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[READ: Kordell Stewart Seeks Divorce From Porsha… (COURT DOCS)]
What’s most bizarre about this entire situation is that Porsha found out about Kordell’s filings only after people began tweeting her asking her about it…. at least that’s what I’ve heard.
Porsha confirmed the rumor mill in a statement issued through her publicist, who says that the real “housewife” found out through the blawgs about her husband’s divorce petition and that she was totally caught off guard.
Mrs. Stewart had held off on filing for a divorce herself and remained committed to the marriage because Mr. Stewart promised to work on the marriage with her.
Instead, he misled her and she found out about the filing in the media. Mrs. Stewart hopes to resolve these personal issues privately with the support of her family, friends and strong faith.
On the flip side, Kordell has pretty much said that he’s D.O.N.E. and if you think that Porsha is getting away with a “seven figure divorce settlement’…. think again!
Details below…
In the divorce documents filed March 22, 2013 in Fulton County Superior Court, Kordell says his marriage to Porsha is “irretrievably broken” and claims the two are currently separated.
Kordell’s attorney, Sheil G. Edlin issued a statement on on March 26th regarding the matter, stating:
This is a personal and private family matter for Kordell and his family. This was a very difficult decision for Kordell.
I hope everyone understands. Kordell’s ongoing concern has been and remains his son’s best interest.
Porsha’s statement about being “blindsided” is a bit odd. From my understanding, Porsha still lives in the house they shared, but Kordell has been spending his time elsewhere.
Whatever the case, for those of you thinking that Porsha’s net worth will be increased with her divorce settlement due to the fact that she doesn’t have a pre-nup, that’s probably NOT gonna happen.
Kordell states in court documents that he believes he shouldn’t have to pay Porsha spousal support, claiming, “[She’s] an able-bodied person, earning income and is capable of supporting herself.”
Despite what many of you believe, Porsha is NOT a trust fund baby. While her family’s legacy is well known in Atlanta, her grandfather’s participation in the Civil Rights movement did NOT make him a wealthy man.
[FLASHBACK: Atlanta History: Meet Hosea Williams: Porsha Stewart’s Grandfather… (PHOTOS + VIDEO)]
That being said, it’s apparent that Kordell masterfully manipulated the situation and patiently waited until Stewart got a job and started earning her own income prior to filing his divorce petition. Had he chose to do so BEFORE Porsha spent a season on RHOA, it probably woulda been a different story.
Porsha didn’t forfeit her career (whatever that is/was) when she got married. In fact, she got married and GOT a career… as a RHOA cast member. The reality show star now gets paid for appearances, etc. So Kordell kindly waited until she was set up with earning capabilities… all thanks to her former NFL husband, who ALLOWED her to join the top rated reality show.
All of that could be a moot point, considering Kordell also says there are no marital assets subject to division…. and regarding that pre-nuptial issue, think about it this way… just because Porsha said it, doesn’t mean it’s true.
But I digress.
I wrote allllll of that to say this…. pre-nup or no pre-nup, maybe Porsha should head out to Stone Mountain and do some digging about Kordell’s ‘alleged’ extramarital activities.
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oh she can get paid ! ask Phaedra Parks lmao.
If Phaedra Parks was her lawyer, she will not get paid, ask Sheree. And Kandi better find another lawyer too if she want any payment for her "Tardy for Party" creation. PP is a parking lot lawyer!
lol…dang
Phakra Parks is nothing more than a name dropper. If she were in demand by high profile clients she wouldn’t have time for filming. Instead of chasing ambulances she’s chasing celebrities. By the looks of her home, she needs to work harder, it’s very unimpressive for a "true southern belle" of her stature.
I think Kordell is a smart cookie. Not only have they been married for a short period of time. Kordell waited until she was bring in her own dough on RHOA before filing. She is a capable, able-bodied, working person now who makes her own. Spousal support is out the question. Since she didn’t talk her husband into adopting her other child, no child support either. If she had not of taken the job on RHOA. She might of had a valid argument.
She has a child?
No, he has another child from a previous relationship..she doesn’t have children of her own
Well damn…
That mofo aint got no money! He is BUM. NOT even man enough to inform the woman. KARMA MOFO KAAAAAAAARMA!!!!
Ctfu @ maria…..
He blindsided the poor thing. He was a asshole anyways!
So like I said before, he Kelsey Grammer’d her. This should serve as a cautionary tale to all the married women bragging to single ladies about how much better you because you have a husband and they don’t. My mother taught me at a very young age that we can ALL be replaced.
"People say I have a picture perfect life and I do". Well those words can back bite a big chunk out of that behind. LOL. Married ladies, if you have a good husband be grateful and appreciative but please don’t brag. Tamar Braxton your next. Baby or no baby.
Well said @CNS. The saying goes "God Bless The Child That Got His Own"
You are right!!!! Married women look down at single women like they have something we are missing…knowing they go to bed crying everynight…..some of them alone.
Wasn’t Porsha cheating with Kordell on the mother of his son?
Unlike Porsha. Tamar actually has her own money. So husband or no husband, she’ll be fine.
Amen!
You are so right, be grateful but don’t brag. Tamar must be on crack, has anyone seen her husband? Have a baby? Really? I would have set my eggs on fire before I breeded with that. She is a gold digger for real!
Tamar Braxton has gotten the bighead thinking she’s above her sisters now. She will never have a longevity career like Toni.
She gotta bighead, alright. She should stop wearing ponytails
why is he acting so bitter? did she cheat on him or something? he can’t be this damn mad just because she wants to do a tv show! this dude is so suspect!
The other sites are reporting that divorce had been in the talks before the show but she remained committed to trying to save her marriage. They married pretty much on a whim and the show added more stress (alot more) to a already struggling marriage. Kandi better be taking notes.
How long did they date?
He did a BITCH move,for the BITCH he is!!!!
A judge will decide whether or not he cuts a check.
Exactly!!!!
Yes she will get paid no matter how dumb she may seem.
nene tried to tell ha….bac to vídeos she go…
So sad.
I GOOGLE HIM LAST NIGHT…AND I READ THAT HE WAS DO’N THA FOOL WIT SOME DUDE IN THA BACK OF A LIMO….. @_@
Why is he so mad? Did she cheat?
Seems like HE was cheating. He said it’s "in the interest of his son". They say he’s been spending time with baby mama Tania who was Sheree’s friend and made her leave show cause HE didn’t think it a ‘good look’ for his son. Another "Royce Reed" situation. He would have reduced support if she stayed.
@versatile
I don’t get it! I can understand your comment if his sone was ever featured on the show, but his son has never been on the show at all.
.Naw! something in the milk ain’t clean!
When talking about a good look for his son, he is talking about the fallout from his mothers actions on the show. How would you like it, being a teen, and everybody know your business and calling your mom ratchet. If any of them thought about the damage it could do to their children. None of them would be on their. I admire Cynthia because atleast she is keep Leonese off camera and she watches very carefully what she says.
"How would you like it, being a teen, and everybody know your business and calling your mom ratchet?"
@AnotherNote go ask Sheree Whitfield
"How would you like it, being a teen, and everybody know your business and calling your mom ratchet?"
@AnotherNote go ask Sheree Whitfield
Or Tameka Foster Glover Raymond.
Kordell cheated on Tonia Richardson with Porsha.
That dude has GOT to be gay, cause I would be fucking that sexy ass chick for AT LEAST the next 4-5 years, daily, couple times a day! smh, Ladies stop getting married to these gay ass niggas, for real!
