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Tameka Raymond‘s 3 day interview with Entertainment Tonight! continues this evening for the final segment but it seems to me that we’ve all been denied the ability to see it in it’s entirety.
Bits and pieces of the interview have been released but for some odd reason, the segments that have aired are no where to be found and sorry… but I’m not tryna be posted up in front of the television that time of day.
[VIDEO1: Tameka Raymond on Losing Kile & Being Labeled "Gold Digger]
[VIDEO2: Tameka Raymond on Usher’s Bridesmaid confession…]
At any rate, ET! has released yet another snipped in anticipation of tonight’s segment and this recent clip gives you a bit of Tameka’s insight on why Usher called off their marriage.
[FLASHBACK: Usher/Tameka Raymond Wedding Photos]
Back in the Summer of 2007, a 28-year-old Usher left his pregnant fiancee Tameka Foster, then 37, at the altar and called off their wedding the night before.
Why did he do it?
Watch the watered down video below for Tameka’s take PLUS find out the real deal about what REALLY happened…
VIDEO: Tameka Raymond on Entertainment Tonight (Why Usher Canceled Wedding)
In case you’re wondering… the real reason Usher decided to cancel the huge wedding he’d planned, was that his mother/manager Johnetta Patton ran a background check on Tameka the night before the wedding and presented what she’d found to Usher.
I HEARD… Jonetta paid one of those random websites for some TEA on her son’s wife to-be and unbeknownst to her, the information she got back was for the wrong “Tameka Foster.”
Usher canceled the wedding, thinking that his Mom had his best interest at heart. BUT… he then decided to run a background check of his own and he found out that what Jonetta presented to him wasn’t true.
I’m told that he was so pissed off about the embarrassment that he endured over the likes of Jay-z, Beyonce & ‘nem showing up a wedding that had been canceled, that he stopped speaking to his own Mom (again) for her attempts to sabotage his wedding.
The couple then married five days later in front of family & friends at a much smaller wedding held at a local hotel. But that’s all in the past, right?
Fast forward a few years and now Usher’s mad at Tameka for trying to move on with her life after the divorce. He now has a new mom/manager (Grace Miguel), and it’s clear he doesn’t want his ex-wife to have another man in her life.
What better way to hurt a woman, than to take her kids away?
How the phuck could Usher stop 41 year old Tameka from having a man in her life. This is by Tameka’s choice, to hound behind Usher, making him more important, than the soul of her dead son. I don’t think she has had any di*k since Usher.. Believe me that will break her down before losing her kids will. What active woman goes 4 yrs of a di*kless life? How is it a mother just lost her son, still reminiscing over a marriage that was doomed before it started.. I mean any woman with their right mind would dropped the last name of any man that would sleep with a phucking bridesmaid…This whole situation is just sickening… God Bless Kile’s soul, because his mother could give a Shait !
Because his mother could give a S&!$
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This is such a cruel thing to say, about someone who just lost a child! How can you even find the heart to write this in the first place?!?! Even if the marriage was doomed from the start it was thier choice (and should be respected)!! This comment as a whole is just so rude and disrespectful on so many levels. There is nothing wrong with having and opinion but let be of quality, or at least something with value. Like I, you have no idea what it is to lose a child. And most woman who have had children with a man keeps the last name for the children sake. Plenty of woman do it,its nothing new under the sun.This situation is starting to become absurd and they should both concentrate on thier children as they are the ones who are suffering the most out of this. And if you are going to speak this was at least keep God out of it cause i have no idea how you can say God bless and speak so disregarding at the same time!?!?
I agree with you HOlla!!! Lisa said some disheartening things. You are correct, this marriage was their choice. I am praying that God judges Usher and heals Tameka. She has lost 3 sons, one through death and two to a father who feels as if he can teach his sons integrity. Who is he kidding? Integrity; when he admitted to Oprah that he cheated on Tameka towards the end of the marriage, and that he had exchanges, yes exchanges with the bridesmaids, (plural). Integrity from a man who tweets a picture of him with Grace Miguel with her hands on his and Tameka’s youngest son, so soon after losing them in court? Give me a break. Tameka is very forgiving of his mom. I commend her for that because the mom told Oprah that she did not regret not attending the wedding. How will she look her grandsons in the face and explain that one! i am praying for Tameka!
@G.H i see what your saying but the God that we serve would want to heal them both than to just judge Usher. That’s the merciful God that we serve. Will he hold them accountable yes but not to judge them, its in order for them to be healed and restored. but God wont force himself in the situation they will have to be open hearted about God truly coming in their life and restoring them physically, mentally and spiritually and not only restoring usher and tameka but the whole entire family. Because they all need a good dosage of the Lord Jesus.
@lisa Don’t you have homework or something to do? SMH
atlien.I got question for you.I don’t mean no disrespect. if Tameka don’t want usher,why she still have his last name and she still live in his house.usher divorce her four years ago why she still don’t have no man.because I don’t think it has anything to do with the kids cause he just got them this month.Tameka knows for sure she can’t get man like usher that’s the reason why she kept fighting usher girlfriends. if I see Tameka with another man that’s when I will truly believe that she move on.I believe usher move on because he has girlfriend and I also know he didn’t point gun at Tameka to not have boyfriend. I know for sure usher will be so happy when Tameka get a boyfriend. all these older women’s that kept dating usher know for sure it not gonna work. usher is young enough to be there son.so tell Tameka if she know for sure that she move on, let her get a man to prove to usher and we his fans that she move on.if usher harassed her and her new man like she do to him.then we will believe that he didn’t move on.but I know in a million years usher wouldn’t score that cheap to fight another man for old lady that dont even have no favor anymore.
Dont nobody need to prove nothing to you or his fans…you prove to me that English is your first OR second language!! Here you go starting your mess…lol
if Tameka don’t want usher,why she still have his last name and she still live in his house
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Because she was his wife, that’s why. Any woman who marries and divorces him has the right to keep the name if she chooses. And fans/stans alike, riddle me this: If she changed it today, would you like or respect her more? Of course not, because your minds are made up, which is truly a shame. If you can’t give grace or mercy (not just for Tameka, but for anyone), don’t expect it from God. Read your Bibles.
And ciss, if you really think that the only way to get over a loved one is to get someone new, you have self esteem issues. In fact, rebound relationships are not beneficial to either party.
You need to back away from the keyboard….and pick up a Bible…The End
I’m talking to that Lisa person
Amen and Amen my sista!!!
Then Tameka should have picked up a bible because adultry is a sin. She was married to Mr. Glover (2002-2007) when she began sleeping with and got pregnant with her first son with Usher (2007-2009). Usher V was born in 2007; therefore, he was conceived in 2006 while still married to Mr. Glover. The only grounds for divorce and the approval to remarry is unless Mr. Glover was the adulterer. This women needs to repent and stop trying to downplay her faults and sins. Don’t forget she was stalking Mr. Glover and his current wife on their vacation together.
That is not even close to the truth I have no idea where you got your information
because, None of that is even close hun
@Holla actually Tameka was going through a divorce from Ryan when her and Usher started dating. But she never left him or her kids to be with Usher which is the lie that was put out.
@#GetYourLfe
Downplay her faults and sins to whom? WE don’t have a right to know her business and unfortunately their lives have been an open book since 2007. How do you know that she hasn’t repented? Repentance has NOTHING to do with you or I, that is a personal experience with the Lord. The Lord has forgiven Tameka so for us to want to keep holding that over her head is definitely not of GOD. The same grace and mercy that is offered to you and I is also offered to Tameka RAYMOND and Usher.
I’ll leave you and all the Tameka haters of the world with this
Even if I should choose to boast, I would not be a fool, because I would be speaking the truth. But I refrain, so no one will think more of me than is warranted by what I do or say, or because of these surpassingly great revelations. Therefore, in order to keep me from becoming conceited, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me. Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong. (2 Corinthians 12:6-10 NIV)
Thank you father for the strength that you have given to Tameka RAYMOND to withstand through her weaknesses, the insults, the hardships, though persecution in difficultes. Amen
@vay, yeah that bit is true. i was talking about the overall way this woman @#getyourlife was speaking. it came off really judgmental and condeming. so in my head im thinking where are you getting this from. because yes she may have done thing she should not have done but who are you to condem, if you have not sinned @#getyourlife then please be my guest and cast the first stone!
I totally agree.
Girl, who the F are you to talk about repenting, all this bullsh*t you just typed?
Mental issues or drug issues…which one is it you’re dealing with?
hey
vay God has forgive usher too.and how didn’t you know she was separated from her husband the time she was having affair with Usher. if she was separated from her husband the time she was having sex with usher,why in her husband interview,he made a statement that he thought usher5 was his.if she wasn’t sleeping with him,he wasn’t going to make that statement. and if your divorce if not finalized you not support to have affair with any other person.
Where is the interview Cyst and no where in my comment did I support what any of them were doing…this comment was in response to something that was said about TAMEKA RAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYMMMMMMMMMMMMOOOOOOOOOONNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD. Not the man that she married, made love to, had two beautiful babys with the man who loved her! hahaha Chile bye
Vay, you’re a fuckin’ FOOL! LOTFLMMFAO!!!
How the hell you get the letters to go off the page?
*Bowing in your direction*
I’m not worthy! I’m not worthy!
Sometimes you just read something so rediculous it leaves you at a loss for words. I pray that no one over the age of 14 is behind this. No, I’m not speechless.
A woman can’t be celebate (if she is)?
You’re in her drawers now?
You’re in her heart now?
You know how she’s mourning now?
No self respecting mother brings a parade of partners in and out of her bed (like, say, a singing sensation) for her boys to see.
You are out of order.
