Ifhe wants to call all the shots fine..one of them BETTER be that they continue to be a strong part of Tameka’s life and her other children..I need to know what tipped the judge..money can’t be stated so CONVINCE me how she was a bad mother..Karma is a cock eyed bitch and usher it’s COMING for you

Tameka never had full custody of her oldest two sons, why is that? Did she fight for them and lose too?

I feel bad for her losing her youngest two so close to the death of one of her oldest. I can’t help but feel that Tameka set herself up with her antics over the past few years. She’s shown time and time again that she’s not completely stable. I hope that this isn’t a forever thing and Tameka is able to get herself mentally capable of taking care of her children and a shared custody agreement can be reached in the future.

Now he can go write a song about it. 3,2,1….

Usher just a lost a fan. I may not matter, but enough fans will matter and hopefully women are wise enough to see that the ruling in this case is a slap in the face to all motherhood.I don’t know him in real life, but this case makes him out to be an egotistical jerk. I hope Tameka has already filed an appeal,because this is some straight up bull!!

Usher doesn’t even have the same fanbase anymore..he couldn’t care less if we stopped dealing with him..he has crossed over and his audience is outside of RnB…He’s got the control he wanted..I hope all of this was worth it from both parties…

That is really sad. I know they love their mother and she loves them. I don’t think Usher can do a better job than Tameka and she should not have lost custody. But, I do think that she has to provide a more stable home for her children. She vacations way too much. And has all these people, nannies around her kids. There are tons of single moms that take care of multiple kids. She should be at home with the kids and hire one or two family members to help her with the kids. Have compnay cleaning your house every few days, a chef preparing your meals off site, a gardner taking care of the lawn, a driver to get you and the kids (don’t send the kids by themselves) to the destinations you all need to be. That is way more help than she needs and then she can say, I take care of my kids myself…period. Yes, I have help around the house but, I care for these kids. All these 100’s of different Nannies, ect are rediculous. And then, you should not even brought up this SAKS card girl, you needed to be heavy hitting about how awful of a father Usher is. He can not provide a more stable home that Tameka…period. Especially, if she would just sit still. You child just passed, why are you going on vacation and having some women who is not even a family member watch your kids that don’t even like you. Come on Boo, Boo. What else was the judge to do when you come in there talking about a SAKS card and Usher is talking about the kids?????

Don’t understand why he would lose fans over this,it’s not wrong for a father to want to raise his kids,if she was such a great mother she would have had all her kids but she chose to chase money,she lost him how she got him she was the one cheating….he saw your character and he showed his…she lost her meal ticket but she got her discount card….usher will have nannies just like she did,nothing wrong with that…you don’t just lose kids for no good reason…give the man a break and hope he does the right thing by them…sad that accident happened to her son but as a mother she was nowhere around. Hope they all do well in the future,some people here talk like they know and you will never know all the details.

The judge is held accountable for doing what is in the best interested of the children… and given the FACTS (sans sympathetic rhetoric due to Kyle’s death); this is the best decision. Tamika has demonstrated that children are optional components of her life; while money is not. It’s funny to me that people do not recognized KARMA when it’s happening to them… this IS KARMA for Tamika… so she should just suck it up and charge it to the game, like a real player would.

She is probably secretly happy that she doesn’t have to deal the kids on a day to day basis and is only upset because now Usher is not obligate to pay her child support. Her lifestyle just got demoted.

DID ANYONE CATCH THIS?! why was she begging for money when Kyle was in the hospital; but was able to afford a trip to St. Barth’s the week after she buried him? I was in St. Barth’s in January – it is stupid expensive!!! Even a cheap trip for a week will set you back at least $40K FOR ONE PERSON – and she had a crew. Just wondering…

I’ve never really been a fan of hers, at the same time I never cared enough to research ab

They still have joint custody, usher is just the decision maker in this case.
Im not an Tameka or an Usher however it could be that Usher is scared that in the long run tameka may leave his children for another man.

u didn’t have a problem with his money when the judge ruled in favor of her with a credit card..just cause a woman spits them out doesn’t mean she should keep them esp boys. a woman can’t teach a boy how to be a man…just look around…gtfoy…glad he got custody..even gladder he didn’t listen to society and say he has less parental rights or doesn’t matter in his children lives..more fathers should take their kids..

