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A family court judge will soon make a decision in the vicious custody battle between R&B superstar Usher Raymond and his ex-wife Tameka Foster Raymond and the subject is a hot topic of debate online and off.
[READ: Raymond Custody Battle ALMOST Over - What Other Sites Won't Tell You... ]
While my last post was a long read, I know I omitted a few things. One in particular was “family friend Linda Brock-White who testified against Tameka last Wednesday just days after returning from a family vacation with the grieving mom and her boys.
Video + the “real deal” about Tameka’s so called “friend,” Linda Brock White, below…
VIDEO: News Footage of Raymond Custody Trial Via: WAGA Fox-5
Brock-White is the Godmother of both Tameka’s kids with her first husband, Ryan Glover and an old friend of the family.
After Ryan & Tameka’s son Kile passed away, Tameka invited Brock-White on a family get-away where she took Usher V, Naviyd and Ryan, Jr. to Saint Barts for a week.
Brock-White had reportedly traveled with Tameka many times in the past and over the past 17 years she had no problems spending time away on Tameka’s dime, which is why it was quite odd that just days after returning she hit the stand against her “friend”.
As I stated in the title… with friends like THAT chick, who the hell needs enemies! Brock White was used as Usher’s “smoking gun” against his ex-wife and smirked as Tameka’s former “friend” testified that Tameka was a “bad mother.” 
Apparently Brock-White, felt ‘some kinda way’ about Tameka’s mood during the trip and she testified that the grieving mother wasn’t very attentive to her kids.
I was sitting in the court and I saw Brock-White’s testimony with my own eyes. She was clearly disgruntled over something… but we soon found out what.
One thing that I’ve noticed that no one has mentioned so far, is that Tameka’s attorney’s basically discredited her “friend” when it was revealed that she was angry about not being able to go shopping like they usually did when they traveled together. She described how Tameka stayed in her room while she and Tameka’s niece tended to the kids.
It was then that Tameka’s counsel asked Brock-White if she’d ever lost a child and she admitted she had not. 
That being said, why wasn’t it possible that Tameka was still reeling over the loss of her son?
Another point made during cross-examination was the fact that Brock-White and Tameka had gotten into an argument during the trip that caused Brock-White to leave early (well well… the plot thickens!).
The altercation was brought up by Tameka’s attorney, and Brock-White testified that Tameka had asked her to tend to the two young boys as she was paying for a cab after dinner. There were two other adults traveling with the party and when Tameka asked ‘can somebody get them for a second while I pay the man’, Brock-White screamed “Handle your own dayum kids!” and the two exchanged words.
Brock-White also admitted to Usher’s attorney’s that she did so much during that trip that ‘she deserved to be on the payroll’ but when cross-examined she denied saying it.
Last but not least… Brock-White tried to make it seem as though Tameka felt ‘some kinda way’ about the family calling Usher V by his first name in public.
I admit I almost laughed out loud in the courtroom when the Judge Bensonetta Tipton-Lane asked ‘well… what did she tell you to call him then?’ and Brock-White couldn’t come up with an answer.
The judge asked Brock-White a 2nd time for clarification, stating ‘did she tell you to call him by any other name? a middle name perhaps?’ Brock-White said again said no, but then stumbled over her response stating they called him someting like ‘Four or Five… or Cinco.”
At some point during Brock-White’s testimony, Tameka got up and walked out of the courtroom. I can only imagine how she felt having to sit there and watch someone who she’d considered a “friend” just days earlier sit on a stand and call her a bad mother.
When I tell y’all it’s a cruel world out there… you best believe me!
I’ve been called everything but a child of God by “Team Usher” and apparently teenagers are authorities on custody battles these days.
My opinion on this situation has nothing to do with whether I “like” Usher or Tameka. In fact, they both share the burden of whatever is going on between them. Tameka knew what she was getting… and so did Usher.
But even with that, they both should bear equal responsibility for those kids, who deserve a mother AND a father.
Unfortunately, it’s usually the parent with the most dough who’ll win in situations like these, mostly because they can afford to pay for their desired outcome (one way or another).
I wonder how much friends are going for these days?
This post is long as hell but I have to mention one more thing.
It was also brought up in court that a woman befriend Tameka on Twitter right after her son Kile died. Apparently she told Tameka that she had lost a child as well and the two formed a bond. Fast forward to the custody battle resuming just weeks after Kile’s funeral… how bout the woman turned out the be a private investigator!!
When she found out who the woman really was, Tameka sent her a few choice words via text (can you blame her!?) BUT GET THIS… Usher’s attorney’s tried to use Tameka’s angry text messages as proof she’s “unstable”…
I wrote this whole long “A”zz post to because sometimes it’s the things that are left out of the story that you should probably pay the most attention.
So again… when I tell you it’s a cruel world… trust me, it is.
Stay tuned, I heard there’s even more explosive details about the Raymond’s custody battle coming out soon….
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That’s a damn shame! That is one gold-digging heffer. She will get hers in the end for being a back stabber.
WOW WHAT A FRIEND!!! I GUESS SEEING HER SON IN A CASKET WASN’T REASON ENOUGH THAT SHE REALLY DIDN’T FEEL LIKE SHOPPING, WANTED TO SLEEP AND NEEDED A LOT OF HELP WITH HER BOYS ON VACAY. GUESS I’M A DIFFERENT KIND OF FRIEND B/C THAT WOULDN’T HAVE BEEN A SUBJECT AT ALL AND TOTALLY INSTINCTIVE TO DO FOR A FRIEND. BEY-OTCHS LIKE THIS EXPLAIN WHY CELEBS LIKE BEYONCE & THEIR FAMILIES KEEP SUCH TIGHT CIRCLES. SMH!!!…….JENNY JONES!!!