*clutches pearls and falls out*
I’m done!!! LMAO
LMAOOOOOOOO! the pearls
Ol Slash is tired of living a lie.
Everytime the finale comes around there is a controversy with one of these Real Housewives of Atlanta! SMH
Let the judge decided…
HER LIFE AIN’T PICTURE PERFECT NO GOT DAMN MO…..
Lmbo
as real as a photo shopped picture! LOL!!!
I had a feeling this would happen. Not this soon but I figured it would something about her "people think my life is perfect and it is" line did not seem right. Life is not perfect. And sometimes people are inviting hell in when they assume so. Just saying. Always be aware people. Can’t trust no one but the Lord.
I agree that was a front. Nobody has a perfect life, NOBODY! Poor thing
You said it right, but that showed her immuturity. I guess she’s grown alot since this happened. I hope Bravo keeps her, I’d like to see her grow and start her own Brand.
So a marriage had to fall apart in order for Ms. Dineva to do a video? Can you tell him to make more videos since that’s how he got his fans in the first place
bloop!
He needs to read the laws for divorce in Georgia, he don’t make the rules….
He LET her do the show so he can say she earns her own money smh he played her bad
Why hoes always trying to get paid off a man’s hard work? The law should be you leave with what you ass came in with….period. Hoes stay tryin to win. Smh
Bra if that was the case, a lot of niggas would b single. Both parties get what they want out of the situation. The man gets a trophy wife who he probably couldn’t pull unless he had money, and the woman gets the financial security she wants even if it means sucking yo dick when you aint on her on level.
Oh and this coming from a str8 dude.
So very true…the same way women use their beauty and charms to pull guys with money, guys with money use their money to pull gorgeous woman…they all deserve each other.
Thank you. Fools get a lot of money and wear it on their arm. Difference between men and women is, the women wear it in the form of a purse, whereas the men wear it in the form of a trophy chick.
My post disappeared, so I’ll type it again lol. You ladies are so right; both men and women like to wear their money on their arm; women do it with a purse, men do it with a trophy chick.
And while I’m here…Did he call Iyanla Vanzant a voodoo priestess? Too through lol
True…. these butt ugly men be having some bomb wives, who wouldnt look their was if they didn’t have money.
All men love beautiful women, but rich men collect beautiful women.
case in point! tamar and vince!!!! if he wasn’t the dude with the music connections talent and money tamar would not have given him a second look!
CNS, I like that!
#POW# Very much the truth.
I agree Austin. Get a damn job!
Im surprised your comment has not been deleted or tampered with. Very interesting.
Why do you focus so much on kordel.. If she was little more intelligent for more than ” 265” days a year then maybe kordel wouldn’t be so ” peturred” with her.. But then again only porsha understands porsha…
Are you design thSt after knowig this woman for over a year it’s a surprise to him that she’s dumb? He’s a jerk and she was afraid of him. One time she said now I have to go home and face my husband after some dumb stuff that happened between her and Cynthia . She’s better off without him, hopefully she’ll meet someone that will gently guide her with love out of Disney Land and space back to earth. Poor thing ,this is so embarrassing . Her Karma came rather quickly .she was throwing you’re old and I’m young and the I’m married and you’re not phrase around a bit too much.
lol!
Ain’t karma a bitch? LOL
I believe the word is "perturbed" Ina, how about you be a little more intelligent and learn to spell intelligently and correctly before you try and diss someone. Okay doll. And that’s how it’s spelled 365 days of the year.
actually, she was quoting Porsha, hence the use of the quotations…there was an episode where she said that and meant to say perturbed.
yup, Porsha said "peturd", and all the websites reported it spelled like that, so the posting was correct in misspelling it to quote Porsha.
BAM!! lol
Peturred?
If she wanted to be married, she should have stayed off of that stupid show!Reality tv turns your life upside down and bring all faults into the light. Good luck Porsha.
The one good thing about reality shows is that you get to actually see yourself in your interactions with others and the things you don’t like you can at least make an attempt to change. What Porsha saw was that her "colleagues" on this show were go-getters in their own right; have their own money and not depending specifically on a man for everything that they have. When you know better, you do better. Porsha was probably swept off her feet with the glitz, glam, ex pro football player and she thought she just wanted to be solely a housewife. She got to see that there was more out there than her current reality. Whether the gay rumors of Kordell or true or no, there was something not truly right about that relationship and I think she saw it. He, however, was more strategic.
I’m on his side. She comes off like a real spoiled brat
Who gives a flying fuk! She is irrelevant. But, thanks for the update on Mr. DL
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She found out on twitter?!?! He leaving her for Walter…
BWAHAHAHAAH! Walter…..LMAO!
I hope she is awarded with something so she can get on her feet since she was a real housewife. She will be ok and better off without his punk azz.
Her net worth is listed as $500k. Hopefully she can get a season or two more on show. If she does she’s gotta kiss some serious Kenya azz. Then again, Kenya might just step up her game by being a REAL Miss USA. She been changing up trying to be nice lately. Says in video that she does’nt like to see any woman go through this kind of pain because she knows what it feels like.
I’m glad that you posted her net worth. I researched and found out also. She was also a minister 2 years ago. I heard one of her sermons on YouTube. I think that she is playing a part on RHOA. She also sand the National Anthem at a ball game in Birmingham. I couldn’t find that video. She is also a model, not just a booty model. She also stated that she has owned her own company since the age of 26. In her sermon, she pronounced all of her words correctly and delivered a very sincere and emotional sermon. She is not dumb.
MrsBearrat How the heck do you know all of that unless you or Porsha or unless you are stashed in her panties? Porsha girl get off the blogs and go find your gay husbands tranny lover so you can live a good life.
I saw that sermon. Also in her interviews she sounds intelligent and smiles when she cleverly inserts mispronounced word. Guess we’ll eventually see how smart she is by attorney she picks. So far she hasn’t said anything dumb since. Unlike dude. Would love to see video of her singing though, I bet chic can really sing.
I heard one of her sermons on YouTube. I think that she is playing a part on RHOA.
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Or in the pulpit. She wouldn’t be the first.
Those networth websites are totally inaccurate and usually dead ass wrong.
You MAY have a point there. In an earlier year his net was posted at 26mil. Wendy Williams reported 16m so I thought she’d done her homework. She also alluded to Porsha not really having income before show. That’s why I said he may be hiding $$$. Maybe THAT’S why he’s cozied up to Tania.
and she been laughing at Kenya all this time and now she in the same boat NO MAN…ENOUGH SAID!!!
Who cares. A doesn’t make you, nor does a man define who you are. We as women need to realize that in this day and age you better go for yours because you always need to have a plan B….. ENOUGH SAID!!!
Can i get a witness!!!!!
Amen.
I’ve been trying not to take sides in this matter due to the fact Marriage can be difficult and truly only two people and God know what happened throughout the Marriage and it does not concern me. I Can’t anyomore, Kordells actions are dirty and grimy. What low down dirty dog treats someone like this. Porsha sat on National TV and risked her self respect and image to place this no good a$$hole on a pedestal. I don’t give a damn if she’s able bodied but after two years of you demanding that she be your "I dream of Genie" you have te gull to say you should not pay her any spousal support? Not even for a limited time? One or two years? You cant tell her in her face to kicks rock you want wood moving forward? You are the true definition of a tired, triflin, no good a$$hole. Atlanta is very small and tight knit. Can someone please give this poor girl the ammunition of all his creeping to take his ass to the cleaners. People don’t change and if he was in the park 15 years ago while in te NFL he is absolutely down in one of those parks, clubs, houses or hotels in ATL. Sorry for the essay this asshole just got under my skin….jerk!