Ght.Well if money is what won him the case then why don’t most rich men have custody instead of paying child support? If that was the case their wouldn’t be any "housewife " reality shows. No one complained when britney spears lost custody…she’s rich. We want equal rights and now that we have them it’s not right. Boo hoo.

Im so disgusted by this that I’m with u Michelle I’m done with Ursher. WTH I know everything aint peaches but damn did he have to keep going with this. I can’t even imagine how that would feel for someone to tell when you can and cannot see your kids. Such a shame, my heart goes out to tameka.

Im sorry–im not feeling STFA’s biased opinion on this..at least look at from both sides. Aww poor Tameka, please! how can you say that when you were dogging her like everybody else before her son died?
Im not an Usher stan but obviously the judge ruled in Usher’s favor for reasons that are in the children’s best interest–not for $$.. We have to look at both sides, not his, and not hers.
And just b/c usher has primary custody does not mean she will not see her children at all. hello! we dont even know what kind of custody arrangment it is so stop this " boo hoo tameka’s kids got torn out of her loving arms never to see them again" bs.

None of the people involved in this case could care less about you or your opinion. Worry about your trails and tribulations and leave other people issues alone. Get a life. Anyone who pays this much attention to a celebrity case must not have a lot going on in their lives.

All he wanted was more daddy time and he got it

This is a sad day indeed. Not just because of this situation but because many of you seem in favor of little boys being taken from their mother (although I don’t think that is what this court order really means) Why is it that we are so used to having one parent around that we cheer when we hear of two ADULTS not being able to parent together and raise their kids together to be productive adults. I have even witnessed one blogger recently attempt to befriend Tameka on twitter and the minute this information came out posted how "women" shouldn’t be raising little boys anyway…really?! I grieve for our culture and the disrespect and hatred we display towards each other, I grieve for the ignorance that we display when someone disagrees with us, I grieve for the way we speak to each other, I grieve for the lies that some of you have “heard” from different “sources” and painted a picture of a woman that you don’t even know…I grieve for the fact that you keep repeating these lies and making them YOUR truth. Remember if repeated enough even the author of a lie will believe it to be fact…

I have heard the following recently about Tameka –
“She don’t deserve to have her kids because she crazy” —but where is the documentation that her being “crazy” has harmed her kids also would she have NOT been crazy when Usher was dating her, married her and had kids with her?
“She don’t deserve to have her kids because she is a gold digger”…say what?!
“Well…she left her FAMILY and ran off with Usher and I know for a FACT cause KANDI said it!!”—I believe she was separated from her husband, how can you run off and leave someone you are not with? I have also seen where she has joint custody with Ryan Sr.
“Well if she was a good mother her son would not have died”—I’ll let you ponder that one
“She NEVER posted pics of her other kids just Ushers because they were money makers”—I actually know for a fact this is a lie
“She crazy because she blocked me on twitter”—hahahaha…sounds smart to me!
“She was on twitter begging for money while her son was in the hospital”—another lie
“She kept her kids from Usher” –Considering ALL the photos that Usher make sure to display in the media of him being a "loving" father I find that to be highly unlikely. Remember Tameka never had a problem with the joint custody agreement that they had. So no I don’t believe for one bit that she kept those boys from their father.
This is a direct quote from another blog
“Oh and let’s not forget that this is the same lady that sat in a court room during this custody battle and laughed while eating popcorn from her purse as Usher gave a tearful testimony about how Tameka attacked his girlfriend because she was in the car when he came to get his kids.”—now yall know good and well this woman was NOT in no court room eating popcorn from her PURSE while dude was crying!!!!lol
None of these reasons would justify her not being deserving to be a mother to her kids full-time. Could there be some psychological issues she is dealing with…sure. BUT I can promise you that having to deal with some of the things that she has had to deal with (prior to her sons death) would send many people over the edge, INCLUDING the way the blogs and media treated her and NO she is not innocent in the media madness either. Now that she is dealing with losing her son she needs time to heal and lots of prayers. The disrespect needs to stop didn’t your mothers and /or fathers teach you if you cant say nothing nice then don’t say anything at all? Many of you don’t even know what it takes to be a good mother or father but you have all the answers. Usher needs to man up and realize that he cant just X her out of those boys lives…should have thought about that before he created those kids with her…he should still be able to lead and guide these relationships so that the KIDS come first especially since he is the “normal one” *side eye. A good father would never want to take his kids from their mother unless there was abuse present. A good father would respect his kids mother and not bring a woman to her house for fear that it would send the wrong message to the CHILDREN. A good father would try to keep the peace with his children mother no matter what because his kids come first. A good father would care about the well-being of his children mother ESPECIALLY when the kids are in her care. A good father would recognize that he cant teach his kids everything and there are some lessons that should come from mom…not a girlfriend or a nanny. A good father and real man don’t need the court to decide and dictate to him how he should parent his children. He understands that his kids should come first and that will mean sacrifice. No one tried to snatch him from his mother as a child…the same woman he adores but rammed his car into hers while she was sitting in it… the same woman he calls a mother fu$ker!!! His lack of respect for WOMEN is very clear and I have no problem calling it like it is. It is my prayer that ALL parties involved will get it together as I feel they both have issues and maybe Usher should start addressing with himself why he couldn’t take a drug test…My thoughts and opinion and I own it.

