The only thing I don’t understand is why everyone (TMZ, blogs, news, etc) is talking about Usher, where is this child’s dad? We need to all continue to keep the WHOLE family lifted up in prayer….

I feel for this mother and understand her stand in waiting for a miracle to happen. But if she really believed that a miracle will be performed she should not let the child suffer on a respirator. It’s very hard on the family to see your loved one like this everyday. I know, I saw my father and sister go through weeks of being on a respirator. If you’re going to have FAITH that God will perform a miracle, take the child off of the respirator and see what God’s will is. I’m praying thatthe mother will release her son to God. He may be suffering and she not even know it, because he’s been without brain activity.God bless her and her family. You are in my prayers.

TMZ did not get it totally wrong. Here’s what happens when a patient is declared "brain dead" by doctors: the insurance company can stop paying for further treatments. This is a grey area in terms of time, because usually families reach a decisions within days or in some cases a few weeks. However, if the family decides to keep the patient on life support and the patient has no other advanced directives and has been declared clinically brain dead then insurance will not pay when the patient is discharged from the hospital. This is important, because if the child is truly brain dead the hospital will not keep him on life support for months so the family has to find an alternate facility at their expense. Insurance will not pay for these expenses with such a diagnosis. .
Kile’s situation sounds troublesome, if the recent reports are accurate. He responds voluntarily or involuntarily, but appears life less. Sometimes patients even moan in pain in these situations so the loved ones can’t just accept that the person is brain dead when something is going on, but it’s not life as we know

This makes it tough for a family to make a decision since the child seems caught between heaven and Earth. I hope his family brings in a few more top neurologists to advise. My fear is the child may be in pain and since his brain is not functioning correctly he could suffer further painful events, if kept on life support. My prayers go out to all involved. I’m praying that that Kile recovers and the family feels loved and supported.

I can truly tell that Kile is Tameka’s light and I really hope he gets well………

Its so sad and so easy to say what she should do until faced with the situation ourselves. All I can do is continue to pray. It’s a choice no parents wants to make I’d try to hold on too. We know who has the last say. It’s just a sad situation. Bless Kile and his loved ones.

All I can say us karma will come for any and everyone. Tameka needs to start looking at what she do to people and how she lives. I’m praying hard for Kyle cuz children shouldn’t have to pay for the wrong if their parents.