AND WOW I HOPE THE JUDGE SEES WHAT AN A**HOLE USHER IS FOR USING A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR TO BEFRIEND HIS GRIEVING EX-WIFE LIKE THEY WAS A GRIEVING MOTHER TOO. SMH!!!! I KNEW HE WAS IMMATURE & CRUEL BUT NEVER THIS MUCH OF AN A**HOLE. HE THINKS HE LOST FANS WHEN HE MARRIED HER, WOW HE HASN’T SEEN ANYTHING YET. HE SHOULD’VE WAITING TO CONTINUE TO PURSUE THIS CASE. IDIOT AGAIN!!!!…….JENNY JONES!!!
I agree 100% Jenny Jones. Can’t believe Usher is being so cruel and insensitive and vindictive over whatever. God don’t like ugly and Usher is being hideous right now.
I hope his peeps read these blogs because his ass has forever tarnished his reputation. If I knew where to write him direct, I would curse his ass out for these lowly tactics.
Pay your wife/mother of your children whom you tried to kick to the curb and move on with your life. Its always these black male celebs who don’t want to get up off the coin. They think they can marry and impregnate a woman and promise her the world then leave her high and dry once they get bored. Just shameful.
And Usher is ugly. Whoever told him he was fine was lying AND blind!
Kamalia, go see Darshelle during visiting hours. I’m sure she’ll give you the address ; )
I totally agree with you! Could not have said it any better! This woman is clearly lashing out because she is tired of the lies and back stabbing and is visibly still hurting from the loss of her son! SMH!!!
This Ms White chick needs her ass beat down, I would stop at nothing to stomp a mud-hole in her ass. This woman is so far out of line and she was probably on Tamekas side until money got to her punk ass. That old bitch will die alone and miserable. Usher will die fan-less and broke. Evil never prevails.
Damn right!! I say we get Moscato-ed-up and go find her a$$!!
LMAO! Love it. Anybody got money on my airfare from STL to ATL? lol
Tameka had/has no friends….she was being used by everyone close to her….because of her money and who she knows.
I, unlike most, knew that Tameka was not to blame. People were so quick to jump on her because they liked Usher with Chili and face it, Tameka’s dark and the amount of people calling this woman ugly is disgusting and so far from the truth.
I don’t cosign anyone….especially celebs….I don’t consider Tameka a celeb and I just felt slighted because of the way she was attacked. And from my view, she mostly lashed out when she is/was attacked.
Most were cosigning for Usher until they found out who Usher really is.
Usher is a certified, straight up, b!t@h made mufugga. This mufugga gone pay for this low-down chit
U said it best. That bi*ch ni**a is raggedy!!
This is so unfortunate. Hopefully this Linda person will reap what she sows. Who does that? I really hope and pray that She doesn’t lose custody of her kids over the "opinion" of a so called friend. How do you actually determine that a person is an unfit mother? He is a very vindative "LITTLE" man. Children need BOTH their parents. I hope this comes to an end soon. I don’t even know how I could function, knowing I just lost my child in a horrible accident and now I may lose 2 of my other kids as well.
WOW.
All of Tameka’s children are checks for life and she knows that, sorry she lost one. With modern science she can have another, so get a new wallet to link to and pop out another. To all readers Next time your mother says stay away from someone, stay away!!
WOW IS THIS YOU USHER???? OR IS THIS ‘WE DIDN’T SHOP’ LINDA BROCK-WHITE????………JENNY JONES!!!
Shit I wish! I take some that money Usher paid her. Money talks and bullshit walks
Everyone knows usher was molested & is currently on the down low…he has NO business raising those kids alone nor does his mother whom pimped him out…
Modern science? Pop out another? You sound as insensitive as Usher. Some people actually have children because they love kids and love being a parent. Your comment was inappropriate. A child is dead and two more kids are in jeopardy because of feuding parents. Have some compassion.
I thank God that I have never lost a child, I can’t even image the heartache that must be. Usher should be ashame of himself. I believe that she (Tameka) has suffered enough and from him (Usher) to add salt to the wound, he has to be a cold hearted person. I wonder how much friends cost, because Linda Brock-White was bought and paid for. The kiss of Judes
You’re right he probably paid her off. Its such a shame that they can’t work this out among themselves. Unfortunately the kids will suffer from this. It will be interesting to see how the judge rules on the case. Dad’s don’t usually win unless they can prove the Mom is unfit.
ATLien
SandraRose is reporting that a member of Usher’s counsil was part of the Judge’s reelection campaign…
Is this true??
Yuup… That’s the other news that I was talking about. I didn’t want to be the first to say it because I didn’t have all the facts.
Ponder on this ATlien.Do you think that although his counsil has ties to the judge,it doesn’t holed any weight? Meaning,Usher went through hell of a lot to bring Tameka down. He hired the PI and her friend. He had to be worried, to go through extreme measures.The judge might not care about the reelection campaign and is more concerned about doing her job.That’s why Usher chose to play dirty because he’s scared to lose.