@stlchick agreed! Thank You
Most women WANT to have the same last name of their children regardless…but maybe you don’t know that because you sound like a hoodrat & your likely a "babymomma"…
Then her last name should be glover-raymond?? WHy drop the glover, if thats the case
Because most men who marry you don’t want you to keep the ex husband’s name, or maybe she thought dropping it would be more appeasing to Usher. She never answered this in the media because the media never asked it. Probably because unlike his fans or stans, they realize keeping the ex’s name is not uncommon at all. Now for those who should ever marry and go through an ugly divorce, feel free to drop your married name. To each his/her own.
Wow you going in kind of hard on Tameka aren’t you?
As for Usher keeping Tameka from having a man, that was a reference to him taking her sons away but in fact men have been cock-blocking for years. Its easy for Usher to damage Tameka’s image and reputation and make other men afraid to get involved with her but that isn’t really what’s going on.
Tameka doesn’t have to change her name just because YOU think its what she should do. She has the same last name as her boys and that is what matters. That they know they are a family both in flesh, spirit, and name. Tameka earned that last name and she should keep it until she marries again.
Let’s keep things in perspective and realize who the real offender is. Cheating, abandoning and lying are all Usher trademarks. There is nothing Tameka did that even comes close to Usher’s actions.
I agree! Appropriately stated Kamalla!!
Earned it…you hoes need to stop…the bitch is rat with no education and she writes bad checks…Usher’s mom was trying to protect her child from what she already knew…That Tameka aint shit…Black moms always know when their sons are fucking hoodrats. We as men let our judgement get clouded by pussy. Usher did that and really fucked himself by jeopardizing his fan base. His fan base demographic is are 18-30 year old women, who dream they could be with him. Being married to a "cougar" was not smart. His mom knew what was up..
poor tameka used to be cute….
She looks good on that interview. Usher used to have a good hair cut.
I’m teasin’. Sorry, a little sleep deprived.
Michelle I can see your point. Johnetta said herself that she gave up her husband for Usher and I’m sure he expects all of his "mommie" figures to devote themselves to him FOR LIFE.
He’s deranged and she’s hurt. I actaully feel sorry for both of them.
@Agreed – Thanks. I can see yours as well.
The man was crackhead…LOL Gave him up! He gave them up chasin rocks….Let’s Keep It Real!
She’s not winning No mother awards over here.
If you watch Ushers tour dvd..he talks about his mom giving up her marriage for him..in that same segment he said he would do the same for here..I wonder if she’s holding him to it?
That is terrible. Maybe that is why Usher had a problem. Wives should never give their spouses up for a child, that is if the marriage was healthy. Research proves that healthy marriages, help kids in the best way. Usher and his mom will forever have a strange relationship . Now she tripped me out when she said (in the Oprah interview) that she had high standards regarding Usher’s choice of women. What about high standards for his life? Isn’t adultery on his part a low standard. Such hypocritical talk. He openly admitted cheating on Tameka but his mom has high standards??? That’s a joke.
Right, and Usher/Jonetta’s relationship has the dynamics of part mother/son, part bro/sis., part girlfriend/boyfriend. Not saying there’s anything sexual AT ALL, but boundaries are just skewed.
I don’t know any man that curse his mother like a man on the street. And usually you insult a woman with the word "bitch." He called her a muthafucka. That’s core lol.
That’s because to make it happen for him she stopped being mama and started being Jonetta..it’s the same dynamic Brandy has with her mama and she’s just a s screwed up..When you sacrifice being a mother even for a what is perceived as a good reason..you ruin your children..there’s no way around that
AGREED!!!!!
I will…BOYCOTT ‘The Voice’ when Usher sits in as a guest judge!
I was always a fan of Usher’s but this latest stunt for "sole custody" has left a bad taste in my mouth. As a mother to a young son, I find the judge’s ruling in this case to be very disturbing and downright scary. It just doesn’t pass the smell test…..
But Karma will have the last say on this one.
It’s not "sole custody" but "primary custody" that he has, you know what Tameka used to have and that none of his fans had an uproar about, you know that custody. Sheesh.
Well…Sweetness…Most Mother’s Do. So what is your point. That cord that’s connected to our babies when they are born…Gives us that right! Don’t get me wrong…If men are really men! and want to take a major role in their kids life they should have that right. But, that should always be shared. Not to mention you are taking about someone who is constantly traveling. Other people actually have primary custody of his kids now. Not the either parent. I think that’s wrong as H%ll.
*not either one of the parents**
Not all mothers who birth babies should have primary custody, that is my point. Primary custody goes to whom the court sees is the best parent for that child. There are fathers who have primary custody, it isnt the norm but it does happen. As a celebrity stylist she also travels. Maybe not as much as Usher but she did have just as many nannies as Usher. He has primary not sole custody Sweetness. If she wants to see her kids she can travel. She saving money with the SAKS discount card put that towards travel or he can bring them to her. I dont feel for her because there are plenty of fathers who go through this mess. Do fathers love their kids any less than mothers? Just because they arent carrying the child doesnt mean they arent kissing bellies and showing off sonogram photos.
why is it bad for a father to want sole custody of children they have w/ the mother regardless if she is a good or bad mom. all i think (that w/ us meaning people looking in) shouldn’t care which parent has custody as long as both parents to the children. and i think both need to sit and tell the truth if they’re going to do interviews about the past. both are lying and she wants the fame not money from ushers name, even though she is and was a respected stylist, that wasn’t enough for her, she wanted to be like puffy oldest son mom ( i don’t know how to spell her name), or Rachel Roy. "celebrity" is not what it’s cracked up to be. usher was a still trying to be a "man" that he didn’t know how to be, he was still to young to marry that’s why nobody like the marriage. he needed to grow up alllllooooootttttttt, and both knew it, they did not truly love each other you can’t get me to believe that for anything in the world. and she has done interviews before, he is just now saying something.
nobodysaiditwasbadnobodysaiditwasbadnobodysaiditwasbadnobodysaiditwasbad…
NOBODY SAID IT WAS BAD. A man who feels his children are being neglected has an obligation to get custody.
The point is, did he truly have a concern or did he just not want to co parent because he doesn’t want to be bothered.
He didn’t approach her at the funeral to offer his condolences. No matter what, this woman was your wife! The mother of your children. He chartered a plane, which he didn’t have to do. But when Tameka called him to give him the kids, he didn’t call her, he called Ryan. When she tried reaching him after those false death rumors, he didn’t answer her. He had his mother call her. This proves he wants nothing to do with her on any level. But dude wifed her. Every action has a reaction. You can’t eradicate a mother from your sons life because it makes things convenient for you. Tameka may have come with an extra serving of crazy, but watching your man fuck your friends will do that to you. She probably expected him to cheat, but the bridesmaids? WTF ever.
I think his motivations were selfish. JMO.
Tell it all boo..need I state my two cents???don’t think soo…u stated my points.
were you there? how do you know he didn’t approach her? how do you know everything you stated in your comment is the absolute truth if you didn’t witness it firsthand?
tameka can lie, usher can lie and urban blogs are the blog owner’s OPINION on what’s going on in a celebrity’s life. publicists and media outlets are paid to spin a situation whichever way the wind blows so it’s best to not quote word for word something you don’t know firsthand is the truth.
we’re all on the outside looking in…i just wish folks wouldn’t go so hard for either side because none of us know the real truth. tameka’s scorned word ain’t the gospel and neither is usher’s. it takes both people to ruin a marriage and from all APPEARANCES neither of them were emotionally ready for it. both parties are at fault and the best thing to do at this point is to work on co-parenting their children. all this interviewing and throwing insults, accusations, etc. back and forth makes both of them look foolish.
were you there? how do you know he didn’t approach her? how do you know everything you stated in your comment is the absolute truth if you didn’t witness it firsthand?
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You DID notice the JMO at the end of my post, didn’t you? Just My Opinion?
Your last paragraph, I agree wholeheartedly. This topic strikes a cord because deals with all the strong emotions; loyalty, betrayal, honesty, dishonesty, deceptiveness,…this was a union of two people, but MILLIONS were in this marriage. Friends, so-called friends, family, haters…everybody.
And the reason why I believe Tameka when she said he didn’t approach her is because she said she didn’t see him there, nor did many media outlets. I do believe he went, but stayed in the background. In his interview, he said nothing of an exchange with her during the funeral, and since all cameras were on her, if he had approached her there would be a picture. That’s why I believe Tameka’s version. I didn’t witness it. Nor did I witness the wedding, divorce, and other behaviors discussed in the trail either, but they obviously happened.
Why does he need to approach her at the funeral? Really he didn’t have to go but he did. He doesn’t have to talk to her. He was there for Kyle not to console her. Maybe he’s tried to talk to her in the past and she cussed him out or he’s worried about her spinning his words if he talks to her OR maybe he doesn’t want to cuss her out. Yes she WAS his wife key word WAS. He owes her nothing and she owes him nothing. The only people they owe are the children that they had together. If the parents can’t have a civilized conversation for whatever reason then why not have a middle man rather than have the kids see you fighting and acting a fool. I’m sure he slept with alot more than her friends but they are divorced so really that is neither here nor there.
Why should he approach her at the funeral. It was not about him which it would have became because of his status. Kile had a father Ryan and that’s who Tomeka should have been concerned about the day of the funeral not if Usher was there and if he said anything to her or not. Bitch please that SHIT is stupid. She wants to be seen around him anyway possible even at her own’s child funeral. That should have been the least of her worries. When my mom died 4 years ago I can’t tell u who all was there or spoke to me that SHIT was not important
That bitch was crazy before he fucked the bridesmaid…Bitches when its over its over…Yall act as though we need to be friends after we are not together…bitch i got a new woman and you got you some new dick…move on…PAPERS the song was real…My mom is always my mom…you just a bitch i fucked…real talk…a bitch will leave you your momma want…
You know, I’ve always questioned the intelligence of a person and their ability to articulate when they start their sentences with name calling.
