What an insult to family members everywhere but I guess there is a different standard for children of celebrities.
No disrespect against people w/ disabilities, but that would be the last person I’d want watching my kid in a pool. And if you have back problems maybe you shouldn’t be watching them alone while they’re in a pool either.
I agree with you. I have a leg that has a metal rod in it. I can’t watch my nieces daughter she’s too active and his aunt is getting a state check so her money is really flowing!! Ushers nanny AND getting disability Im jelly. Tameka has the right to be upset and fight. I would expect nothing less of a real mother. Usher is
Being a dick. That Aunt Reeva can’t talk for shaaat she real slow sounding. Scary. Hope they don’t pick that up.
Well you should not be supervising children swimming in a pool if you cannot dive in to save them if they need assistance. Precious minutes were lost while she went running for help. I bet she can’t swim.
I have been trying to figure out what did she do that was sooo bad that Usher got full custody of the kids…I watched the court hearings when they went to court and to me they were bashing each other but I really didn’t hear anything that smoking gun… that she did that was sooo bad to get her kids taken away from her. I didn’t hear of drug abuse or physical/sex abuse no neglect…what did she do???????
It probably was due to her mentality, Usher’s atty. spoke of a mental evaluation in his opening statement. Also her sister, and Tameka’s best friend . As well as her nannies testified against her, that alone speaks volumes.
wasn’t he sleeping with them?
lmaaaaaaoooooo good question.
I’m confused, did we watch the same court procedure? Poor Tameka? All I saw was a woman fake crying with no tears dodging questions. You’re so distraught yet you call an emergency hearing instead of staying at the hospital with your son. Clearly Usher has been visiting his son at the hospital, he is wearing the same visitor wristband that Tameka has on. ATLien, I like your blog and I find you funny, but obviously when it comes to Usher you’re team Tameka, and your bias shows in your writing. It’s evident that Tameka has serious emotional and mental issues. Instead of dragging Usher to court, she needs to be in a therapist office seeking help. Being bitter is a disease. If it’s not properly treated it can cause you to lose everything. That is the path Tameka is on.
I peeped the wristband also!
They both had on wristbands. That doesn’t prove anything.
It proves that they BOTH have been at the hospital
with their child.
What I don’t understand is why two different judges and courts have awarded primary custody of the kids to the fathers and not her?
What I don’t understand is why she has to have a child by every man she falls for?
What I don’t get is why right after her son died she was posting picture of her and a new boo on a boat in some tropical location?
These are the things that the court use to determine her character.
MCM they both were at the ER when the baby first arrived but according to Tameka he has not been back and I guess she would know since the first time she left the hospital was for court.
I don’t understand your primary custody question. She has joint custody of her other son. No other judge has given the other father anything.
Most PEOPLE have multiple kids with different women/men. She just so happen to have 5 children by 3 different men. It happens.
Right after her son died she and her boys went on vacation. Months later she did have some pics of her and some guy but who said he was a "new boo" I don’t know who he was, how long they had been together OR if they actually were together…maybe you do…and honestly if all of Usher’s cheating didn’t make a difference I KNOW nothing should. lol
@ Vay: You must be Tameka or one her soldiers
Carry on with your drama…
Yes sir, I will. Thanks for the permission Tameka
Sheets (thanks Marie) I will be Sir, him, It, Tameka or whatever else you want to call me if you would just go away OR stay but do some research so that you can know what the hell you are talking about. The official court docs are online. Try to look them up and have someone read them to you! A 12 year old with a computer can be an annoying thing.
There was nothing fake about those tears. We must’ve been watching a different video, because I saw a well coached Usher lying his ass off. Clearly a family trait cuz that aunt was lying as well.
Tameka’s in good company with those emotional/mental issues, because Ush ain’t playing with a full deck either. After all, he picked her.
Thank you! I hated every minute of his testimony, I felt many of the points Tameka had were valid and she balled and you can tell it were real, it was not like Usher’s who fake balled last year just because he was getting questioned about the berlin concert.
STL! There’s an old saying that goes"crazy recognizes crazy" lol..
@STLChick…yes, he picked her…but then he LEFT her….just pointing that out as well….
Had he not picked her, there would’ve have been nothing to leave.
Me guess Grace is a little loca as well.
@ STL Chick…the point is that it was a BAD choice that he now regrets….I bet if he could do it all over again he would have left the angry, black woman, I mean golddigger/cougar, where she was…..
If he could do it all over again..he’d drug her knock her up..drug her again knock her up..make her sign waivers under duress and drop her off in the middle of nowhere..but since that DIDN’T happen he’s stuck and needs to figure it out..the kids won’t stay young forever and you can’t hide bullshit from children..it’s going to be a problem that neither are prepared for once they get older..the internet isn’t going anwhere…
lol at the comments talking about he picked her, more like she picked him and as his personal stylist, she planned how she was gon trap him for a long time.
Bammadude, your man-crush is showing. Do you even think before you type? You make Usher sound like an innocent angel not accountable for anything in his life.
Usher is a rich and famous superstar who can have any bitch he wants. You think he doesn’t know this? To Usher there’s two types of women in this world; those he’s fucked and the rest he hasn’t fucked yet. Out of all the women in the world HE chose HER. two condom would’ve prevented this whole situation. He’s too stupid to realize that you can’t make a clean break with children involved. If he has regrets its of his own doing.
@ STL: your women crush is showing to, put them moist underwear away cux unless you got money, Tameka want be interested. Women trap men all the time. She was married and he was dating Chili (somebody who has her own money, is a million times cuter, and has her own fame). She seduced him and seduced him as his stylist and got pregnant. Like you said, usher can’t get millions of women, so what did he see in Tameka that made him want to chase her, nothing. She trapped him
Post your comment again with correct grammar, then I might take you seriously.
Naw, you a slut and sluts only get substandard work. Lol at you thinking I care what you think
Huh? That makes about as much sense as a whale with titties.
this sissy running from post to post to defend Usher. He dont want you either BammaBitch! ANd I dont belive for one second that you have a wife with a vagina so turn your "wife" over and check them balls. Punk azz get yo tuttie frutie azz on somewhere.
@ STLChick (Stupid Trick for Life Chick): Now that whale comment truly made no sense. I guess not having sense runs in your family.
@ maria-has-aids: If by sissy you mean married man of 6 years then I hear ya whore. So you mad at me defending a man from bitches trifling behavior but you aint say nun about these hoes defending that man look a like Tameka? Silly Bitch, do better. You mad cux no man want to marry a hoe like you? Yo mammy and grand mammy got lucky. Don’t worry you stupid slutty ass trick, some "man" will wife you up one of these days, I guess. Lmao
Sissy go count your "wife" butt hairs. lol
@ maria-has-aids: You mad she want let count them, I feel ya stalker. Lmao. Sorry but were both diseased free and we don’t need you spreading your aids over here you slutty bull dagger bitch.
@2bME…..no man is ever STUCK with any woman….he left her & she’s bitter about that….luckily those kids will grow up & then he won’t have 2 deal with her krazy ass anymore…..and women like ya’ll wonder why ya’ll end up old, fat, and alone……ur attitude determines ur altitude and the Tameka’s of the world will NEVER truly get that concept….
LadyA..You knew DAMN well what I meant by the comment..stuck as in his children’s mother..stuck as in his ex wife..stuck as in the only one known to be his wife and mother of his chidren, because he is in the limelight..do not ever come at me telling me the type of woman I am you worry about YOU..what YOU need to do is stop coming on here trying to start shit where there isn’t a need..lose the term Lady..it’s used loosely
@2Bme….if & when u have a logical, reasonable, unemotional point 2 make, then make it…..FACT: u & the other Tameka’s of the world actually believe that a man is STUCK with ya’ll just b/c ur an Ex-wife, or mother of his kids and that’s sad…the premise with YOUR kind is "he got tired of my bad attutide & left me so Imma use the kids and/or courts 2 make his life a living hell until the kids turn 18"…..I feel bad 4 the bitter Tameka’s of the world…..she needs 2 let go of the bitterness & get help…..and I type whatever the hell I want….who gon’ stop me Boo?????