Shouldn’t the judge recuse him/herself? I can’t belive the legal system in ATL is so corrupt.
Well.. Sounds like Tameka is just getting back all the bs she’s put out there ten fold. Karma is REAL. She has talked crazy to people and done things beyond belief and now it’s coming back on her ass. And sadly, even this shit won’t humble her. This ho doesn’t believe that fat meat is greasy. But she will deal. Period. All the betraying and bridges she’s burned.. Do you really expect people to feel sorry for her? Lmao.
Yep. I do. And I’m in good company. She may have wronged a lot of people, but I ain’t one of them.
Karma doesn’t work like that–talk crazy to people and lose your kids. As far as the things she’s done beyond belief, can you name t hem?
I agree Real_ish. While I don’t believe Usher should get full custody, in my opinion, I think he’s shooting for split custody or more time than her, because no judge would ever grant a man full custody unless she is somehow totally unfit.
Seems like since her son’s death, people have forgotten about her outlandish antics (i.e. keying his car after their split, showing up at his house, and recently fighting his gf who was in his car). The public doesn’t know the full details about everything that has happened, but from Tameka’s twitter alone, I can see she’s a loose cannon.
The judge granting her use of a credit card is VERY unusual in a custody case. Even in a divorce–most people have to close accounts and pay off the shared debt of the card. She may want to rethink that grievance because the judge may order her to pay the card off in the divorce settlement :/
Keying a car seems more sane than ramming your car into your mother’s car repeatedly. #justsaying
Right. And from what I see on her twitter account she’s going off on people who attack her first. They’ve been divorced over two years and usHER stans STILL go in on her. And don’t think they’ve stopped because she’s lost a son. In my Phaedra voice, Everybody knows that to kick someone when they’re already down is to kick yourself in the long run.
Usher, u r gonna burn in hell, leave that woman alone & allow the kids to have both parents. God don’t like ugly. You are definately losing fans including me, no wonder your last album didnt do so well. get off your high horse & do the right thing for the sake of the kids.
First of all, this vengeful woman ain’t worth a piece of stale gum discarded on the curb and stepped in. Secondly, her whole testimony’s a moot point. A mother who just buried her son was in mourning and therefore inattentive to her other kids? REALLY?! What a shocker! It’s quite clear that this ‘witness’ was brought in at the last hour to drive home his point…she probably went straight to his home after her plane landed, thinking, "I’ll show that bitch!" I don’t know why people keep playing with karma…they are no match.
It kills me how people keep referring to her children as a check and how she’s going to be paid for life, simply because she chose not to reproduce with some broke ass bums. Nobody with sense goes into a marriage predicting it will end in divorce.
My prayers are with Tameka and those kids. Manboy usHER will certainly get his (I put HER in caps because he’s acting like a bitch on her period, IMO).
co sign……
BRAVO!!! WELL SAID!!!
Funny how Michelle is now team Tameka when she used to dragggggg her like a dog!
Things change… people start to see things clearer with more information and understanding. More power to Michelle for being honest.
Usher should issue a restraining order against this fat whale after the custody battle. I’m sure that once he will be done destroying Tameka he will "take care" of this monkey called Michelle Brown. She is done in ATL. Usher is friend with Bill Clinton and Barack Obama. He can destroy her life if he wants to, she better watch out cause her payback is coming very soon
GET.A.LIFE. You make stupid look stupid. I wish I could send you a jump rope, some crayons or something. You seem like the type of person who will just waste her life behind a computer, and considering how you keep finding your way onto this site, I predict you’ll be the inventor of all kinds of computer viruses.
You mean he’s a boytoy holding secrets so he can pull a couple favors? I feel sorry for usher everyone knows he’s been molested & I blame his mother for all of this…those kids DO NOT need to be raised by the village people…
Exactly….you can have your opinion in the beginning….Michelle was dragging the hell out of Tameka…but, after she witnessed/heard what Usher has been up to with her own ears…she realized the type of person Usher is and anyone who is still riding for this cat is cray.
I keep praying for Tameka. Great coverage of the hearing. As I’ve said before, I’ve been through this, minus the celebrity aspect. Tameka just lost a child and then to have people turn on her can add to the devastation. Hang in there- God will see you through this.
Never buying an Usher album again- that’s all I’m saying.
Holding on to my money with you. Not necessarily because he’s showing his nasty true colors (did he really think hiring a private detective to befriend his mourning ex wife and using any learned information against her would earn him brownie points with the courts?), but because LFM sucked ass. One writer titled his article about Usher’s album sales with "Looking for My Sales." I was crackin’ up! lol It’s not the worst album I’ve bought, but it is his worst album.
My heart goes out to heart for the loss of her son. But let the chips fall where they may. They were both playing dirty before the death of her son, now it’s just continuing. None of us will ever know the truth, especially from the news media. I don’t care if SFTA claims to have been in court, NOBODY knows the truth but Tameka and Usher. *smdh*
I…like many of you…owe Tameka an apoligy. I have talked shit on her in the comments of this blog and I was wrong. I read all the hateful things others have said over the years and bought into it.I was wrong I hope she gets to keep her sons.
why we would owe an appology to a woman who got preggo by a dealer, left her husband and kids to runaway with a pop star, and removed her own son from life support?
Why aren’t you out with your friends? Are you THAT damn ugly?? Clearly your outsides match your insides. Pity.