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Tomeka should have been concerned about the day of the funeral not if Usher was there and if he said anything to her or not. Bitch please that SHIT is stupid. She wants to be seen around him anyway possible even at her own’s child funeral. That should have been the least of her worries.
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How in the WORLD do you know this is the issue? She was asked the question on ET if he was there and she said she didn’t see him. I doubt she was looking for him, though everyone else was.
IN MY OPINION, if he was willing to approach her in the hospital and ask to put their diffences aside, he could’ve led by example and said something encouraging at the funeral. It’s possible he sent her a card, a text, a fucking telegram, who’s to say one way or the other. But I already said in my original post why I felt he should have. It must be a new trend to turn heartless to a person you once pledged your life to. If that’s the mentality, WTF get married? Of COURSE he didn’t have to; we don’t have to do shit but stay black and die.
Alana I have to DISAGREE with you. Ushers talent has nothing to do with this custody case. Why boycott the show. It will be a waste of your time, plenty of people will all be watching the show. Now for the matter at hand, I have always said this is a personal matter and neither of them should be doing tit for tat. The kids are the only ones that are important at this point. I know the media likes Gossip! but some things need to be left alone. It is so MESSY that everyone keeps bad mouthing both the parents. They both need to put the kids first, focus on being there for them and move on with their personal lives. It is not that difficult. Love don’t love nobody. Good luck to both of them and God Bless the Kids
I really couldn’t care less if you disagree with me… O~O And how will my NOT watching a TV show be wasting time? You do you—and let me do me. OK
I swear, you Usher stans must be like 17 or something..you can’t even articulate & form a decent argument. SMH
They must be 12 because even 17 year old no better.
Check your spelling before you try and throw shade please. It’s "know" not "no".
@Alana… Harris girl did not come off as a "stan" in here comment to you nor did she come off as inarticulate. She sounded like a sane person who was making a very good observation.You seem a little too invested in this situation if you are going to totally stop watching a show just because he is on it. None of us know these people. We have no idea what happened behind closed doors,and in my opinion they both have done some pretty fucked up things if we go by what we see on the internet. If the internet were around when alot of these older musical "legends" were in their heyday,and we could see what they were like behind closed doors, I promise you the landscape of music would have been changed.If you dont think that your favorite entertainers are not or have not dabbled in cocaine or sex parties or other extreme things, then you are naive. Let the music speak for itself.
Hey Alana:
Apparently this judge may have been influenced by Usher’s lawyers. His lawyers donated $$$$ to the judges campaign fund some time in the past. That is true. It’s on the web from reputable sites. KARMA is coming around to him and his enabling mother.
Alana r u 3 years old?it take one to know another,so you must 3.
It’s public knowledge and her lawyers or herself should’ve said something BEFORE the case. Don’t be mad because her lawyers suck.
Her lawyer office donated money to the same judge get your DAMN facts straight
@Alana…just because you are a woman doesn’t mean you should always get primary custody in custody case. Damn some women believe we should kiss yall ass just cause you fucked us. Especially down south…Cause weak ass men ‘cake’ you and then you expect all men to cake you…thats why your ass single and baby mama instead of wife!!!!
Slow day over at Bossip, huh?
Or MTO
I feel for Tameka. She’s still grieving and has to deal with Usher’s dumb stalkers for life. The only thing this woman did was marry a man she loved and had his children. So what she was married before. who cares. I hate that she has to live her life under a microscope all because of who she chose to have kids by. AND that that same man is crazy enough to snatch the two things she carried in her womb as far away as he can.
Usher, his momma AND Tameka all need to go to therapy to heal the wounds of their past. If not, it’s just going to fester and grown and for the sake of those kids (who will most likely repeat their daddy’s mistakes) I hope they decide to do it soon.
She was in the music industry for years before she became his wife so she knows all about crazy fans, paps, blogs and always being watched. She decided to tie herself to this lifestyle by marrying him, so I don’t feel bad for her. Look at Chris Brown’s girlfriend K-Tan she gets it all day every day from his crazy stans and stays tied to the man. If she didn’t want to be under a microscope or subject herself to craziness than she should have married a behind the scenes guy instead of a front man. If she was really bothered by it she wouldn’t be on twitter addressing the crazy folks.
You can’t always control your heart, LTS. As far as your last sentence, she doesn’t go to Usher’s fan page and antagonize his fans. They, however, go to her twitter page and insult her on a daily basis. As a spouse of a famous person, you really need to develope a thick skin. Yeah, she could’ve been less reactive in the beginning of their relationship (I didn’t follow Usher back then and didn’t have an opinion of his marriage one way or the other, so I missed all the mayhem). HOWEVER, I would never let anyone on this blog step to me any kind of way. There are many strong personalities here that wouldn’t allow me to step to them any kind of way. People think they can do it to Tameka and she shouldn’t respond? They need to stay off her page.
That’s right, PERIOD.!!!!!
how do you "step" to an anonymous person on a blog? opinions are like assholes, er’body got one so cussing somebody out who disagrees or calls you names is moot because it ain’t like you’d even know the person(s) if you passed by them on the street.
how do you "step" to an anonymous person on a blog?
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I’m sorry, I thought it would be common sense. By responding, dear.
YEP,YEP,YEP, they need to stay off of her page and mind their business.
Tameka should’n't have submitted paperwork to block the postponement of that trial. Why wouldn’t you want to grieve for your child before heading back into a court battle? I believe she did that because she thought she would get a sympathy ruling. I don’t care what anyone says. There had to be some damaging information about Tameka that was not revealed to the public.
I don’t Usher could usher up anymore "I DON’T GIVE A FXXX" regarding Tameka’s personal life unless it involves his children….Goodbye & good riddance cause IF he still wanted her cougar behind she would go back 2 him in a second & we all know that…..what better way 2 hurt a man than try & take away his children & use them as weapons in a bitter game of "DO WHAT I WANT OR ELSE……" His mom was right 2 try & save her son but should have made sure her facts we’re correct….in this case her facts we’re wrong but her instincts about Tameka we’re right on…..
Ok so,
1)Tameka did not try to take the kids away she was fighting to keep joint custody and to have primary care,(which does make sense considering Usher travels alot and the kids need to stay in a place that is stable)
2)Usher is the one who was trying to take the kids away from her, he started this battle by filing in january 2011 for sole and physical custody, and tamkea had no choice but to respond, but did it a year later january 2012
3)Usher needs to care and have respect as she is the mother of his children, he does not need to teach these kids to have disrespect for thier mother. So good redence is not the way to go about, they both need to drop the egos and kill the strife and confusion once and for all and focus on the bigger picture here.
Holla:
Thank you for responding on Tameka’s behalf in response to Lady A. And let’s talk about a cougar. Grace Miguel is actually 44 daggone years old!! 6 years away from 50!!! She is older that Tameka! Go for team Tameka! I am praying for her healing!!!
His mom sent him to live with pedophiles so he could be a "superstar"…she is cut from the same cloth as kris jenner
lol @mz.cali are you tryna say Diddy was a pedophile!! lol hahahaha because thats is who he stayed with in new york for a year when he first stared out,(so in many sense your right it was his mother decsion and she didnt stop it but made him leave atlanta for that period of time) it was diddy who put him in the situation of seeing sex and orgies and clubs at such a young age.
Yes it was also his mama who approved his first album about sex and stuff when he was just a kid. That woman was desperate to make a buck even allowing him to perform in night clubs. Her priorities have always been control and money and the thought of a woman coming along getting a piece of HER pie didn’t sit well with her. It wasn’t that she liked Chili so much she knew she was damaged goods like her and Chili was still trying to get over her first marriage so she wasn’t trying to marry Usher. Even after all that he has no respect for his mama and she takes it to keep the cash coming in.
@ MzCali
LOL @ "cut from the same cloth as kris jenner"
that would be pimp cloth.
Why is Usher and Tameka still disppointed that his mother didn’t show up for the wedding? Who give a fu*k that his mother didn’t show up to that FLOP of a Wedding, after all he did fu*k the bridesmaid, which makes his mother not showing up irrelevant , at this point .. When the kids, Tameka and Usher looks back on the mockery of a Wedding, his mother not showing up will be non muther f–ing factor .. Since the wedding pictures are filled with the Whorish Maya-Davis-Fox, who Usher decided to screw..Come on they can’t be serious about the mother still not showing up…So Funni LOL
BridesmaidS…there were two.
(I like pointing that out lol).
Shit, it was probably more than that. Question is soon becoming, which bridesmaids DIDN’T he screw?
Never tell your friends how good the D… is. I’m an Usher fan, but I will admit, he is wrong for sleeping with her friends. I’m sure he has met tons of other women and could probably be with any woman he wants(as long as she’s not an Usher hater),lol. That was totally unacceptable!
Exactly! I don’t know why women are excusing that. You can remain a fan, just like others can refuse to do so. But acknowledge wrong when it happens.
My brother told me a long time ago an irrefutable truth about the opposite sex: A man will only do what you allow him to do, meaning if you tolerate it, there’s no cause for change. LHHA is a prime example, and both those fools make excuses for Stevie J. They’re staying is the same as their condoning it.
Tomeka just seems to be so understanding that I find it hard to see how they couldnt get along (during and after the marriage)
Answer: Usher’s Controlling Mother
Yes, and I hate to go in on folks mothers…So, I try hard not to speak on her…all this over her judging this woman…Who is she? I understand she is his mother…But, shouldn’t she judge her on how she treats her and her son? I haven’t read or heard her say anything about what Meka did to her. She’s not good enough for him? please
I’m sure someone thinks the same about you lady. And you are not perfect! and you are not God. I hope the Voice ratings drop : )
lol I like Christina and Ceelo…and they can’t be replaced ..anyway
Yes..and I remember on Usher’s VH1 behind the music special a couple years ago, when asked how she felt about Tameka his mother said in no uncertain terms that she thought Chili was the better girlfriend for Usher. And I was just thinking Lady, get your life and let this GROWN MAN live his!