This is a bunch of bullshit, this woman has a right to know where her kids are! Usher does whatever the hell he wants.
@Glittergirl….well said….I think she needs counseling as well…..u have 2 learn 2 let it go & move 4ward with life…..I wonder why she did not file for an emergency hearing 2 get primary of her other son from Ryan Glover after little Kile’s accident….it seems she is hell bent on antagonizing Usher…..they should BOTH be at the hospital with their son, NOT in court that she dragged them both into…..if there they are due back in court on August 27 then why wouldn’t she just wait until then being that it’s right around the corner? They could have used this time 2 grieve & heal….Maybe this was supposed 2 be some strategic move suggested by her attorneys, maybe it was her own idea….IDK but it was unnecessary 2 file 4 the emergency hearing….and people leave theirs kids w/ family members all the time so there’s nothing new about that…..she is determined 2 come at him from any and every angle she can…..I understand she is hurt but Usher cannot be her physical & emotional punching bag….maybe counseling can help her process her feelings in a healthier way….hopefully they can find a way to be amicable after all this….
I agree with you, she has to stop and be more strategic..you can’t waste the courts time this way..trust it’s remembered when it happens..i understand her feelings and this was a knee jerk response..I truly get that but when you go to court you HAVE to make it count and this should have been brought up when Usher took her back for his decrease in child support later this month..I see her going down the same road a Siovaughn if she doesn’t get a handle on this soon…
This was n Emergency strategy isn’t the 1st thought. I’m on any mother fighting for her kids side. If he feels that she’s soooo bad then let her hang herself. Give her the kids, if she’s so bad then it would reveal itself. Right now all I see is careless men that nearly killed and accidentally killed her other son. Never HER or on her time. Men just aren’t as protective or on attention as Mothers. Unless they’re on drugs or really young.
learning…..
Lady A, pointing out the obvious…
There was no need to take Ryan to court because she already had joint custody. That is not the case with Mr. Raymond, would you agree?
The child that she has with Ryan is big. Like in high school. I don’t think that after Kile died she wanted to fight in court. Plus I always heard that she has joint custody with her ex Ryan. If you have joint custody there’s no need to fight. For Usher to be a jerk like this, I just can’t with him. I’d been cut my baby daddy. Tameka is handling this better than most black women.
@ STL Chick & L Shore….ya’ll can ignore the obvious if ya’ll want…most women are unreasonable and emotional that way anyway….what is obvious is the fact that this woman is hell bent on being as spiteful 2 as she can….she is bitter & this is about antagonizing him & "making him pay"….2Bme is correct in pointing out that she seems like she is losing it….her (& the women cheering 4 her) need counseling……
See Ladies, this is the problem right here. Some of you all DON"T listen. You’re so busy trying to be negative that you neglect the facts. I’m assuming that’s Tameka’s problem too and the reason she keeps coming up short in the court of law. Tameka shares JOINT custody with all her kids but has PRIMARY custody of NONE. There is a reason for that. So yes Lady A is correct, if Tameka was so concerned she could’ve taken Ryan back to court too but she didn’t. She only wants to harass Usher. Why? Because Tameka wants to keep getting her $8000 a month in child support, although Usher has primary custody. If Usher was broke, I guarantee you Tameka wouldn’t be giving embarrassing court performances with fake tears, fighting for primary custody of both of those boys. Some of you need to stop supporting this foolishness and tell Tameka to get her mind right.
Lady A, no point in me ignoring the obvious when you’ve got the market cornered on it. I simply answered your question.
I can’t stand that punk faced Usher, he is just so arrogant. I live in Atlanta he’s a dick. She is around town and extremely nice and down to earth. She was not faking, if you meet her you would know that she don’t seem like the type.
I could feel her concern for her kids and their safety, her points were valid. Usher and his lawyer were both lying and contradicting each other. No nannies, but Usher said that he has nanny with eye problems. He hires disabled people to keep his boys. Why? Anyway, he was lying about time lines and wrong for not telling Meka when he’s gone and the kids are with different people. She said he didnt even tell her about their schools? Thats crazy and asshole behavior. Usher is a f**ked up guy, I’m just sorry. I would be in court because why would I want my kids to go back to him after nearly drowning at his house, Id be mad and nervous and crying too. You just don’t like her and want to say she’s lying or faking, but why would she be faking about her own children? PERHAPS she actually LOVES THEM? Why is that so hard to believe? Shit they’re adorable, I love em and they aint mine!! Im sure she loves her kids, why not? Your theory is stupid. I never saw or heard anything about her that was unfit and your post is all based on hate and stupid rumors. Team Mothers Team Family Team Hate Arrogant Men
You said why wouldn’t she want custody of her kids when 1 almost drowned? Why didn’t she seek FULL custody of her oldest son with her 1st husband when her son Kile died WHILE WITH HIS FATHER? I’ll wait on that bias response
Dude, how many times do you have to ask a question that’s already been answered?
You stans…
Bitch, I said full custody, not joint custody.
You Hoes…..
Yo stankin’ ass mama. I would tell you to lick my clit, but something tells me you crave shafts…one ‘lanta shaft in particular.
*side eye*
SASHAY, SHANTAY!!
Only clit I lick is my wife’s unlike you who licking Tameka clit and every other clit in town you dike ass bitch. You mad cux you can’t distinguish between joint custody and full custody slut slut?
Hey Too Wong Foo…
1) WTF is cux? You’re old enough to be married typing pubescent words like that?
2) Speaking of your beard of a wife, why are you bickering like a bitch with women you don’t know instead of actually licking her clit? You’re a fag in down-low clothing. You are probably a member of that "black men have it so hard" crew but you’re on here bantering like a lil’ bitch. You’re a walking stereotype married to a fool with no standards.
Oh, and king of the retard nation? YOU seem to struggle with the distinction. And it’s not dike, dumbass.
As that one comedian say, you is an ignant…
@ STLChick (Stupid Trick for Life Chick): Naw, no down low gay tendencies here, I love pussy and it love me, that’s something we have in common right. Lol. You dike ass bitches wanna talk shit but get mad when a nigga talk it back, and better. Lmao. Same thing when you put yo hands on nigga and get shocked when he knock yo ass out. My bad, am Im giving you flash backs you typical bitter angry black bitch.
Cux = what eva the fuk you want it to be, its a wild card bitch, use your interpretation of what you think it mean hoe.
Now get back on them knees and suk that dick you dike ass trick to pay yo rent u pussy ass bitch.
Easy man, because them other baby daddies and paid like Usher. This whole thing is a cash grab. Kids always are.
I hope you don’t disrespect your wife the way you do the women on this blog…
That was truly an accident and could have happened to ANY child. Someone operating water equipment while intoxicated opposed to a disabled caregiver supervising a 4 and 5 year old boy in the pool. I would insist, if I were Tameka that anyone in contact with those boys as caregiver, have CPR training and a Child development certificate AND a toxicology screen to see what drugs they are on.
Hey Noxema? If you really are a father like you claim you are I feel sorry for your children. You’re a sorry excuse for a man so clearly you’re a piss poor excuse for a father. My 16 year old nephew expresses himself more maturely than you do.
In my Regina King voice:
Sorry Ass Nigga.
I’m glad someone else noticed that she’s mentally unstable. Usher’s lawyer brought up her mental evaluation report, which is probably why she doesn’t have the kids.
AMEN!!!