Damn, I need to get some sleep! I’m not acting like a social worker lol
Thanks for all the details we the public dont get to see.
shame on Usher… Team Tameka~
All I can hold my drinking glass up to say is Usher dug this hole for himself, when His mom told him to leave the grown lady alone you didn’t listen, now you have a this to deal with. I don’t wish no one losing their kids whether in death or through the courts. but the one thing that sticks with me, why was she vacationing with her kids when her son past, why were they here and she was over there. I thought that was the reason they call them FAMILY VACATIONS..but who am I just a blog reader giving her opinion on the matter!
why was she vacationing with her kids when her son past, why were they here and she was over there. I thought that was the reason they call them FAMILY VACATIONS..
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Jigga what? Kile was on a family vacation with his FATHER amd his current wife. That’s why Tameka was on vacation when her son passed, because Ryan Glover had custody.
Okay, so I’m gonna post this and then run some errands, even though I’m supposed to be home sick. I usually take stuff Sandra Rose say with a grain of salt, but she posted with great confidence that her source heard this firsthand. If this is true, Usher will never prosper again a day in his life.
This past Friday, Usher called Tameka on the phone and said to her “How does it feel to have lost your kids? Your son is dead, and now you have lost the boys too.” He continued: “I will let them know that [they] used to have a mother.” She responded, “How do you know I lost? His response, Why do you think I hired John?” “I hate you!”
What is more interesting is the fact that she recorded his conversation and she never heard such confidence in his voice
Yup! I just read that too! If it is true! That would be explosive.
Meeeka! If you do win…You should tighten your circle friends with the quickness. Only those who’ve been supportive you should remain friends with …everyone else would "kick rocks’
Question: The fact the detective lied to obtain information…..I can’t! I just can’t
Her ex -friend : is full of it!
there is so much I want to say. However, I do wish Meek the best and I hope the Judge see through all the bull crap and award Meek full custody! Stick to Usher!
However, If Usher wins It’s a wrap cause he is going to make next to impossible for her to see her children.
why are you so obessed with Usher if you don’t like him? You are nothing but a bunch of jobless fat dark skinned whales
Why are you so obSessed with Tameka if you don’t like her? You are nothing but a pimply-faced, acne-scarred, motherless unattractive soul who will die a virgin!
Wow, I’m having waayyyy too much fun with you. Give me more! Give me more! lol
"dark skinned whales"
That right there basically tells us why you don’t like Tameka. Black is black in the eyes of everyone except black people.
This bitch went on family trips with Tameka and her kids but then turned against her in court. That lady needs an old fashioned ass whupping. Usher is a scandalous and a jerk to call upon her "friends" to testify against her. He is below the earth scum.
First he sleeps with her ‘brides-maid" now hes paying off her friends and nannies to testify against her??? What a slime.
@Saida…..I co-sign-co-sign-co-sign with your comments. UsHer…..A "clASS" act!
No matter if Usher paid her off, at the end of the day she was not a friend to Tameka. I am not going to blame Usher for Tameka’s so-called friend being dirty. Who knows what Tameka has done in the name of "saving face" because that whole stalker thing is mighty fishy. Usher and Tameka are wrong and I personally think neither one of them deserves the boys until they can both grow up and act like adults. Everyone seems to have forgotten about the kids. Usher and Tameka will continue to sling mud at each other and only the kids will suffer. Both of these immature a**holes make me sick!!
Usher is a bitch ass nigga for this. And her friend is a bitch ass too. Karma is a bitch folks
I hope tameka gets some rest and peace. She’s going through too much. Wish folks would back off
Ok, I just watched the video and I am appalled at this woman who is suppose to be a family "FRIEND" on the stand testifying that Tameka is not a good mother to her children when her kids are "allegedly" jailbirds…..SMH!!! Anything for money, I guess!
So, if Tameka knows that this lady has son’s that have been to jail. Why would she want her raising her son. She took him over there every single weekend. Really?
But if this woman thought she was unfit for 14 years, why didn’t she ever hotline it? Whey speak up now when she’s battling a rich man? She didn’t take the stand when Tameka was divorcing Ryan Glover, but of course Glover money isn’t as long as Raymond money. And if she kept the boy every weekend and Tameka was married for most of those years, wouldn’t that make Ryan an unfit parent as well?
Every weekend is not "raising" a child.
Truly disgusting!!!! Even if you thought your friend was slipping in an area true homies would never testify about let alone a situation like this. And this free loader you got a trip for FREE with your grieving close friend watching the children shouldn’t have EVEN been a question. Furthermore when she was paying for "YALL" cab somebody should’ve helped w/ the kids.
BTW I HOPE USHER GOT MONEY SAVED CAUSE HIS STOCK VALUE JUST SIGNIFICANTLY DECREASED!
AND i’M STILL SAYING TAMEKA IS GOING TO BE VICTORIOUS. I AM STILL THANKING THE LORD i KNOW FOR HER VICTORY. USHER WILL NOT WIN IN THIS CASE. HE DONT DESERVE TO WIN AND HE AINT GOT A LEG TO STAND ON.
USHER WILL GET HIS, IT MIGHT NOT BE TODAY OR TOMORROW, HELL IT MIGHT NOT EVEN BE THIS YEAR, BUT TRUST ME YOU CANT WRONG OTHERS AND GET AWAY WITH IT. MONEY IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL!! THE GOD WE SERVE IS A MIGHTY GOD AND I HOPE TAMEKA HAVE FAITH AND KNOW THAT HE WILL SEE HER THOUGH THIS!!