And stop throwing unnecessary shade at your grandkids’ mother! They will hate you for it when they get older.
No one has taken her kids away. I wish people would stop saying that. They still have joint custody when it comes to visitation. He just has primary custody when it comes to decision making for the kids. No one has taken her kids away. He did not take the kids and move to another country for her never to see her kids again. She still has visitation rights.
The fact of her moving on with her life, I’m sure he would love nothing better than to see her move on with someone else. That way she can stop talking about things that happened years ago. They have been divorced now for years. She need to move on and concentrate on her kids.
What! She has visitation…one weekend a month…that’s taking her kids away…Byrd! shut up!
Not to mention didn’t Usher just take a job with The Voice? that’s shot in Los Angeles right? So, that means the boys will be in L.A. and Meka lives in Atlanta. So, that’s taking her kids away. Stop tryin to take up for this fool…Before somebody try take your kids. As woman how would you handle that foolery. So, get yo life lol There is no defense or excuse…for evil. PERIOD
@Moma’sBoyzNeverBecomeMen I Love your name!! it says it all, hahahahaha
she gets 12 days a month. there is also this thing called a plane that allows people to travel back and forth.
Tameka said on ET, that she gets the kids 12 days out of the month..
The decision as posted on this website (its in PDF form), says Tameka gets the 1st, 3rd and 5th weekend only, and the weekend she doesn’t see the children she only gets to have dinner with them for a few hours on Wednesday. So unless the judge amended that initial decision she could only get them 4 days for a two day weekend twice on month, or 6 days for a three day weekend twice a month.
I wonder where ET got their information from as Tameka is not on tape, that was viewed saying what her visitation schedule is. Rather the host does a voice over and tells the audience how many visitation Tameka gets so I don’t know what to believe. Who knows, they could have called Usher’s people and got that information which would be wrong.
Actually I wish she did get 12 days at least a month but that’s not what the decision says.
Hi Lucille…the "weekend" in this case starts on Wednesday and ends on Sunday.Also this is mainly due to Cinco school schedule I think during the summer they will alternate weeks. I remembered reading that in the court docs as well.
Lol You are hilarious. It’s more than obvious that Tameka has not tried to move on with her life. If she had she would not be worried about Usher & Grace. If she had we would have seen & heard about her at the least dating. If she had she would not be doing this interview. She would be moving on with her life and only be concerned with Usher as the father of her kids and not constantly bringing up the past. Since she married the man & not the celebrity (her words) please tell me what sane woman marries a man that stood you up a day before the wedding. If that is not a clue of what is to come I don’t know what is. You also left out the first marriage in the lawyers office. They both married for the wrong reasons and that’s why they are dealing with this mess now. Also, please explain why ET would cut her interview so much if she was telling all the details you seem to know. It definetly would have made for better tv. This interview is accomplishing nothing. Tameka needs to really move on with her life, mourn the loss of her marriage and son, get herself together for her & her children’s sake and stop worrying about what the world thinks of her. Her priorities should be herself and her children. The rest shouldn’t matter.
@NikkiG says – "Also, please explain why ET would cut her interview so much if she was telling all the details you seem to know."
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…Because their relationship with Usher’s camp is way more valuable than any TEA that Tameka spilled on camera.
@ATLien i think she should just leave it alone she has been doing interviews for years and just b/c usher got interviewed by oprah now she gets to get that bigger audience instead of just the the black market that really don’t give a what, and i think that’s why et is editing the interview b/c she is suppose to be behind the scences and not out front until it’s something positive.
Black, she should just write her tell all and be done with it lol. Wider audience and a sh(tload more money.
I guarantee that trip to the lawyers office before saying I Do has a clause about running her mouth about certain things in their marriage ..no book will be made anytime soon
If that was the case why even commit to the interview??A waste
I love how people try to spin that marriage into the same as him taking her kids. Don’t nobody care about Usher and wanting to be married to him. lol please. He’s no stand up man…so you have NO point….He will never be in love and married to the right woman cause that’s not what he wants….now is it. He did plenty of low down things to this woman… while married and even while marryin her…with his jumpoffs in the wedding….So own that Stans! and stop This interview is about her losing her kids…from her point of view …not just about that marriage. They are both a fault over that marriage. But, show me how she was not a good mother to her boys…exactly
When will you make Usher responsible for Usher?
exactly.
And you said that!Round of applause for this whole comment!
If you know you cheated with him, why are you so surprised when he cheats on you. People kill me trying to act all innocent and clean when they’ve kicked up some dirt themselves.
Be Objective who was Usher with when he got with Tameka or are you speaking of Tameka being with Ryan Sr?
Why does she have these wierd facial expressions and dumb ass answers to straight-up questions. Nancy O’Dell follow-up questions are tinged with "are you really this retarded." Usher dogged her out. He discarded her like trash and for now only wants to deal with the kids — not her. I don’t really understand why he’s so annoyed with her. And with these stupid answers from Tameka, we never will.
Tameka will move on, trust me! She went through a divorce, death of a child and a custody battle and all within a close proximity of time and also concurrently. These thing’s take time to get over, some thing’s you never get over, the pain just calms over time. I’ve lost a child so i know how she feels and her baby died recently. When dealing with all of these events compiled, it can take a huge toll on a persons mind and emotions. Sometimes y’all talk about this girl like she’s not human but she is. We all make mistakes. I’m praying for Tameka because that’s what she needs, not criticism. I can see the pain in her face. I hope she has some support close to her.
Donna, I’m so sorry for your loss. I will say a special prayer for you tonight.
This is a women who has been divorced for a while now,has not lost her kids,why not grieve for the child you have lost and not a marriage that has being over for a while? She clearly needs help…how do you move on when you rehash everything like it was yesterday? This really should be out of the media by now. For her own mental health she should stop this for the sake of her kids before they really say she is unstable and prove it.
He don’t give a hoot!!! Really though if you took the money and the fame out of this what did he do worse than any other man? Want his kids??
If you saw the interview, clearly he’s grieving. What did he do worse than any other man?
1. Fuck 2 bridesmaids
2. Bring his mistress to her dwelling
3. Solicit all her family/friends to testify against her.
4. Hire a private detective to befriend her by pretending to have lost a child trying to get information to use against her in court.
5. Not show her the compassion she’d get from a stranger at her son (his former step son’s) funeral.
6. Trying to strip her of custodial rights so he doesn’t have to adhere to a court arrangement.
7. Use his PR team to perpetuate her reputation of being crazy. Hell, I wouldn’t put it past him to have people taunt her on twitter just for her to have an outburst.
stlchick, as far as the funeral goes. I really think he may have been trying to show the family respect by not making his appearance known. The media was already making Kile’s death all about him. This funeral should have been about Kile, not Usher, so I think he made a good decision on that. The last thing anyone needed was for there to be an altercation of some type during that time. Her family may not have even wanted him there.
So he went and didn’t acknowledge his own kids because they were clearly with their mama
Tameka has a right to defend herself. If Usher was any type of man he would tell his crazy fans to stand down and stop harassing her and stop lying in blogs about Tameka not having custody of any of her children which the stans know is a lie but they keep repeating it anyway.
Tameka should be interviewed a few more times as even though the trial court didn’t give her a new trial (that judge is not going to admit to being bought), Tameka is preparing for another appeal to regain custody of her children. So she has to set the record straight on all these lies to her reputation that’s why Tameka is not getting the sympathy she deserves like that woman on Gossip Girls whose children is in France is getting. At least when that woman is in France she has joint custody of her children, while Tameka has been stripped of most of her parental rights and they’ve been given to a sadistic, cruel, and hateful man in the form of Usher.
"Tameka has a right to defend herself. If Usher was any type of man he would tell his crazy fans to stand down and stop harassing her and stop lying in blogs about Tameka not having custody of any of her children which the stans know is a lie but they keep repeating it anyway."
It’s reasons like this that I decided to speak up on Tameka’s behalf as a woman AND a mother. What many of the girls that love Usher so fail to realize is that this could be them being stripped from their parental rights based off of money NOT them being unfit. The lies about this woman is crazy and you are right regardless to how much they hear that they are not true they repeat them. Tameka is no saint by any means and at one point definately fed into the media/blog BS but you live and you learn. That still didnt give his stans the right to attack her on twitter then call her crazy for responding! I have said it time and time again…they BOTH need help but Usher was flat out wrong and I will not go along with him being wrong just because he is a celebrity.So Kudos to you for standing for what’s right.
Now, Do you REALLY believe that Usher cares if Tameka has a new man?? Then why is she the one beatin bytches up? I CANT with this whole situation…
Girl Preach! She know damn well that Usher could care less if Tameka has found a new man. In fact, I think Usher wants her to move on and find a new man, so she can stop worrying about what him and Grace are up to. I am so sick of hearing about these two marriage and custody case. They have been divorced for years now, Tameka it is time to move on because clearly Usher has.
yes usher has moved on, but in the most disregarding and nasty of ways, he may be talented but his butt can lie and he is dirty!!!. And as for that grace thing, YOU DO NOT BRING YOUR MOMFRIEND TO YOUR EX WIFES HOUSE AND THEN AFTER TAKE A SO CALLED FAMILY PIC HOLDING HER CHILD RIGHT AFTER THE CUSTODY HEARING!! It is not cool, people say that tameka dont know grace but they go way back if you’ve seen the picture that have taken together. the only difference with this is that she is very quite and not saying a word out loud, instead she praying to her hindu elephants and comparing herself to Laxmi the hindu God(if you have instagram you know what im talking about lol)
yes usher has moved on, but in the most disregarding and nasty of ways
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And that’s many people’s issue. He did and should move on. But there’s a way to do it. Stars in general are gluttons because they are surrounded by psychophants (sp?) and fans that are willing to degrade themselves just to be a part of the circle, even it it’s only for one night. Along the way, they seem to lose a sense of dignity. Just like politicians who’ve been around a long time seem to lose a sense of honesty. Not in all cases, but too many.
