Last year, Sandy “Pepa” Denton sparked a new found interest in Asian men when she displayed her affection for “Tom” during her dating reality show.
After CNN ran a story about how we Black women were being too picky, a new trend emerged where many successful Black women began dating Asian men.
[READ: New Trend Alert! Successful Black Woman with Asian Mates...]
Well, apparently all that mumbo-jumbo about Asian men being so different was just that… crap! The air in China doesn’t breed a different type of mate, in fact, they are just as prone to effin’ up as any other race.
Case in point… This Chinese woman’s man literally sent her over the edge!
Details below:
Hhmp! Wouldn’t be me! I’d rather push his no good “A”zz off a building than jump…
A Chinese woman was rescued earlier this morning as she attempted to jump from a seven-story building wearing her wedding gown.
The 22-year-old woman, identified only as “Miss Li” was thwarted in her efforts after she was grappeb by a local community officer.
According to local media, the woman was distraught after her boyfriend of four years broke up with her, just as they were making plans to get married.
“Miss Li”, who is also a college student, sobbed uncontrollably and swung her legs out the window for about an hour before police officers arrived.
She said she wanted to end it all and could not live with the fact her no good fiancé had left her and married another woman just days before their planned wedding. (source)
Fortunately “Miss Li” did not sustain any injuries during the incident, which was also caught on video.
VIDEO: Jilted Bride Attempts Suicide
The moral of this story? For one… don’t jump out of a building in your good wedding dress!
Single Black woman might as well keep weeding through the “Ain’t sh*t” Black men because apparently the “Ain’t Sh*t” trait is non-exclusive.
Shoot… in my opinion ole boy did “Miss Li” a favor!
She better hang up that wedding gown, dust off her freak ‘em dress, throw on some heels and go “twirling’ (as my good friend DanaT says).
Just ask Bey!















Everyone is always trying to analyze Black women based off a few thirsty chicks,truth is NOT all Black women are even in interested in a man or a woman,LOL.
It’s just not as serious as some people want to believe.Believe it or not there are many Black women who are fine not being with anyone.You can do GOOD all by yourself….
Dayyyuuummm!!!! It’s like that?
Messed up that he married some other chick just days before he was set to marry this one. Something is not right about this story.
Either
1) this bride aint really female and that’s why the dump happened.
2) his other chick got preggers and that’s why the dump happened
3) ole gal is just too looney to marry and that’s why the dump happened.
Alex, I will take #3 for $500!
@Sage…sorry but that’s just some shyt fat, ugly, women that can’t get a man say.
@Kamalla, why is it that YOU seem to have it broken down to 3 possible reasons that this poor woman’s break up happened? Are you really that simple or think other people are?
Both of you and the woman tryin to jump out the window need to get a clue. First of all, men are men no matter what race they are…duh!!! And life is too dayum short to be tryin to jump out a window because of what some idiot said or did. If he broke up with you and married someone else that day, so what, obviously you and he were not meant to be together. It may hurt now but give it time, when you truly find the right man you will see why the others weren’t right and you’ll stop sayin "I don’t need a man, don’t want a man..I can do GOOD all by myself".
Uh, Sandra…dear heart:
You basically painted this woman as looney which is what I was saying!
You’re obviously mad about a lot more than this woman not getting married or about my comments.
Maybe you can relate to her on some level. LOL
I like how you dump all men in the same category though. Yeah, let the winners take the blame for the losers.
Yo Sage! U just gonna let Sandra call you fat AND ugly and accuse you of not being able to get a man? LMAO
That’s what she said!
Regardless as to how it went down let’s please remember that heartache is real and the pain can last indefinitely. In hind site she will realize that she is better off without him. I pray that she is able to rise above and be the woman God created her to be. Trust me he will be back and her reponse should be to ignore him and keep it moving!
Dude is better off. You can’t build a home with a chick who has suicidal tendencies. She needs to get herself together before she tries to snag a husband.
Wow @Sandra are you serious??
There’s a whole lotta "fat & ugly" woman who have a husband at home and there’s also a ton of "model chicks" who can’t keep a man (look at Halle Berry)!
I agree that life is too short to be crying over some "A"zz hole but there are some people who are totally OK with living life alone.
I’m not one of ‘em but I’m sure they’re out there…
There are crazy men in every race just like there are crazy women in every race. Crazy is crazy no matter what race, color or nationality it is!
Men in general ain’t shyt! I don’t care what he did…take your life? Never give the enemy of that satisfaction. There is someone out there for everyone. Poor thing
Poor thing. Never give the enemy the satisfaction of knowing they hurt you. Walk with your head held high. I know you’re hurting but jumping out the window in your expensive dress…nuhuh. Cut it, dye it and rock it at his funeral. He’s someone else’s problem now.
@Sandra…Where did you get in my statement that I don’t have a anyone in my life? My statement was a very simple statement about people over analyzing Black women when truth is there are many Black women who are doing good by themselves and their priority isn’t a man or a woman…..
It’s obvious to me that you can’t see beyond your element but many Black women have broader vision.You see it’s silly women like you that these studies are based off of and I’m sorry silly women like you do not rep me…
There are Black women who have tapped into their deeper spirit to know they are not defined by anyone that walks this earth which is why it’s no surprise that someone with your mindset would make assumptions about me BASED on your REALITY…
Have a nice day….