Chunte27,
ITA!!! IF he is gay (and I SAY IF – JUST SPECULATION as of now), why oh why did he use this poor girl?
Porsha deserves better than this!
He should pay her for being his beard for two years. She can’t eat those expensive gowns. She needs money to get her own place and to go forward.
He used her so people wouldn’t believe the gay rumors. Guys do it all the time, especially in Atl. Bloop!
If he does not pay her for her silence (a la Kanye West/Amber Rose) then she better write a tell all book and spill that tea.
She used him as much as he used her. She saw more dollars when she met him. He not the most attractive man in the world do with bad skin. Do you think she would have married him if he didn’t have some money?
Stop clocking someone wallet and you wouldn’t play yourself.
She need to squash her beef with Kenya and seek her advice in making this mofo pay. One thing I will say between Nene, Kenya and Andy they will dig up enough dirt on mrs Korfell to leave him in tears. I never promote or wish unhappiness on anyone but this mofo just went about all of this in such a foul way it angers anyone with a heart. Sorry sack of crap.
They already squashed it. I said months ago on this blog that Porsha and Kenya would eventually end up friends, they are each others yin and yang like Nene and Kim. I heard they also made up at the reunion as well. LOL I don’t care what anyone says RHOA has never been the same since Nene and Kim stopped being friends, those two were hilarious. I’m dreading next season because how much shade can you keep throwing at the same people, that shit is old.
LOL @ you Davies!
I haven’t watched television in almost 2 years but I know all about the show from blogs and you are hella right between NeNe/ Andy and Kenya,all his "trolling" will be out for anyone to see…
Kordell Stewart is UGLY inside and out.He’s very controlling which shows insecurities…I have heard it said that his "man parts" are never UP for a woman……I will bet that his snailed eyed self has been all up and through Piedmont Park on CERTAIN nights which is strictly for MEN that want to play with other MEN…..
Would be interesting if guys he hooked up with showed up for some media $$$ and 15 minutes of much desired fame. As it stands right now, dude will be remembered as suspect DL douche bag more than football.
@ Versatile….For some reason there is no reply button for you name,so I’m responding here.
It would be hilarious if a dude or two came out of the shadows and put his ugly tail on blast.I shutter to think how much risk this clown put Porsha in….
I’m sure Porsha probably knew Kordell was demanding or controlling while she dated him, yet she still married him anyway. To be honest, I think both their asses are stupid for wanting to participate in a reality show and show the world how ‘picture perfect’ their marriage was.
You are so right. If you want to keep your marriage in tact, then stay off of tv. Some things should be kept personal, and your marriage is one of them. Now since it has all fallen apart they want privacy, but before she wanted to show off her lifestyle and brag about being married. I do not feel sorry for either one of them, she knew he was controlling and he knew she was a dumb dumb before they married.
That’s what it is, these people want to be on tv because:
They want to be famous or want notoriety.
They want the money, which make them get even deeper pockets.
They want the perks that comes along with being famous.
They want to brag to the world about how they got it like that.
Lol! True. Also, she went on the show in her quest for fame; and, he "allowed" her to do it so that she would be employed at the time of the divorce. I do not like the guy, but you have to admit his strategy worked perfectly in a bitc#-a$$ way.
An essay worth reading. I was thinking the very same thing. It was evident that Porsha wanted to be a good wife who supported her husband and he played her in return. She didn’t deserve that. No one does.
All you saw was what she wanted you to see. Know one lived in the house with them so who can comment. It’s better for him to get out now than wait and the years roll by and he owe her money. She’s young and capable of making a life for herself. She has no babies to worry about. I’m so sick and tired of woman who believe that a man always owe them something. So what she’s been his wife for a little over a year? She gets on my nerves on RHOA now maybe she will sit her clueless behind down. Now maybe she will stop playing a dizzy blond.
I agree he was grimy! If he actually did strategize and plan to do her this way, it might have been because HE HATES WOMEN, and he wanted to really "do a job on one", so he married one, acted like a husband, quit her before she could "become accustomed to a certain style of life" that required support, and embarrassed her to put EVERY WOMAN ON NOTICE WHO MIGHT HAVE PUT HIM OR OTHER DOWN-LO MEN DOWN. He probably feels like he is the champion of all DL men, now! (I wonder, do they have a private club where they can go and gloat about how they hurt vulnerable and naive women who gambled and loved them?) I hope his peeneeweenie shrivels up quickly and his anus muscles relax so much he can’t keep a good meal of mac and cheese inside; much less another peeneeweenie!
Lol. That was really real & funny at the sane dtime.
Kordel need to take lessons from Gregg & stay with Porsha to cash in on her future stardom.
No Porsha needs to let Miss Kordell go…
LmBao!!
Unless he has a pre-nup in place, he really shouldn’t count on walking away scott free. RHOBH sure didn’t hinder Camille Gramer from snatching her stacks, and this scenario is no exception.
Kordell is probably sitting in Bulldogs parking lot right now!
Camille had children with Kelsey…that is why she got broke off, and they were together a lot longer….Porsha will get something, but it won’t be a Grammer type settlement. But…this also makes me wonder if Porsha seen this coming a long time ago and that is why she went on the yam diet.
LMAO he is probably at Bulldogs waiting for the "drag queen shows" …..
Her grandfather was truly a great American. His story should be made into a movie. I feel bad for her. This has to be so difficult to be played out in the media.
She seems so sweet. She must be devastated…
Dang, if she really did find out about the divorce on the blogs/Twitter. Serves her dumb butt right. Not so much the trophy wife now, huh? Guess all they were telling her in Vegas makes a little more sense. That being said, she better get up, get out and get something.
Spousal support was created at a time when we women were not able to work and take care of ourselves the way we can now. We asked for equality, well here it is. What the hell did she do to deserve spousal support? She didn’t miss out on a career because she had his kids – they married and its ending two years later. Was the way he filed foul? Of course! But she lived the lifestyle of a rich housewife and now it’s over. That’s all you get. He owes her nothing. Women who believe in taking a man to the cleaners just because the marriage is over are vile creatures. Stop being bitter! Stop using men for their money and make some your damn self.
I have a feeling that you would look at this in a different way if it happened to you. Am I right?
I’ve been married for longer than Porsha and kordell and I don’t expect my husband to take care of me post marriage god-forbid our marriage should end…
well said i agree leave with what u came in with
Have we all forgotten about Sheree Whitfield. Sheree got child support, but the judge did not give her any spousal support. She keep going into debt hiring different attorneys to try and get spousal support, but each time the judge said no. She used the argument that she only had a 12th grade education and therefore could not support herself, but the judge did not care. Sheree did get a almost a million dollars and blew it with that ShebySheree crap. I also read documents where she gets $100,000.00 from his pension. Most of us could live well off of $100,000.00, but not She by Sheree.
If I were Porsha and if I had a college education with a degree and ran some type of company that were making me millions, I would tell Kordell to go screw himself and shove that spousal support up his ass because I don’t need it. Unfortunately in Porsha’s case that won’t happen.
Does Porsha have a college degree?
I’m not sure if she does or not, but she the way she speaks I just don’t see how, lol. She really need to take a Speech Communication class.