Tameka’s children are christian and shouldn’t be around that and Usher’s behavior hasn’t been right for a while, not a healthy environment for the children.
I recently saw pics she posted of the kids leaving to go to usher with captions like ‘they don’t want to go’ and nev is pissed’ anyone else see that?
Yeah I saw that and I thought it mean to put those images out there like that.
Yes…that was a while ago. I also saw a pic of Cinco having an attitude because he didnt want to be at church with her…did you see that?!
I did’nt see that but we all know the saying ‘when someone shows you who they are believe them’,as a parent that was the wrong thing to do.
I think it’s a big deal because people are looking for ANYTHING this woman do to be a big deal based on her history and the situation. In a "normal" situation that pic wouldnt even matter…AND had Usher posted it folks would think it was cute and have yet another reason to bash…Tameka.
I saw those too…but why even post photos like that. That’s not for the public eyes. I don’t agree with that.
Yeah, I saw those…and that’s what totally made me loose respect for her, and I’m sure that’s the reason Usher wanted Custody of his kids. She was turning them against him.
You lost respect for her over that?
As a parent, you don’t do that! Why would you post photos of your kids frowning and pouting with captions saying they pouting because they don’t wanna go their dads house. I can only imagine how she was bad mouthing Usher around those boys.
See this is the problem…that is NOT what the caption said…people assumed she was talking about him going with Usher…she never mentioned his dad and certainly didnt mention nothing about a house.
…my sons on their airport shuffle" and something about such is life.
Let me help you out…
"Somebody doesn’t want to GO
That could have meant 1000000 things considering they travel with her ALOT and as I mentioned she also posted a pic of the other son mad he was at church with HER. How about the pic where she thought that it was so sweet that Nav said that she AND his grandma were his valentine!!! It was simply a pic of a son that a MOTHER took and posted it to twitter. Her son…her business. I wish somebody would tell me what I should and shouldnt post of my son. He wasnt naked!
Just saying from experience when you are in divorced and in custody hearings its all about how the court perceives your actions.
You can spend it however you want, but we all know that she was trying to imply that they didn’t want to go see their dad. It’s amazing how you can remember word for word what she said, when she has taken the photos down now. Why did she take the photos down if she didn’t think anything was wrong with posting them in the first place. Apparently you know her personally! Why don’t you make a suggestion that she stop being so bitter, go see a counselor,get her life together, and let Usher live his life.
Be Objective…I have tried really hard to help you keep your foot out your mouth. I simply logged on to twitter TODAY went to her pics and BAM…there is was so I copied and pasted her words.. that woman aint deleted nothing!So I guess you were right she didnt see anything wrong with it and neither do I. My motherly opinion. Now that advise that you want me to pass on to Tameka I have decided to do one better…here you go boo
Why don’t you make a suggestion that I (Be Objective) stop being so bitter, go see a counselor,get my life together, and let Usher live his life because Tameka will always be the mother of his kids and I need to learn how to either stop spreading lies about her or either move on.
See how I added to your truth?! Dont feel good do it…follow your own advise hun.
Yep. Months ago when it happened.
Why is it not ok for a father to take care of his kids? If he didn’t want anything to do with them everyone would be in an uproar. I’m sure she sees the kids and who said he was taking them to LA? If they have an arrangement then it doesn’t matter where he goes he has to honor that arrangement or the kids will be taken away. I’m not a fan of Usher I personally think he has some issues like she has some so I’m not here for the Usher Stan’s I just think its funny how he’s made out to be wrong for taking care of HIS kids. And the marriage who cares she cheated with Usher and she thought he was gonna be faithful. Her bad. I have not one ounce of sympathy for their "marriage" because they both went in wrong.
According to GA law a primary parent has to live 50% of the time in the state to have primary custody. During the trial Usher admitted that he does’t live in the state 50% of the time, he lives primarily in NYC and now he’ll need a home in LA if he doesn’t have one already. How did the judge get around that? She doesn’t say so in her decision and the decision lets Usher take the kids anywhere in the world he wants to. Get this: if he’s not in Atlanta during Tameka’s visitation than IF she wants to see her children she must travel wherever he is (he could be in China), to see her kids and there is no makeups, if she doesn’t travel to where they are too bad. Usher is on tour, is record company is paying for him to fly everywhere, how is Tameka supposed to financially keep up with that? There was no order for Usher to pay her airfare in that scenario.
One of the many things wrong with this bought decision. I hope a higher court overturns it very soon.
Fuck Tameka….Bitch wanted the fame and rich hubby now she has some shit in her lifw and wants sympathy…just like they tell us men ‘you shouldnt fucked her’…well ‘she shouldnt have fucked him’…glad bitches see what we have to deal with…
Don’t blame all women because you’re bitter and make f’ed up choices.
This just doesn’t add up. I just get more and more confused about this. And why they chose to drag in the media, I’ll never understand. These poor kids, they didn’t ask for any of this.
At the end of the day, I could really care less about their mess of a marriage. Usher was a dog, Tameka knew he had been low down before, and still married him. I can’t believe she married this ninja after he left her at the altar EIGHT MONTHS PREGNANT, but we women do very dumb things when we love someone. The only thing that disturbs is how vindictive Usher is-he’s truly displaying his evil side. Hell naw, he doesn’t want her to move on, so he is doing everything under the sun to distract her from the happy fulfilled life she could be leading. He’s just mad because he listened to his fans and divorced the woman that he truly loved for some damn record sales. Its great for a man to want to take care of his kids, but for the right reasons. All of a sudden he wants full custody?So she was a great mother until 2011?Usher, plz…I bet she ventured out and started to date and he pulled this stunt.
You can be Pro-Tameka all you want, it still doesn’t change my opinion of her. Usher does 2 interview in regards to their relationship. NOT ONCE has he thrown her under the bus (this is minus the courtroom drama) in public interviews or statements.
But Tameka has gone on Twitter on numerous occasions bashing him. Wendy Williams kicked her out of an interview because she (and I quote) "pulled me aside and said ‘Take my number, I’m in town, I need to talk about Usher,’ Ya know what I mean?" and "Aaaah Usher, 4 Years, and I can tell it like it is" etc. etc. etc. She knew FULL WELL who Wendy Williams was at the time (this was grimy-ace Radio Show Wendy then) only for Tameka to decide to act funny at the actual interview.
Now she has what? A 3 day interview with Entertainment Tonight? post-Custody Battle!!!?!!! Like seriously. Anytime this woman says ANYTHING, it’s like it’s the God’s honest truth compared to Ushers 2.
I don’t care what you say, as much as I do think Usher isn’t a very good guy, I’m more inclined to believe anything he says because he’s decided to keep quiet for the most part.
I’m treating this situation like the Marques Houston/Raz B. incident – Marques kept quiet when Raz kept hurling accusations at him. When Marques actually said something (and brought out an interesting little factoid about his cousin Raz getting cut off) that’s when I started to believe Marques more.
He threw her under the bus when he filed for full-custody. Yes Tameka played Wendy…and?!
Thank you…And that Marques Houston stuff been out for ages..check out Quindon Tarver on youtube, hear his story, and then tell me that you believe Chris Stokes is innocent.
You can be Pro-Tameka all you want, it still doesn’t change my opinion of her.
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You can be Pro-Usher all you want, it still doesn’t change my opinion of him.
We finally agree on something lol.
Tameka sighs your taking all this time 2 do press when you could be somewhere with your lawyer fighting for your kids I’m no Stan & Usher dogged her yes he did I get it!! But this lady is beyond obsessed that it’s quite scary… Her spirit is so I’ll & negative it’s sicken tameka & her behavior painted her to the public the way she’s being portrayed she played a part in the demise of marriage and her public image I live here in Atlanta and I’ve seen and heard a lot and tameka isn’t innocent neither is usher and I can’t understand why he’s catching so much slack her irrational & jealous crazy behavior and the need 2 keep that saks card caused her to loose her kids I do feel terrible 4 her but let’s call a spade a spade…
I honestly have no idea what you just said…sowwy.
A well placed period makes all the difference in the world, doesn’t it Vay? lol
Yes! I tried…I even looked at it twice! lol
The Saks card was a discount card that Usher agreed to acquire for Tameka in their divorce, it helped her do her stylist job and why should she do without it if it was part of the divorce agreement. Usher was the one who stopped payment on it and the judge in the custody case held him in contempt for doing so but didn’t punish him for it in any way. The contempt charge was just words, there was nothing behind it because the judge was bought.
Again, the judge held Usher in contempt also for not informing Tameka where her children were when they were with him per the divorce agreement. What was the punishment? Nothing, why because the judge was bought.
The judge threw Tameka those little bits giving a false impression that she wasn’t going to give Usher primary custody when she did, but she hasn’t fooled anyone, she’s a bought and paid for judge, and I hope all of her cases are reviewed because of this travesty, after Tameka gets a least joint custody back from an appeals court. Truly Tameka deserves primary or sole custody after the way Usher has treated her and how his attorneys got their bought and paid for judge to do their bidding.
The Sak’s card was just a discount card so Usher NEVER had a bill to pay for that card…he is just messy. lol what I appreciate about your comments is that you took the time to find out the TRUTH. If you go back several post you will see there is some of us that have been telling them ALL of this stuff…I think the "hard core" stans are just a joke to me now.
Also the Judge has not ruled on a new trial yet although the media keep saying she did. The Judge ruled on the first appeal which was to remove herself from the case, she denied that. Since there is still an appeal for a new trial there is a "Stay" on the case. This means that they are still operating under the original custody agreement…for now.