Tameka humiliated her self by wanting this to be public, by posting pictures to her Instagram page and talking about her business on twitter. She makes these things public on her own, what she should be doing is making sure her baby gets well and be strong for him and stay off of these media sites telling her business.
Exactly man. If it was the other baby daddies, we would never hear about it. Most men get their lives destroyed in these american court systems so its interesting to see a black male win.
You are extremely short sighted. There are two black children (both males) who are losing if Tameka’s claims are true, one of them being that he has favoritism in court which causes them to go back to a caretaker who is not equipped to love them or even treat them the way a 21st century mother who isn’t into whippings for small or nonexistent infractions would. Missing out on time with one parent unnecessarily and being subject to abuse is not good for two black males in this scenario. It’s a shame you can’t see past your gender to put the children first, looking at what they would have to deal with and then seeing the situation objectively for each parent from that point on.
During the custody hearing he was a proven cheater and liar during the marriage being a GD DOES not make u unfit. As a caseworker I saw no reason to remove the children from their mother… Also when does this dude have time to actually care for these children??? O I no when it´s press time. People speaking of timing it was an open window there r emergency hearings all the time when one parent perceives negligence… Family court is messy…
She was found unfit due to her finances!
Then I reckon I, as well as all of my friends, should be deemed as unfit moms too if having jacked up finances is all it takes to get your kids took!
Now you said that!
learning……
Well shit! If that was the case, Sheree whitfields kids should be orphans and that air mattress would have sealed the deal!
lol
DEAD!!!
IN MY ON OPINIOIN…I do feel that Usher is being spiteful by not telling Tameka things concerning the boys. They’ve been going at it for nearly 3 yrs now and as we know a lot came out last year and it got real nasty. He may just not want to be bothered with her bcuz I’m sure she use to give him hell b4 bcuz she’s snapped on twitter so I can only imagine what he’s gotten from her. I can understand not wanting to hear someone’s mouth especially when I KNOW I don’t have to bcuz bottom line he doesn’t have to bcuz he was given full control of their lives basically, but there is no harm in making sure that ur children speak with their mother once a day, and that she knows who her children are with and how to contact them. I do feel when aunt rena got off the phone with usher she should have been instructed to contact tameka. Usher wasn’t there so of course he wouldn’t have know fully what happened so what rena told usher she should have called tameka right after and told her. Yes I also feel that when usher is away as in out of town then yes of course the boys should be with their mother. Why not? They go to be with her 10 days out of the month anyway. If he is working outside of of atlanta then there is no harm in letting them bond more with their mother. I understand they have had crazy beef in the past but they also have had love which created 2 lives and they need to find a lil bit of that love so they can raise these boys together and stop bashing the other trying to take them away completely. Get past your own feelings of each other and think about those boys only. After all yall decided to have children together so raise them together and stop letting the courts tell u how u should do it….crazy
Agrees with everything you said.
I would agree with what you said if Tameka wasn’t such a Bitch at first. You can’t try to tarnish somebodies name, a celebrity at that, fight for a extreme amount of child support and full custody of the kids, and when you lose except that same person to show you favor by keeping you in the loop, that only happens when everything ended civilized.
And I just want to know and I’m not being insensitive or anything bcuz only God knows what tameka is going thru or has gone thru but u would think as hard as she was appearing to cry that her face would look like a fountain but even on a close up of the pic above with her boo hooing I didn’t see not one tear. Now last yr when ush cried it was said to be fake bcuz he wanted sympathy but there was tears. She’s bawling and not one tear. @atlien u over looked that tho bcuz it wasn’t usher right?
I couldn’t see tears on either of them because the view was too far away. I bet people at my father’s funeral sitting in the back couldn’t see actual tears on my face, but the ones sitting next to me could.
@STL Chick….Yeah, but u probably didn’t have camera’s gettn close up shots of ur face at that funeral either…..had there been camera’s geetn those close up’s i’m SURE somebody would have seen at least one tear actually fall from ur eyes…..ya’ll Tamea stans are in serious denial…..
There were no tears.. we all see it…
Actually if you look at the video from when Usher was on the stand (during the actual trial) he was extremely emotional, angry, wiping his face, making ugly faces AND you cant see any tears either. I guess they are a match made in Heaven OR how about that isn’t something that we could see on the video…hell if Tameka was faking Usher certainly was.
Said the Usher stan. I guess we’re both hypocrites then.
Not one camera was up in that woman’s face. Plus, didn’t she have her damn head down.
Sugar’s bad for your teeth…you might wanna put that glass of Kool-Aid down.
@ STL Chick….both you & Vay make irrelevant points like most bitter, irrational women tend 2 do….and sorry, but I don’t drink Kool-Aid or any other "ghetto juice" that ends in "aid" even though I’m sure YOU do…..and I visit my dentist regularly sweetie…..
Im glad that the little boys get to stay with their father. They need to be with him so that will be raised with the tools that need to become men. Mothers are making their boys become to soft by babying them too much.
Are u serious? Usher has no time for them. And he is going around with so many women. Do kids need to see that? Un the end its better for them to be baby-ed then to be exposed to his nonsense lifestyle.
"Do kids need to see that?"
Male kids do.
No they don’t. What they need to see is stable relationships and it is obvious that Usher has mommy issues, because it is manifest in his relationships. All the women he dates are older than he … not that it is bad, it is what it is and then he sneaks around with other women. A real man would tell a woman I don’t want to be tied down, just want to kick it and then MAKE SURE YOU DON’T PROCREATE. It is not rocket science.
Thank you Voice…I see what’s wrong with our young males today; poor role models.
And you sir Carlos Harris, sound like a true jackass with that statement "mothers are making their boys become too soft."
Please have a stadium of seats and kindly STFU!
Carlos is right though. You chicks have no clue was advise to give a black male child. Most of these gay dudes and soft niggas who refuse to work are products of your feminine advise and thought process. Little girls should be with their moms, young boys SHOULD not.
BULLSHIT! I have a very well rounded advanced 2 year old that gets plenty of parenting from his Dad and just as much from me. My child can tell you his full name, speak in complete sentences, say his ABC’s, count to 50, can tell you who the President is, knows his shapes, his colors, he is loving, rough, compassionate, protective, tells me how pretty I am and gives his dad high-fives all at the same time and has NEVER gone to a daycare or school environment. KIDS (boys are girls) were created to have a mother and a father WE are the ones that try to change society and have the "My child will be fine without his father/mother" BULLSHIT!!! My SON NEEDS me just as much as he needs his dad and while I do believe there will be a time where my husband can and will show him things that I know nothing about he will ALWAYS know how to LOVE and respect GOD, his parents, himself and the people around him. I will make sure of that. Let me also add that I have two Bonus kids 10 (boy) and 18 year old (daughter) who are all very well rounded kids with 2 mothers and a father. We do this ALL together….parties, graduation, college prep, back to school, holidays etc Our kids know that they can always count on their MOTHERS and Father and that is what really matters. It’s sad that we aren’t the norm…but if people would just drop the ego and focus on the kids it can. I will NEVER respect a man or a woman who take their kids away from the other parent with no justification. If he/she was good enough to lay with then you man-up/woman-up and deal with the reality.
People need to grow the hell up
Sooooo, what you’re saying is to be a hard man or just a man one needs to have multiple women, huhm, play football or a contact sport and then have their dads and uncles and other male relatives pat one on the back, smile with pride in their eyes and tell them that’s what a man is? So, what happens to all of the responsibilities that go with making any decision in life? How you handle your business, to me, is what defines a dude as a man and yes, some men, straight men as well, are soft spoken, easy going and could care less about the Falcons or Greenbay or the Nets.
People are funny in how and what they give value to. Soft or gay men don’t have value unless they’re fixing hair. O,not saying that all gay dudes are soft.
Dana T.
Usher was smug because he knew that the case was in the bag for him.