@ Kamalla….Messy,messy messy,LOL!No but seriously,Sandra is just a person with a very limited mindset.
Get her girl! She trippin’!
Shyyt!!! I be damned if I kill myslef, in front of friends and family, all over some peen. GTFOH!
I might of kilt the other ho for gettin’ in the way of what I’m dealin.
@Sage and anybody else that this comment may affect…So now YOU are the spokeswoman for Black women??? I must have missed that memo…lol. And it was YOU, not me, that made that very plain to see implication that you are ALONE. Typically when a woman makes a general statement about other women, as you did, they are simply referring to themselves and their own lives.
@Kamalla, maybe you need to learn your emotions, there is no anger in my statement and your reference to this woman being looney, dayum, grow up and learn to use big girl words. This woman obviously has some serious mental issues and the man she "loved" leaving her pushed her over the edge. This is a sad situation but as I stated before…It may hurt now but give it time, when you truly find the right man you will see why the others weren’t right. And you statement about going after the other woman, so typical. Why go after the other woman when it was your man that went after her?? If anyone should be "gone after" or "kilt" as you so eliquently put it (by the way, a kilt is something that Scottish men where, dayum look some stuff up) it would be the man.
Wow!! I thought this forum had grown ups making comments but obviously, I was WRONG!!!
Get an education, learn your words, improve your vocabulary and get back at me.
@ Sandra…Yes you did miss the memo.
You are pure comedy….You have no relevancy for me to be affected by your comments because I realize you are not on my level when it comes to "thought process".Anyone can look on this topic and see it was YOU that responded to what I wrote INITIALLY,so it would seem that you were most affected by what I wrote.
You strike me as a chick who is getting played on left and right which would explain your ignorance as well as your bitterness and for that I do pity you,seek help.
You are now dismissed an no longer in service.
Oh yeah, there is the black female I knew you could be. LOL You are such a stereotype and don’t even know it. And just so you know, I don’t give out the details of my life online so I guess you get the opportunity to think what you want. I am a very happy, confident, educated, and employed female and that is what it is. Grow up Sage..LMFAO at you.
I am happy you have a black man. Now, I can LMFAO. My Dear you didn’t get much. You soooo educated then why are you trolling on b/web sites?
Muahhhhhh to you.
@Kamalla…You are HILARIOUS!
The funny thing to me about people like Sandra is that she thinks she speaks for all Black women based on her own desperation….
I made a statement about people having dumb studies that over-analyze ALL black women based off what a FEW Black women think and that clown took that as me "speaking for all Black women".I speak for myself and myself only,some people are just too sensitive.
Sandra is so dumb that she thinks ALL Black women who are alone are actually looking to be with someone.There are women in ALL races who realize they can "do good by themselves".I’m just glad that even though I’m with someone that I’m open enough to know Black women like other races of women are not MONOLITHIC, unfortunately women like Sandra seems to think ALL Black women are as desperate as she is.
@Sage, Wow, really? You took out of what I posted that I thought I was speaking for all black women? Ha Ha, guess that jokes on you trick. I’m not a black woman at all but I do have the best black man in the world by my side, guess you don’t…LOL
Sandra you need to go and find yourself another site to troll on because obviously you have no sense of humor, very low self-esteem, and little understanding of urban slang and southern lingo. In other words….you’re trifling and very much likely to fall at the feet of the first dude that tells you to "get to steppin’".
BOO BISH BYE and an APPLE PIE!!!!
All I know is those Chinese people were DETERMINED to keep that heffa alive ! Lol they were ON THE SCENE ready to save lives and get shit done ! Go head Chinese folks!
LOL @ "go ahead chinese folks" I am dying! hehehe
@ Sage
Chile aint nothing to be done with Sandra. She is lost, plain and simple. While the rest of us our living our lives and seeking happiness through all things God put on this earth, this heffa gonna be out drinking and crying by the phone waiting…
I continue to post because you bytches amuse me. And for the record, I am a grown azz woman, the true Ms. Independent, and if anyone in any of my relationships tells someone to "get to steppin" that would be me. My black man has a job, cleans MY house, does MY laundry, and cooks MY dinner. I have my own, always have and always will. I have never been one of YOU, how did you put it, "triflin" azz heffers looking for a man to get their hair and nails done. I have a good black man and raised two of the best black men walkin this earth. So, ladies, and I use that term VERY loosely, think what you want but you have officially been added to my list of HATERS….lmfao. Anyone else want an application? I love adding haters.
BTW Kamalla, FYI, unlike YOU, I don’t drink, don’t need to sweety….lmfao again.
WHY WOULD THIS INCIDENT BE TIED TO BLACK WOMEN??? An asian girl attempts suicide because she’s a jilted lover/fiancee. HOW IN THE WORLD DO YOU FOOLS TIE THAT MESS TO BLACK WOMEN.
If it’s indeed a woman who is writing the garbage on this blog that I unfortunately happened upon in my search results, then you need to be ashamed of yourself for writing this sh!t. Black women are already being picked apart and abused by white media. Now we have to deal with your negoidian ass too??
You’re a fool, and a lost one at that. No one likes to hear the truth, especially our people, so I expect a backlash for calling you out. But stop trying to make a story relevant to Black women WHEN IT IS NOT.