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So the story goes like this… a young girl blocks her parents from her Facebook profile and proceeds to post derogatory comments and photos. Completely oblivious to the fact that the world sees everything on line… all teens do it these days, right?
But as any loving, hands-on parent would do, the young girl’s father had access to her account and saw what she was doing online.
Now he’s giving her a dose of what he calls “Facebook Parenting: For the Troubled Teen”….
My daughter thought it would be funny/rebellious/cool to post on her Facebook wall just how upset she was and how
unfair her life here is; how we work her too hard with chores, never pay her for chores, and just in general make her life difficult.
She chose to share this with the entire world on Facebook and block her parent’s from seeing it. Well, umm… she failed. As of the end of this video, she won’t have to worry anymore about posting inappropriate things on Facebook…
Maybe a few kids can take something away from this… If you’re so disrespectful to your parents and yourself as to post this kind of thing on Facebook, you’re deserving of some tough love.
Today, my daughter is getting a dose of tough love.
OOooh…. this should be good! 
Watch the Dad’s video below…
VIDEO: Facebook Parenting: For the Troubled Teen
After receiving over a million views on YouTube, the dad in the video posted this disclaimer…
Since this video seems to have gone crazy, I figure I’ll post this notice. I’m going to read a letter my 15 year old daughter wrote. There ARE some curse words in it. None of them are incredibly bad, but they are definitely things a little kid shouldn’t hear… not to mention things MY KID shouldn’t say!
What do you think of the Dad’s video response to his daughter’s Facebook activity?
Good for him. These kids are out of control. Of course, your parenting skills probably helped the child reach that level of disrespect…
Yes he did that
You can teach your children well, but what they do out of your sight is something totally different! This guy is my hero! Raising a teenage girl AIN’T easy!
Good for him these youngsters are out of control these days.
YEs.. that’s what I’m talking bout..haha!!
Great job to the Dad
This is what you call being a parent
I can’t see the video – what did he do to "remedy the problem permanently"?
She needs to be happy that she has parents that care about her well being and upbring. There are plenty of parents who dont. I had a friend growing up whose mother used to say "I dont care what you do just dont bring no babies in my house". So when she got knocked up by some dude old enough to be her daddy at 16, she didnt and moved to his house. They dont ever speak either it’s a shame.
cologirl, can you watch it youtube? If not, he called her ass out on the bs she posted and took his .45 and shot up her laptop and told her the next time she gets a laptop she will be buy it herself, lol….
Round of applause, daddy put that foot down *stomp, stomp*
Drop that laptop down, make it jump around
*pow, pow*
I LOVE IT! Daddy dearest here’s my early Father’s day gift to you—MMMMMWWAAHHH! Smooches!
Loooved it! This dude need to write a book o parenting.
Went through the exact thing with my niece so I know personally how he feels
I really don’t know what to say becuz I’m all for tough love. But will this solve the problem? Don’t think so. If he took the time to communicate with her would’ve been much much better. Sometimes u gotta just keep on trying. He didn’t address the coffee pouring and mud in the house so she might have been on point with that. She’s a kid and kids do dumb stuff. Why not get her some counseling or take her to church or make her join a youth program? I can clearly see why she’s got issues. I wish them all the best.
DID he say pay me back for my BULLETS!?!?!?! I love it! LOL!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks BamaGirl! I’m at work and can’t view videos
Next thing she’ll be complaining about is that she can’t do her damn homework because he destroyed the computer. No way in hell I would have shot up the computer! I would have given it to a family member or friend — and video taped THAT!
But clearly she needed to be taught a lesson!
Good for Dad. Would love to see brats reaction, but she best just go to her room and be quiet and don’t mouth off.
I don’t understand these kids today. They don’t realize they have it made. She deserve everthing her dad is about to do. I dare you post something on facebook about your parents and we bust our butt for our child/childern. She think she had it hard then she’s about to feel the pain now. Tough Love!!!! Being nice is when they take advanatage of us.
COOOoool!!
He shoulda pawned the damn thing and buy him more bullets!
This is my 45 caliber. Her Father is winning. He brought it he can bust shots in it.