I missed something. How in the heck does the kids have to do with a man. Heck if anything, he freed her up so she can have more time with a man. You must not have kids. And the umbilical cord that times a baby to us (previous post) does not give us any legal rights and the courts are debunking that idea across the state as fathers are getting custody of their kids.
Question..and trust I’m not being a smart ass,but I would really like to know…the ones boycotting Usher..did you boycott Chester the child molester R.Kelly or Chris Ike Turner Jr. Brown?,how about do you not talk to ANY man who has done what’s considered an injustice to any woman? To pick and choose when all these situations are fucked up is hypocritical ..injustice is injustice period
Amen girl
THANK YOU!!!
I agree..plz dont be up here judging Mr. Raymond while listening to a R Kelly cd. Personally, I’m an equal opportunity character judge-they are all disgusting to me-lol!
Round of applause! I asked that same question a while go, what has Usher done that is so horrible? Last time I checked he didn’t record himself having sex with an underage girl or beat his girlfriend or wife to a pulse. No the horrible thing Usher has done is fight for his children, the audacity of him!!!!!!!!
I know it…..he should be locked up for trying to ensure his children are taken care of.
He should be locked up for that haircut and that outfit he wore to the AMA’s.
But what was he fighting for…can you answer that? He had joint custody so fight for what?!We get so excited when we see a black man doing taking care of his kids…oh he’s great…he’s wonderful, ummmmmmmmmmm no he is doing what he is suppose to be doing the same thing that black mother’s have done for decades…some alone! Usher gets no cookie for being a active father and he still get an F in my book for trying to X their mother out of their lives…
Let me be clear…that comment was for Britt
No the horrible thing Usher has done is fight for his children
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Have you even READ the comments on this blog?
Not trying to be a wise ass, but seriously. So many issues have been brought up.
Thank you for asking, 2bme. Yes, I did stop buying R Kelly, and since I’ve only bought one CB album, it wasn’t a departure to not buy his latest ones. I also don’t buy (as I’ve stated before):
rihanna
icky garbage
lil wayne
drake
I don’t watch the kartrashians…I’m sure there’s more.
As fare as not talking to ANY man who does an injustice, I certainly have no intentions of doing so if that man continues behave in a manner without remorse or discretion.
Others may pick and choose, but not I. I understand your point though, because it’s hypocritical to accuse Tameka of leaving her husband for Usher when Grace did the same damn thing.
Hey mama, yes thank you for seeing the point I was trying to make and not go left..lol..i’m a supporter of music GOOD music..and I haven’t supported R.Kelly not because he creeps me out but after he ran out of material..once folks started reminding him of jeeps i was DONE and haven’t been back since..
LMAO! And I actually like that song! I was turned off by "feeling on your booty"…and the dumb ass yodeling at the end.
EXACTLY!!! lol
I’m not concerned about being hypocritical, I don’t care what happened before, only now and I’m boycotting The Voice whenever Usher appears, period, end of story.
I understand that Usher is supposed to be part of a tribute to Whitney Houston (yeah, like he respects women), and if it’s on television, when he comes on I’m turning the channel.
@another note I have 2 kids and I have some tea I could spill on me with my daughters father that could burn this blog steaming hot!! But I’m still asked today ( my daughters father was a made man & in the Feds) right to this moment to discuss what happened between us but I won’t and I don’t I was dragged way worse suffered miscarriages the whole nine but I’m over it !!! My focus are my kids her focus is on talking about a failed marriage & petty bullcrap usher is just in the public eye not excusing his behavior but she knew what it was just like I did all I’m saying save all this talking & drama and interviews for fighting for your kids & why the cluck if you hate a man so much but continue to keep his last name that’s not a entitlement??? She needs 2 let go its not healthy Smh
No stan! I agree with you totally. Her willingness to put her business out there, bash Usher, and talk about the past, makes her seem shady. Not saying she is not good mother because their is some shady good mothers out there. I am just saying your children’s needs, emotional and physical well-being should come before yours. Not with or after. I just don’t see that from her with all the talking. This is not good for the children because when they get old enough, they are going to be able to look back, and with no one to explain..they are going to form some negative views.
Bash Usher how?
Of course I can’t go back through the years but in that marriage and before she was the one in the spotlight talking trash, attacking his character, etc. When she went over yonda and almost died tried to be societies pretty. Usher going to her side wasn’t good enough then. I am not a Tameka hater rather saying her tongue and the power of pulling up interviews, stories, old magazines has gotten her in trouble.
So basically you dont know how she bashed him…I asked because I have yet to find an interview with her bashing Usher. The media…yes. Blogs…yes even with this interview there was NOTHING negative she said…I even saw an interview where media takeout apologized to her for the way that they had been bashing her…
I didn’t say I didn’t know, I said I can’t go back over the years. I read entertainment news alot and since their marriage the girl aint never had nothing to say nice or have implied something nice about Usher and his mom. Besides, I am not going to do a tit for tat to prove I know what I know. I know that R.Kelly likes the little girls, but I can’t back over the years and prove it.
Exactly constantly bashing him on twitter. Lets not act like she didn’t bash him when she thought that Grace was pregnant and rest of her shenigans. She bashes him constantly on twitter and she went on tv now to bash him. Saying that she is mad because he didn’t tweet about Kile’s death. Like what are you 12? lol
I love how he acts like she doesn’t exist..lmao
You just making up stuff. Have a seat! She didn’t bash him on TV nor did she bring up anything about him on Twitter. Usher stalks that woman regularly. Hacking into her computer, calling her at airports to ask when is she returning from such and such but she never told him she was leaving or where she was going. He mad he can’t control her so hurt her with her kids. A little boy trapped in a little man’s body.
Shay, not a little man’s body? lol
Classic. He is short. Sexy swag…sorry, to me he does (I just never liked promiscuity from men or women), but damn if he ain’t knee high to a grasshopper. His sons will be taller than him in about 8 months lol.
Tameka defending her honor and reputation after the assault she’s just experienced by Usher, then Oprah and Usher is her right, and doesn’t mean she’s sweating Usher. Actually she was very mature on ET and I applaud her for that, if it were me, I’d be a mess and no doubt in jail for murdering Usher. I’m sorry to admit I’m not as strong as Tameka is, and Usher should be on his knees thanking God that Tameka is a woman that can keep it together even in the face of burying one child and losing two more to the likes of him. Had it been me, my children would be parent-less and I know that’s wrong but I’m only human.
I agree Lucille. I got a temper that can tear down a whole damn city. Like that other crazy Aries bytch….
"DON’T F*CK WITH ME FELLAS!!! This aint my 1st time at the rodeo."
I glad this is the last of this interview. I can’t understand, why Tameka is wasting her life, talking about a marriage that was doomed from the start. I am so puzzle how a mother who just lost her son 2 months ago would be talking about a marriage that end 5 years.She has waited 3 days to talk about her son and it probably will last 5 minutes. She had free air time on a well known network and all she could talk about was who Usher screwed. What a damn shame. She didn’t lose her children, because Usher paid off the judge, she lost them because of her actions.I hope I never see her face again talking about this mess.She is poor example, for young woman, how can she mentor anyone, with her poor behavior. I read the court doc. She spit on Usher, threw a plate of food at him, Keyed his car, assualt his girlfriend, and tried to keep the kids from him.
I cosign. Based on her behavior and the way shes acting, I would have never guessed that she had just lost a child a couple of months ago. Her children should be her main priority, and all she’s thinking about is Usher and who he slept with, or is sleeping with. Let’s not forget, she’s not a saint. She’s done some cheating of her own,but I don’t remember her first husband acting a fool on her like she’s acting with Usher. Usher was constantly in the media with her kids, and her ex-husband wasn’t spitting and throwing plates of food at them. I really believe that Usher wants her to move on and get on with her life, so she will stop making his life miserable.
Based on her behavior and the way shes acting, I would have never guessed that she had just lost a child a couple of months ago.
Be Objective…how SHOULD one behave when they have lost a child a couple of months ago?
Maybe staying out of the spotlight for a while and giving yourself a chance to start healing would be a great start, but no, what is she doing….constantly posting on Twitter day and night, bashing other woman about their fertility issues…trying to get attention as she always does. I’m almost certain that this interview with ET won’t be her last. The woman is her worst enemy. She just loves Drama!!
interesting…do you follow her on twitter or are you one of the ones that she has blocked? Not being funny when I ask that either. I ask because she doesnt post on twitter a lot at all and this is the second time that you have said something that is not accurate in regards to her and twitter. I wonder why that is? Yes she made a comment about a barren woman wanting to take her kids…AND?! Was it wrong…yes. But was Grace wrong for sleeping with her husband…YES! I will leave you with this,I personally thought she should NOT have done the ET interview but she definately has a right to tell her side if she saw fit. When it comes to healing, everyone heal and go through the pain differently. Dont knock the way she is dealing with her pain even if you know the pain personally…you arent Tameka Raymond and she is not you.
Vay, Since you want to defend everything she does. You may need to go back and look at her twitter page and get your FACTS together. The woman is not acting like someone who is grieving a child. As I said before…she’s too busy trying to stay relevant. Why don’t you just stop commenting on everything I post, because we will never see eye to eye. Does she have you in her back pocket, because you’re defending her like she’s buying your meals. She does and says evil things. She’s a grown woman, yet she continues to exhibit adolescent behavior. She keeps harping on things that have happened years ago. How long has she and Usher been divorced? It’s time to move on.
So basically she blocked you on twitter?! Just say that shit so we can end this conversation.If you aint talking facts I dont need to be talking to you there has been enough lies spreaded on Usher and Tameka and you have lied at least twice already.You cant back up a damn thing that you say so let me do you a favor and ignore your silly ass. Folks grieve how they see fit…now go make up a fake twitter page and verify your facts.
