okay we get it sheree is slow not can we move on @atlien this is sheree overload

These people are delusional. Why sign up for the show then back doe blaming this lady for your dysfunctional life. Smh

DMX thought he was coming on to talk about his sex problem and they flipped it on him (he even said that on the show). Now Sheree is saying she was supposed to be talking about something totally different but they flipped it on her. I think Iyanla is luring her guest in under false pretenses. Just an educated observation

You feel misled, because Iyanla hit the nail on the head, with a heavy hammer. Great co-parenting, has NOTHING to do with how big of a house you can build or afford. Your spending every penny on things that are unnecessary, and you want him to help foot the bill. He see’s right thru you. You think everyone is blind. That house is not for your children. I bought a house for my children, in a decent neighbor hood, that was affordable, and habitable. THAT, is what children need. AND HOW DO YOU MOVE FORWARD, WHEN YOUR TRYING TO CONTROL, WHEN AND HOW LONG THE KIDS GO WITH DAD. IF IT’S IMPORTANT TO YOUR KIDS TO HAVE TIME WITH DAD, THEN YOU ALLOW THAT TO HAPPEN. DO NOT GET IN THE WAY. I CO-PARENT, IF MY SON WANTS TO GO WITH DAD, INSTEAD OF GOING TO THE NAIL SHOP OR SITTING AROUND WITH ME WATCHING A MOVIE, I ALLOW IT. BECAUSE IN THE END, THE KIDS WILL ONLY RESENT YOU FOR THAT. STOP TRYING TO CONTROL, WHEN HE GETS HIS KIDS. WE SEE WHY HE DOESN’T LIKE YOU. Grow-up. Your minutes are over, allow your kids to be happy, forreal…

Alright..I’m not understanding the concept.The name of the show is Iyanla "Fix My Life",not 1/3 or 1/4 of it! You’re not giving her much to work with if you dont let her all the way in..how can she help?

I know Iyanla is not the Master of fixing lives but,for the sake of an hour show,you have to allow her to lay the foundation of a fix.The difference in Bob vs. Sheree,he was open for it and Sheree was guarded.Face it Sheree,everybody knows your beautiful house is just the shell of 1 and Iyanla was just trying to pin point your priorities.

Sheree is in straight denial about how she is using their children as pawns! She IS angry and bitter! Her delusion will keep her from facing her real reality and getting the true healing she needs!

@Cookie,
I just read your comment. I totally agree. YOU HIT THE NAIL RIGHT ON THE HEAD!!!! THANK GOD SOMEONE HAS COMMON SENSE. Everyone is using their hatred of Sheree to cloud the opinion which isn’t fair.

Sheree is trying to relevant. That heifer knew what she was getting into by signing up. Shit I wouldn’t go on the show if I wanted to be lied to. I want the truth.

For all the folks claiming that Sheree is trying to stay relevant – newsflash – "SHE IS" …She has us all talking, commenting, and blogging on her and the stupid episode in which NOTHING was accomplished was watched by 1.3 million people – a number that Kandi cannot seem to come close to with that show she has…So for those of you who keep claiming that she’s trying to remain relevant, she doesn’t have to try, she is…Your comments, hate, and advice that are UNSOLICITED prove that. Please and thank you.

I watched the show…but I’ve watched most of them & the people she interviews are often upset with her. A transgendered male told her father she was gay, her father—a pastor was unaccepting. Iyanla called her out on failing to tell her father she lived her life as a male, for failing to educate him. What does no one understand here…Iyanla simply does not believe in victims in relationships, she will not allow people to remain in a "victim" mentality. A woman left her damn family for an affair, the affair didn’t work out. The woman wanted her help to move in & be with her family. Iyanla asked the man why he let her come back 6 damn times after a 16 year marriage.

Sheree was defensive the whole interview, plain & simple. She wanted to attack Bob & name call. Shit Bob has been a coward where his kids are concerned, plain & simple and he admitted to it. Chateau Sheree is not about Sheree…you believe that?

