damn….

NOTHING about this is “FAIR”… Usher made his living singing and dancing to women(yet the one he swore before God he’d love, he treats like this), regardless why she married him and they’re divorcing, THIS IS WRONG! she’s buried a child, lost custody of 2, AND has had her home listed for sale… I feel sorry for Tameka as a grieving mother and divorcee…SHE NEEDS MORE PEOPLE!!!

That is low down and dirty!!! Why is he being so vendictive?! I never saw him doing all these things but hey you never know what went on behind close doors because he is obviously mad about something. I mean he is treating her like she a shit!!

It’s his,she as a indenpendent women should have her own finances. This is where women in the industry get things fucked up,stop depended on these niggas money no matter how much they gettin or got. If anything use the money to gain and make into something for urself where u can say I don’t need shit goodbye. Usher earns what he got dancing and singing whatever,besides that shit don’t last forever.

GOOD!!! after how she called him an unfit horrible dad in court. The man was in tearz!!! GO USHER GO! I don’t feel sorry for tameka at all…She bit the hand that fed her!

He could of waited after the holidays!He know his kids are attached to the same housing.Just show how spineless he is.If his father treated his mother like this he would be crying like a bitch saying how much he hate’s his daddy.But when your intentions are to be evil especially around the holiday season;you get it worst in return.He don’t know if he will wake up tomorrow with cancer and he’s being dirty like this.He could have did this back in the summer but he picks a time with in the holiday season to make matters worst.Also to spoil his own kids holiday spirit by being difficult with their mom’s.Little boy mentality.I guess that’s from not having a black father to raise him.

Its crazy but it falls back on tameka cause when usher wanted to delay the custody battle cause of her sons passing but she said no. She just need to get it together.

Sorry for the Typos….

Yeah Michelle I know you and tameka are cordial and all but u was just dragging her through the mud not to long ago. No matter what had happens, divorce, split custody-at the end of the day, life goes on.
And if you can identify somebody’ you don’t know house- (that statement seems a little odd to me) from pictures taken of their kids- you got so much more life to live.
There is A WHOLE LOT about this case, usher and tameka that we do not know

Usher,you will pay for this! Tameka,dont worry because God will send you a MAN next time around!

Knock it off!!!

I believe either myself or someone else stated already indefinitely that usher was gonna sell that house. It was in the comments section. It’s baffling to me that people think its wrong for him to do so? Is it not his home? Did he not pay for it with HIS money? There is no reason why he shouldn’t be able to sell that house. Tameka needs to live within her means. I know she’s in debt and her businesses arent doing the best but that is NOT Usher’s issue. Tameka has to accept her responsibility in her extremely less than fortunate luck. Maybe she can move back to Oakland, maybe she will find a cheap condo or apartment in ATL. Who knows. She’s a very materialistic woman so I know she’s a lil butt hurt right now, hell most women in atl are. That flossing, stunt mentality gets you nowhere but in debt and usher isn’t entitled to pay for a house that he nor his children will live In and the upkeep is way too expensive to be paying for while somebody is laying up doing nothing with their son, which is Ryan in this case. And the home is nice, so trust somebody will buy it. Tameka better be looking for somewhere to stay and stop being so proud. That woman she was clowning with the fake Loubou’s has somewhere to stay, in a minute she won’t.

I don’t understand why everyone is a Usher HATER. 1st off they are DIVORCED she obviously didn’t ask for the home in the settlement. Before all this drama started she said she was scared about him selling the house, so this didn’t not come out of the blue. Why get mad at the man when she has known for a while that he was going to sell HIS HOME.
Once you divorce it’s not his job to make sure she has a place to live. She ain’t new to the divorce game. Remember folks she’s been down this path before.
Yes I feel bad she lost her son, but don’t let that cloud what’s actually going on. She CHOSE to sit around and wait for that man to tell her to move out. Let’s keep it all the way real.
It’s time for to put on her big girl panties and be a mom and self sufficent woman. Hell many of us do it every damn day.
I wish I would wait for a man to put me out, honey I would have had my own spot before it even got this far.

Ok….emotions and like and dislike of either parties, here’s the facts. The divorce settlement allowed Tameka to remain rent free in the house, knowing that Usher owned it and had the right to sell it. With the alimony and child support Tameka recieved, is it out of the realm of possibility that she would at some point be expected to provide for her own housing? Between her earnings from her businesses and her child support, providing a home for herself and her other kids other than the 2 with Usher is still her responsibility. Usher in fact allowed her to remain in the home for 3 years post divorce. In those 3 years, is it unfathomable that she would have been able to get herself a place to stay?! Is Usher now responsible for paying her the support and managing it for her as well?! Seriously, where does Tameka’s responsibility begin? Enough of the guilt. Even before the loss of her son, Tameka should have had sense enough to prepare and be ready for the house to be sold. I don’t give her any credit at all.

I feel sorry that Tameka lost her son but this case has nothing to do with that. This case was started long before she lost her son. Tameka had her day in court. Things were presented in court that we do not know about.I don’t believe that some judge would put her life long work and career online for Usher Raymond. There are a lot of things that have not been reported in the blogs. Such as the stations here are reporting that Tameka was paid for her half of the house when the divorce was final. Which means she has known for over two years that she had to move and she has chosen to not find a house. It also means that she has been living rent and mortgage free for over 2 years. I think that I would have no problem finding another house if I have been living mortgage free for over 2 years and not to mention the fact that she has already been paid for her half of the house.

U know Im really not liking Usher right now I feel like he being a bully!!!