This is not a logical rebuttal to the argument. Why would her reasoning change if it happened to her?
Trust and believe spousal support is never gender biased. Marriage is an agreement. If he demanded she stay home for two years he atleast owes her something. I don’t give a flying crap who the bread winner is the husband or the wife. Porsha will be fine with time but should she just walk away with nothing after two years of being his submissive, obedient wife? Hell no!
Porsha got married in her late 20s, correct? She should have had her career and money game figured out by then and married a man who would respect her need and passion to have a career. My husband and I agreed on things like how our kids would be raised, if I would be a stay at home mom or if i would work etc BEFORE we even got married! Porsha gambled on Kordell because of the lifestyle he could provide her as many women do. Unfortunately for her, she lost.
And she lived the lifestyle of a rich housewife those two years. THAT’S what she gets. I’d rather make it post marriage on my own then have an ex-husband be able to claim he had a hand in my success after marriage.
That’s why women need to have a plan B and C when things go south with their marriage. Some women who are wealthy and marry men that are equal to or have more wealth than they do sometimes opt out for nonspousal support because they know they can handle and take care of themselves.
You are my new best friend! I agree word for word! That dimwit knew what she was doing. I think there’s more to this story too. I personally don’t think he knew anything about the Trilville video and/or the calendar booty pics until the show. She was so busy trying to portray herself as this picture perfect person, and she didn’t tell her husband about her past. She knew her marriage was on the rocks…that’s why she was trying to pump out a baby fast, lol.
@belinda…#1…what did she lose? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING! #2…how ddhehelp her succeed? Do you equate being on a reality show to success? @tamar…your comment lacks substance! Sound like a bunch of haters jumping on the "i hate a black woman that has more than me bandwagon."
She doesn’t have more than me. I have two degrees, a license to practice, a nice job title, own crib, luxury car, nice chunk in the bank, nice face and body, a good head on my shoulders, self esteem, and a roster of men to date. Bam!
I never jump on any band wagon. I just think women should put a little into themselves (besides looks) and have something of substance to offer to your potential mate. Porsha came into the marriage with nothing, and I doubt with her aptitude that she helped establish anything of monetary value in the two years she was with him. She should take her money she earned from RHOA and keep it moving.
@Tamar: keep up the good work! I agree with LXL
all women even married should have a plan b and c and concentrate on taking care of themselves as if they were still single. Take it from a older woman who stayed at home with the children and is still living paycheck to paycheck. Don’t lose yourselves women, work from home, go to college have your own money! So when he can’t provide you can for yourself and children. Porsha was looking to Kordell instead of herself!
@nana I’m on no bandwagon! Haha that actually made me laugh. I’m just advocating for woman to bring something of value into a relationship other than looks. Porsha may have more monetarily than me but I have a husband whose thinking and values align with mine and have been blessed with two children who we can more than provide for. I value more than just money which may be why I’m still married. Jump on that bandwagon!
This isn’t about what you and your husband agreed on though. What you did was great but clearly Kordell has no problem taking care of her and that is what he wanted. He is now trying to renig on that promise cause he’s mad that she is working and that’s not right. It’s not about her being lazy it was her job to be a SAHM which is a job but they had trouble conceiving which was putting a rift in their marriage. She doesn’t need a 7 figure settlement but to put her out on the street cause you’re mad at how you’re portrayed on a show is wrong. Give her spousal support so she can get back on her feet.
Someone said she lost nothing. A baby was her dream. She lost her baby. A woman who wants to be a wife and mother more than having aa career should not be demeaned. Less than 50 years ago, that was one of only about four or five options for a married woman: teach, nurse, clean houses, or be a stay-at-home wife and mother. There is an honor to being all of them. I have a doctorate, but I’d love to have spent more time with my kids; we were not rich like Kordell. You folks are so hard and tough on someone who was blessed (temporarily) to not have to go to work like us, either before or after she got married…though she DID work with the family organization, and earned a living, so do your homework and have a little heart for a very naive young woman. Your own daughters may do the same.
My point is…i will never put down a woman for the choices she has made in her life. I too have several degrees, but i am also a stay at home mom that is investing in my children’s future. Mind you, ihave taken a major pay cut, without any regret. So, again, I’m not going to put her down for the choices she has made for herself. Plus, i too have lost a baby, and it is devastating. So i was not referring to her losing the baby. God bless!
I don’t care if I never worked a day in my life, aint no man gonna treat me the way that the mfer treated her, and she is so stupid to let hime treat her that way, what did she think the outcome was going to be, we have to respect each others opinions and asperations, you cant live through someone elses achievments, and thank goodness that she did not have any children with him, and for one thing he aint even cute, but you know I heard that when he was playing football that he was caught being on the downlow so that would have been enough for me to say no thank you I dont care how much money he has.
It’s for women whose husbands demand they stay within the home walls. No but really I think women are still entitled based on circumstances. Porsha had no income when she met him and surely he preferred it that way. She wasted two years as did he when both could be happily married to people that would stay with them. Not to mention did he cheat??? Cheating should automatically mean payment. Also men can and do get spousal support as well. I just feel like if their good enough to stand by you while you make the money their good enough to get a cut after you ditch em.
What the hell is your bitter self talking about?
Your entire post seems based on jealousy for Porscha because first of all she hasn’t said a thing about money.The only person that has spoke on money has been the sweetest of them all,Miss Kordell "mini man" Stewart……..
@ Belinda, these are the most real and honest words I’ve heard a woman speak in a very long time. I feel exactly the way you do. I can’t believe all these comments with people thinking Porsha should get some sort of big settlement. Why? Porsha chose to be a submissive wife because she was bringing nothing else to the table. You can’t run your mouth if you’re 100% dependent on another individual. It’s like being a child living with your parents. If you live under their roof you follow their rules. Porsha wanted to be a grown woman but act like a child so she got treated like one. And people need to stop being so naive thinking Porsha is so sweet. She knew exactly what she was doing by getting married and using that relationship to get on RHOA and garner some fame in hopes of making her own money. Well it worked so now she should bow out her marriage graciously and thank Kordell for making that possible for her.
I so agree.
Bravo
Although she has the capability to make money, she is not gainfully employed in the truest sense of the word. If I were him, I would provide her with a decent settlement, a confidentiality agreement and send her on her way.
"gainfully employed" is definitely the operative, legal wording. She was not hired to "work" on RHOA, she was hired to let them film her life as a housewife. If she had any desires to begin "her career" as she called it, Kordell told her no, and even women NOT MARRIED to their mates who are told NO, get palimony for giving up their "careers"…didn’t y’all see that episode of Martin or Fresh Prince or Amen, where the woman was a dancer who stayed at home at the request of her husband, and she proved she was a great dancer and deserved the money she missed out on. We don’t know what talents Porsha has, ONLY WHAT WE HAVE SEEN ON THE INTERNET AND GOSSIP. She might have learned some great skills when she was at AIU, and was prepared to use them in a job, but Kordell saw her in a video (or wherever…we don’t know), and swooped her up to dispel the gay rumors!So I agree she should be compensated for the two years she was his housewife, feeding, screwing, cleaning, trophy-wifing, being a hostess to his business partners and others who could promote him financially, planning and attending public events to make him look good, etc., cause his fugly face would break any mirror and get him turned away at any interview if they didn’t know his history.