Most people may dislike Meek! Meek! The bottom line is I didn’t hear anything that made her an "unfit" parent.
What is the real deal with this situation? It’s like he trying to break her down… (sigh! Shakes head!)
The judges in the Atl…Ion know! That is all I’m gonna say about that.
Lighten the mood up: I tell ya! The older Usher gets the more he look like Ben Vareen…
They don’t like her because Ushers team has mad sure they don’t! TMZ has got to be on Ushers payroll because they post about them both but I’ve noticed that they take things out if context just to make Tameka look bad and Usher look good. He has a lot if mouths defendant on him so everyone is "invested" in his image being perfect. The world at large reads the lies and believe the worst about Tameka because that’s what Ushers team is there for. To protect the label’s investment. Tameka is just a casualty of the business. Sad but true. Pay attention to what TMZ has been posting. This could be a case study or training manual for the next up and coming Olivia Pope.
Defendant = dependant
I was typing from my iPad so please forgive the typos!
Totally 100% agree with this. I haven’t been following their story closely simply because it’s a real headache trying to figure out why these boys are not with their mother. Why in the HELL ARE THESE CHILDREN UNDER 12 IN AN ADULT SIZED POOL ANYWAY?? Usher is not a stay at home dad. This dude is a jet setter, he has no time for raising children. This is a simple case of Money Talks and Bullshit Walks. These judges are on a payroll check signed by Usher LLC.
"It’s like he trying to break her down" Ain’t she the 1 who keep dragging him to court?
Judges take a look at the REAL evidence and not what the media tells us and base their decisions that way. Judges will ALWAYS reward the mother custody of the kids unless the mother has issues.
NO sissy he is the one that initiated the original court situation . keep up fruit cake
NO bull dagger, she the one who has taken him to court 6 times and has had 9 different lawyers. Keep it up carpet muncher.
I don´t doubt that she has real concerns and that she loves her children, but I saw the video and she sounded like a whack job. She did not present very well at all. Ijs.
The main reason people are saying they don’t know why the kids were taken away from her is because you aren’t assigned to work on the case! It doesn’t matter what your "profession" is, or what you’ve seen happen to other people. You’re not either one’s attorney, & you’re not the judges, so how would you know what’s really going on? Tameka doesn’t even have her other minor children from what I’ve read, so why isn’t she trying to get them? Why doesn’t she have them in the first place? And just because Usher wasn’t at home when this accident happened, doesn’t make him a bad parent. Apparently he wasn’t too far if he was able to make it home before the ambulance even left the house! I’m not team anyone, because really all this going on is NO ONE’S business but the parties involved. And I do agree that Tameka should stop with the social media crap. Granted I’m sorry she lost a child, but getting online to instagram a photo of you holding your son after he nearly drowned isn’t making your "case" look any better. Focus on HIM not on your "fans" on twitter & instagram.
I find it funny that even though Tameka relinquished custody of her older sons, this is ignored by all of the Usher haters. Had it been a man who did that yet was fighting @ every opportunity to gain custody of his younger children by a wealthy entertainer, he would be called all sorts of names. Regardless of what custody arrangement was in place with the 1st husband, she chose to give up her custodial rights to be with Usher.
And what does either of their marital infidelity have to do with raising their children? As long as he wasn’t running women in, out and all around the kids & their home, who cares?
Aso a man who has both gone through custody hearings of his own & thise of family members, in more times than not, the courts favor the mothers. I can name 1 man that was awarded custody over the mother, my brother. So all of tis screaming about how the courts in Atlanta are unfair to women & mothers is straight b. s. And saying he won because of his money & fame is completely ignoring the fact that entertainers & athletes always lose custody cases in GA. Usher is one of the few men that had things go in his favor.
The both of you are clueless in this. Have you even heard of the phrase, "Joint Custody?" Which side is really hating?
Your side, she didn’t file for emergency custody of her oldest son when her son Kile died, but she files for emergency custody of ushers kids.
Bammadude, your name suits you. I am resolved to the fact that you are a stan stuck on the same broken record.
Reading is fundamental.
Mama was right…common sense ain’t so common.
STLChick, your name suits you as well (Stupid Trick for Life Chick). I am resolved to the fact that you are a stan of Tameka with the same bias responses.
Reading IS fundamental, try it.
Your mom was a slut so who really takes her serious?
Yo daddy, who sucked her pussy for many years and is still stalking her.
At least you were able to post coherent message…of course duplicating mine was a big help lol
Bet his vagina is bigger than mine lol
You’re such a loser. You don’t know how to play basketball or something? You’re engaging in a mostly feminine activity right now…you DO know that, right?
2bme, I think I have a stalker as well. Bet my dick is bigger than his
Now that you mention it, he did speak of this sour pussy bitch he had an affair with. He said she was easy, but she has that sour pussy smell so he had to fuk her nasty ass in a pool or outside to air that infected monkey out.
Bitch, only person who stalking you is all them niggas and bitches you passed your aids to. You know you was cold for that one, suppose to tell them you infected before fucking with them.
I play basketball Saturday mornings and today while the family at church, I get on here and state a couple of MY OPINIONS. Now when dike ass tricks like you try to respond, I respond back. U mad? LOL
Your dick probably is bigger than mines, you bought yours from the store, mines real. LMAO
Bitch, only person who stalking you is all them niggas and bitches you passed your aids to. You know you was cold for that one, suppose to tell them you infected before fucking with them.
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Yet another comment that makes no sense. Do you kiss your I-decided-to-settle-so-I-married-this-loser with that mouth? And you know damn well your daddy didn’t say that because you don’t even know who the fuck your daddy is!
Sound like your stupid ass need to sit in on a sermon or two yourself. Don’t get mad because you look utterly ridiculous with your ignorant, non spelling ass. Mines? Really? You’re probably married to a Becky that let you lay up on the couch all damn day playing with an X box or blogging.
The fact that you even have dildo’s in your mental vocabulary confirms that your ass is batting for the same team.
The closet door is open, George Michael. Come on through.
ahhh welcome to Stalker life sis! LMAO
Yet another comment that makes no sense. Do you kiss your I-decided-to-settle-so-I-married-this-loser with that mouth? And you know damn well your daddy didn’t say that because you don’t even know who the fuck your daddy is!
Sound like your stupid ass need to sit in on a sermon or two yourself. Don’t get mad because you look utterly ridiculous with your ignorant, non spelling ass. Mines? Really? You’re probably married to a Becky that let you lay up on the couch all damn day playing with an X box or blogging.
The fact that you even have dildo’s in your mental vocabulary confirms that your ass is batting for the same team.
The closet door is open, George Michael. Come on through.
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I see you still on my wife marrying me cux no man will marry you so you decided to get that infected box ate by a woman, I feel ya. Bitch, this a online blog, I spell and type how I want and yo dumb ass gon read every word of it to you stupid cunt. LMAO. Who said anything about a dildo, just told on ya self you silly dike bitch. Mind always in the gutter. Typical bitter black bitch you are, bash every black man and stick up for the black tricks even when they in the wrong, well you can bash me bitch, cux im gon bash yo dumb ass back. Lmao. Im making myself look an utter ridiculous idiot, bitch, don’t nobody kno who I am on here and yo dumbass talking to me so what that make you. Silly Bitch tricks are for kids and sluts like you. Lmao.
Ok, joint custody means 1 parent is the custodial parent and the other parent get some visitation. This may have been her case, but she chose to give her sons to her ex to be with Usher. So he now has full custody, not her.
And where was her concern for her sons when she flew down to Brazil and had that life endangering plastic surgery???
The word is "Dyke" you stupid muthafucka!
Dyke
Dyke
Dyke!!
Just ask the prostitute you lost your virginity to.
Your stupid ass brought up dildos when you said your little 2-in dick was real and mine was fake. A fake penis is what?
