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There’s a reason David “Punk” Otunga has been M.I.A. by Jennifer Hudson’s side and it has absolutely nothing to do with his wrestling career.
J-Hud and David have been perpetually engaged since 2008 and even have a 2 year old son, David, Jr. but it’s a rare occurrence these days to see them photographed together.
Jennifer recently revealed in an interview that she has a wedding date in mind and has even chosen a dress, but according to several online sources she may not have a groom anymore!
Word on the curb is that Jennifer wants Punk to sign a pre-nup and he has flat out refused.
[David] didn’t want to sign a pre-nup, and so they put the wedding on hold.
Honestly, I don’t blame her. I’ve been known to say the same thing a time or two (or three). Shoot! I’ll be dayum if I go through another divorce arguing over whose cd’s are whose!
Next time umma just list ‘em all in the pre-nup! 
Would you require your husband or wife (to-be) to sign a pre-nup?
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Hell to the yes! Wedding vows don’t say nothing bout what happens to the finances. Sometimes partners have gambling/drug/cheating habits that will make them go through your money with a quickness. If it’s real love it will outlast the prenup (@ 7 yrs).
knock it off…. that is just SAD
Yes!
Wow his name really fits! In her case, Id do the same…
If you’re marrying for love it should be no problem to sign one, if you’re just there for a come-up then I see why you wouldn’t sign it……
I just hope she doesn’t give in, he’s showing his true colors.
If you really in it for love you will sign it and.If the other person want sign it this is your clue to run like hell now.
Yep! No one goes into marriage expecting that they’ll be of that 50% divorce rate…
Says a lot about him that he won’t sign a pre-nup
I’m sure if he was making more money than her he’d do the same thing.. F’ck outta here! lol
oh well any man who was on a reality show with that ugly crazy lady deserves to have a pre nup on the table
If u marriaging for love whats the purpose of a prenup anyway…. And @ some point u loved that person why wud u want to see them struggle if u decide to end things. So basically some ppl dnt marry for love they marry to fatten their wallets. And because she slept with him and had a bastard baby what difference wud it make whether or not they wed anyway.
Another thing if that was an issue for her to protect her assets just remain a baby momma…… PROBLEM SOLVED.
She’s protecting her assets. It’s hers, she’s earned them. Whatever they make while married, they’ll split. That’s a marriage/business-ship. My opinion, that’s a red flag.
He’s a lawyer and a wrestler and a reality show guy that was going to get wit new York go figure can u saw opportunist ….
no prenup is sayin u not sure if ya will be together 4eva prenup is jus n case of divorce if u r n love there is no jus n case
I don’t blame her….. make him sign it girl because if the tables where turned he would make you sign one
Were*
@Sheneki why is an innocent child referred to as a bastard baby…….IGNORANCE is a BLISS!!!!!!!!!!
2 words!
Oh YES!
@ Renee you said A mouth full some people
if he was coming in with nothing, Yes I would.
If he really cares for her and not her money than he should have no problem signing it. He may already have the idea to stay with her for a few years then have his pay day. This is why rich people should only be with rich people because you never know why people have befriended you. She should move on and find someone new. I don’t know where are this stuff comes from about him being gay, but if he is in fact gay she should not marry him at all, he may just give her a gift that she can’t get rid of. Don’t be a dummy Jennifer, I know they say love is blinding but keep your glasses on and keep moving.
from dictionary.com
bas·tard [bas-terd] Show IPA
noun
1.
a person born of unmarried parents; an illegitimate child.
2.
Slang .
a.
a vicious, despicable, or thoroughly disliked person: Some bastard slashed the tires on my car.
b.
a person, especially a man: The poor bastard broke his leg.
3.
something irregular, inferior, spurious, or unusual.