Belinda!? Are you single? If so I want to say I love you and lets get married!! Ha ha naw but seriously thanks for your post, there are not many like you on this site and I have been reading for a few month now. The Evil hatred for men on this site study worthy. Its never 2 or 3 women but 100s of them are very angry at men. Thanks for being different. Peace
Stevie Wonder seen this coming………. People look I wish Kordell would keep it real Porsha and the RHOA didn’t ruin his reputation he did that all by his self during his NFL days getting caught in a park late at night with a man getting it in……YES that’s right Mr. Monkey man is GAY …………..
Porsha get your shit and keep it moving this a blessing in disguise you will be ok stay prayed up……… #TeamPorsha he thought he was losing controll of her and he ran loser
I have a cousin in Pittsburgh and Miss Kordell was caught in Schenley Park which is a popular spot for gays especially undercover gays to meet at night in Pittsburgh,which is similar to Piedmont Park in Atlanta…
That’s what I heard lol smh
question was your cousin there also? since the the story is the police keep it under wraps then who knows.
Kordey is really mad. LOL Porsha can do better she should see this as a blessing thank God for your fibroids because your child would had a gumby shaped head and just plain old ugaly. Please do not go out like Sheree with your hand out looking stupid. Move on and make your own damn money, fuck Kordey.
Gumby shaped head….DEAD! Agree with all you said.
@Lavetta, that exactly what she deserves. Porsha was looking down on women that are not marriage and always making fun of Kenya.
I THINK…he only married her to difuse the gay rumors. Now that he’s been in the A, he is more comfortable with his gayness, hell…even clive davis came out. So i guess he is now ready to fully embrace his true sexual preference. I was all for he & Porsha, but the way he handled this situation speaks volume to how he really is as a person. He handled it in piss poor taste. It was a punk move!!!
Am I the only person that doesn’t believe she was blindsided? I think she knew this was coming, but of course she’s going to play the victim.
no you are not the only one
yea what you sat.
Where is the Kim and Nene back to being BFF"s story?
They’re friends again and wondering how long will it last? I guess Cynthia will try her hardest to keep Nene her bestie.
Cynthia will probably now be known as "Cynthia Who?"
If they are friends again that’s a good look. Cynthia was too damn needy for me when it came to Nene, real friends balance each other out and don’t always agree but it’s the love for each other that holds tem together. This was exhibited with Nenecand Kim…Cynthia was just a coat rider. She need to take her friendship contract and have many seats.
Cynthia is somewhere crying her eyes out trying to get another contract drawn up.
Guess Cynthia’s off the show now.
Anyone that believes they are "real friends" is gullible! Its called "acting"…duh! They both know that it is in their best interest to be friends again in order to recreate themselves on the show & to create a refreshed story line. So please stop with the extra bs already! Bloop! Both of them are played out anyway.
What storyline? Kim is not even going to be on the show next season. Nene has landed 2 television shows all while she and Kim were not even friends, so I would say she has been pretty successful.
The bravo story line for rhoa. Nene doesn’t need a story line. Kim does. Kim walked out of the show. If she wants to get back in she will have to kiss Nene’s ass. Bloop!
Kim needs a story line for her show and I am sure Nene wont mind another check to be featured on Kim’s show regarding their make up. Also many people are bored with Nene’s current story line.
For those of you trying to call out Porscha for being stupid remember this: Kordell knew she was stupid and married her anyway so what does that make him? As for the money, he also married her without a prenup. When you marry someone you become one flesh and many states are community property which means any income generated during the marriage belongs to both! She won’t get 7 figures but she for sure will get 6. If she wants the 7 figures she needs to counter sue him for fraud. What’s the fraud? The fact that he is gay!
lol!
THAT’S what I’M talkin’ bout! Come on Miss Dineva, help a sistah out. We KNOW you got a cup of tea bags steaming with some DL info.
She knew he was controlling and wanted her dumb behind to stay home when she married him. Don’t cry now because he wasn’t willing to change the script and now he’s out.
Agree with the comments about Kenya. Porscha was foul for the wsy she dogged Kenya but Kenya really was crazy so it’s a wash. Lol
If Porsha is who she portrays herself to be or, rather, wanted to be, she would have let the reality TV go and work on her marriage and the "Foundation for Girls" etc.
Most married women know, it does take time and patience to turn around those controlling spouses….just ask a virtuous woman. It can take a few years, but it can be done and will be worth the while.
You cant go into a marriage trying to change people it doesn’t work that way. I would not spend a few of my precious years on this earth trying to change a man. Porsha’s relationship with Kordell was more of parent and child rather than husband and wife.
Kenya was jealous that Porsha was Married. But… I believe both of their men were messing around with each other; LoL!!!
Miss Claudean need to have several seats. Portia better take her to the bank! # Portia
You are so wrong on this. Stick to blogging. Dude is on camera stating that he runs the household and he clearly states that she is dependent upon him and he is in control. What does that mean for you lay folks. If he doesn’t have a pre-nup, he will pay spousal support. Also, Kordell may have other motivations to take the cameras out of his life. I think Portia is an idiot but living with this type of dude has not been easy. She deserves some comfort and she will get it with his money. Hopefully, she won’t take him back.
Let’s see. He’s married. He’s the eldest man of the house. He’s also the bread winner. That pretty much makes him the leader of the household. He can honestly say he runs his household. Ladies if you don’t think your husband should be a leader then please keep the coochie tight because you won’t be getting married no time soon and them 20 somethings look so damn good and your vagina is your only bargaining chips you have.
Agreed! These chics claim to want a man to lead, but when he does, they resist it. You can tell that there are/were too many women raised without the proper father figure in their home.
There is a difference between letting a man lead and being controlled by them. For an example of this on reality TV look at RHOBH Yolanda and David Foster’s marriage. She repeatedly calls him her king and caters to him yet he respects her. He does not try to intimidate her or talk to her like a child. Granted Yolanda is different than Porsha in the fact she is older and smarter. Yolanda doesn’t have a full time career outside the home but her husband isn’t intimidated by the independence she does take and certainly doesn’t jump in to mediate her battles. It is a damn shame how Kordell treats Porsha.
You are so wrong on this. Stick to blogging
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As opposed to what, lay person?
Thats what these chicken heads get listening to these other unfulfilled chicken heads…divorced. You claim Kordell is controlling..no its called protecting your wife from herself.
Porsha is not street smart or the sharpest knife in the drawer so she needed protection and guidance or she is liable to be swallowed up by the industry like she was. This chic is 30+ years old and seems as if she never made a difficult adult decision on her own thats not Kordell’s fault.
She let Nene and some other selfish broads hype her up to make her think her husbands concern was to only benefit him. Now those same broads are laughing at her or dipping in her business as we speak.
And she doesn’t have a career, y’all dumb if you say she do. What special training or formal career specific education does she have?
Ladies stop giving up your marriages just to go out to eat 3 nights a week with your friends/fake bitches.
Kordell is the one who filed for divorce. How is he protecting her? Porsha stood up for him in Vegas. He is a complete jerk and he only cares about himself. He’s not a leader, he is a coward!
Understand that the idiot you’re responding to is just another bitter male with issues coming to the blogs projecting his issues with women onto Porscha when he doesn’t have a clue as to what he’s talking about….
Porsche RODE for her husband and did everything he required of her and look where it got her, u sound stupid. Men don’t want kno want they want, and if marriage is a team, u dnt go behind ur teamates back like that. We all sed Kordell didn’t show her any repsect and this is the proof.