Ding ding ding! Welcome to sex 101. I see why your wife is fuckin’ your best friend. Such a fuckin moron!
Preach!
I think the justice system is being very unfair to her as a mother. I watched and she had some very good and valid concerns. Like never knowing where her kids are and how to contact them. He does not respond to her emails and as co-parents all u can do is emails that´s unacceptable!!!!!
They not co-parenting, he has FULL CUSTODY. You keep trying to extort money out of me and dragging me to court every month and I wouldn’t interact with you neither.
Would you stop running from comment to comment not knowing what the hell you are talking about?! Usher has primary and he still has an obligation until the Courts say different. Damn hater
THANK YOU MARIE!!! Saying the same damn thing without a clue to first.
"she didn’t take ryan back to court"
"she didn’t take ryan back to court"
"she didn’t take ryan back to court"
SHE DIDN’T HAVE TO!!
OMG I’m dying right now! hahaha
BITCH, I can run to wat eva comment I want hoe. He aint under obligation of courts to do nothing, if he was, the sue happy slut with 9 different attorneys would have sued again for contempt. So know what your talking because of what again?
@ STLChick (Stupid Trick for Life Chick): She could have took ole boy to court for FULL custody if she was so concerned about her son safety. She wasn’t, she realized it was a accident and he can’t pay her six figure child support. She RAN to the court within 24 HOURS and filed for FULL Temporary custody of her money makers!!!
@ 2bme: Yes, die hoe. You need help?
Bammadude, I’m going to take a stab in the dark…are you angry?
Having your period?
Experiencing a "not so fresh" moment?
@ STLChick (Stupid Trick for Life Chick): You really shouldn’t be talking about not so fresh moments when that hoe you call mom walking around town smelling like onions and vinegar during the winter town fully clothe. LMAO
You’re too stupid to realize you’re stupid, aren’t you?
Poor black Liberace.
Bammabitch you ARE an adolescent child and the way you act i’m sure you are a female of what species I have yet to determine..You broads are silly..you get on here trying to be tough, for what? WHAT are you going to do to ANYONE in here..absolutely nothing..simple punk ass probably got your ass beat daily by the neighborhood idiot..This makes you an adult? This makes YOU a man (lies) no this makes you a fool..no life having riding hard on anyone because YOU THINK no one can get to you..sorry ass indeed with an extremely limited vocabulary..This blog makes you feel important..I won’t take that way from you..everyone needs SOMETHING to get them through their pitiful ass life…
@ STLChick (Stupid Trick for Life Chick): If Im stupid and you talking to me, what that make you, a dumb ass bitch? Lmao
@ 2be/a/hoe/like/me: You are a trick ass bitch. Yo mammy a trick ass bitch. Yo grand mammy a trick ass bitch. Yo daughter will be a trick ass bitch just like all the "ladies" in her family, especially her sorry ass mammy. Bitch, if Im the internet tough guy, you the internet tough cunt. Now suk my dick you trick ass bitch and die
You’re under the age of 21 THIS is obvious..there is a difference between baby mama and wife..I doubt you have either because if you ARE male(can’t call you a man)the way you ride for Usher shows that you are GAY and a piss poor gay male at that..no REAL man (gay or straight) would go after anyone this way co signing on a person they didn’t even know..you are the epitome of a joke and you’re too stupid and ignorant to know it..a complete waste of life..your braincells are lacking..fetal alcohol syndrome? Crack baby? Third trimester attempted abortion? SOMETHING is mentally wrong with you…
@ 2be/a/hoe/like/me: You would be wrong again like you been all night you stupid trick dike ass bitch. Im actually 33, Lmao. No crush on a man, just defending him as a man against what black men have to go through with the typical bitter black angry scorn gold digging "woman." You mad cux Tameka remind you so much of your self, black, ugly, broke, and bitter? Lmao. Finish sucking that hairy pussy u bitch so yo girl friend want kick yo broke ass out tonight. Something was mentally wrong with that whore u call moms which is why ya pappy skeeted and deleted that hoe and they created yo dumb ass. LMAO
I’ve never met anyone over the age of 25 this childish let alone 33..you’re a liar and it’s pathetic..smh
@ STLChick (Stupid Trick for Life Chick): If Im stupid and you talking to me, what that make you, a dumb ass bitch? Lmao
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A person big on charity work. Or maybe I’m reveling in the fact of having a stalker. And I’m not "talking" to you…I’m on a laptop genius.
O her finances makes her a bad mom bs!! Marry rich n try to divorce rich n try to get full custody of the kids it´s bout his doe truss… Medium income peeps go to court er day in custody cases n if the mother has not dun anything to destroy the marriage n the man the man breaks up of the marriage she wins.. What´s wrong with joint custody? Also in medium income families wen the woman wins the man has to pay equally for the children´s welfare.. No love fa dis dude…
I do feel for Tameka as a mother myself. I do feel like she was a dodger.. This is just my opinion when she was asked about usher being at the hospital she commented "HE WASN’T THERE I DIDN’T SEE HIM".She was there for how many days and he never showed??Hmm these boys come to your House with rashes and bags of medicine.But you were asked again and you say they were fine when you go to pick them up…. I’m confused what’s really going on here.She seems concerned about them but something is off. She talks wow in circles. There was a reason why he does not give her much info on the boys. We all dont know im sure he has his reasons.They both love their children very much and I do feel that a mother can teach a child alot of things that a father can’t. I think that’s why he has his mother grandmother and aunt there.These are all woman that are mothers and they taught him so im sure he wouldn’t put the boys with people he does not trust. She didn’t need to know if the girlfriend stayed there that’s his house. The girlfriend has nothing to do with this case. The instagram photos were not a good look it makes it look like you want attention.Then you lie on twitter saying "BET" was spreading rumors about you ..what are you talking about.I feel she was hugged by usher because bbw doesn’t want to see her hurt… But usher knows her there was something behind that hug that noone will understand but them both. Tameka keep your head up and take care of yourself. No matter what im still a huge fan of usher #teamusher
Tameka should know where her children are and Usher knows he’s wrong for that.If the shoe were on the other foot Usher knows damn well he would have had SWAT, National Guard and who knows what bursting through the doors if he couldn’t reach those kids.
I’m not feeling the "lightning doesn’t strike twice" response as if the same wouldn’t have happened in her care, we have no way of knowing that..Tameka is no saint and neither is Usher..what we can all agree on is that they love their children fiercely…
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LMAO!
I agree she should know where her children are, but not at all times. With joint custody I can see that, but when one parent is awarded guardianship of the kids the other parent is awarded visitation rights a lot is lost to that other parent.
I can see his position in this matter because it was how I was raised. My mother didn’t notify our father on our location every time we went somewhere or was in care of another family member. If she was going out of town she would, but if she was going out for a night on the town no she wouldn’t.
According to the court documents he is suppose to send her a weekly email with detailed information on where thee kids are, activities for the week, who will have them, contact info etc. Clearly he lied in court since that is not being done.
One or two things happened either he feels she doesn’t have a right to know anything or she was becoming a nuisance in calling and trying to obtain information..To be honest it’s probably both IMO..I know when the kids are with her she is required to Skype so he can talk to them..that hasn’t been mentioned if he’s doing the same..He could be skyping and when she asks where they are and what they are doing they can’t honestly tell her..also in regards to the school being an hour away, how was she made aware of that? There are too many holes…
Thankfully the Judge set him straight then
He won the case, how the Judge set him straight? He still aint gon answer her calls. U mad?
There is always a sissy in the bunch with a NASTY lace front glued on so tight dont be mad at us be mad at the person who jacked you up. No REAL man would ever come at women like this…rainbow colors and unicorns to you sweetness.
If you want an answer to your stupid question check the video above where the JUDGE set Usher straight on his lack of communication with Tameka. Fruit loop faggot.
