Bullshit no comparison.

Derek J is EEWWWgly as hell. Im sorry. He does not have a fashionable bone in his chubby body. lol. Now Miss Lawrence is ALWAYS fierce and fabulous (2 snaps). Although I do not agree with the homosexual lifestyle, I do agree that you do not have to say/do mean things to other people.

Someone PLEASE educate me on this:
Why would a gay man want to be with a man who looks like a woman??… shouldn’t he just be with a woman if he’s attracted to femininity?

I think it’s hilarious!! I love Derek J and I hate it when people treat people some kind of way based off what they prefer to do in their bed! Get yo life boo!!(in my best Tamar voice)No one says anything to you because your preference is unemployed no good lying cheating baby daddy now do they?!?!? So get off his back! They are both FINE men POINT BLANK PERIOD regardless of what their preference is!

Um… It’s hard to take anything he has to say seriously with that outfit on. Ijs.

a lot of these gay men tickle me…..especially the ones who hate anything related to women and then want to be a woman…also to me some of these gay men are selling themselves short they are no better than sideline hoes they brag about sexing “straight” and downlow men in all actuality these men only want sex and will not even bring them out and public…i.e. a side bitch !

I guess I could see why he’s upset, but being a straight woman who has had that thought (Damn what a waste…), I have never said it meaning, "All homosexuals are ugly…" or any of the other comparisons he through out there. Actually my thought has never been about the person’s partner. I think it’s most about lamenting over the fact that if a man is fine and prefers other men, then he’s not even an option. That is the reality. However, although I think Derek J is being a bit sensitive, understanding how the expression could be offensive to others, I suppose I will at least give pause and consider before I speak. That’s just me.

idk y he on fashion queens anyhow, it’s a joke!! him and lawerence is a hot mess.. that shit aint cute. it’s a shame how people can praise this fools

He does have a point.. U cannot judge a book by it cover. this is where women go wrong. assuming he to phine to be gay and try to change him into being straight. now that’s wrong in many elements. we have to accept ppl for who they are. them for who they are or keep out their life.. its hard being a gay person and they may seem strong on the outs love ide but people ya’ll negative words and judgement will stick to a persons soul no matter how strong the person is.

I agree with derek but why does he always look a damn mess except for when he wore that red suit.

being darkskin and being gay are not even in the same category ..please

take off that GoDDAM DRESS

I have traveled extensively. And ATL gays are a class of their own. I love them they come second to my NY gays. Women say "waste" because those fine ass genes are not being passed on to babies. Then again there are plenty of gay men who have children before they came out the closet. Some make arrangements with the AG girls and have babies, case $17 K for invetro is no happening. No Gwad.

Often times we go off on tangents (comments above) and throw our own personal experiences into forming surface, baseless opinions about a situation. And they are more than irrelevant. So, lets actually attack the comment itself. Hardly ever do people say "They too fine to be gay" and mean just that. That is usually the type of blanket statement unintellectual people use when they cant conjugate and/or hide behind what they REALLY mean. What most of these women probably meant was "Hey. He is fine. I know I can’t have him so imma throw shade and make a bitter, angry, hit dog comment"

But anywhoooo I just wanted to address the abstract and psychological side of this situation. i dont feel any certain way about the actual said "Offensive" comment that was made. I can count my list of hangups on one hand. Who gives a sh*t. Focus on stacking YOUR money up and Live YOUR life.

There is nothing cute about any part of this!

Well he sure doesn’t have to worry about ever hearing those words!

Not really sure how I feel about it. On one hand, I understand where he’s coming from but on the other hand, I understand how the women feel as well. I just don’t get why the gays always want to compare their drama to the struggle of African Americans as a whole. Yes that being fine for a gay man statement is stupid but it doesn’t compare to being pretty for a dark skinned or being called pretty for a big girl statement. Hell it’s commonplace for gay men to be fine (to me anyway), shit the majority of them live in LA Fitness. *Kanye shrug*

I think this whole gay thing goes well beyond what meets the eye. Come on, not all men-especially black men- are gay. However, there is a growing number of men who are gay or experiencing sexual intercourse, etc with other men, particularly in the Atlanta and DC metro area. Personally, I believe there is some sort of fad occurring. Just being on facebook has become a drudgery for me. All of these men are showing off their asses for these other men. I think, women are getting so annoyed with the men on the DL, not the openly gay men. Just think women, what are we to do when majority of men come out the closet and demand we as women are to accept their bisexuality, etc. Ladies, trust and believe me when I say there are wayyy more men than you know who are into other men and pretending they are straight. Only time will tell. We are sadly approaching a different era. Not Good!!!

I think he’s justified in his response. i’ll admit i’ve said "what a waste" but it’s because exactly like DJ said I was mad it wasn’t going in me. lol.

There is merrit to what he said. Alot of single women blame gay men for their situation.