Comments on: Video ~ Aubrey Speaks About Being Booted from DK

By: tbrac

tbrac — Sat, 18 Oct 2008 01:17:42 +0000

notice that dawn was the one gettin put on diddys album solo…yea aubrey did the whole hairspray thing but she has the voice for it. ppl on broadway dnt always deserve record deals an she one of them. its all down hill from here on for her. DK is so much better w/out her. i agree wit chang tha she looks like a hooker. shes a hater for throwin up dawns solo talent wen she did other things too. she smellin and feelin herself a bit too much. but wat ev. best of luck to the child

By: Too Blessed to be Stressed

Too Blessed to be Stressed — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 23:32:29 +0000

I feel you make your bed and you have to lie in it,that’s what Aubrey did. I think she is talented,outgoing,and a risk taker. I also feel like she didn’t realize that Diddy is the BOSS at times. I know its hard to have someone talk a certain way to you but from what I seen when he was coming at her it was for good reason for the most part and I recall a time when he told her he is not expecting her to say Mr. Combs/yes sir just know that he is the boss and to give him respect I am suprised he put up with it this long, I seen it coming, hopefully she will learn something from this and grow from it.

By: chang

chang — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 18:56:25 +0000

What the “F” happened to her? She looks TERRIBLE! My god the broad looks like a low priced hooker….At least she can sing but keep her away from cameras!

By: I

Fri, 17 Oct 2008 08:13:59 +0000

DK IS SO MUCH BETTER OFF WITHOUT HER IN THE BAND..
SHE BRINGS DOWN THE TONE OF ALL TE GIRLS BY ACTING THE WAY SHE DOES.. DIDDY MADE THE RIGHT DECISION BUT I WAS SAD TO SEE D.WOODS LEAVE TOO DIDDY WAS RIGHT TO MAKE THE MOVE HE DID HE HAS A BRAND TO PROMOTE. I SURE WOULDNT WANT TO BE ATTACHED TO ANYONE WHO HAS AN ATTITUDE AND MOUTH LIKE HER’S.

LOVE DIDDY AND DANITY KANE CAN GET THRU THIS.. DESTINYS CHILD STILL CAME BACK AFTER CHANGING MEMBERS AND SO CAN DK XOXOXO

By: Chi-Chi

Chi-Chi — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 21:14:03 +0000

Girl groups splitting up is not a good look but let’s see how far Aubrey will make it without Danity Kane, Bad Boy, and Diddy in her corner. She already proved she’s the most recognized personality in the group. Worse comes to worse she has that clothing line of hers to focus on.

By: Tasty Kys finest

Tasty Kys finest — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 19:39:57 +0000

Well I think Aubrey is not the girl who Diddy first hired. She has changed alot, and I dont think its for the good. She thinks shes Marilyn Monroe or Anna Nichole. The old Aubrey was more appealing, This fake made up Aubrey is not cute. Aubrey I wish you the best , just continue to be you! If thats the direction you going in , so be it! Can you say porn star!

By: Twan Solo

Twan Solo — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 18:04:49 +0000

who cares.

By: hmm

hmm — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 14:41:34 +0000

Aubrey,
I can relate to your strong personality and I don’t think it’s a bad thing to have one. It’ll get you success in life. But as with anything else in this world, too much of a good thing is bad. There has to be a balance of the good things in our lives. I’ve been in your similar situation before and I’ve always had a very strong personality and sense of who I am, how I am and what I want to do. But pride usually gets in the way of lasting, loving relationships. I’m a person looking in from the outside and I may not know all the details, but I know that when you said you had absolutely no regrets I could tell that you hurt the other band members. Because they probably feel that you have hurt them in the past and then you pretty much said you don’t regret it. You said Shannon was holding your hand and that you know all the rest of them support you too, and you’re probably right. But the question is “Do you reciprocate that support?”
Usually as time passes we can look back at a situation and see it as a big picture, and only then is when we learn from it. I think that is what you meant when you said you don’t regret anything. But it’s hard to see the big picture when you’re “in” the situation at the present moment. I completely understand your reaction to defend yourself; because nobody likes to hear what others think is wrong with us. And I’m sure you felt embarrassed and personally attacked, I would have too. I just hope that you can tone it down enough to actively listen to the other girls’ points of view and do your best to see the situation from their point of view and understand why they are feeling the way they do.
Puff was right that if you keep thinking this way, you are going to end up in a very lonely place. And it’s not because of who you are, it’s because of your behavior. Our behaviors do not dictate who we are; we have control over our behaviors. We get to choose what we do or don’t do to the people who love us. I think you do care a lot about the other girls and that it could hurt you to think you did something to hurt them, but it is very possible that you might have done or said something that left at least one of them thinking “Well she doesn’t really care if she hurt my feelings” and then where is the relationship once you don’t care? And even though you DO care, it doesn’t change that they FEEL hurt and neglected. That is why it is important to communicate how we feel and why we feel that way. Most of the time the way we feel, has nothing to do with what the other person’s intentions were and communication is the key to fix these conflicts.
I think the other band members also have the responsibility to actually open up and share these things with you. It has to be both sides doing their part, in order for a relationship to work. Actively talking to convey a point (without insulting, of course) and actively listening, then coming to an understanding and a place where there can be compromise or just acceptance.
I’m a fan of Danity Kane and all its members and I don’t want to see the group broken up. I hope that you solve your problems.