The purpose of a prenup is to protect assests of BOTH parties. No matter how much in love a couple are, there is ALWAYS the possibility of divorce. Now, a prenup doesn’t mean you have to settle 100% of what the other party wants. You’re suppose to seek counsel and negotiate it out. She has her terms, and he has his, until they meat a happy medium. Maybe Jennifer wants to make sure that she is able to not only take care of herself and her child, but other members of her family as well. If he can’t come to an agreement then, keep it movin…
i don’t know why she bother with him he look shady so shady he forgot his heels smh.. she will wake up one day when hmmm.
So she has reservations about marrying David but not about breeding with him. Someone’s priorities are clearly askew.
Wow! I thought they were already married; however, I was wondering why he is never seen at her side! What is he bringing to the table that she doesn’t have more of? If he is an attorney, how lucrative is his business? Why want he sign a prenup?…She is the bank..he knows this and is trying to act accordingly by sittin’ back with his chest out with that, “My wife is J. Hudson” look on his face! She better recognize before she has to pay alimony and child support! This does not smell right! Lets’ just watch and pray that she makes a great decision. Didn’t she just buy her own part of the Weight Watchers business? OMG! This will be to much for him to put his hands on! lol
Pre Nups are mostly necessary. If you didn’t make my money then you can’t take my money. If we have a joint account then we can split that in half, the only thing I’m willing to give up more than my share is the kids. jk
Love aint got nothing to do with a prenup, trust me. It’s all about protection. If you love someone then you should sign one showing that you’re only interested in Them not anything else. Paul McCartney married for love like everyone else and to a woman with one leg…who divorced him and got PAID.
Stay smart, Jennifer!!
Ha
Ditch that zero!!! He’s gay anyway.
Why does he gotta be a “punk”? Why does when a when a wealthy man ask a woman to sign a pre-nup, hes a fucked up individual but if a man refuses to sign one he’s a punk? We can’t win! Its fucked up either way for both parties cause it puts a damper on everything. Thats why in that situation you get with someone who has as much as you do. Example: Jay-Z and Beyonce. Peace.
Men already killed her family for her money. When she had no one to turn to Punk(his name on Miss New York) just walked his fame whore azz on in.Hope she’s smart enough to get that paper.Halle’s dude tried it but without that marriage liscense lost. Terri McMillan’s man got some of it and SHE knows EVERYTHING about a man.Punk looks a lot like he could be HER type.
Not to mention Eric Benet took Halle to court to make her pay for him AND his daughter.Even AFTER he told everyone he was a sex addict. Lucky for her she had that paper.Don’t be a fool in this economy.You could end up supporting another K-Fed for life.
@ sheniki you need to shut up..why call the baby names it also shows that you dont have any money #dummywithnofunds…
@ albin…that was his name when he was on that reality show…
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Jennifer, don’t give up or in!! You grew up with nothing or anything, this man has had a silver spoon in his mouth is entire life, and don’t continue to be his sugar daddy.. If he truly love you, money wouldn’t be an issue, it would be purely for your heart.. Even if you were broke tomorrow honey.. Let go or let God!!
Peace!!
WRONG!
The man graduated from Harvard Law and passed the bar in Illinois. He needs to stop playing super hero wrestler and get back to working a real job like a real man.
…and stop acting like a “punk”!
He should b a successful lawyer buy now…but he wanted 2b n the biz and we need pre-nup…that’s very smart she is not New York…she is flyn high right now and if he love herhe should sign the damm paper.
Why else u think he fucking with her like she a dime piecd really get paid hell bitches been doing dat shit for years
That don’t make it right @Foryasoul…
Albin Nelson Ol girl chose that name for him cause she suspected that what he was when he was on I love NY… he accepted it and “chose” to be on the show (says a lot about his “Harvard” edumacated “A”zz IMO) at any rate its not effed up if a man does it, it’s smart. Just like it’s a smart move for J-Hud. I do agree with you on the JayZ/Beyonce deal, but at the end of the day finding someone who has “as much” as you do can be difficult the more you make.
If it was the other way around I wonder if she would be willing to do the same thing.
@Michelle Brown – What you sayin’ is true but you know what? All that shit is so EXTRA! I could do without the headache ya know? I’d rather trick-off. Saves in the longrun! Lol! Have a good day sister. Peace.