Plus this should be a valuable lesson for her, to always have ur own. Porsche acts like a adult child, she may just need sometihng like this to bring out the GROWN WOMAN in her.
This is the only reason I kind of feel bad for Porsha. She defended him and her marriage the whole season! Yes she is dumb, but damn like @menni said if marriage is a team you don’t go behind your teamates back. They could have at least announced it together. That was a bitch ass move by Kordell. PORSHA get your OWN so you won’t have to be worried about this embarrasment. This is a blessing in disguise girl! NOw get hooked on Phonics and get your life together!
Please Porshe was trying to stay relevant. If her husband looked like a fake then she looks like a fake. She needed to keep the RHOA checks coming because she wasn’t doing much for the show. I’m so sick and tired of our black woman always playing the victim. sister have a whole lot so shit with them also. It’s not always the men.
@Blood
I agree with you.
She was swallowed up by what industry and how?
Just like a bitch ass nigga he go do something behind her back , it will be a story on here soon about him and his new lover(Jake) anyways boo get a good lawyer plus an investigator guarantee you he been bending over for awhile
Okay! Great start! …so now we gotta find "Jake’s" azz. Dinea!! Who is JAKE?
Sounds like another white boy.
A blind item from Entertainment Lawyer
She is barely out of her teens. She is also the reason that this C+ reality star is now getting a divorce. Her husband found someone younger and someone who doesn’t have a desire to be on television and someone who will worship the ground he walks on. Also, the barely out of her teens woman has another quality that he has never had before in a relationship. He is in lust with that quality. It kind of blurs the line between male and female if you know what I mean. Porsha and Kordell Stewart "Real Housewives of Atlanta"
Is the transvestite’s name "JAKE"??
This is all they have. Girl, I be on those blind items though lol. I’ll keep a look out.
He studied RHOBH and Kelsey Grammar. At least he did not embarrass her completely and let the blindside play out on tv with another man/woman. But he does not have 50 million dollars 2 Kids and 10 yrs at stake either. After only two years and no kids his loss will be minimal. He knew his ass better jump ship before those swimmers latched on and he be attached/supporting her lifestyle for the next 18. At least she has a story line. I will still ff through her scenes if she does make the cut next year. Although now that Nene and Kim have made up that spot may no longer be available.
That rumored Nene and Kim relationship could have only come about by Kim reaching out to Nene with ulterior motives to congratulate Nene on upcoming wedding. Kim needs money asap and hopes to get back on that Bravo gravy train cause she knows this show of hers(which will probably get low ratings and gains will be divied up in Kandi lawsuit) was Bravo’s parting gift. Nene IS a millionaire gross is $4.3mil, Gregg’s is $3mil. Kroy is signed for $3mil if he’s renewed and doesn’t get hurt. Kim is worth $250k. So the rumors Nene noted about their credit must be true. Kim has got to start Kris K pimpin’her kids AND kiss Nene’s azz if she wants to make that come up cause with all dem kidz plus she aint’ gettin’ younger and she has NO marketable talent that I can see other than being on Bravo. Nene will probably make $1oomil per season for pretending to be this chic’s friend. Nene KNOWS while these doors are open, she’s struttin’ all up and in those rooms.
Omg. I love everything about this comment. Insights are on point. The tea and shade of it all!
BITCH BETTER GET A 9-5! LMAO
Why is your old ugly retarded looking azz up here calling this woman a b-tch?
I’m so sick of Black MALES like you that don’t have any courage whatsoever when dealing with anyone but when it comes to a Black woman you get your ridiculous azzes out here calling Black women all types of names…
Sistahs please look out for each other because Black women are the ONLY group of women that CAN NOT count on men as other races of women can to protect them…..
preach…
Don’t worry. His chic just read that and is throwing his ungainful azz out.
@ Free Mind, thank you!
You ain’t never lied. Black men have failed black women miserably. But the black boys get all the attention. What about black girls/women. We’re on our own i guess. A black man will call black women (at least the dark skinned ones) ugly and inferior to other women. And we hear it daily on the radio and even sing along with it. It’s gotten to the point where if we see a famous/rich black man with a black woman it’s unusual and you need to do a double take. Let me stop because I can go on and on about this topic…
Maya, well said.
I’m sure you’re flat broke pitch black and ugly. If you hate black men so much why haven’t you found a replacement? Because your value ain’t shit and if a white or aian man step to you he really just trying to jump off his fetish.dont act like other races don’t disrespect women, who do you think popularized "Cunt", Bitch, whore..i’ll wait. Keep reading your self hate books boo on your cheap ass computer.
Damn! I can’t believe nobody jumped your f****t for that. You skank azz bastard! Go somewhere and stick that tampon back up your azz…"Blood".
Free Sweetie
Lol! Where this come from? I forgot all about her butt! "Sweeeeetie". I will not be watching.
It’s always been rumored he was gay. He must have really became wide open since residing in the ATL.
Kordell, if your concern was that the show was making you look bad… you did that yourself. You pretending to "work on things" just so you could file first is a TOTAL b*tch move and puts your need to control/insecurity issues on glaring display.
Fly Porscha, youre free to be fab by your damn self or even date someone with a normal dome that appreciates you and supports you with whatever you do. Thats all any woman wants.
Something is not right with all of RHOA husbands. Except Greg. All of them – Apollo, Kordell, Walter, and I’m even looking at Peter side-eye. Something is not right, and I think Nene and Greg know!
Anyway I don’t look to Bravo to be going deep and heavy with the gay card on Kordell. After all, 90% of their staff are gay.
I just hope the RHOA women come together to lift Porsha up.
Before the divorce, I actually didn’t care one way or the other if Porsha stayed on for a second season.
Now, I think it would be great if Porsha did stay on for a couple more seasons living the single life.
Finally, Kordell: You are an abomination. You look like an abomination, and your time is coming!
Peace
LMAO…at your comments something is wrong with all the husbands….right!! and they need a spin off…ATL Husbands
Walter..*crickets* was not …is not a husband lol Unless he hooked up with Kordell..and that’s what this is all about. LOL
One more thing, I think Porsha would benefit from taking up a few academic courses in the show. In addition to Dr. Sherry being her life coach, I think Kenya’s aunt would be a perfect mentor. There is no shortage of strong, highly educated, Black women in Atlanta.
Porsha: the world is yours!
I disagree. If aunt sisquo can’t even help kenya…how in the hell do you think she can mentor Porsha? I think life coach Lauren Lake would be a great match for her.
That’s not her role. Kenya is not on RHOA to be "helped". She’s there on the show to deliver the drama and crazy. Her aunt was on, only to be a "prop" and listening ear to the 42 year old Kenya.
However, Porsha is mentor material, and I could see Kenya’s Aunt taking on a bigger role on the show by mentoring her. Porsha needs a village. So there’s plenty of room for a Lauren Lake too.
@Nana, I fell out! LOL oooo chile you a mess! Love it!
She need’s to leave him any way the best thing that could of happened to her she is now free from bondage…Go Porshe
I knew something was not right in the buttermilk when he questioned her…"career or baby"..like what "husband " would do that their his wife. Secondly"best interest in child"..now from what I undestand his babymother was on an episode of RHOA a few seasons ago but did not return because Kordell said she looked "ratchet" to their son. So I’m guessing 2 things,,she "obeyed him" and now he wants her back…"Portia did what she wanted to do" and he wants a divorce. I think this has all been part of the plan for Kordell since this season started..it was fuel to the flame. The marriage was already in trouble. Now, where has Kordell been staying if Portia is in the house alone? Its a shame that because she is so young, she didnt see this coming and could have been more prepared. I dont care for her on the show, but as a woman who is clearly devoted to her marriage, this is heartbreaking. But she is beautiful, she will get smarter, and I think the divorce will be good for her so she can stop being a "puppet" for her husband and be a wife for someone else. Karma was created by a woman…Kordell will weap what he sew.