Just because you have money doesn’t mean you can win a custody case. Ask Tom Cruise. He’s got all the money in the world, more money than Katie Holmes, and he didn’t stand a chance getting custody of his child. Tameka’s criminal past probably played a part in her losing custody. She also may have done some things in the marriage that were used against her. Why is it sad that he got custody of his own kids? I’ve never really been a big Usher fan (I don’t have any of his cd’s, lol), but he always seemed like a reasonable guy to me and I do see him as the more fit parent. Whereas with Tameka, there were always too many red flags about her from the very beginning: a criminal record, a previous marriage, already had children, she was an older nobody marrying a younger somebody, Usher’s mom didn’t like her, etc. They were never a match. I thought Usher was doing her a favor by even looking her way. And when your family doesn’t like who you are marrying, it never works.

She aint done with Usher yet because I just saw on her twitter that she will appeal.

I’m justtrying to figure out what she did to lose her children. I can’t find an ounce of evidence to prove she’s neglectful. Say whatever you want to say about her,but she’s a damn good mother. For ALL of you who say she deserves to have her children taken away,tell me why. Don’t come with the foolishness about her going on vacation because Kile was with his dad which is why she went on vacation. Don’t tell me she’s a gold digger because she has had her own career throughout all of this. Give me something that pin points to her neglecting her children. Don’t tell me about her wanting to slap the shit outof Grace and her "friend"that testified against her. Because lets all be honest here, we would’ve done the same thing or something remotly close to it. Tell me why her children were taken away from her as far as neglect.. I have seen crack heads get their children back and in some cases, they never have their children taken away from them.All of y’llteam Usher kids are really pissingme off. Where are the facts? Give me at least one! Were they dirty,hungry,abused and/or neglected in any way? Think before you respond. And when you come up with nothing (you will come up with nothing),ask yourself,how would you feel if you were in her shoes? She just had her children taken from her without any evidence she’s done anything wrong. Money talks and Usher paid his way through this one.

I would have had more respect for usher if he just taken her to court because he wanted the boys to live with him. Not saying tameka was an angel in all of this but she was bitter and she probably did make it hard for him at times, I know because I’ve been there before. What he tried to do was competely erase her from their lives by seeking SOLE physical and legal custody. And women are basically saying she desrved to not see her kids just because the dont like her attitude. but All he got was primary in the end.

He married her and talked about how she was his best friend so at one point HE thought she was a good mother
So now that it didn’t work out and he got himself a new girlfriend he wants to pretend tameka isn’t their mother???

FYI I was a fan of his since the beginning of his career, but right is right and wrong is wrong

SFTA, you are such a one sided B! If Tameka had won, you’d be on here giving her high 5’s right? NONE of us know what truly happened. I wasn’t a fan for either of them acting like a plum fool! And any woman acting a fool because the man she USE to be with no longer wants her and has moved on, well, maybe she deserves to be called unstable! You are NOT an unbiased writer which is why you suck!