Vay, I see you’re exhibiting some adolescent behavior yourself. I kinda knew that was coming. Two peas in a pod I guess. What’s up with all the profanity?? Not once have I cussed you or called you out of your name. Did I hit a nerve?? No she has’t blocked me on Twitter because I never make any comments to her, but I do see her posts that others retweet. Speaking of fake pages. Your name wouldn’t happen to be Tameka is it? Wait don’t answer that, because this is my final comment to you. If you’re a grown woman and can’t handle a blog comment without flying off the handle, you may need to be sitting in a psychiatrist office yourself.
Be Objective, I follow Tameka as well. I can honestly say that while she has definitely sub tweeted about Usher many a days, since Kyle’s accident he has not tweeted as much, and she does tweet about Kile.
Now, concerning her "attack" on Grace, that tweet happened the same time the story came out about Usher’s alleged phone call. Maybe that’s the cause?
She is still being attacked by his fans, and I tell she respond in a way that makes Rihanna look like a damn nun lol. But since Kile’s death she hasn’t so much as typed his name.
I’m not co-signing Vay, just answering your question. I do agree with you that she’s struggling with moving on COMPLETELY (she knows good and damn well they’ll NEVER be together agian), but like Tameka, Chilli admitted that Usher was the last serious relationship. Clearly both these women have mental scars. People feel that says a lot about them. I think that says a lot about HIM.
Like someone said, it takes a special woman to deal with Usher. Like I said, I pity any woman with the misfortune of falling in love with him.
stlchick, I don’t actually follow Tameka on Twitter,so no I don’t see all of her tweets…only the ones that people in my timeline choose to tweet, and of course they are usually the ones referencing Usher, but I agree with a lot that you’ve just posted. I imagine it has to be difficult being in a relationship with Usher and dealing with fans who really don’t want him in a relationship.I understand that Tameka is bitter finding out that he was sexually involved with her friends. I would be too,but someone has to take the high road here and say enough is enough because there are children involved. They both have spoken out now,so this media circus really needs to come to an end. Usher and Tameka both need to learn to handle these sensitive issues privately for the sake of their children. It’s time to start healing. Nobody wants to live life unhappy.
Be objective I would have to agree with Vay. To say based on how she’s acting you can’t tell she lost a child was a low blow and unnecessary. You acting like Tameka shady friend that went on the trip with her. Then to say this judgement was based off of her Twitter usage although you don’t follow her on Twitter is laughable. How u gone tell somebody to
go check their facts on a profile that u don’t even go to.
Stl good point but I don’t see any talk healing from the relationship. This was about her sons death. The two can’t even be compared.
My cousin woke up and her daughter had died in her sleep. There is no manual on the right and wrong way to grieve. People are just mean.
nope..she is very and still obsessed with a marriage and a man that ended since 2009. She really got it bad..lmao.
Usher even told the court that he told her to move on, but she doesn’t want to.
Usher also told the court he didn’t sleep with her bridesmaid then threw a bitch fit and stormed out of court. But told Oprah different. I believe he’s gay and don’t want to be exposed. Grace is just a cover up lol he better introduce yall suckas to Bruce. Lol
Sigh…she spit at Grace who was in the truck with the window rolled up…she threw the plate at the truck when he drove off…the truck was in her name why would she key something that was hers…he tried to get to Grace but Usher got hit instead lol *Point for Tameka! You sure about the keeping him from his kids? They had a court order and she was never found in contempt of that. Usher could have gone to the courts to gain FULL CUSTODY immdiately had that been the case.
Lastly…how in the world could she control what segments ET decided to put on and how is she responsible for when they aired certain parts? Ultimately this is about Tameka and Usher so it’s a blessing that she is able to acknowledge her son. ALso she didnt lose her kids…
Vay, please tell me that your not insinuating this woman cook food and was offering it to him when she noticed another woman in the car.
I would have went nuclear ape shyt and when he drove off I would have been a hood ornament trying to get at that ass!
Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey! NewMeKnowYou been missing you around these parts.
Unfortunately that is exactly what I am saying. She was having something over at the house so when Usher pulled up she came outside to get the boys and to give him a plate of food she had for him. She sent the boys in the house with her family. Tameka noticed that Usher parked at the end of her driveway so she asked him why…now according to Tameka’s attorney he responded "Bi^%$# I dont have to answer to you" and walked away. Tameka followed him and BAM there was Grace sitting there like she had won the race. Yes Tameka went off which… can you blame her…she knew Grace well PLUS her and Usher were still sleeping together.
Usher tried to say in court that she had the kids in the house alone.
I am so puzzle how a mother who just lost her son 2 months ago would be talking about a marriage that end 5 years.She has waited 3 days to talk about her son and it probably will last 5 minutes.
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Ali, the interview took an hour. However, ET airs several topics in 30 mins., and it is up to their discretion as to what they show. As far as the topics she’s discussing, it’s called an interview. That means they ask the questions they want to ask, not what she wants to be asked. THAT would be the Oprah/Usher interview.
Bill Murray, I feel your pain. Is it February already?!
Judging by their logic, I think somebody already took an alarm clock and hit them over the head with it.
Clearly lol.
Tameka spit on the car, that’s why she wasn’t arrested, and the girlfriend came to her, and got in Tameka’s face, Tameka just got the best of her, and she did not keep the children from Usher and if you read about the events in court it was Usher, not Tameka who was held in contempt of court for constantly not telling Tameka where her children were when they were with him which was part of their joint custody order. The crooked judge dutifully held Usher, not Tameka in contempt for his actions, however, I didn’t read anywhere in the document that Usher was ever punished for the two perhaps three contempt citations he earned from this bought and paid for judge.
Also, ET was interviewing Tameka, not the other way around, she was answering their questions. As usual you Usher stans blame Tameka for everything, she doesn’t control the questions ET are asking her or chose to air on their show. Tameka didn’t get an hour on Oprah like Usher did, rather she got literally what 4 or 5 minutes, on three days adding up to what 15 minutes the most?
CHILE please his contempt was for a DAMN SAKS CARD U MUST BE RELATED TO HONEY BOO BOO
@ATLIEN
Trust me if Usher wanted Tomekia back he could have her back Usher don’t give a —–UCK if shehas a man or not. He wishes she had a man to occupy her time than maybe she would leave him the —–UCK alone.If a man had cheated on me as much as she says he cheated on her I DAMN show wouldn’t want his name. Keeping his name proves that she is obsessed with him. My sister was married for 5 years and her husband didn’t do nearly as much as Usher and she changed her name the next day after her divorce was final.This chick married for 2 years and was cheated on but will not give up that name ummmm I wonder why the name brings recognition which is what she always wanted. I still support Bill Clinton even after he cheated on Hilary and I still support Usher because they didn’t cheat on me they cheated on their wives which is their business not mine as long as Bill did his job as president and Usher keep making good music. This SHIT is so DAMN stupid. Personal is personal and business is business. If Hilary accepted it than who am I not to just like this WHORE accepted Usher cheating. If he had not divorced her she would still be married knowing he slept with her friend. STUPID SHIT
@Agreed
What his mother said was early on in Usher career when he was just starting out her husband Ushe’s stepfather said she was spending to much time managing his career. He said for her to choose. What mother will choose her husband over her own children. Even Oprah was shocked she said most shows she do the women choose the man over the child.DAMN yall need to tell the whole story and not half.SMDH if his mother choose her husband we would’nt be talking about Usher today because she would not have put the time and effort into managing him and seeing his career take off. So it would be NO USHER. That’s why we see so many DAMN cases of stepparents abusing or killing the stepkids because the supid ASS parents choose their mate over the children they gave birth tooooooooooooooooooooo
I am so glad that you finally made that clear. People just took that statement and ran with it. Usher was a child, a young boy, when she left her husband to move and handle his career. People take things and turn them around to justify whatever they want to believe. Another issue about her living around the block, Usher moved out and bought that house years ago. It was his first house that he purchased, (LA Reid’s old house). The house is around the block from her house when she purchased first. They both have lived there for years. Tameka tried to make Usher sell the house but no one bought it. He moved back there when he seperated from Tameka. I believe Usher was young like 18,19 or 2o, when he purchased that house.
Usher was in his late 20s. A child, a young boy? Please. That man boy lost his innocense at the age of 15 thanks to P Shitty. THAT’S when Usher was a child, a young boy. He wasn’t duped by Tameka. He made a spur of the moment decision as a young man who knew everything about sex and hardly anything about love. You can’t ‘make’ a grown person do anything.
You said:
People take things and turn them around to justify whatever they want to believe.
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Too true.
"He made a spur of the moment decision as a young man who knew everything about sex and hardly anything about love. You can’t ‘make’ a grown person do anything."
You are my Shero for this!
Makes zero sense considering that Usher has repeatedly TOLD Tameka to move on in private and in public. Usher has been with other women throughout the years even while he was still with her and it just so happens that he and Grace have been together for the past couple years. And Tameka is very bitter about that. He was able to move on with ease.
I hope some man comes along and sweeps her off her feet. Usher’s life will be so much more peaceful when that happens.
AMEN! this obsession over him is getting out of hand. What part of I don’t want you no more doesn’t she get..smdh
After this ET interview,she needs to stop talking, subtweeting etc. about this man. The horse is down already. Please stop beating it.
He didnt move no where…Usher was still sleeping with Tameka AFTER the divorce hence the reason why she was pissed that he had Grace with him when he came to her house. You all are forever speculating. Maybe HE mad…
He didnt move no where…Usher was still sleeping with Tameka AFTER the divorce
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Right…taking vacations and everything. Talk about ‘lets not forget.’