Jen is no dummy! She from chi-town, we all can see right through this!
He’s a lawyer and she’s an actress/singer. If that the case, it would make you wonder do he really love her at all??? If you have money and she have money, that not an issue. I believe the reason he may not want to sign them is bc he doing what he want on the side line. And he know if he sign them paper and he cheats…Its A Wrap!!
JUST MY THROUGHTS|
Any baby that wasn’t conceived within a marriage union, is a bastard child. No matter how look, don’t like it, that’s what it is. God designed sex for marriage.
Now I know why he has his nickname…if you love someone then why not sign to show its for love not money…He thought of the saying ‘big girls pay like they weigh’…Jen is lookin good now. When he went on I love NY he was looking for fame, when he got with Jen he went chi-ching…planted his seed, quit his job and then proposed….he might as well sign and enjoy the ride!!!!
He up to no good…the only thing he brought to that relationship was……nothing I think. He looks like one of those that will marry her and stay married for a few years nd try to clean her out. If he loves her like he says he does then it shouldn’t b a problem to sign it
If she picked him then why think it won’t work out? Equal rights i say. Leave her and she still has to pay child support.
The skinny JHud is making decisions the big JHud should have made. But we know why she didn’t makem.
All I can say is Star Jones 2.O..( like Star Jones…Im glad Jhud is smart enough to gve him a pre-nup).
She is a business woman protecting her and her childs’ interest. If he was really there for love, it would not make a difference b/c he wouldn’t have the mindset that says “This might not work.”
Right!
you people think he married her for her good looks and personality? This fame whore completed his mission and is set for life
Yes, I would definitely have my fiancé sign a prenup, especially if I was entering into the marriage with more assets than he. It’s not that I don’t love him, it’s about protecting what I’m entering into the marriage with, in the event the marriage happens to end one day. In other words, we agree to leave with what we came with and only split what was acquired during the marriage.
I don’t blame Jen. Sign the nup or no yup to the wedding. I’d think if he was singing that now tired WW song or opening a WW sangin and acting he’d want her to sign one if she was doin nuffin. So kudos to her for sticking with it.
No nup no yes, I do, or YUP!!!!! Good for her
Let this relationship go, obviously he’s about the money! He hasn’t earned her type of money but he wants to be living comfortably if they don’t work out, he needs to sit down somewhere!!! Personally I think he’s fem!
Wow, money over everything I guess. They should have thought about the pre-nup before they made that baby. Either way, Punk gon be alright. Chaching!
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Damn, I guess everyone here are saying screw God and the bible. "If you love her you will sign the pre-nup"? Hell, do you love me? Sign the pre-nup so I can be happy? Well babe aren’t you already happy? You did say, yes!
Don’t you have God by your side? As long as you got him no human can make you unhappy!
Hell if a pre-nup is a must don’t get married folks! Make better choices.
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Well, when I was involved with this successful man, we discussed this very topic. He wanted me to sign a pre-nup, I told him to draw one up and I would have my attorney look at it. After that statement, I shared a few conditions of my own that WOULD BE REQUIRED. We did NOT get married; in fact we broke up! Some men think it’s good for the goose and not for the gander!
Jennifer, if you marry this man, you’d be a fool. I was in love too, once. But what I didn’t know was that my love interest was really a boy and not a responsible man at all. On top of that, unknown to me, he had a really bad drug problem that spiraled out of control. Two babies later, I had financial issues because I can’t keep a dollar in my pocket and the one good job he had, he lost due to his drug use. Jennifer, don’t be a sucker. If he wont sign a pre-nup you’ll find another that will, because your beautiful and your worth it. Don’t let that man control your finances and walk away with half of what you earned. Nothing ruins a loving relationship better than someone taking your hard earned money. Think about it,Jennifer. Let him share parenting your child with you but it would be a big mistake to marry him. Take my advice and don’t end up like me, broke and used up.