I am neither a fan of Usher or Tameka…I mean, I was a fan of Usher back in the day but watching this whole messy thing play out in the media has really cause me not to be as intrigued with him as I once was..that and his music became a little to housey for me. That being said, Tameka has been diagnosed with a mental disorder that she admittedly stopped taking the medication for….not for nothing, but we all heard of those women who do crazy shit to the children to spite the father…no one wants that to be the case here but let’s just call a spade a spade…she is a little on the crazy side. Next, this home belongs to Usher and he can sell it if he wants too. There is no reason why he had to continue to provide such a lavish roof over Tameka’s head. Here in Atlanta, people tend to live way outside of their means and a lot of these women/men have no backup plan for when the gravy train stops coming in…their bad. Designer labels are nice to have but definitely not a necessity when your means of income are shaky…and for God’s sake, realize that this is the beginning of a new era where the judicial system is not going to always rule in favor of the mother because she pushed the baby out…they are going to put the baby with whom they deem most fit so for all the groupies out there thinking that spitting a baby out from a celeb is going to be their come up, take heed. Any who, I hope she comes out of this stronger and wiser because all though Grace is damn there geriatric, Tameka ain’t no spring chicken and she should have known better.

I feel sorry for Tameka regarding the lose of her son and the custody battle regarding the little one, BUT this whole thing about her staying in the home and Usher is an ass for “putting her out” is on her too. This women wasn’t even DIVORCED from Ryan when she started dating Usher. You have to finish a chapter of life before you start a new one (finalize your divorce first then start fresh with a new relationship). The whole union was messy from the beginning. Tameka knew he was no good, and watched him talk crazy to his mom (behind the music, Usher going HAM on his mom while Tameka sat on the bed in the hotel room). Keep in mind she was his stylist so she knew what he was about, yet still decided to marry him. If you decide to be with someone who you KNOW have monogamous issues and is a complete ass then that is on you. If I remember correctly either Tameka or Usher said when they first started working together they didn’t get along (didn’t like each other). If the divorce states the home can be sold, you better believe a plan B should take affect right after the divorce! Instead she was flying around the world taking pictures of her living the “life” and showing off her red bottoms via twitter. Just because he has money doesn’t mean YOU have money, take a lesson from those Hollywood exes on VH1, once it’s over so are your benefits. You can imagine the upkeep of the home and regular maintenance on the property. She got with him right after the Confessions Album so money was different then compared to know. Sorry but this whole home situation could have been avoided if she would have just got her own spot. I think since Usher knows he gets the kids 11/20 why not place the home up for sale since they are no longer in that home. Hate it or not, this would make sense if it where me.

I was a champion of their relationship back when. However, homegirl has to move on. The entire post is slanted. The title of the post ‘takes kids and house from ex.. just in time for thanksgiving’ sure does draw the reader in. But then goes on to say there is clause that says she has 60 days after the sale to move. Doesn’t sound like taken just in time for Thanksgiving to me. Child…

Women need to learn that the feminization of poverty is real. We can not allow our well being to be tied to the success or love of someone else(husbands, boyfriends and etc). I think my grandmother was right when she said, baby always have your own because no one can take that from you.

I just have a few questions…maybe these TEAMUSHER folks can give me some answers…
1. If Tameka is so very unfit, why is Usher just now filing for full custody years later?
2. If he wanted her out of this house so very bad, why is he just now selling?
3. If he is so in love with Grace, why is out to get Tameka?
4. Why are you all assuming she has no plan b?

Wait..I think I have the answers..1 and 2 are pretty obvious-sounds like a man whose coochie supply got cut off. So now we taking kids and selling houses cause you can’t slang that thang on the slick anymore?Insecurity at its best. 3 is very clear,too..Because in some twisted and crazy way, Usher is not over Tameka, Say what you want, but this lil boy is acting like a woman scorned. A real man who got done the way he "claims" he was, will pick up his face and move on, not looking back. And for the record, Tameka is no dummy-if you all think she doesn’t have her stash together, you are certified crazy. This woman was about her business before and after Usher-why in the world would she not be okay w/o him? Stop assuming she "needs" him, hunty. Women are so very hateful-instead of judging her, pray for her peace of mind and stability thru out this mess. I have never been a Tameka fan, but wrong is wrong, and this ninja Usher is dead ass wrong.

Janet- he owned a home in ny — not her. She did not nor was ny their primary residence. Owning a home somewhere doesn’t make you a resident of that state. She actually filed from a new rental property. She could have made that move in a number of states, including her parent’s residence. With good counsel, you can make great decisions and achieve the best outcome. Again, if I were her, I would make nice with Usher and move forward. She’s not prepared to fight the war.

Well he let her stay there way past when she was supposed to vacate. If she likes the place so much, buy it from Usher or live in your means like the rest of us.

And might I add I’m no usher fan or tameka basher but she really needs to get her life!! From what everyone is saying she Rec"vd a settlement from the divorce and got to live 3 years free!! Honestly I think he was pretty nice about it!! I’ve seen worse actions over people that have wayy less at stake to loose. The problem is she lives way beyond her means like a lot of people in Atlanta seem to do. Nobody owes tameka anything and I honestly thinks she’s been patted on her ass enough it’s time to move on. Yet she hates him but continues to bear the mans last name?? She lost me on that one. Further more she trashes the man with every breath she takes. People are always screaming tameka has businesses and blah blah blah and she was made before usher if thats the cases why can’t to get her own crib and car? Usher isn’t innocent and may be a dog but tameka is no saint…she needs to move on because she’s looking real crazy right now… #deranged is more like it !! I’m a mother with 2 children so I’m not heartless…