Not your broke husband or wife. I would if I had the money. How ever I had many many many many fights to get my wife to work. See she wanted to stay home only (house wife). Kordelll knows what he wants and Porsha know what she wants. She gets her career and young broke men that wants her to work. He can find a broke fine woman. dime a dozen… really..
very easy..
This is a mess but it can be corrected. All Porsha has to do is stay focused and move on. This is a blessing that she can’t see yet. If her husband though that the show painted him in a bad light he has but himself to blame for that. I think what we saw of him was his true personality, albeit, he may not have liked how it was edited, but it was all him. Sometimes we find it very hard to face the TRUTH about ourselves. I have little respect for him as a man. If your marriage is not what you want it to be and you are thinking of divorcing, please me MAN enough to tell your wife. Finding out in the media had to be so hurtful if that is true. Porsha stay strong this to will pass.
And I think that whole therapy session was Portia’s piece of trying to save her marriage.In my eyes it showed that she was convinced that they were working on their marriage. She wanted a baby and Kordell knew it. He was not supportive of the issue everytime it was brought up. Can she sue him for false pretence? ( I think thats what its called).
He didn’t want a baby with her because he knew that he was going to leave her. That’s what I think anyway.
Everyone that goes onto this reality show ends up in a divorce..smdh!
Wow! Now it’s all beginning to make sense. I was wondering why he would allow his wife to join the RHOA cast, but not allow his ex-girlfriend/son’s mother to do so during a prior season.
It seems to me (and I could be wrong), that Kordell and Porsha had been having serious marital problems from the moment they said "I Do". On the last episode, during her first therapy session, in a roundabout way, she basically said that they had commnunication issues. In other words, he wasn’t trying to see things from any other perspective other than his own and that frustrated Porsha (as it would myself).
I also think that Kordell married Porsha and shortly thereafter, he realized that she was not the one (or that it was not going to work for whatever reason) and so he began planning his escape. So yes. She was blindsided because allegedly, he told her one thing and did another behind her back. And he played along until the time came for him to make his move. He’d probably been consulting with divorce attorneys since the first time she showed resistance. And for him to just say F it, I’m done, only makes it look like he’s had someone else on the side all along ready and willing to meet his every demand. Kordell seems determined to have things his way or no way.
This is another instance of what a women perceives to be true does not match up to what is really going on. Kenya doesn’t seem so crazy. Men and women view things differently. Porsha has been very supportive of Kordell, no matter how he looked on TV. Based on current events, I think he is a jerk!
Kordell is going to pay alimony as long as Porsha makes less than him up until she either a)make More money that matches or exceeds kordell’s income or b)marries someone with a higher income than kordell’s….yeah she’s "able-bodied" but it all balls down to the life she was accustomed to prior to the divorce. smh ninja should have signed a dayum prenup
I so hope you’re right.
Are you an lawyer?
I think Bravo needs a new show…" Life After RHOA..starring Portia Williams-Stewart( Keep your last name chile….you worked too damn hard for it..in my Tina Turner voice)
Saw it coming, most trophies"sports-fish" types don’t normally make it within a marriage. You clearly saw that Porsha was struggling with the lack of intelligence and coining the statement of being "265 days in a year"—LMAO, she needs to get her own identity. She has some growing to do and Kordell needs anger management therapy and has clearly marrid Porsha to hide behind his insecurities-so that they wouldn’t be apparent early on.
I agree with you…But, I still would like to hear his reason(s) for filing.
At the end of the day, this will probably help land her another season on RHOA. She’ll have her own coin and fame. Also, the JUDGE will decide what she gets. Not people on the blogs. Fact of the matter is that they were married, without a pre-nup and though she might not get 7 figures, she’ll likely get alimony. Plus, let’s be clear, Porsha might not be the brightest tool in the shed, but that’s a bad bish. She’ll have 0 problems finding another high-roller, and maybe next time she won’t try to cuff a homo.
It is always sad to hear about a breakup of a marriage.
I feel bad for Porsha. From what was shown on tv, she tried hard to please her husband. Kordel was just so controlling. Not sure that I could deal with it. Marriage can be tough especially in the early years.
I hope she gets a good lawyer. If they don’t truly don’t have a prenup, it would seem he owes her a portion of the money that was made during their years together. Also, I imagine the fact he wanted her to stay home and not earn an income will be a factor in the negotations as well.
I don’t see her as trying to take advantage or "get his money". He wanted her to stay home and not work. She did that. Therefore, he should owe her some financial compensation for her doing so.
As somneone who has been married a long time (19 years and counting), it is important for women to have a Plan B. Even if one’s marriage is good. What about if the husband passes away? Women still need a Plan B on what to do, financial planning, life insurance, plans if children are involved, etc.
She needs to get Gloria Allred or Donald Schiller, Juanita Jordan’s divorce attorney
You are right! And from the amount of divorces from being on Bravo, Bravo should foot the bill.
Now you know Miss Andy is not having that, lol.
Spousal support is still a possibility. Porsha’s career isn’t set in stone and if Kordell thinks he can just toss his wife on the street, whom he advised not to work and get her priorities together, he is sadly mistaken if he can just let her go w/o any financial obligation.
As a political science major so many little tings we can exploit based on the show but imagine the things we don’t know and she could use. Kordell hesitated to file those papers for a reason. Now someone has pumped his head up that he can do this and get off scott free.
The plan was for her to never work or lift a finger. She’s still not working or stable enough for financial independence. That is partly his fault. Also I never even dreamed of a 7 figure settlement. Kordell isn’t wealthy more like rich tryna make it stretch. She needs an attorney that specializes in divorce. Phaedra is actually a good lawyer but divorce is not her specialty. She is intellectual property, entertainment and civil.
Porsha will be fine I believe. She def has another season of Housewves coming up. She’ll find her identity and people will love her next season cause that’s what bandwagoners do.
Kordell Stewart’s BM Tania is on RHOA Season 2, Episode 12: "Baby Mama & Daddy Drama". I’m watching the episode right now dealing with the SHEBYSH$T…..oops SHEBYSHEREE Fashion show…lol
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My only question is what was the point. You married her and waited for her to get a career to divorce, I’m lost, i don’t get it
OH GOOD lord – I’m SICK OF THIS STORY – this woman is not some big time movie star – she should had took the time out to know this man before she got married to him – plus @ 2 years you can see the marriage is not working – cut your lost before children are born – she is not old – she’s a young girl – move out – go to school take the time out to find her self – move on
Kordell knew he was gay! That’s why he got traded from the Baltimore Ravens b/c he was having a relationship with one of the players (who name I forgot) and the team did not want TWO gay players, too much controversy for the team. But he is gay and did suck d_ck in the park like they claim (Funky Dineiva). But does he know when your married when you buy things together whether its a house a car furniture it has to be brought up in court to be divided! No none can say this is my money so he/she don’t get to keep that. Even i n a regular relationship (no marriage) the police will tell you when one person is moving out and someone wants to take the TV lets say and the other says that mines, they cant take that, then it has to go to court to work out who gets what! He is an idiot and she should of known better!