@ maria-has-aids: There is always 1 bitter black bitch who men dogged out all her life which resorted to her hating herself secretly and taking it out on the customers in Wal-Mart. Lmao. No real man would talk to a WOMAN like that, point me in the direction of the woman please cux I thought I was talking to a BITCH.
I saw the video bull dagger, the Judge scowled him, but Usher still won the case and the Judge gave him his opinion on how he should handle it in the future you dumb ass pussy licking bitch. He still aint gon return her calls, u mad u silly trick dike bitch?
Marie ROTFLMMFAO!!!
And she should be able to call and talk to them whenever she wants. If it were me, my kids would have cell phones.
The mishandling of her finances and the Gold Digging, which she is motivated by Is her downfall. Sure loves her kids but look at her track record. Her marriages ended because she cheats, her marriage from the CNN executive, she cheated on him not only with Usher but also with Falcon ballplayer. You get what you put out, if she was a man no one would be saying anything on Mr.Tameka Raymond.
I cried with Tameka! Usher is just being selfish! If he is on the road, why can’t the kids be with their mother? No grandma or sick aunt should take priority over their mother! Usher is a prick!!!
was he on the road or was he just out? because he came right back.
awww poor lady
this woman has clearly lost her d@mn mind. your kid is in the hospital & you sitting up in court? really? this was not the time to drag someone into court. wth was she thinking? I feel really embarrassed for her. usher probably does too. that’s prob why he gave her a hug. smfh
Tameka lost her kids over a saks card….tameka lost her kids because usher moved on and she could not handle it.Usher may have been a horrible husband but that dies not make him a bad father point blank period. Tameka does not have custody of any of her child …why isnt she fighting for her other kids especially after her son passed in his fathers care..sad to say but accidents do happen rather with mom or dad or in the presence of care givers. I personally donot think shes unfit per sa…. but I do think she has a few screws loose…
Tameka’s oldest son is grown, Tameka has joint custody with Ryan Sr….stop the lies.
I feel like usher doesn’t want the drama of what Tameka can bring–that’s why he doesnt give her info. When she did have info, she spit at his gf, would show up unannounced to cause strife, etc. Who needs that? and according to TMZ, Tameka is still getting $8K in child support from Usher. Why when she doesn’t even have primary custody? I dont care how rich Usher is, who gets child support for kids they dont even have in their care? That’s free money right there!! Tameka should stop posting picture of Cinco in the hospital on instagram–it looks so opportunistic. She can just post a note.."Hey Cinco doing fine, thanks for all your prayers" etc.
Usher brought that Grace drama to TAMEKA’S domain. Usher may own the house, but LIKE ALL DIVORCED COUPLES
I see I’m gonna have to call AT&T and bitch them out about my connection again.
Like all divorced couples the mother kept physical possession of the house.
Well, MOST divorced couples…times are a changin’.
It’s over for now, but her attorney did a piss poor job. She should’ve brought the maid to the stand. I’m sure the "maid" would look a lot like Grace. See how Usher and Aunt Belch skirted around the question of who all was at the house? That’s because the divorce decree says no overnight guest outside of marriage. Poor Grace. Called a manager and a maid all in one hearing lol
Yeah her attorneys aren’t worth squat and she better build a better case because if she doesn’t win again, I have a feeling she will get dropped and only legal aid will be at her beck and call..you cannot allow emotions to run you in a courtroom..PERIOD..stick with the facts and nail his ass..if not sit back, because you’re making yourself look pathetic and unstable in the courts eyes. She’s already on their shit list behind attempting to recuse the last judge..all these judges talk..many are friends for YEARS..that was NOT a smart move..the only thing that can save Tameka is evidence so sound that they have no choice but to reverse the custodial agreement..and Usher needs to learn to lie better…
This is total and complete bullshit! No way in hell she shouldn’t be able to get those kids back! How is it fair that an aunt has first rights to those kids??
Tameka is always calling usher a media seeking attention whore but tameka posting pics on instagram of the baby and replying to tweets when as devastated and over it as she seemed yesterday I would think twitter and instagram would not even be a thought. She wants the attention just as much as she claims usher wants it. With all that’s going on why is replying to folk on twitter a priority at this time? I’m beginning to believe that’s why it always back fire on her. She didn’t post pics of kile or herself in the hospital with him bcuz there was nothing to gain but she’s quick to post a pic of lil usher. Yes i understand kiles situation was more severe but still she kept her time with him private as she should with lil usher but no she wants us all up in the hospital room with her while she’s there with him. Things just seem fishy to me about her intentions just as much as she tries to get the public to think the same thing about usher.
Kile was unconscious WHY in the hell would she post that.?! This child is alive and has been in the media since birth there is a difference. Your comment seems fishy lol
Your pussy smells fishy u bitch. Lmao
That’s your mama you smelling Sissy.
She didn’t have to post pics of him. It coulda been ballons or herself just like she did with lil usher but bottom line she kept it very private only posting to pray for kyle but 2 days after this terrible accident shes sees the need to be on twitter and instagram. The world new him just like they do ushers kids thats why kiles accident got so much media attention and when that happened she was just where she is now in the middle of a custody battle but still she kept it private so no there is no difference.
Just because Tamika is not in court fighting for her kids that she had with ex-hubby Glover. She still is a good mother. Both parties have flaws. But, think about.She was never proved to be unfit. I truly feel usher wanted custody to keep from paying child support. But that failed, now his plan is to see Tamika does not get any money since he got full custody. I also think Ushers mother is telling him which move to make since she never liked Tamika.
would you like to pay somebody money for you to keep your own kids?
I have a couple of questions.
Now, why don’t she have custody of the boys???
Did she fight this much to attain custody of the other kids from the first dude???
Don’t get me wrong, I really like Tomeka but I don’t think a lot of y’all are being fare about this situation. Usually, the courts don’t appoint the father to have custody before the mother unless it’s something going on.
Usher dude, don’t let these folks make you feel any kinda way negative. They’re saying, Usher wasn’t at home, not sure what that has to do with anything but I’m guessing people think you’re some kind of super hero and you could have done something to prevent what happened.
Again, all of the children could be riding in the Range Rover with Tomeka and something could happen that she can’t control. so what would be the difference?
Dana T.
Usher is a sac of shyte. Tormenting this woman by not allowing her to care for her son after this incident. He and his so called care givers were negligent. No adult supervision while the kids are in and around the pool, it could have been two children in the pool drowning.
I don’t get it wasn’t maid= Grace and Aunt = Reina in the house? Reina called first he didn’t answer but did when Grace called am i correct?
By the way does anyone know why Usher has moved to a new house he is now renting? He already had a house in ATL from my understanding when he did the Oprah interview last year.
1. How is this accessible to the public?Did the judge not make this a closed hearing?
2. Side eye Tameka, now I understand why you had to make moves so quickly as to not have the boys return to ushers care once lil usher was released,but suing only 24 hours later???
3. Just my observation but I don’t think those words he spoke during that hug were"soft." Either way, she wasn’t trying to hear it.
4. While being on the stand does come with a certain amount of pressure, usher couldn’t keep up with his story/lies.
5. They were both terrified for their son, even more so Tameka and understandably so.
6. Any mom deserves to be accessible to their children’s every single move in her absence.
7. The love is still there but is being masked by power, greed & resentment
8. He obviously ignored Aunt Reina call, but accepted Grace’s…..side eye,always pick up for the person who has your kids.Even if it’s Tameka.
9. Maybe they should try sexin the resentment away? So much tension…..
"6. Any mom deserves to be accessible to their children’s every single move in her absence."
Does this also apply to when children are away from the father, or do fathers not count????