Bullshit! I agree to divorce for the sale of you gettin your game back..I let u hit and take vacay but I am no longer your wife due to pressure ..I said it before and I stand by it..that was dumb as hell and he.showed her then how he felt about her..she chose to ignore it ..that was a player move and as soon as she accepted those terms any respect for her left
So who is the fool here?
They all are but please believe Usher is at the top of the list.
is there proof that they were sleeping together? or is that also speculation? im just asking cause i don’t know.
Nothing has been proven, just stated in the blogs. No one has asked either one of them directly in either interview, which now that you mention it, is rather odd lol.
I would bet money I don’t have that, that was true..no woman acts like JUST to be acting like that..remember he’s very "charming"..I could see Usher still having sex with her to make his life a little easier while doing dirt on the side
Trust me it is true. When you hang in Atlanta and folks get liquor in them you just MIGHT here a phone conversation where Usher is unknowingly on speaker and spills his own tea before the person can take him off of speaker because they didnt know he was about to go there…"yeah man" lol
*Drops the mic
Damn, Vay. I’m going to have to give you my number lol
hahahaha…if you watch the way I comment I will make it clear when it’s my opinion and VERY clear when I know it to be fact. lol I come here because for the most part Michelle is right on the mark with stuff that I know. People get mad at her and claim she takes side but there are times when there is only one side…the truth and not the made up version of "truth". lol Most of the stuff I know about them has been talked about anyway…but you can call me anytime! lol
Well since she was married to him and we weren’t who really knows what went down? I’m sure they both made bad choices during their marriage..it doesn’t make sense to take sides.Its over. She’s telling her story.,He told his, and can continue to for as long as he likes if he chooses to. Its sad to me that the two of them can’t sit down and talk like adults and reach a compromise that will benefit their children. The marriage is over but they are both the parents of the children. Maybe when they can understand and deal with it like that, and not try to one up the other we won’t see interviews like this!
Tameka fight for your kids and then take some time to grieve. I don’t care about their personal lives. Just don’t let this jerk, jerk you around.
Tameka should go on Wendy Williams with her attorney and Wendy should give her most of the show to talk, then be quiet while she works on her appeal. It would be better if she could be on Oprah but Oprah has obviously taken Usher’s side and won’t help another sister.
This clip sounds like a crazy obsessed woman. Tameka get it together. He’s moved on, you should too. She needs to call Jamie Foster Brown at Sister 2 Sister if she wanna talk and not be edited. But really what else is there to say?
It’s sad now to look at the black and white photo of them so happy and in love. I wish they could have work on remembering those times instead of letting it become what it has.
Tameka chose the WRONG platform to speak and tell her side of the story I would have much rather she wrote a tell all and really told it ALL,I mean everything she knows about Usher…Why E.T?
TAMEKA HAS FOUGHT AS HARD AS SHE COULD FROM THE BEGINING. TO ATTRACT USHER’S ATTENTION. TO MARRY HIM. TO DEAL WITH HIS MOTHER YOU GOT TO HAND IT TO HER. BUT NOW SHE NEEDS TO LOOK INSIDE. THE HOUSE IS EMPTY MOST DAYS AND HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH THAT? GO GET YOUR THERAPY GIRL. AND START DOCUMENTATION ON DEM PAPERS. JUST IN CASE SUM SUM COMES UP……. AND CANCEL ALL THE INTERVEIWS AND PUBLIC STATMENTS WE GOT IT. IM PERSONALLY PRAYING FOR ALL THEY SOULS.
please cover the atl housewives. i am having to go to other blogs for info, which don’t cover the ethnic franchises in much detail. the people want this information. the show has millions of viewers and it will def increase the traffic on your blog if you cover them more or even become the go to site for all information regarding this franchise, kinda like all about reall housewives (NJ is there main show) or Whorgoras (NJ is also their main show). This site already has the trailer posted. Let’s go!!!
Somehow I feel this interview was an audition for that new show that is coming on TLC called "The EXs". ON the radio they are calling the show the bitter ex wife.I see Tameka trying to get her day on reality tv. It has been said several times that she has tried out for "The real Housewives of Atl" several times and the producers said no.
I’M just saying.
I actually saw a woman who is still extremely confused about the death of her son. On one hand I am sure she has to be strong for her kids but on the other she needs to grieve…I dont think she is thinking about an ex wives show. I personally believe her intentions were geniune and not looking for the next come up. Had it not she probably would not have allowed them to discuss her son.
They’ve asked her about HWOA, but she turned Andy down. Also, the cast were not happy about the choice. I would watch it lol. Can you imagine her and Nene? That would get Nene and Kandi cool again lol.
She would only get along with Phaedra, probably.
Boy usher got some fans for your ass_ don’t he. Smh at some of these comments. His Mamma is something else. Tameka don’t understand she better off without him. He just a sorry ass man with money. Can’t blame him though where was his daddy. His Mamma ante shit because she raised her son to be a ante shit boy. Trying to get sole custody for some kids is a shitty ass move. All Tameka need to do is keep praying and fall back. God got a better plan than she do. And yes you did right keep your last name. Hell after all that she earned it!
She damn sure did earn it..and ur totally right. Usher is living proof that it takes a man to raise a man. How he turned out speaks volumes.
Because of he was raised and what he has become, regarding his personality and morals, he’s in no position to teach his sons how to be men, when he’s not a real man himself.
#CHUCCH!
@Suthernhummingbyrd….Bitch please people get divorced…he should not have married her ass…earn is name…what man you know doesn’t have some ‘side pussy" doesn’t mean you don’t love your wife…Usher fucked some other bitches… it happens…bitch aint no perfect man or woman…you damn sanctimonious bitches from the south and yall be the main ones fucking somebody husband!!!
That is the most retarded shit I’ve ever read. Bitch please. EXACTLY.
I guess a good ol country gurl must have taken ur man once upon a time…And ur name?My sentiments exactly when I read ur post. You took the words outta my mouth. Good day.
Reading this is so irking all of you need to have several seats /_/_/_/_/_. No one knows what happened to them and if I had just lost a child by death I would care less what my ex-husband had to say on TV and I damn sure wouldn’t be out doing no interviews. Second all you women like she’s keeping it for the kids "FOR WHAT" if a man did all that damage and cheating and all the things Usher supposedly have done I wouldn’t want any parts of him, and not down playing anything Usher did but its not his fault the tragedy happened and she wanted to proceed with the case. Third she just always seems like she doesn’t care to me. All you women are bitter just stay out they business!!!!! Damn
How do you know who’s bitter? You are very judgemental.
The one thing you said was that yes, Tameka was dumb as hell for continuing to stay after his infidelities (and the divorce, though you didn’t say that).
You said:
Reading this is so irking all of you need to have several seats /_/_/_/_/_.
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Can we have the ones next to you?
The one thing you said was that yes,
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Meant to say
the one thing you said that makes sense was that….
Lol!
Yada yada yada….everybody on here is sooooooooooo damn annoying. I love how everybody says if it was me I would do this and I wouldn’t do that. Well guess what people it isnt you in the situation Tameka is in, so you can’t say how you would handle the situation. And there is no right or wrong way to handle the situation. Who told you the way she is handling it so wrong? So many of you sit here and act so damn righteous, let the women decide how she wants to handle possibly the worst moment in her life and either watch without passing judgement or don’t watch simple.
Folks are too damn judgemental, pray yourselves becausethe judgement you are constantly passing on this woman, just pray God doesn’t hand you down a similiar situation. Use your words to bless others not bring them down, what do you get out of speaking such vile things against this woman who is going through sooo much?
Sit down people or go preach as you so damn know it all!!
Oh please! TAMEKA AINT GOT NO MAN! (All bad grammar for dramatic affect. At any rate…) If she did, she wouldn’t have time to be running around on the PR circuit and be focused on her ALLEGED new man and her children, which she doesn’t have primary custody of. She probably lost custody of her man, too. Usher probably couldn’t care less what Tameka did as long as his finances are not involved. If she’s smart, she’d get a job, get an education or another sponsor.
Get a job? She owns two shops. As far as her not running around on the PR circuit if she had a man, no woman should ever put all her energy into a man. That’s probably why she’s had such a hard time moving on, because that’s exactly what she did; still holding on to her marriage when he’d given it up a long time ago.
Exactly. And I just read that he just gave her 60 days to vacate the house that he got for her and the kids. This ninja DETERMINED to not be shyt, I swear.
She claims that’s a rumor. I’ve been hearing about him wanting on to move for 2 years now. I wish she could move and tell him to bite her azz.
U ARE CLEARLY BEING PAID BY TAMEKA, OR KISSING HER ASS FOR WHATEVER THE REASON, BUT FYI YOUR BLOG WILL SEEM MUCH MORE CREDIBLE, AND ATTRACT MUCH MORE ATTENTION AND RESPECT IF YOU WOULD REFRAIN FROM TAKING SIDES. YOU ARE CLEARLY WRITING THIS GHETTO SOUNDING NONSENSE ON TAMEKA’S BEHALF, AS IF ALL OF A SUDDEN YOU TWO HAVE BECOME BEST BUDDIES….HOW DID U GO FROM HATING HER GUTS AND TRASHING HER EVERY CHANCE YOU GET, TO PORTRAYING HER AS ALL HEAVENLY AND RIGHTEOUS?? THIS MAKES YOU SOUND LIKE THE BIGEST HYPOCRITE, AND THEN TO TOP IT OFF YOUR BLOGS ARE JUST SO POORLY WRITTEN AND CLASSLESS. PERSONALLY I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST TAMEKA OR USHER, BUT YOUR BIASNESS DISGUSTS ME. TRY USING YOUR BLOGS FOR MORE POSITIVE AND UPLIFTING ISSUES AND LET THE RAYMOND’S HANDLE THEIR BUSINESS IF YOU ARE GOING TO BE BIAS OFF THE TOP…