I wonder if she is refering to Ray J abt she looking for love in all the wrong places.

Yeah, she talking about Ray-J. Ray-J is addicted to coke and pills just like Whitney was. So he really is just as much as the victim as Whiteny was..An addict cant do nothing for another addict.

Just sad that it all went down like this. 🙁 Looking for Love in all the wrong places. Hmmmm. I hope that she elaborates a bit more.

@Pariah, I TOTALLY agree with you, I was thinking the same thing. Why is she pictured coming out of the club with Whitney, whitney looked so trashed. Why would you try and stop someone from drinking that much, or at all for that matter especially if you know they are a recovering addict? I’m sorry but her sis-in-law and brothers look like opportunist, they all look like they cannot be trusted.

real talk, if Pat wants to blame Ray, then she may as well include everyone around Whitney (including herself). for Pat to have been so close in whitney’s personal space, she didn’t appear to intervene as much (from the outside lookin in)

@keisha…i agree..

Just like most of you have expressed, I’m sure they all feel some guilt over not doing more to help Whitney help herself. But hindsight is 20/20 and Whitney wasn’t someone to do what others wanted her to do. If any of you have ever dealt with someone you loved that has or has had a substance abuse issue….they can be more than a handful, verbally & physically violent, irrational, immature, manipulative, ignorant. And when they get clean, their age may say 47 or 48 but emotionally and developmentally they possess the maturity of whatever age they began using drugs. So in many ways Whitney dating Ray J makes sense in her mind they were equals, it also explains why she saw nothing wrong with bringing her daughter along while partying. It also explains her trying to fight someone in a club @ her age. Most older ppl. with class & dignity wouldn’t even think of attacking someone but because of her mental state she was doing what felt right to her. Unless someone forced her to take drugs the night she died, no one is to blame for her death. You can want someone to live but if they don’t make sound decisions there’s not much you can do but be prepared to bury them when it’s over. Sounds cold but it’s real.

FIRST OF ALL, WHY IS THIS CHIC EVEN TALKING?? WHY DOES OPHRAH WANT TO INTERVIEW HER? WHY DIDN’T CISSY BE THE EXECUTOR OR DIONNE? I DONT LIKE THIS WOMAN AND FOR HER TO BE AT WHITNEYS FUNERAL GIVING OUT "HEARSAY" FROM WHITNEY TO EVERYONE AND THE THINGS SHE SAID WAS OUT OF ORDER AND WRONG…I HOPE CISSY MAKE HER KEEP HER MOUTH SHUT!!! THE WAY SHE WAS TALKING WAS AS IF WHITNEY TOLD HER TO SAY THESE THINGS HAD SHE COMMITTED SUICIDE WHICH I DOUBT!!! HOW DID SHE KNOW TO TELL PEOPLE WHAT SUPPOSEDLY WHITNEY WOULD HAVE WANTED THEM TO KNOW , WHEN WHITNEY WAS STILL ALIVE TO TELL THEM HERSELF. SHE SHOULD NOT BE TALKING, THE ONLY ONE TO BE INTERVIEWED SHOULD HAVE BEEN BOBBI KRIS AND THAT’S IT..OPRAH YOU WRONG FOR THIS ONE, BUT THEN AGAIN OPRAH IS NOTHING BUT A FAKE [email protected]# OPPORTUNIST TOO THAT DON’T DO NOTHING TO HELP HER OWN!

Smh..

Patricia Houston wasn’t being disrespectful towards Ray J or Whitney. She pointed out the truth, a woman that is 47 years old cannot look for love with a 31 years old young man. That’s unrealistic. At 47 years old, you should be at a certain point in your life where you realize that you really have nothing in common with a junior. and to think otherwise is naive and stupid.Whitney was looking for love, and probably felt that since Ray J was giving her attention , he’s young that it would turned into something magical, and she could find love. But, the reality of it, was that she had to try to keep up his youthful lifestyle, and she was too old for that, and think he could see things her way. It wasn’t Ray J’s fault, he’s young, and by his show he’s into the whole party scene. Whitney was 47 years old, she should have been hanging with a man in her age group, going to restaurants and gallaries, etc. But, the sad thing about this is that noone probably told her the truth, or she didn’t listen. A real friend would have told her that RAy was too young , mentally , socially,etc for you, and no matter how old he acts, her how young you act, isn’t going to work out. She was looking for that thing that Bobby had, not realizing that , that type of relationship you have when you are young and stupid.But, at a certain age you move on to more stable and real relationships. And you really can’t say that drugs stunts maturity, because Mary J Blige did drugs for years and she married a man her age, and acts her age. Whitney was looking for love, someone to make her feel sexy and beautiful. Just like Demi Moore, these older people need to realize that young people aren’t trying to be tied down to an older person, cuz that oh I’m with an older person who experience dies real quick. If Ray J didn’t feel the way she felt, he should have told her, and those around her should have told her not to put weight into being with Ray J. JMO.

I always felt that Whitney really did love the Lord! Whitney was in a battle that was to much for her. It was a spiritual battle. satin uses drugs to control people, I always felt he had his hand on her. That is why he gave her the voice, beauty and money. She talked a lot about the Lord and would always sing his songs. If you believe in God, you better know there is a satin. Whitney was in a spiritual battle as so many of us are (Ephesians 6:12 )no man (women) on this earth could have helped or saved her!

ARIES

Pariah said it all. Lil too late for the blame game besides we know nobody told her what to do. Just a sad end to a beautiful life.

First the vultures and now the vampires. Sickening.

mothers always think that we choose the wrong men. It just that when we choose me we are always thinking with our booties instead of our heads when it comes to men.

Will be watching this….but yes this sister n law
does seems hell a shady. Whitney has not been
gone long enough for all this. Wonder if they
put out that casket pic
@atlien can’t wait for gossip on that mound

How do you know the family didn’t reach out to Whitney? How do yo know they didn’t tell her that Ray J. was too young of her? How do you know that they aren’t battle scarred and exhausted from trying and trying to get her to behave age appropriately? The truth is, we don’t know anything. It is all conjecture. Maybe Cissy asked her son, daughter in law and Bobbi Christina to do the interview because she couldn’t. Stop putting this woman down for telling the truth. She had her hands full.

Everybody knows whit was on drugs b4 bb and rj came into the pic. I’m a firm believer that if her family really had her best interest in heart they would’ve did what b spears dad did and have the court give guardianship to a responsible adult and give custodt of the minor child to their dad or responsible adult. Same with mj, but all they did is have their hands out ride her coat tails. So, they all need to fade back to the background.

I agree with some of the others. Something about the brother, the sister in law, and the sister in law’s brother does not sit right with me. And my feeling about it became worse after I saw the Oprah interview. Something’s not right….

Stop talking negative. First, many people blame on BB on WH’s death and now BK should watch out her own family??? We should leave them in peace.
God bless y’all.

Pat did not CARE for Whitney. She was jealous and let Whitney run herself into the ground. She let Whitney do drugs because it kept her employed. "I told them not to leave her unsupervised." Huh? Why were you seen leaving a club with Whitney totally f*d up? I am sure it was not the first time. What’s that "manager?"
Patricia Houston is a piece of garbage and Kristina should stay the h*ll away from that jealous hater!!!!

Try getting a real job now Patricia Houston!!!!!

oh!, I forgot…pat houston said she saw the writing on the wall about if substance abuse will one day take whitney’s life. (pat is full of it, that tells you there that she knew whitney’s condition and her spiral life) why, would someone say something like that and don’t do something to help, but she and gary(whitney’s brother) was spending whitney’s money. family can be a m___f!