Usher is such a douche bag he needs to find Kanye west and they need to hang out together. celebrities should not let us normal people the ones who support their stupid a** in to thier private lives. After seeing some of these celebs on TV I have personally stoped supporting Keisha Cole and her funky attitude,Kelly(tella tubie) Price and her funky attitude and all of the Basketball wives and that whole basketball wives franchise esp..Shawnee,evelyn, tammi(the bullie).
Accidents happen why did this end up back in court? I think Tameka saw an opening & jumped at it to quick.
Sigh…yall can ignore that hug if ya want to but I am NOT! lol Before the case started TMZ was airing live Usher and Tameka sitting in the court room. Usher kept glancing over in her direction …Tameka not so much.
Here are some observations from this situation…
Aunt ReRe is a liar…by no means do I believe that she jumped in that pool. I believe the person who observed her in dry clothes especially since it appears it was one of the EMT people.
Aunt ReRe’s mama telling her about CPR does NOT qualify as a CPR certification course.
Aunt ReRe’s tone with Nav on the 911 call is disturbing.
Maid that was at the house= Grace
Usher RENTING a house is suspect. He clearly is waiting until the Aug 27th court date is over to "win" so that he can relocate these boys. I believe he is trying to go out of state with them.
Usher referring to Tameka as Mrs. Raymond (over and over) her Attorney even had to correct herself from saying it when she was repeating him. Gracie-pooh better watch out! lol
Tameka and her Attorney need to ask for a continuance and NOT go to court at this time. Give him time and enough rope to hang himself. He has something up his sleeve…
Tameka is starting to lose all respect from the courts. The judge wanted nothing to do with the case and if he is the one that will be there on the next court date she is in trouble. I think she need to stop all this court drama and focus on herself and her kids. Cherish the time that she has with them and let the chips fall where they may…for now.
Tameka really made me mad on the stand when she started crying. Get it together ma’am! Clearly her being emotional was very disturbing to the Judge.
Tameka’s legal team is questionable. Blondie was getting eaten alive by Usher’s attorney and the Judge. I find it odd that the other Attorney never spoke…could she have possibly known that Tameka didn’t have a valid case.
Why was Tameka taking notes as if she was the Attorney
It’s clear that Tameka adores her kids but I can honestly understand Usher not wanting to call her until he knew that this wasn’t going to be a in and out ER visit. Tameka is a loose cannon and aint nobody got time for that. I hope the ONLY reason why Usher has not been up there to see his son is to keep the peace and not have their son in that environment.
I believe that Tameka THINKS that the anger she feels towards Usher is hate…nope it’s hurt…deep pain from all of the BS though the years and until she starts the healing process she will not be able to deal with him and co-parent the way that they should be able to. I believe Usher made promises to her that even he couldn’t live up to…and not everything that he does or doesn’t do is under a microscope.
I think Usher wants the world to believe that he wants nothing to do with Tameka…I aint buying it. I don’t think that he would ever want to be in a relationship with her but when she cut off "access" (after the marriage) his ego was destroyed. Get over it Usher! Tameka is hurt and I actually think that he did the best thing for the both of them…held her and apologized. Now initially I thought he was doing it for the cameras but after seeing the close up video I am not so sure about that… wonder how Grace felt about that…it was not your normal hug. He also kept apologizing until she looked him in his eyes…I hope this is a start of BOTH of them healing and moving forward as parents.
The looks on both of their Attorneys faces when they embraced= priceless "damn…don’t make up we like that Raymond money"
Well damn hooker..that was a mouth full,lol..missed ya and I agree with alot of points..its taking the tragedy to hit closer to home for Usher to be less of an asshole
I agree. Welcome back, VAY!
Missed yall to!! But Lord knows I don’t miss these fools coming on here acting crazy…when is school back in?! *Operation we will run yo ass right on up out of here in full effect!! lol
Right! I blame Lil Wayne for this bullshit! lol..Got these gremlins trying to be bold..throw some big words their way..running like roaches when the lights come on…
Preach Vay! I totally agree….
damn that was long…see what happens when I don’t post much I have a lot to say. lol
*waving* Welcome back @Vay! I missed you
Hey mama!!!!! Missed you to. I am so out of the loop but can always count on you to give it to us straight! Muah! Oh and I have seen those pics on IG…Looking mighty fine!
I can’t believe all of the hatred and dislike for Usher having custody of his kids. As much as women complain about men not being there to help raise the kids or they just simply disappear he’s a liar and a dog etc. Hell she gone lie to get them and he gone lie to keep them. You have a man who wants his boys and he’s a bitch for taking them no he has just as much of a right to have full custody as she does. Yall are stuck in the past were mothers automatically got full custody after a divorce no matter her circumstances. I don’t care what happened during their marriage and if he cheated oh well the marriage is over and that is no longer a subject only the mental, emotional, and safety of the kids matter. So what he wasn’t home damn is he not suppose to go anywhere without them. He can’t run to the store, go to his mother’s, a friend’s house, a party every now and then, or go have dinner? He’s an entertainer that’s how he makes his money and if he don’t work she don’t get shit and them boys don’t get taken care of. She knew this before they got married and had kids. So which way yall wanna play it? So if it was his mother that was watching them and the accident still happened then his mother would’ve been unfit too right? Or better yet if this wouldve happened with her that means she is unfit to spend time with her kids? Accidents happen and kids will run off from you quick fast and in a hurry. His aunt is fine she may not be able to lift consistently or whatever but she fit to watch them. Yall act like the lady was doing drugs or something and said oh well. Accidents happen everyday all day with children and people in general. She and everybody else is worried about the wrong things. Thank God the baby is alive and pray he has no significant brain damage. Get ya ass off the damn internet and be concerned about him. Other than that this is some bs.
I have yet to read anyone say that Usher shouldn’t have some form of custody. I think the point is she was not proven to be unfit to lose her joint rights that she had. It is great that he wants to be a full-time father but she also deserves the right to be a full-time mother and with joint custody they could achieve that. Also when he travels and the kids are with him why shouldn’t they be with their mother? Usher is not being wise.
Also if the Aunt cant list beyond 20 pounds I wouldn’t want her to keep my kids either…hell my 2 year old weighs 30 pounds. Because while accidents do happen and I believe this was really one of them had those men NOT been there this would have been a total different outcome since she couldn’t lift him out of the water…so no she is not "fit" to watch them alone.
Even with joint custody, one would be the primary parent while the other is the non custodial parent, and thus would not be a full-time parent. Even in a 50%/50% agreement, neither parent is caring for the children 100% of the time, and if Tameka is not working, who is supporting the children 100% of the time?
While I agree that they need to find a way to coparent, for the sake of the boys, until that is done, Usher is the custodial parent, and he is under no obligation to let her know every move/decision he makes for the boys.
Actually he is obligated to do so…they both are. When the kids are with her she is to send him an email with the activities planned, who will take them etc and he is REQUIRED to do the same. He is to also make sure that she can have access to the boys via phone etc when they are with him. Check the court docs boo boo…
Exactly!!! SMH @ people who automatically think the mother should have custody. The best parent should have custody.
I think mothers should Always have their daughters, but lil dudes? Naw man…Its just too much game a mother cant and want pass on boys that older man need to. Even if the woman makes more money do to corporate american standards boys should come up with their dad if the parents are not together. Too many women raising boys and I think that is wrong. Now we have a man with his male offspring and people are saying the mom should have them? Thats kinda lame.
There are women caring for those boys when he travels, it is not like he has Mr. French. If there are going to be with a women when he travels, then why not their own mother. They are in the same state.
You are 100% correct, I’m not saying he shouldn’t..if he is the better parent than by all means..however, this whole case is fishy on both sides..but we aren’t them and we aren’t there..we will never know the whole truth
THANK YOU!!! I am not one to bash women, but DAMN!!! There are a lot of bitter-ass females in here!!! Your post is one of the few by a woman (I am assuming that you are female with a name like "Beautifulone") actually seeing how fathers have just as much right to raise their children as mothers.