Yep!! I would say he studied Kelsey Grammar or they had pillow talk… Ya’ll know Camille talked about him and his freaky bedroom antics!! What’s the tea on his "alleged " creep in Stone Mountain? I’m sure he will swing by "Bulldogs"(gay club Atl) or Swinging Richards (male strip club frequented by gay males) this week to celebrate his new freedom!
to tell the truth I was not a fan of Porsha – I thought she was young dumb and boring – a woman who spend all day shopping and getting her digs in on Kenya when she can (all up in Kenya business) now the tables have turn and its poor Porsha with the controlling husband – Oh how shameful – if Porsha is crying she crying for no more big account shopping money- I’m sure her weave cost a grip at best- she was not that dumb when she said I do – I bet the Money was the driving force – where is the proof that Kordell is Gay – if so she married him with open eyes – so she need to put on her big girl drawers and grow up – keep it moving
This is the first time I watched the video..I am with the open letter to Bravo. You then caused the girl to loose her man, let her keep her job.
He’s dreaming if he thinks he doesn’t have to pay something. If I was Porsha I would sue the s**t out of him just for the humiliation. Make a believer out of him that "Hell Hath No Fury Then a Woman Scorned."
I don’t think she’ll walk away from the marriage with nothing. This situation just makes me dislike Kordell even more. Who files for divorce and let their spouse found out through the blogs?!!
find out*
Do you know that is the truth? I read it on the internet? No prenuptial agreement.. Porsha said so? I don’t believe every thing people say. Let’s see if there is a Prenup..
ATL I just saw a video of Evangelist Porsha on the net, whats up with that? I knew that air head, 265 days was all an act, and that is what Kordell meant when he said she is "Rachet" Now! She went from point A alllllll the way to point B
The things that make you go mmmmmmmmmm
I believe there is more to this story
Remember Porsha Stardom is devils playground,& he always comes to collect.
i’ll take her if he doesnt want her
So many things simply missed. This child does not have a degree not even from the flu. Lets keep it clear she was looking for money and he was looking for arm candy. Unless he is dumb as hell he had to know that she was dumb and she knew he was controling prior to the marriage. Outside of not being the smartest girl in the class she did come across as being a very nice person who had respect for herself and her husband (at least on t.v.). But really guys/gals get your on. Dude can be gold diggin’ *itches too. FYI -I love CNS post you have a fan in Ohio.
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Porsha, whatever comes from this please remember these three things…you ah smart, you ah kind…and you is impotant.
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Truth is dont nobody really know shit about their marriage. You watch what 12 episodes of some shit edited to sensationalize a plot.
i will say that Porsha wants a baby and she will just hand the baby to the nanny. Kordell doesn’tt want a nanny rasing his child
and i dont blame him at all. Porsha does act like a spoiled brat .very immature.
NO ONE HAS A PERFECT LIFE!!!!!
Now that she has retained her BFF Nene’s lawyer I’m sure she’ll walk away with something. Good lookin’ out Lenethia. Especially since he’s doing all the talking. He can control her but I know he’s MAD as hell that he CAN’T control the blog sites. Listened to that interview he did in 2002 when rumor came out and he said he was crying. Girly man.
I meant 2000.
Kordell is the poster child for the closeted, down low man. Most of them are EVIL and vindictive.
Atlien, you made a good call on him waiting for her to get a job so he can get out of paying her money. He’s a dirty bastard. At least pay her for her services of being his Beard Lady for 2 years.
Also, I don’t know why people think Porsha comes from money. Ain’t NO money in fighting justice and civil rights! It’s noble, but child please, Mr. Hosea was probably homeless himself messing around trying to fight for black folks. He surely wasn’t getting any real checks for that. Porsha was living in some fairy tale world. Bless her heart.
Porsha claims that her grandfather was MLK’s right hand man. They showed a movie about MLK during black history month and I didn’t hear his name mentioned if they worked so closely together.
@lxl…you might want to read a book…Hosea williams was actuually the person mlk looked up to..he also was very active in atl for many years..has a main street named after him..her family runs one of the biggest non profit orgs for homeless in the nation…her aunts and uncles are very much respected in the city..you might wanna try wikipedia
I don’t need to pick up a damn thing. Are you really mad because I’ve never heard of the late Hosea Willlams? Well, I’m not from Atlanta and I’m sure others who aren’t from that area never heard of him either until this show. Apparently you’re offended, too bad you feel that way.
Please use google before you comment on a blog and look ignorant.
No offense, but why google anything if it doesn’t interest me?
That’s some mess…lol He got her on the show…to make it seem like she’s working..lol
Porsha girl you better get you some Millie Jackson …. a listen up..lol Anyway, she’s not guaranteed to be there next season. So, she needs to smash back…with her walking papers from Andy…lol
I don’t think people think she comes from money because of Hosea Feed the Homeless…if you know the mans story he went on to do other things..and so did her parents…she’s not poor…But she’s not Qunicy Jones daughter either. I think Porsha will get some money…no pre nup and he filed for the divorce…why? all that will be considered. I think. Honey..ATL justice system is ruthless…lol js
I doubt it. The courts don’t care about that anymore. They only care if you have children and if marrying him changed her standard of living.
Her we go with the Gay BS. Most of you better worry about who your man is sleeping with. If you have a man.
ALL YALL SINGLE, FAT, BITTER WOMEN ON HERE WHO ARE LAUGHING AT PORSHA’S MISFORTUNE NEED TO HAVE A SEAT!! SO WHAT IF SHE SAID SHE HAD A PICTURE PERFECT LIFE!… IT PROLLY WAS AT ONE TIME. AND ALL THOSE SAYNG "MARRIED WOMEN LOOK DOWN ON SINGLE WOMEN" NEED TO STOP BEING SO SENSITIVE! YALL ARE PROLLY JUST INSECURE AND JEALOUS OF MARRIED WOMEN… SO YOU THINK PEOPLE ARE LOOKING DOWN ON YOU! IF YOU WOULD SPEND MORE TIME WORKING ON YOURSELVES INSTEAD OF READING AND COMMENTING ON BLOGS ALL DAY… MAYBE YOU’D HAVE A HUSBAND TOO #TEAMWIFE
Did that fool(Dineva) say Ms Twinkie was off some Mad Dog 20/20..when she lost her way? LMAO
Wow…so they really are getting divorced? This is not one of those NeNe and Gregg divorces? lol
so did the man Kordell try to murder his wife all he ask for is a divorce – just Maybe he was not happy – would it had been better for him to go out and cheat? most of you know before this all came down you could not give 2 cents about Porsha – she was not a fan favorite – she came off as a spoil football wife – living large & dumb as a bat – so don’t make me laugh – Kordell gave you something to talk about and for people to have fun saying their 2 cents about it – just maybe the wife knew her life was hanging by a toenail and play into the cameras as trying to be sweet – how sweet as she got her thrills by putting down Kenya and smiling up to fat head Walter – so give me a break about controlling Kordell – she knew the man was full of control when she got with him and she like it
If she is making money that is close to his she will not get much or anything at all. They have not been married long and have no kids together. She said what she needed to say to get a husband. Now she see where that got her. I don’t see it as a Bitch move. I see it as a smart move. Why give this heffer more than she deserves. He is the one who took the hits on the football field long before he married her. She has money coming in from RHOA. She should move the hell on and find a clue.