This some bull *$@%…I can’t not today.
"Tameka’s mood during the trip and she testified that the grieving mother wasn’t very attentive to her kids."
If I had just lost my son, I wouldn’t want to get out of bed, let alone take care of my other children. It sounds like she wanted to make sure the kids were near her and with a family friend and her niece so that they would be well cared for, and so that she could get away from Atlanta to think and grieve.
The twitter situation is messed up, but common. Apparently setting people up is the new thing to do. It’s amazing how people don’t have time to read to their children, eat dinner with their families, exercise, etc., but they have time to set up fake Twitter accounts to set up grieving mothers. Then people who do things like this have the nerve to call themselves good people. SMH If a "good" person sets people up, then please point out to me what a "bad" person does?
Unfortunately, Ms. Brock-White’s behavior is very common. A lot of people will dime you out if the circumstances or price is right. She is trifling for hanging with Tameka and spending her money and then selling her out. Per the news clip, Ms. Brock-White needs to be pleading the blood of Jesus over the criminal activities of two of her own children.
This is some funky mess. Tameka stay strong and resilient and you will prevail. trust God will hand you your boys and you will be able to put Usher and his army of hate under your feet. Your boys love you and they will respect you even more for enduring this pain. Love you girl!
Wow.That is a straight bitch move,use her money for vacation and then dog her when you don’t get your way. I wont be surprised if Usher didn’t pay her to go on vacation with her. This story is heart breaking and Usher please know,your fans are watching. Tameka, I have been praying harder than ever for you. Please keep the faith and know you are not alone.
Wow, Usher is really making me not like him for this. He is cold blooded. I can’t believe that Tameka has to go through this after loosing her baby and then he is trying to take the other kids away from her. I’m sure this is all for not wanting to pay child support. He is only going to hurt the children in the end. Those boys love their mom and it will kill them to have to be away from her on a regular. SMDH
Michelle she is unstable….have you forgotten about allllll the twitter rants she has exhibited over the years???? Even the ones directed at you. Another thing….just because she testified in court to what she felt was true doesnt mean she is not a friend. If you had a friend who had any bad flaws and you had to testified….are you saying you would lie under oath just because you are friends. Sometimes the truth hurts.
YEP, CUZ WE ROLL LIKE THAT IN THE STL!! Prove I’m lyin…I’ll take the stand like lil’ Kim. As far as her being unstable, if I put up with daily random attacks from dumbasses I don’t even know, not to mention being dragged thru the mud by every blogger and their mama, I’d be a little off myself. And to try to keep custody of 2 sons after just burying one, whose body isn’t even cold in the ground yet? As for Usher, crazy attracts crazy. I bet his ass got a few prescription bottles lying around his damn self.
And as a friend, ain’t enough money in all of Usher’s bank accounts to buy my black ass.
And once again….Tameka HAS to respond making a statement about the lady getting a "thank you" on the album. Tameka stop responding!!!! It’s obvious Michelle has your back…she’s gonna get your point across for you….don’t worry.
I agree.However,Tameka feels alone in a way. Which makes her feel the need to respond. Look at the case for example, everybody is turning their backs on her. This is one case, I can’t believe is going on. The mere fact that Tameka shows up to court as required in spite of it all,shows she really wants her children. I can’t even imagine how her heart aches right now. Every chance I get, I’m saying,"lord please help this woman keep her children?"
Why can’t he sue for custody?The ex-husband had custody of his boys.Men like Steve Harvey and Dwayne Wade have done this same thing.Now from some of the sources I have,Usher never knew where & who was with his kids at any random time of the day.He wants to take them on his European tour and Tameka opposses.At the end of the day, they both have issues and apparently can’t agree how to handle things.Choosing sides from the outside with such nasty allegationsis wrong.
We are all guilty of passing judgement!I challenge all of you to pray for both of them & especially the innocent kids!
I have been saying this for over a year!! I don’t know if it’s the "IT" thing to do, but celeb men are doing their best to restore the father image! Halle and her sperm donor, Usher and Tameka, & the biggest liar of them all Dwyane Wade!! They are all paying off people, painting their ex’s as crazy and doing spiteful s h I t behind the scenes!
Most folks don’t realize this mess is rigged!! A crack head can lose their child and regain custody in six months!! Why hasn’t D Wade’s case been reevaluated?! They denied her! Meanwhile, Shanique is still getting high and has retained her custody!!
The biggest questions I have is this:
How does Tameka parent with Ryan Glover? How will she possibly be sane to care for her older children and not the younger ones? The fact that she will still retain custody of a child (ren) no matter the outcome, proves she is more than capable of taking care of her two with Usher! He is full of it! I believe Tameka to be evil, but I don’t think she has ever harmed her children.
This woman has been evil and hateful for years. Usher hasn’t done anything to her that she hasn’t already done to him. I wish she could have traded places with her son, because that baby should still be here. What is with us? As soon as someone dies they become instant angel? Just because she lost her son doesn’t make all the wrong she’s done ALL RIGHT. No-no, please wake up this mean, ugly, old witch does not deserve to have those boys. I truly believe the kids are only a quick source of income for her, that’s why her old ass keeps popping them out. Dogs give birth that doesn’t make them fit parents. Tameka is as good a mother to her children as a rattle snake is to hers. Pay back is a bitch, she screwed Usher for year thinking she’s older and wiser, bitch this monster is of your own making.