I dont even like ushers ex, but now i feel bad for her. She lost a child and now this, that is too much. Usher is being very insincere, and he is double talking. He took the kids for spite, that is not in the best interest of his sons. I would think after something this scary he would realize he is only human, but no not yet. For now he is protected by "suits" but what goes around comes around. TRUST it wont always be this way. Hope they chill for the kids, as these boys get older they are going to know whats up. No one is getting the parent of the year award.
those bracelets are security measures and say that they are that child’s parents. It doesn’t say I was at or staying at he hospital.
Exactly. But when you have a one-track mind…
This is all so very very very sad. I watched the custody hearing live and this is so tragic for their boys. I really don’t understand at all how it could turn out this ugly. I really feel for these boys. As a parent I also feel bad for Tameka knowing the fact the woman Usher cheated with is spending more time with the boys than Tameka is allowed. This is f**** up in my opinion. When Usher is away on work it makes no sense to me caregivers or nannies should step in 85% of the time. It is so clear to me, Grace Miguel is controlling everything behind the scenes to her benefit. I feel sorrow that Usher is trapped in this destructive manipulative relationship because he is paying a high price and in between trying to be a good father. I heard from a source Ushers mom is not happy at all with Grace and staying away which is sad because at least when the boys are not with Usher I think they would rather be with Ushers mom instead of caregivers of not with Tameka. Tameka may be a gold digger but still she is the mother of Ushers children and no matter what the children will always love their parents first. Grace what has she contributed other than splitting the family up to control Usher and his career. She will stay with Usher until she has secure her income for the future and that is the reason why she is keeping a low profile and are fine with him not claiming her. It’s all about the money. I hope Usher has any close friends left who can help and support him or even better talk him out this mess. He is trapped period because of mixing business with pleasure. To break free from Grace who is under a contract will cost money. She is the link to everyone Usher gets involved with. She is his manager and controls what gets to Usher and what’s not. I think she also handles his money, that’s what has been reported. Don’t know if it is any truth to it. Overall you would be surprise what people are willing to do for money. Grace and her daughter doesn’t give a shit what you people write in different blogs or twitter feeds as long as the big money is coming in and there milking cow is Usher of course. As Grace daughter stand for *Money before Men*. It says it all, right? Many prayers to the little boys may God protect them.
Good insight…
Maid manager assistant she has many names this (dis) Grace Miguel except girlfriend from Ushers mounth. they say love don’t cost a thing but a hoe does! Beware of the dog just sayin
off-topic… Neyo and chili dating? I swear I was siting right behind the body guard and it was 100% chili.
FYI we don’t do off topics on this blog :)..
Bitch who you, the blog patrol. If she want to talk about something else, SHE CAN AND SHE DID
YOU and Stalker are the same person..Atlien can we get verification?
Yea can we get verification that you not stalking yo self to make it look like you somebody important you trick ass bitch
lol..that limited vocabulary again…
lol…that herpes infection u spreading again….
You would know..you’re not very smart so all the name calling and silly shit that comes out of your mouth is a projection of how you see yourself..
bitch, fag, slut, hoe, aids, and gonorrhea infected..these are your attributes no one else but you..you stalkers are all the same no life, no worth, no love..you live vicariously through the blogs, because that’s the only attention you will ever receive..and we have given you enough attention to last a lifetime..be easy..seek guidance and large doses of medication..you are an unfunny walking joke that is simply not worth the keystroke…
Lol…There’s no way you’re married..The only men I see queening out like you’re queening out, are well queens..Nice try though, we almost believed you…#throwsglitter #snapsinzformation
This whole article was slanted in TR favor. No Usher was not there, but did you mention were he was, when he left, how long he had been gone, etc. The judge weighed that in. The four year old jumped in to try to save his brother. That tells me one thing, despite it all..those boys are extremely close and Navi would of dived in regardless. I am relieved that both children of that age can swim and apparantly well enough to think they could help someone in distress. Should Usher have called Tameka right away. No, especially if he didn’t know what was going on. With all that she has been through with Kile, I would of waited until I had all the details and enough information to make sure she stayed calm. It is a no win situation for Usher and I am not even a Usher fan (nor Tameka’s I might add).I do feel that they both love those boys and they both are capable of doing things not in their best interest. There is something about the both of them that don’t set well with me but then again its not my life. They need to have closed proceedings from this point foward. Tameka need to stay out the media and they need to work together. Usher you have been put on notice!
@Anothernote this entire article was written from my point of view. Just like every other post on the site (how could you miss that?). I also posted the entire footage from the hearing. While I could have certainly clipped it up and choose the footage that would prove my point of view (like some outlets did), I chose to post it all so that you and anyone else could form your own opinion. I’m not here to make you believe one party over the other. I merely try to point out the truth as I (emphasis on "I") see it.
ATLien there is no need to jump the gun that is according to what you said, my formed opinion. I feel that all the articles are slanted, slanted so much that everyone automatically jumps on Usher and no one gives him the benefit of doubt but then again that is my opinion too and I understand that its the truth as far as you see but why are you so defensive about it? I think its a private matter and all further proceedings should be closed to the public because this is a mess and will be a bigger mess once these children are able to look back through the world of information technology and see how childish both of his parents were acting.
What kills me about this whole thing is that the SAME people commenting on how she should’ve been at the hospital by her son’s side and not filing court papers would completely be singing another tune had she waited: "Why is she filing papers now? Why didn’t she file them when it first happened if she was so concerned?" This woman will never win for losing.
People who have such a blind unyielding hate for someone they don’t even know are plain mental.
SERIOUSLY delusional..hiding in the bushes crazy..the padded cells are calling them..i’m sure a few are the same person…
Hell, you should kno since you stalking yo self u dumb ass bitch
wow..that’s the best you can do? Crack babies I tell ya…
LOL!
BITCH, what kills me is that the lawyer said that himself. What kills me is that you still alive, die hoe. That hoe can’t win cux she playing with dirty hands @ Nene Leakes. Lmao
Now again, die hoe.
The real question is why didn’t your daddy leave you on the sheets to dry with the rest of the sperm?
beep beep beep…flat-lined.
LOL!!!!!!!
GIRL, MY NEIGHBORS ARE GOING TO CALL THE POLICE YOU JUST MADE ME SCREAM SO LOUD!!
Man…you kinda tripping. Yall funny though. Carry on lol.
humbleknight, this thread has truly taken on a life of it’s own lmao.
Usher is evil. Clearly he’s lying. Tameka has every right to be concerned about the safety of her kids, especially when he’s not around 99% of the time. It’s nothing but spite and nastiness to have a broke down, disabled aunt taking care of two overactive, hyper little kids instead of their mother when he’s away. I’m grown and healthy and the thought of it alone exhausts me. Usher is obviously paying off these judges.
They both of them together needs to get over themselves and raise the children. Do not fire the aunt, tameka said she has been with the children since they were born. She needs an assistant to help when usher is not available. It seem like things were going well before the accident. He is putting his kids first. I think, for him to cancel 87 dates, speaks volume. There hasn’t been any plates of food thrown at anyone, no one has been spit on. no cars have been keyed, so I vote,for Usher.
Usher know he ugly as fuck!
Why is Usher lying about Grace Miguel being in the house? Usher says he will meet them at the house and not at the hospital as she suggested when she called him. He was not far away. Next Usher says he does not know if she was at the house or not but she was there when he arrived. Just caught him with a lie that’s all.
Also did you notice that he and the Aunt keep responding with "I don’t recall or I don’t remember" HEffa you remember! lol
That’s why I said both those tricks were lying. That’s why I say her attorney sucked for not jumping on that. She must’ve just graduated the day before.
She can just kill that. I feel like he is the better parent well I hope. Now her son died in her custody. So does that make her unfit as well??