What did I just witness? A real dad! I know where you are coming from. Don’t forget to shoot the cell phone too because if she’s that spoiled she has internet on the phone too. Technology has changed the way we raise our kids (giving them everything that we didn’t have) because they are addicted to it. As far as her cleaning up your behind when you get old, she’s heading down a road where she is probably going to be there first. So don’t worry. She has to be on drugs. Take her to Dr. Phil.
U must not have seen Dr. Phils response to this. He sucks. the man did what was right for the situation in my opinion. People dont want us to what we need to do to keep our kids in line but as soon as the kid messes up in their eyes, the law wants to handle it their way. Let us get a our kids straight at home the ole fashion way. ITS ONLY RIGHT!
Daddy aint playing….She needs that tough love….She will thank him one day….and she is very blessed to have a father that cares like that…Did she not think that her Dad could ever check on all her gadgets
? ..Since he is in IT and he knows how to break into computers and he also installed software on her computer which means he knows what he is doing and she is not smarter than her father
Finally a parent being a parent! I feel that soooooo many parents these days are way to soft because they’re afraid that they’ll scar their child in the future, or hurt them or something like that.
Unfortunately "MANY" teens and adults as well use Facebook as a forum to vent about every single thing happening in their life even the very personal private matters and I have come to realize that those who do this really don’t know how dysfunctional it makes them look. So even though this girl had been told previously that she needed self control and boundaries she goes and Oops!Did it again(Britney Spears voice). Now I do agree that she should be punished in some way,shape or form however; I think the way her dad handled it was inappropriate and he needs gun control! Dad I can tell has an anger problem and if he could get away with laying his hands on her I believe he surely would. What he did in the end was what he should have done in the beginning and that’s simply have taken away all of her little technical gadgets that she can’t live without and that would have been punishment enough. Angry Dad & Angry Daughter in a home out in the middle of Nowhere with Guns inside is a Dangerous Combination. IJS!
GO DAD! Kudos to him!!!!!!!
It’s about time a parent put his foot down and not make empty promises. A little work teaches responsibility. Too many children are feeling entitled nowadays. She is lucky her Dad is showing her tough love now so he won’t have to visit her in jail later.
I think the Dad’s actions were inappopriate. He seems to need an anger management class. He isn’t entirely to blame, however; his daughter’s FB post was very arrogant and disrespectful. I totally understand the man’s anger, and I’m sure he was very hurt too. What a mess! What this girl did was just what we all did as teens; but, "back in the day," we didn’t have computers! We ranted out our angst & rage to our friends, who did the same. We "vented" our typical adolescent frustration about our parents/teachers, and, luckily, they never knew it! Teens have done this since the dawn of time!! Now, add technology like FB and Twitter, and these little "vent sessions" get recorded for the world to see– bad news for us all!! She was being spoiled & bratty, but, know what? She’s 15!! She’ll outgrow it– 99% of us do. Now, though, she has to cope with her father’s cold anger and the sight of him violently destroying her laptop (It kinda scared me!). He went way too far! Just take the stupid laptop away for a while and ground her for a month– maybe let her "earn" her laptop back by showing respect and responsibility. What did his response teach her?? Was that really wise, mature parenting? I take a dim view of people who use guns to make a point. He’s as immature as she is, sadly.
Way to go DAD!!
Why do people think this is okay? A father is supposed to lead by example, instead he just looks foolish. She’s 15. She has an excuse. Whats his? (Now if she had stolen something I’d understand) Otherwise I feel sorry for the girl. I’d run away.
BRAVO!!! He bought the laptop, so he can do what the hell he wants to do with it. Kids today are so ungrateful. She is being provided with a roof over her head, food, clothes, medical insurance, dental insurance, and she does not have to pay a dime for any of it. When she becomes an adult, and has to pay rent, utilities, buy groceries, pay for transportation, provide for your own insurance, she will appreciate all her parents provide for her. Until then, DO YOUR CHORES AND SHUT UP!! Or MOVE THE HELL OUT!!
Go daddy!! I have teenagers I understand!