Girl, good bye with this bullshit.
This woman has been evil and hateful for years. Usher hasn’t done anything to her that she hasn’t already done to him. I wish she could have traded places with her son, because that baby should still be here. What is with us? As soon as someone dies they become instant angel? Just because she lost her son doesn’t make all the wrong she’s done ALL RIGHT. No-no, please wake up this mean, ugly, old witch does not deserve to have those boys. I truly believe the kids are only a quick source of income for her, that’s why her old ass keeps popping them out. Dogs give birth that doesn’t make them fit parents. Tameka is as good a mother to her children as a rattle snake is to hers. Pay back is a bitch, she screwed Usher for year thinking she’s older and wiser, b*tch this monster is of your own making.
Did you just wish death on someone…becareful what you speak…the very thing you speak over someone could very well become your destiny.
I think the judge should give them both sole custody.They both should have sole custody six month out of the year. He should schedule visation, for the parents during the time they have sole custofy.Neither parent should be intitle to child support.Usher needs to buy the kids a home. Just not a mega mansion. One that Tameka can maintain. The judge should set this agreement, until the boys reach 18 years old. Also both parent must attend ongoing counseling. If they can’t attend, they can do skype or phone counseling together.Tameka have suffer great trauma, losing her son. She does need sometime away from the boys, so that she can rebuilt her life. She needs to attend couseling to deal with the lost of her son. Tameka does need a break, but she doesn’t need to lose custody of her boys.
Now see, I told ya’ll I wouldn’t be surprised if Usher had something to do with that freak accident at Lake Lanier that killed Kile! If he is willing to pay her "friend" off, send a bogus PI to spy on her, and hire a lawyer that is in kahoots with the judge then its not so far fetched. See, that’s what happens when u mess w/ a narcissist- once they r through using u- they r through w/ u!! Usher used Tameka to create an image of a mature straight man, he was sick of the mommys boy punk image he had 4 years. Dwade, Steve Harvey, Dion Sanders, that Bosh guy and others are just narcissist w/ money that pay for power in the courts! They better look at OJ Simpson and how he did his 1st wife so wrong in the divorce she was working @ Wal-Mart- now look at him. Broke and in jail and look @ Ocho-nono! Ha, they just getting it back. I’m proud of Tameka’s strength. She may be mean, crazy, cold or whatever people call her but we don’t know what made her like that. And alot of people would have broke under what she is dealing w/. OAN- I wonder how much Usher had to pay that old hag Brock-White to be so 2faced!!?
So over this case..just give me the end results. If I had a friend, I expect her to come to me first and if I aint listening, tell the truth.
I read some of these hateful comments about this woman who most people have NEVER met, but are probably bitter because she blocked them on twitter for calling her ugly or telling her to drop UsHER’s name. It is clear these girls are young as hell, and that scares me. How can you not have sympathy for someone who buries a child? What are their mother’s/elders teaching them? How can you show so much malice, venom and hatred at a young age? You don’t have to like her. There’s a woman who I feel is a walking waste of sperm. Now tell me that woman or her daughter died, and I’d have nothing malicious to say. This new generation and their "that’s what you get" attitude is a spit in our ancestor’s face. If this shit doesn’t stop, there is no hope.
well said, very well said…
hey psycho you never met usher but you still wanna comment everything bout him
Thank you for giving me more! But I’m in a delirious, sleep deprived mood, so I’ll keep this simple:
Did you just call me (or ANYONE for that matter) psycho?
POT
KETTLE
B L A C K!!
And stop embarrassing your mother and her sperm donor you’d call a father if you ever knew him.
You are way out of your league, you demented little troll of a child. If you can’t keep up with grown folk conversation, stay out. How many times do your insipid ass need to be blocked before you get the hint? Know why I post so much? BECAUSE I’VE NEVER BEEN KICKED OUT!!!
Boo-bye.
I’ll admit I come to this site from time to time to be a little noisy but the last few times I have visited this site it’s been post after post on Usher and Tameka’s divorce. Who in their 30s, maybe almost 40s however old you are would want to be so invested in this type of petty foolish. Is this the only pertinent thing going on in Atlanta right now?
happy to see that Tameka lost everything.
Usher better make sure she ends up in a psychiatric facility… She really needs help.
Usher betta use her tweets and all these blogs entries to make sure she will be locked up in a psychiatric hospital.
I told YALL she would lose this custody battle because GOD HATES HER.
Tameka’s lawyer is not helping her at all, she just want the money, I can’t help but laughing. What kind of attorney would call a family the "village people." SHE LOST when she pronounces that statement.
Tameka was A FAILURE before knowing Usher and she will remain A FAILURE.
Nobody is checking for her, the only people talking to her are bloggers she paid and people she used to take on shopping spree when she used to have Usher’s blackcard.
I heard that she stole the money from the "Kile fund" to pay her vacation. Usher will probably use it against her.
Tameka better takes her meds because we are all going to laugh at her broke fat ass when they will announce she lost.
Tameka better takes her meds because we are all going to laugh at her broke fat ass when they will announce she lost.
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Can she borrow some of yours? It took you…what, 4 days? What took you so long? lol. How many times do you have to get kicked off? Oppositional Defiance Disorder. Look it up.