The lesson should have been simple. Maybe Bob did Sheree wrong, maybe Sheree did wrong, but all that must be put aside for their children. Perhaps all the wonderful people here on "Team Sheree" didn’t grow up with a mom who held the kids hostage due to the past relationship issues, well I did & it sucked! & yes my dad paid a grip of child support on time & every month & my mom got her hair did, etc. the moment that check came.

All the people saying…oh it’s not our business what she does with her money. Puh-leeze! People bitch all the time about people getting food stamps while carrying expensive purses & managing a grip of cash for cigs & beer. I heard someone complain about people using EBT at Whole Foods! Please stop, we all saw how bad her kids looked & the blow up mattresses. That’s sorry & sad fucking parenting. You need to call out sorry ass parenting when you see it, friend or foe. Iyanla could have come at Sheree harder but didn’t appear to.

Iyanla has great life experiences and may be an effective life coach. But she is not a therapist and should not be attempting to resolve issues with people like DMX and Sheree that are much deeper than 1-2 weeks of being followed with cameras will allow for. I see many law suits coming for OWN as a result of this.

Good Lawd!! If only Sheree would humble herself, be real and stop being so defensive, she could get ahead. At least Bob admitted his mistakes. I hope he can be a better father.

Well I’ll tell you. THIS will be my LAST time talking about Sheree. I’m signing off this post and will NOT talk about Sheree again. I think I’ll start a "LET’S NOT TALK ABOUT SHEREE" petition. That’s all I’m gonna say. Bye….

Bob is wrong for thinking that Sharee has enough money to care for the two kids that they had together. I does not matter if she has these shoes or this handbag. As a man it’s his responsibility to be sure that he is offering both financial and emotional support to his children. If he is not doing this then he is a deadbeat parent. As for Sharee she is lost. I also think she is hurt that Bob was not in love with her when they married. You want the man that you married and had kids with to have love for you and when she saw that Bob only married her cause she had his baby was painful. I thnk after that she shut down to him as a father and a friend and looked to him only as an additional source of income. I hope for the kids sake they can find middle ground.

One of the reasons I was motivated to attend college was the fear that one day I would be married but what if something happened or he happened to leave and I had children that needed to be taken care of. I could count of myself asking God to help but the only assistance I would ask for would be from God.

Eventually I did divorce,and this is one of the things that happened. After living 4 years in our "starter" house I asked for new home in the exclusive side of town. My ex ignored my request and I left it alone. Four years later, still in the "starter" house I filed for divorce. In the end I was so thankful for the "starter" house, that was 14 years ago–the divorce and I am still in the "starter" house which I thank Jesus for everyday. I have been unemloyed and underemployed but thanks to the Almighty I go home to sleep in a bed in a house and we call home–to me it is the best feeling ever.

I could not like or respect a woman like Sheree. I only wish I could finance a clothing boutique or any kind of self-employed business opportunity. My mother worked so my Dad could complete college so I have been trained to be a helpmate not a help us into the poor house woman. I have the best examples in my family of long marriages and couples building something together.

I understand Bob and I can’t believe I am saying this..I feel like she trapped Bob for one reason only and that is/was his pay. The wat they described the beginning of their relationship it sounded like a booty call, two people who didn’t know anything about each and were feeling a sexual attraction. Now Bob did the right thing to give his children his name but in the back of his mind this woman may have been a good "piece" at that moment but now he saddled with her and he can’t seem to find anything about her that he likes. They both half heartedly make a stab at the marriage but things just grow acrimonius until we arrive at this Funky Dinevat post–very intuitive and I co-sign her comments.

I like Oprah like the next person but everyone know’s she supporst unqualified "dr"s "life coaches" or whatever. Just like dr Phil turned out not to be no damn dr. She supports whatever will add to her billions (not taking away from her charity work). But for the most part she’s a business woman in the entertainment industry. It’s all about entertaining. Iyanla isn’t qualified to tell anybody about their life. And the fact that Bob approached Sheree lets me know he hooked it up which means he spoke to Iyanly before Sheree was able to which means it was probably a very one-sided and judgmental interview. I’m not all big on Sheree but that Iyanla chick though…Nope aint got it to do.