I am with the father, let her know who is in charge! It’s called being a parent! Many of these parents are scared to discipline, and exercise some type of control over their kids. God likes order! so maintain some in your household. Good if she is scared, the next time she will think twice about what she post online. She needs a good a$$ whooping to go along with that. #teamdad
LOVE IT DADDY WASN’T PLAYIN!!!!!!! And what an excellent shot he is:] There’s something to be said about growing up in the country. Team Daddy……
I totally disagree. He shot up his own stuff. How did him losing his cool teach her how to handle herself? To me, he acted juvenile and instead of embarrassing her, he should feel embarrassed himself.
Although I agree with kid’s having chores and resposibilities around the house, I don’t agree with her having to work, work, work, with no time for her to enjoy being a kid and no time for her to do her school work. Not to mention she has to work at her parents clinic as well, without being rewarded.
Yes, we, as parents, are responsible for teaching our children to work hard. But not to the point where they resent us, because we just might need them in the future. And I know of some who hate his/her parents.
With all the things he mentioned that she have to do, everyday, I don’t agree with it. I didn’t have to do many chores and most of you didn’t either. And I ended up fine, with a career in television. For her to have some everyday chores, cool. But for her to have to constantly clean up after her parents mess and wait on her parents hand and foot is unfair. You don’t have children and treat them like "slaves", just because you have authority over them. You will purposefully create a miserably contentious child.
I would never treat my daughter this way; and my child is a beautiful, 16 year old who earns 4 A’s and 2 B’s every report card (and I reward her). She also saves the money I send her every month; so she has her own bank account and her own car.
I see nothing wrong with giving a child an incentive to work hard, by rewarding them for their good grades and for doing their chores (don’t we earn a paycheck for hard work). It helps them earn their own money and it teaches them that there is a payoff for working hard. This young lady has no incentive. Her parents seem to be like: "Just do it because I told you to."
Yes they should do as they are told, every time. But give the child some incentive to work hard, so that when she enters the real world she will know there is a reward for working hard. The way her parents treat her now could have an adverse affect on their desire to teach her the value of hard work (they are providing no value). It might make her not want to work, because she can’t relate to the value in doing so.
Look: this is my opinion and it is working great between my daughter and me. My daughter is respectful to her parents, her teachers and the like. And she has her own money to manage (something she will have to do when she is grown). On the other hand, this method might not work for all. Do as you see fit.
Good job Dad!!!
The things that he listed as her having to do is not unreasonable. Sweep the floors, make your bed, clean your room, empty the dishwasher & put the dishes away, wipe the counters, do your OWN laundry, make the guest bed if necessary… Those are things that she’s going to have to do when she gets own her own in a few years (whether she goes to college or not). Fifteen is old enough for you to have some responsibilities. That was stuff I started doing when I was 12: clean up and make sure your space is neat. And make good grades and participate in extracurriculars. Nowhere in her letter or his response did it sound like she was being mistreated or "enslaved". Pouring coffee and whatnot?? Who didn’t have to make their parent something to drink (kool-aid, ice water, whatever)??? I remember many times my parents calling me awwwl the way in the other room to do the most…turn out the light, change the tv, pass them the remote. That did not kill me. Pissed me off sometimes, but I was a child. I would never disrespect my parents for that. It sounds like she is lazy and spoiled (as a lot of today’s kids are) and she doesn’t want to have to do anything but wants everything; who is feeding, clothing, and providing laptops, iPods and shit for her?? Her parents. She needed a foot in her ass for that. If I was her parent I would be disappointed too.
You have your opinion and I have mine. I am successful at how I treat my child. She is doing good and she genuinely loves me. Children are NOT our slaves. They are our children. Yes they are to do as they are told; but it is up to us to know what is appropriate treatment and what is not.
This is a situation where one should do as he or she sees fit; and we’ll just hope his or her child ends up successful and not bitter towards his or her parents and towards society as a whole. I vehemently stand by my statements, wholeheartedly. I agree with me, because I’m successful at what I’m doing. Do you.
ROTFLMAO! AMEN DAD! There needs to be MORE parents like him in the world! Nothing worse than a disrespectful, ungrateful child. Shut that heffa DOWN! lol