Exactly! We all know who this is! They are on Usher’s "payroll" also!
the fact that your old ass is jobless says a lot. Find a job and stop commenting a celeb/golddigger custody case
Sorry sweetheart,was that for me? I have a job. Actually, I have two if you include me tutoring on the weekends. I’m guessing you are between sixteen and twenty and believe in your heart Usher loves you as much as your crazy ass loves him. Isn’t school back in session or close to it? Go read a book.
Sam, this lil’ heartless youngun was referring to me. How many times do I have to post that I’m a social worker. Last I checked you have to be EMPLOYED to be labeled that! And I sign a Sunday school class, so technically I have 2 jobs as well. Can’t a bitch take a day off? lol I bet this is Grace’s daughter, or some other lil’ cousin who masturbates to her Usher posters every night.
Sorry for the visual, people lol
The school bell has rung and the kids are out of detention so here they come to post about LIFE…blah blah blah and…blah.
you should find a job and stop commenting on blogs comments section.
Love it!
BTW…Hey Vay!!! I feel like I know you, since we’re up here so much! LOL (smile)
Hey Sam!!! How are you?
Don’t forget me!!! Let’s go job hunting together : )
LOL! Hey,stlchick!!!!!
@TeamUsher4life….I have been scrolling down the comments, and I am so very sick of seeing ur dumbass, ignorant, uneducated, and irrelevant commentary. I usually believe everyone is entitled to their opinion, but you are the damn exception. You on here, going so HARD in the paint, for this bish made lil boy. I used to be an Usher fan, until a couple of years ago, before his divorce was even thought about or announced, he came into my job with his side chick(Grace).I couldn’t believe the audacity of this nucca, running round town with this ol ass brood looking all in lust(not love), while Tameka was pregnant..So in other words, Usher aint BEEN shit! So plz have some factual info before you attempt to bring it to everyone who opposes your opinion, stop acting like you on this nucca’s payroll. Some of us would like to share our opinions w/o the President of TeamUsher trying to shut us down. I hope Tameka wins this case, and I hope Usher, his mammy, and Grace ol ass go sit down sumwhere on the edge of a damn cliff.
Most of "Team Usher" is in school right now but trust when they get out of detention this evening they will be here…
She’s probably been blocked again already, but unrest assured, like a fungus she’ll be back.
President of Team Usher? Priceless. Sad thing is, I’m actually a fan. But when UsHER’s not right, he’s not right & I’ll speak on it.
Excuse me, but has anybody ever stopped to think that maybe Tameka really is a bad mom? Usher ain’t no prize either, but I’m just saying.
My heart goes out to Tameka. Betrayal is the absolute worst. I know all about it too. I’ve had TWO SO-CALLED friends stab me in the back AND TWIST, TURN AND BEND THE KNIFE! I’M PRAYING FOR TAMEKA! HOW MUCH MORE CAN SHE TAKE? SURELY, THERE ISN’T A JUDGE IN THE COUNTRY THAT WILL TAKE HER BOYS FROM HER AFTER LOSING ONE SON? JESUS BE A FENCE ALL AROUND TAMEKA RAYMOND!!!!!
It is a devastating thing to go through, and my experience pales in comparison to Tameka. Betrayed by her sister, this bitch (and the comment that she was already listed as a witness is BS, because if so Tameka wouldn’t have taken her on the trip), TWO bridesmaids, Grace (they were acquaintances in the past), and God knows who else we don’t know about.
Don’t buy Usher’s music!
Tameka is really being nice, she should have put Sean "puffy" combs & LA Reid on the stand so they could be forced to talk about their boytoy Usher…she should have bought up the shakir stewart situation…word is Usher knows all about it…
WAIT…SAY WHAT?Imma need you to spill that tea about that Shakir Stewart situation, chile…….
Night night, teamusHER4life. It’s been amusing, but I have to turn in so I can go to the job I don’t have tomorrow. I would say until tomorrow evening, but you won’t be here! lol. Until next time, read these symptoms for Oppositional Defiant D/O. Like looking in the mirror, ain’t it?
Negativity, Defiance, Disobedience, Hostility directed toward authority figures.
These behaviors might cause your child to regularly and consistently:
Have temper tantrums
Be argumentative with adults
Refuse to comply with adult requests or rules
Annoy other people deliberately
Blames others for mistakes or misbehavior
Acts touchy and is easily annoyed
Feel anger and resentment
Be spiteful or vindictive
Act aggressively toward peers
Have difficulty maintaining friendships
Have academic problems
Feel a lack of self-esteem
Well so far I hear he has been found in contempt over credit card…must reopen account.
So what TEAM USHER
Lawd at these comments, best wishes for the babies I pray they come to an agreement that’s best for their boys and shame on her "friend".
Usher you are full of shit your going to hail Bitch
Tameeka God bless you and your children momma
Usher is a snake. I know for a FACT from one of Tameka’s relatives, they he contacted many of her family members trying to get them to testify against her. Who does that???
I cant believe some of y’all are bashing tameka she has been way to much. As a mother of 3 boys myself I must say there are 3 sides to a story his, her’s and the truth. Usher is soo wrong for doing this but I doubt the fact that he called her up up to say such BS and all this comments about him are understanble however if he was a deadbeat dad y’all would be calling him names and now that he’s willing to put his career aside and wants more quality time with his sons he’s being bashed for that as well.
Im not a team tameka and definitely not team crazy ass usher. All I want is the best for their precious boys. I still believe that both of them still love each other but their ego and the media just wont allow them. Hell if it was for me I would have love them seeing back together. I hope the judge will maintain the joint custody cause they need both of them as parents. My prayers are still with Tameka.
I agree with some of the things you are saying. I strongly believe they still love each other. I also agree with joint custody. This is what Tameka has wanted all along. If you take Tameka and Usher out of the picture for a second, you would see two little boys standing there in all this mess. Both of these boys need their mother and father. I can’t stand Usher under the mere fact he hired a private investigator to play off of Tameka’s feelings towards Kile. On top of other things, this was cold hearted and I never expected him to do anything as cruel like that. My heart prays for Tameka daily and I hope she keeps joint custody.
This is an interesting piece, the part I could understand.
This blogger seems to feel that kids are responsible for the opinion of her readers, which I am not so sure about. The biggest issue is trying to comprehend what is being written. This is a very poorly written article, and actually seems to be geared toward a younger reader. I would recommed that this blogger take some writing classes which may help broaden her readership.
With that being said, it sounds like the "friend" finally had a stage to express her past experiences. I’m wondering if you feel the friend should not express her true feelings regarding Tameka’s parenting skills? This is a custody situation & all testimony regarding care of the children should be admissible. I’m sure if one of Usher’s friends was willing to testify regarding the care of the kids in his presence, Tameka would jump on that.
With that being said, how long do you plan to ride this pony, it’s almost dead.
Did ATLien request your presence on HER blog? If it’s so poorly written….why read it? Why not go over to CNN or MSN? Michelle is a blogger, not a journalist. This is a gossip site, so why would she write it any other way than as someone gossiping to another?
TB I like you…
Well said TB…..
I’m trying to understand who asked you to come and revise and edit her blog? Nobody asked you to be the english teacher. I comprehended this blog very well. Obviously, you need to read more concerning this case. No one said her testimony wasn’t admissible. What we are saying is, her testimony is shady. She vacationed with Tameka less than two weeks prior to her testimony. On top of it all, Tameka paid for her vacation. That was mean to do that to a friend, especially when her own children are incarcerated. Obviously, she needs to question her own parenting instead of testifying against Tameka.
i believe usher should have full custody, i dont think tameka is still or has ever been stable….she is an evil woman and she was an evil woman BEFORE her son died! GO USHER, GET THEM BABIES!!!
Why is most people taking Tameka side just because she’s a mother and just lost a son. the family friend who testify was ALREADY on the list to testify. Let’s look at the facts if you just lost a son why spend money on a vacation knowing you are still grieving stay home. I know of Tameka because I’m from Oakland. This is what I know Tameka is money hungry I knew the father of her eldest son who was a big time drug dealer and Tameka knew what she was getting into. When she met Ryan(her 1st husband) he didn’t accept Darrin so she allow Darrin to be raise by his father’s family. what mother would allow her son to be raise around drug dealers(yes most of darrin’s father family are deal dealer and users). let’s not forget the online rage against usher new girlfriend where she said it’s funny how a chick is barren who wants another woman children. instead of trying to get her credit card back she need serious counseling
Solely my opinion, but:
1. I’m a different person now than I was 20 yrs ago. I’ve not done a 180, but I’m better. Maybe Tameka is the same. After all, Ryan and UsHER are not drug dealers, so she learned in that aspect.
2. Most people who are in mourning take a vacation to get away from it all. Those who can afford it, that is. Those who can’t stay home from work, therefore still "vacationing."
3. I’m sure she’s going to feel some kind of way about UsHER’s mistress for some time. And if Usher really DID make that nasty call to Tameka, that would explain her twitter tantrum.
Does she need counseling. Yes, and then some. And UsHER should pay, since he’s 75% of the reason why.
Tameka was f***ed up way before Usher met her. They both need counseling because this is not about the kids anymore, for either one of them!!!
Usher is sick-ning! He seem so smug.I hope he does not win!!!! Through this whole process he seems sooooooooooooooooo SLIMEY!
Wow. Just when I think Usher couldn’t stoop any lower. Goodness. Prayers are with Tameka. Brighter days are coming! !
Y people fighting on here? Is it that serious? I guess so.
#teamTameka
Because Usher is being evil, cruel, ugly, and surly to the nth degree.
I’m calling foul on the jet ski accident. Something just isn’t right. People can be bought…
Well…how convenient is it that Usher all of a sudden gets a crazy stalker in the middle of a custody battle…I’m just sayin. Both of them are crazy, attention whores and in the wrong!!!
Brock-White is the Godmother of both Tameka’s kids with her first husband<—and you mean to tell me this trick thats the GODMOTHER, who lost her GODSON…has a funkin attitude about some ish! She should have bent over funkin backward to help Tameka thats what FRIENDS do!!! A mother lost her son, your GODSON in a tragic accident,,,and you funkin get mad. might i add PAID for ur trip to St.Barts, feed YO ass…Im sure Brock-white didnt pay for SH8T….Im thinking this bitch was a funkin spy from JUMP.
Amen!!!! I wonder if she’s mad because she’s not the Godmother of the two youngest??? It’s scary to think some could do that to you after a 17 year long friendship. Heck she should have testifying against usher since I’m sure she’s probably seen some things… Money is the root of all evil…smh
Violence is not the answer but Honey I would have had to go ahead & kick this bitch all up in her azz w/a pr of steel toe boots on.